Interview with Late to Lesbian Couple, Lisa and Aime 

So happy for you! Your person is out there! ❤️🌈

Awwww love this!!!

Thank you for watching and for the wonderful feedback! I agree that the world needs more awareness of this and is a huge reason I do all of this. Hopefully one day we can all be accepted as we are and the world can see the love is love ❤️

Any woman can

Hey! Have you seen the free live workshop I'm having on here tomorrow?? It's all about navigating this messy middle and addressing those fears!

@@TheLateLifeLesbian I’ll have to check it out! Thanks!

You're welcome! There will be a recording too in case you don't catch it live

This comment made me cry. Sending big Hugs to you…the part you are in is so hard. I hope you find the courage one day. ♥️

@@Aimelee Thank you so much.

Awww you're welcome and so glad you enjoyed it and related!! Always great to know others who have gone through this!

So happy you figured this out for yourself too!!

Dating apps are crazy tbh it's tough to meet real ppl especially in wlw community

Aw thank you so much!! ❤️🌈

Thanks for watching!! 😊

Love that quote!! ❤️

Awww thank you! And I'm so sorry to hear that you haven't been able to find that type of relationship. I know it can take some people a very long time but it is worth it!

@@TheLateLifeLesbian I am sure it is, and I won't give it up while I'm alive, lol!

There's more out there than you think! I've heard from a lot of women in their 50s and 60s that feel the same way but you just have to put yourself out there 🤗

The hardest ''coming out'' you'll have to do in your all life is to yourself, once that one is done you'll feel free... Look out for LGBTQ+ allience in your area, you'll be surprise how many of us are out their, you are beautyfull so let that smile shine and the rest will come.

I didn't come out until my 30s. My wife of 16 yrs passed 10 years ago. I've met real creeps on dating apps. I'm 62 now. It's hard to find people now.

@@luannlouch9524 Hang in there Luann. I lost my partner of 25 years 5 years ago. It is tough trying to start over. I don’t know how to either. You are not alone.

Are you going through this??

@@TheLateLifeLesbian Yes! Moving slowly

@artbykarma it's your own journey so it's ok to move as quick or as slow as you need to. If you'd ever like to talk more, I offer free consultations. This is the link if you'd like to do that 😊 thelatelifelesbian.com/freeconsultation

Love this and I agree! I do think we're finally getting to a time where more people are feeling safe and brave enough to be their true selves ❤️

I love this comment so much. ♥️

Aww well thank you so much! I appreciate you commenting and if other late lifers read this, it will help them too! Many are worried about being accepted by life long lesbians so this will definitely help show there is acceptance 🤗

@@TheLateLifeLesbian I could talk for hours about that, I will just say that all the lesbian will be supportive of any age and stage coming-out woman. That is the sister-houde lesbian bound, it's real and it's their. To be invested in a relationship is an other thing and will depend on each one. Mostely ''long-lesbian'' will be afraid of just being the rebound, so doesn't want to get emotionaly invested. And their is also all the ''coming-out stages'' that we don't want to get back in it, if I can say, so depend on the ''new-lesbian'' level of confort of being ''out'' in public places or that type of thing. Again, it will difere from one to the other, but for sure you can always seek for support with ''long-lesbian'' that may be around you 😀

@@celinel9750 I completely understand this! After I came out and was very publicly out, there was no going back for me and I wasn't willing to hide who I was because someone else wasn't ready to be fully out and hadn't fully embraced who they are. My work primarily focuses on women in the messy middle transition phase from being with a man to coming out, but I also really encourage women who want to start dating that they need to really be able to own who they are and be comfortable being out in order to find happy fulfilling relationships because being your true self is what creates healthy relationships.

@@TheLateLifeLesbian I've already watch few of your video and like them, one thing that I haven't heard yet is the ''internal homophobia'' wich is a big deal for many, been with man or not, those stereotyped idear are deep and once you realize that ''we are homophobic'' facing ourself, it help to unlock those knots. Love your content 🙂

@@celinel9750 definitely very true too. I've had conversations with women about that but haven't talked about it on here really yet

Definitely not! Are or were you with a man in this process too?

Awww I'm happy for you but know how hard this stage is. There is a lot of grief experienced by everyone. If you can, find yourself some support because trying to bear everyone's pain including your own can sometimes feel impossible and it's so helpful to have an outlet for yourself. I know you want to be there for everyone but you also have to take care of yourself to get through this. I'm proud of you for taking this huge step and I promise it does get better if you keep going. 🤗❤️

@@TheLateLifeLesbian Thank you for all that you do and putting yourself out there to help others. I’m so grateful I found your channel. I’ve already come out to a couple friends. And they have been so accepting and supportive. That is what helped give me the courage to follow through with my husband. One day at a time… Lots to work through, but I do feel a bit more free already and cannot wait to find the woman of my dreams to love!

@khristanelson5076 so happy to hear that for you! And you're welcome 🤗

It is hard. It will take time and kindness-for your husband, kids and YOURSELF. Will send prayers, positive energy your way.

Congratulations on your courage! I really hope everything gets a lot better in the very near future!

Glad you enjoyed it! Hahaha not sure about that!

Awww thank you so much for sharing this 🤗❤️

Thanks for your feedback. There are just so many facets of this whole journey that sometimes one comment sparks another idea and only so much we can cover in a short amount of time.

@@TheLateLifeLesbian Yeah, also, I later watched a video of you with your spouse and now I see why you jump in a lot. Your partner is a very quiet person. It all makes sense now! 😂

I agree. I felt like Emily dominated the conversation and I really wanted to hear more from Aime but she didn’t have much chance to get a word in edgewise.

There's just so much to discuss in a short period of time and the primary purpose of these interviews is to discuss the coming out journey and realization of sexuality while married to men for other women who are going through that.

Hi hru, there's a lady in this comment section who's 62 maybe you can say hi to her 😊

Good morning my friend, i do apologize for your loss of your great love of your life. My hope for you, and your future endeavors. That you find happiness, joy, and love in your life once again.

I am honored to have read your post, have a wonderful day ahead and stay warm and safe. P.S. Thank you for sharing your story of loss, but of strength and bravery.

Thank you for watching and thank you so much for sharing this! I actually think this could be a great idea to demonstrate that these feelings and emotions are present no matter what the sexual orientation! I have a straight friend who went through a divorce around the same time I did and I know how much she struggled too and has thought about trying to interview her at some point too. I'd actually love to discuss interviewing you if you'd be open to it! If so, send me an email at thelatelifelesbian@gmail.com and we can chat 😊

Big hugs to you. It’s so hard. I hope one day you find peace. ♥️

Awww

That is precious. You’re a good parent. ❤

Unfortunately online dating and social media are the main places people seem to connect these days. Instagram and TikTok have a pretty decent lesbian population and is a place I even connected with women before meeting my wife. And then ended up meeting my wife on Bumble

@@TheLateLifeLesbian Yeah….slim pickins. I can tell some of my good friends are curious too, but I can’t imagine being with them personality wise

Dating is hard. You just have to keep putting yourself out there and be willing to speak up when you like someone to find out if the feelings are mutual 🤗

The bible is an unethical book.

I'm sorry to hear that you struggle with such a natural expression of love. It's understable, in a way, for someone in your position to think we "had it all" from your vantage point. I think you're free to have your opinion; however, I think your opinion is the reason so many people struggle with coming to terms with living an authentic life. Your personal beliefs about God are your own. My personal belief is that God loves us unconditionally. God does not choose to love people because they fit in a box marked "heterosexual." In fact, I believe God wants all human beings that come into the world to love authentically. Period. Full stop. You can have a lot of things in life; however, if you do not have the ability to authentically and naturally love another human being, no matter your sexual orientation, then you can never claim to "have it all." Marriage is difficult because we are all imperfect human begins trying to co-exist. Heterosexual marriage is no more complex or difficult than same sex marriage. In theory, you have two human beings that want to love, respect and support the other in good times and in bad. Your comments would seem to indicate that we woke up one day and said, "Wow, men suck...this is hard. I want a best friend to go shopping with so I am going to blow up my whole life to go shopping." That is incredibly unfair to us and to anyone grappling with the same issue of realizing that they were brought into this world, naturally meant to love someone of the same sex and yet they have committed in body, mind and soul to someone that does not fit that description. We did not quit on our families because of this truth and it was not self-serving. In fact, it was the opposite. If we chose to deny our authentic nature to love someone of the same sex to better fit into that beautiful (your word) box of heterosexual marriage, then that self-inflicted misery and agony would have been unfairly projected and felt by all of those around us, including the men we were with and the children that we brought into this world. That type of self persecution and denial of authentic love would would have been the unnaturual and inauthentic way of living and not the way that God intended. At the end of the day, I guess I struggle with the thought that your God is such a cold-hearted, myopic and judgemental being. But maybe I should not blame your God and just give you the credit of owning such a cruel perspective on life and marriage.

This was beautifully said. Thank you for this response ❤️