INTJ's aren't the masterminds they think they are. Until they do these 2 things....

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INTJs aren't the masterminds they think they are. Until they do these 2 things...
INTJs, as they're called in the 16 personalities of Myers Briggs, often feel so misunderstood which tends to come with high levels of shame and pride. For them to really be the geniuses they'd like to be and reach their potential, it's imperative that they 1. get out into the world and 2. are attractive to other people while doing it.
For this reason, INTJ personality types need to develop their extroverted thinking and extroverted sensing cognitive functions.
I also mention a couple facts specific to INTJ females.
INTJ personality
INTJ growth path
0:00 Intro
0:07 How do the INTJ cognitive functions show up?
8:07 Why develop these two things?
10:42 How to develop Te
15:13 How to develop Se
20:35 What happens if you don't do it?
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@colywogable 3 года назад

Intj female here. This is the BEST video I've ever seen on intj female needs. So helpful. Thanks. (So many intj videos just brag about being cold and evil, which isn't even true.)

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@rocketassistedgoat1079 3 года назад

@@AlexisKingsley Have you wondered; if you're ENTJ? I'm an INTJ male, and I love my Fi child. The hero and the child play together, remember-and are the first two functions to be developed, before the parent. Ni-Fi is also our natural loop, which is also why we're the third type most prone to limerence, behind only INFJ and INFP. Yeah, I totally get limerent: if I really like a girl, and there's always something missing for me if it's not there. ENTJ would have Te hero, and Fi inferior. I mean, it's still in your stack-so you're an Fi user, and you're relatively strong with it compared to many others-because it's in your ego: but your relationship with it is totally different from mine. I love my Fi, I would play with it all the time if I let it [it wastes time, which is what I hate about it-but so does Ni]. Ni consumes time, like the Space Shuttle consumes fuel. I think your Te efficiency council would have a hard time incurring the kind of costs my hero Ni entails. Se would also have a problem with that [I'm Se inferior, so it's complaints are...duly noted]. Also, a friend of my dad's I met over the weekend: I typed him as ENTJ. He was very similar to me-I could see that, but was more extroverted-and there was also a ruthlessness about him that was more suppressed in me. I mean, I have it too. But our deciders are both relatively well balanced, thinking and feeling. So INTJ are also described sometimes as [yes] even the kindest type. Of course, anyone can be kind, the point here I guess is; no one would describe ENTJ as the KINDEST. Still kind...but not THE kindest-there's a difference there. The basic reason I would say, is the basic driving force: I seek out chances to play with my Fi child; if none exist, or even if they do or don't: I make excuses to be kind as an example. I feed the birds 4 evenings a week-because it gives me an excuse to be in my true nature, where I walk, in my Ni-and play with my Fi. I still have this same ruthlessness [Ti critic-doesn't get much more cynical than that], and INTJ are most frequently portrayed as the bad guys in cinema-I get it. But ENTJ, are the true CEO type. INTJ is described as both David Bowie [I agree-Roger Waters from Pink Floyd too for sure] and the CEO type [I also agree-with a caveat]. INTJs are leaders-but we don't want to lead. ENTJs do, so they're the true CEO/Commander type. I just think you may have mistyped yourself, or that that might be a possibility, is all. Kindest regards Z Edit, o.k o.k; you're possibly INTJ. There are different enneagrams as well. However you spell that. I 'dunno, you just sound more efficient than me. I mean, I bet any amount of anything; your Se's stronger than mine. I also have very Ni hobbies; such as building model warships to museam standards-that's 300hrs per build, do karate and naturalistic oil paintings-it took me thirty yrs to teach myself how to do that. The others, require both 10 000hrs AND ten yrs in order to become proficient. It's increadibly inefficient getting there though. I mean, how do you work hard at something [even with every desire and intention in the world]...if you don't know how to do it??? That's the problem with long term creative problems-that only Ni can ultimately solve. To me, that's what I am; INTJ. That's what hero Ni entails. But anyway, that's just my experience. I thought your...persona became softer as you went on, then I thought "INTJ, maybe". I also want to just think all the time; more than anything. Loathing, hate, disgust, malice, good and evil, morality and love are all the same function: Fi. But I mean, any Fi-user will be able to instantly flick between love and disgust [harsh moral judgement-at least if an extroverted Judger], like a frequency-agile radar can flick between frequencies.

@meilei8716 2 года назад

Right! So different from the other women in my family and had to contend so many times with whether I’m a bad person for not having a baby at 30, loving to be alone or with similar ppl, not needing so many social affirmations in discussions and being extremely unafraid to say what I truly think BECAUSE I care and tend to seriously consider just about anything… It’s so wonderful to have stumbled upon this channel and find people who don’t make me feel like such an exception in a bad way. 😮‍💨 Edit: I have been notoriously ruthless as a child while leading groups from earlier than first grade Perhaps I’m just an entj in an unbalanced place?

@FREQISZEXY 2 года назад

And brag about their existences

@selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Год назад

i'm an ETNP

@tfmels2 3 года назад

INTJ has a super power to switch to INFJ depending on the environment

@moniquefleming3738 3 года назад

Finally someone confirms my suspicions. Lol Comes in handy to have that "F" once in a while. But I'm always surprised when it shows up.

@oakridgereview1359 3 года назад

Fuckin A, Right.

@lucaskalebef 3 года назад

Pode crer 😂

@hurain6597 3 года назад

SO TRUE

@Ky-kg1zy 3 года назад

@@moniquefleming3738 same!

@Brandonmcc1990 3 года назад

"mastermind" I always found that title pretentious. - INTJ

@aissamdiouri5860 3 года назад

yah not very funny lol. or i finde it better mind Master

@hoatran-rq1ip 3 года назад

I would never underestimate

@prody666 2 года назад

@@hoatran-rq1ip better than overestimating yourself. This way, you could at least surprise yourself from time to time, in a positive manner.

@brandonbowen3877 2 года назад

I think "mastermind" is accurate.

@breakout4347 2 года назад

This is how INTJs are percieved and described, but insecurities make us feel not enough. .INTJ

@Alex.Kalashnik 3 года назад

As an INTJ male, I actually found this very useful. I got stuck in the Ni-Fi loop for years with no idea how to get out of it. I have noticed that I feel much better when I do real things in the real world, such as traveling or managing a project. It’s also interesting that INTJ females seem to be more successful on RU-vid than INTJ males. I wonder if it’s because it’s easier for the women to adjust their personality...

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Totally agree - feel better during project management! I think part of female INTJs being successful is that (in my opinion) female thinkers and male feelers have had to learn to blend more, and are forced to be more balanced by cultural standards.

@totesmagotes3688 2 года назад

@@AlexisKingsley yes I feel MUCH better when I’m working on a project and am focused on accomplishing something. For example, if I’m at work and have finished an 8 month project and am waiting for another big project to start planning, I’ll start feeling bad about myself and self worth. I HAVE to feel useful or else I get depressed.

@N0URii 2 года назад

@@totesmagotes3688 so you are one of them... (personality police)

@kh2716 2 года назад

INTJ Females seem to be more successful online because there are so many females trying their hardest to be INTJ!

@criticalm1ss519 2 года назад

Hey! INTJ lady-type person here! This was a fantastic breakdown and articulation of the personality type! I've been subjected to a barrage of tests since I was a kid, and I have consistently tested as INTJ (or the battery's equivalent) my whole life - and even am adjudged by others to be INTJ (sometimes ENTJ) when workplaces have done the assessments that ask you to assign personality "stuff" to team colleagues. I've also worked in the education / training / personal development space for almost my entire career, and I tend to be real skeptical about the value of personality inventories. But your assessment was really helpful! I also want to add that I think some of tend to have some of the discoveries and coping / compensation mechanisms trained into us by parents or our environment. My mom is an ENFP, and she trotted me out like a trick pony and sort of forced me to learn how to be more bubbly and such when it was necessary. I don't seek the spotlight, but I am comfortable there as a result. Also, I think that while you're right about the slow decision-making and analysis, we can seem to make snap decisions because we often sort of run thinking about stuff on a subroutine without talking about it, and then "jump" to a conclusion when the data comes back in an internally tangible way. In any case - thank you for the video and your perspective!

@Diaming787 3 года назад

You have literally called me out for being on crack with Fi to a point of severely weakening my Te. It was even harder due to the pandemic. My Ni-Fi is not letting me get anywhere, and I feel so bad about it. I have to realize that Te-Se baby steps are the most important in getting back on track. Thank you for the wake-up call. Stopping my Fi is the least comforting thing to do after being too deep into it, but I have to do it.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Well said!! Love the crack analogy! It's short-term "comforting" but long-term destructive. It's medicating, not solving, the problem. Love the analogy! I might use it!

@lindaschafran2934 2 года назад

From one INTJ female to another, I say you are one INTJ, Alexis, who is engaging throughout your videos, and I find myself smiling the whole time while watching. Thank you for your candidness, also.

@AlexisKingsley 2 года назад

Thank you!! I've worked so hard on viewer engagement 😂

@sruqus1 2 года назад

@@AlexisKingsley I mentioned appearing as an ISFP above as a sign of a healthy INTJ. I see that through your work. Further I think that is the brilliance of Jung. When perceiving and Judging processes work together great outcomes are produced. Thoughts?

@superpal4954 2 года назад

INTJ - "Outsmarting is like a game and enjoy."😏😏😏

@hasgoodles7807 3 года назад

I’m an INFJ, professor actually, and I like INTJs because they are different from me, I enjoy the TE, because it is so interesting to me. I used to have my students take the test at the beginning of each semester. I have to disagree with the idea of FE needing to be engaged by emotions, when we are actually just quite aware of the emotional component as a source for specific behaviors, in groups and individuals. Also, we have this annoyingly obtrusive empathy, which is often misunderstood to be sympathy. It is not sympathy, it is picking up on the feelings, whatever they may be, of others, and not realizing, necessarily, that these are not our own feelings, because it seems so ludicrous. So whether we like it or not, we are privy to the feelings of others, which makes it very difficult to ignore. If you instinctively feel something, and it is so unconscious, you won’t recognize it, quite naturally it will be included in any combination of variables your brain utilizes to make decisions, quickly. The only way I knew that I was picking up on other people’s’ feelings was the look on the face of the person looking back at me, of surprise, and suspicion, enough times, I couldn’t really ignore it anymore. We assess emotions in a very logical way, as we are intending to utilize it to solve potential problems, and to relate better to human beings. We are sort of chameleons. I am suggesting you may have been utilizing your “fi” with regard to the possible misperception you may have had, regarding reading the room as “falling flat” unless you use your fi, because it might the “fi” telling you this. Having observed the dynamics of my students, for years, which I loved, I can tell you that the one blind spot of INTJs, is precisely how they assume they are perceived. People respect the hell out of you, like you, and the only reason they don’t talk to you, is because they are intimidated by your very essence. You carry yourselves with such a sense of dignity, self directedness, purpose and inner strength (and I have been telling countless INTJs this for years) which is unusually well developed. It is naturally, very difficult for you, as the intj, to assess in terms of how people perceive this. It’s very rare. They look up to you. They may not even know it consciously, but they feel it. I had such a unique perspective, as a professor, and an INFJ, to be able it observe the dynamics in the classroom, and many one on one meetings with students, in which I slyly inserted a question or two, in which I received the feedback directly from them as well. This is so common, and I wish you guys could see the power you could have to change the world, honestly, if you’d just ask an INFJ. Seriously, you are brilliant, not just iq, but you can run the world, effectively. You would just need an INFJ to be your chief of staff.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Wow! If that's truly how we're perceived, then I definitely have that blind spot! I'm always amazed at Ti-users' ability to make distinctions. (I'm still somewhat failing to see the difference between engaged by emotions and picking up on emotions) but I've started to just trust Ti-users when they tell me there's a difference!

@maniacallyhappy 3 года назад

It's absolutely going to be an INTJ's blind spot assuming how we are perceived, think about it. We run constant simulations to figure out what exactly is the logic flow map behind whatever scenario/'s that we're running based on our observation and intuitive point of references. We OBSERVE constantly... but we never really get to see the situation from the outside looking in, ALWAYS inside looking out. Inside we get to experience all the hemming and hawing and sprinting through simulations as fast as possible to derive the best outcome as soon as possible. Possibly a good example of this would be along the lines of, "People only see the success after someone, "Makes it big", but they didn't see all of the consistency, effort, time, sweat, failure after failure, and tears it took over however long of a period of a little success every day that got them there". In my head, it's just constant simulation after simulation to logic my way through to an outcome to finally have an answer I'm confident in, because I ran the sim multiple times from multiple variables and angles and the answer is still true, so I HAVE to have certainty at that point. Everyone else just see's certainty in the observed point in time. I know in my head, it doesn't have any merit anymore because that is the standard of operation that is my norm, anything less and I'm absolutely not running at 100%. I know that negative loop became really destructive for myself because whenever I produced a piece of art, no matter how much time I spent or how much effort I put in, my pieces simply weren't at the standard I want them to be at. My wife still talks me up as being a great illustrator/artist, but I became tired of doing what felt like the same thing over and over and eventually stopped drawing. My wife see's the final drawings or sketches I would throw out and she see's the drawing when I see all the errors and hundreds of thousands of pictures I've drawn trying incessantly to correct the errors that are still present before me.

@crimsonmatter 3 года назад

WOW

@dogdonut3 3 года назад

Your comment left me teary-eyed... briefly (lol). I'm an intj woman. Your comment reminded me of exactly what my enfj friend tells me about me. I am thoroughly oblivious to it. She always tells me how she admires my strength and self-sufficient ways. I tell her that her magical people powers are amazing. She can walk up to a stranger just know they are suffering and within minutes be hearing their life story and hugging them while they cry!! But she also always asks me if I'm bored when I'm just fascinated and absorbing. She can't always read me, (nor does she have to) but I think she likes that too. We admire each other. Anyway, thank you for your infj way of making an intj see a new perspective of themselves and their value. 😊

@edc4710 2 года назад

I have never thought about how I am perceived. And I don't care. Perception is not reality. Be bold. Delve into reality. Us INTJs. Please continue not talking to me, because those who do / will talk to me, are sure to have something meaningful to say. A professor here too.

@fortune_roses 3 года назад

As an INTJ female, this is such useful advice... thank you

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@analyst2901 3 года назад

INTJ here. Sincerely, thanks so much this. Could this be the best video on INTJs out there? I am not sure. It's easily around the top. Very high utility factor.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you so much!!

@isaymamamoo9469 2 года назад

Intj female here and everything you described is so relevant to me. I really struggle with making decisions because I think too much. Thank you for the tips! It feels good having someone who understands how you're feeling and is able to give useful advice. I also love how your channel is catered to intj females because, like what you described, I feel like there aren't many of us

@lamirushkina5159 3 года назад

This video is so efficient that I have to pause it, and I always listen to other youtubers at x2. Love it.

@abd-majidnsanja6401 Год назад

This is such a nice outline on how to as an INTJ optimize both my core primary and inferior functions to their most optimal level which will in turn enable me to reach my full potential as an INTJ thank you from the bottom of my INTJ heart for this video.

@chrisrogers777 3 года назад

Hey, I just randomly found your video and started watching kinda sceptically honestly, but I just wanted to say, I was captivated ; nobody has ever described me so well or seemed to know me as well as you. Especially the decision fatigue part, was so mind blown by that. You obviously have worked hard on your goals and thank you for your effort and the opportunity to know, I really am not alone. Oh and straight after I started watching an intj video by another you tuber, you were on point about presentation and well a good microphone.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Chris, thank you so much!! This was a wonderful comment to start my morning off.

@Alex.Kalashnik 3 года назад

I hate the decision fatigue thing. It even gets to me when choosing a meal in a restaurant. It’s much harder for me to pick something if I don’t know the items well.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

@@Alex.Kalashnik lolol same

@speedy_comet Год назад

Someone coined a term "Full stack human" basically a very well rounded person in all function stacks.

@alicemacias13 3 года назад

I've never felt so understood in my entire life, thank you for this channel.

@divinedanni Год назад

This has been so helpful! I love the chart clearly explaining each one. So relatable and provided real insights into INTJ and how to work on the basement behaviors!

@SK2-YT-JPR 3 года назад

Nice video as an xNTJ I agree to most of it, for those who came for the real deal -> 20:36, resumed, 1.- You have to overcome the good ol' isolation and introvertion (INTJ's mostly), 2.- Train your sensing extrovertion Why: because it's useful, haven't evaluated it in an interpersonal level, now is time for you to do your own diligence, it normally takes this to make things happen. Got to be a more animated and alive version of yourself to have bigger impact, example from this vid: SE

@xaviera9831 3 года назад

I'm glad that you explained and broke down the four functions. Great video!!!

@DOC7ORT 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, this the best INTJ video I could relate to, keep up the excellent work.

@dogdonut3 3 года назад

Intj female. I use the bursts of energy way of working. I go at a physical project for an hour or two, get to a plateau, or good stopping point (or finish the project if I can in time). Then I rest for maybe 10 minutes and let my brain play/learn/whatever, and back at it. I'm 52 and I learned recently this helped me to get more done without burning out physically. I just discovered your videos and I am so glad I did. You represent us well. Thank you.

@superdupercoolawsome 3 года назад

INTJ here. Got a subscribe from me. Been working on developing Te and getting out of loops for sometime. This is an extremely helpful video!

@user-ir4bf9zw5t 6 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for all your videos! The way you put the information together really clicks well with me. My daughter and I are both INTJ. Your videos have helped me greatly in understanding myself, family, and friends better. You're awesome!

@deborahdavis8632 3 года назад

Very well said. You are an amazing speaker and well informed. I learn something every time I listen to you. Thank you. 🤗

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Wow, thank you!

@kbti806 2 года назад

It’s actually so interesting to see other types struggles and point of view. Before knowing mbti I thought everyone sees the world like me… not that all are the same, but they just process information in the same way. ~ enfj

@lenron123 3 года назад

Excellent presentation Alexis. Very clear and insightful with real-life examples that make your thoughts relatable.

@LauraLouLou 2 года назад

I love your cadence. I watch most youtubers on 1.5 or 1.75 but I watch you on Normal. Thank you so much for this immensely valuable information. I’ve been heavily involved with Objective Personality and my attraction was the promise of fixing my flaws but I’ve not been able to get that. This is the info we need! And I am so caught in decision paralysis because my dad was a pack rat and I’m trying to clean out. I should just take it all to Goodwill but then I think I’ll sure regret that when I’m starving to death at 90!

@AlexisKingsley 2 года назад

Thank you!!

@torisolomon4455 3 года назад

You have a wonderful channel. I'm getting some great insight from my you. I love learning form other INTJs. The discovery of Myers-Briggs and the development of my Te function was a game changer. My ENTJ cousin and I discuss MBTI often. I helped him with Ni and he helped me with Te. I became motivated to accomplishy goals. I wrote a book, shifted my attention into things that benefited me externally and accomplished my goals. INTJs have so much to offer. We are wellsprings of potential that need that Te unlocked to manifest our abilities. You're motivating me to start my own channel because that's my next goal. Thanks for putting this content out Alexis!

@N0URii 2 года назад

Wow that surely a healthy relationship, balancing each other. wish i got one

@karimkells 3 года назад

I really like your videos. You're one of the INTJ youtubers that i relate to the most. Keep it up ♥️

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you Karim!! I appreciate it.

@cristhianmartinez8821 3 года назад

This video was uploaded 9 hours ago and it goes exactly about what I am looking for: the development of our functions. Thanks, great content. :)

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you Cristhian!! I love when timing works out perfectly.

@zycho1523 3 года назад

Thank goodness I'm normal. Able to relate what you said. Me too, working on my Se. Overcomplicating my analysis but it's just how we present... As a financial rep now, it's definitely pushing me OUT of my comfort zone.

@shaimoyed7858 3 года назад

This is possibly the best video for INTJ I've seen, especially INTJ women. Thanks.

@ggggia 2 года назад

Agreed

@bobbod2932 2 года назад

This is video is the best therapy I've ever received. You pointed out the root of my problems, and now I don't have to dwell and feel confused about it.

@curiouskitteh8215 Год назад

This blew my socks off. I get myself now. Second video, new sub, fellow INTJ. No wonder I’m so lonely!!!!

@4fsake2024 2 года назад

This is absolutely fabulous! I have been in a loop and now I understand how to get out.

@SeanKennardRN 3 года назад

I just figured out why I GET YOU so much. I realize you're an INTJ as well (I know, I'm late). You speak to my soul. Your videos are spot on. Please keep it up! Thank you!!!

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Sean, thank you so much for the amazing comment!! Have a great day!!

@sks6763 2 года назад

Really loved this video. Thanks for sharing!

@PhoenixSsmi 2 года назад

Thank you. I greatly appreciate the time you have dedicated to this channel. I have been trying to figure out my type for two years. During this two years I left my hometown and moved across the country, and finally healed a lot of the trama from my past, but one thing I have not figured out was why it in my early 20's I had dreams of me running from someone or something, especially while I was pregnant. I was running from the shame. The shame of not knowing or understanding myself, the shame of not really being mature enough for a relationship let alone a mother at 23. Not knowing what a real healthy relationship looks like, let alone maintain one. Wow. Thanks

@aleks0_o879 8 месяцев назад

the sustain advice is spot on.

@khairatahmed1990 2 года назад

the descriptions about intjs that i always read had me convinced i wasn’t intj. but after watching this i know for a fact that i am. the way you describe the functions so realistically is honestly amazing. most things i read on intjs make it seem like we have it all figured out, know what we want and how to get it. but the reality is that we’re human, not the robotic evil masterminds we’re made out to be. your descriptions on Ni are so clear and make a lot of sense to me (an Ni dom). for some reason i always confused Ni-Te for Ti lol (believed i was intp). I also understand why i internalize emotions and have a desire to express myself through clothing, music, aesthetics etc. anyhoo thanks for the explanation :)

@ethanburt2897 2 года назад

Probably the single best INTJ video. From a fellow INTJ (the superiors (jk)), this really helped me out, thanks!

@erikbartlett2147 2 года назад

When she said she would think about changing something like her hair color for a year. That hit me hard, as I do that also, not the hair color but, just in general. It's the over analysis of things that trap you for a while.

@jorgel6720 2 года назад

This video is pure gold. Is actually not the first time I hear the advise of working on the Te-Se combo to kind of cover for the missing Fe, but girl you did such a good job at making the idea understandable. Thanks for the insights!

@mrmichael972 Год назад

Alexis, you are amazing. Thank you.

@geniusfuck Год назад

I appreciate you for timestamps first of all, because in general I would like to get the gist. And the second is that your work is definitely splendid for educational purposes, and if someone ask me about types,I always tell them about your channel. Thanks again.

@njules6428 2 года назад

INFP here! I enjoyed this video 🙂❤Good job!👍🏻

@Hasan-cq1sz Год назад

This video was just awesome. Both the content, the girls hair and the wall WaS pretty cool.

@thendeslauwdy4709 2 года назад

what youre explaining is shockingly accurate

@ceruleandawn848 2 года назад

Thanks, this is great help... Much more easier to deal with myself

@alldavids4202 2 года назад

Oh my goodness, I can’t believe what I’m listening to right now. It’s as if you’re speaking my thoughts out loud. It’s good to know that I’m not entirely different from EVERYONE else in the world.

@EmbraceTerror 2 года назад

Very nicely done!!

@verntoews6937 3 года назад

INTJ master mind of the material world INFJ mastermind of the emotional and spiritual world

@TheOctodread 3 года назад

Intj here, glad i found this video as it is a very helpfull one :) thank you for the effort Alexis

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@emilythegreat5851 3 года назад

You are everything. The part where you don't want to be tired from Fi was very relatable.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Emily YOU are everything ❤️

@mariaschrock7767 Год назад

This is the best INTJ video I have ever watched. I watched a few of your videos 3 or 4 years ago and they didn't really hold my attention. I definately noticed throughout this one I kept thinking how I must have changed because I really enjoyed it and you kept me interested. The small changes you made definately made a difference!Very interesting! I am an INTJ (5w4) and this was very insightful.Thankyou:)

@solgast 3 года назад

So inspiring and interesting! Lots of good vibes! From a fellow ENFP.

@generic........ 2 года назад

This is awesome, always love helpful advice!

@ace9magda285 3 года назад

Super smart at the end is that we are aware that we can develop other functions😂💪🏽thank you for lovely super on point video- I’ll stick with ya to improve and understand more own loops. 👍🏽

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@ardimuhammadh 2 года назад

Can’t thank You enough for this video. been spending the last 4-5 months in a Ni Fi loop and don’t know what to do. read a lot of articles on Google and watched a lot of RU-vid videos, but This video give the clearest picture and things of what should I do and what should I develop. my Te is definitely underutilized and my Se is repressed so I do self sabotaging things. You saved my life. Thanks.

@sanskrutijaiswal2816 3 года назад

U r precise about most stuff in this. Especially the loops.

@rgehani6099 Год назад

Excellent video Alexis. Thank you for putting it together. As a newbie to mbti, I'm going through the different types and thinking "I'm this", "no I'm that", and so on. I'm certain of being an INxx, but wasn't clear on the last two letters. The INTJ draws me the more I understand it, specially when listening to people who are INTJs themselves. I'm almost certain I'm one myself. Your video was extremely helpful in showing me how much I'm in my inner comfort zone, which has been my Achilles heel for most of my life, and that what precisely I need to get out of it is practicing more of the externally focused functions we have. Though I spend so much time figuring myself out and being frustrated of never getting to the bottom of it, curiously the times I was most happy was whenever I actually went out and did something physical. And whatever I did, I did it well, giving me a lot of satisfaction. Frankly speaking, it's not difficult for us to move in the physical world when we get down to it, not as much as we think. We need to be more grounded in the present external world. That's where our gifts possibly come out.

@indecisiveranter 2 года назад

THANK YOU FOR THIS. this video honestly made me feels so understood and helped me a lot. and i just love how insightful you are but yet still manage to say all important things. love this v much. - fellow intj

@user-ek8gj2xs8u 2 года назад

This is quite helpful!

@smileyG305 3 года назад

Dude everything just made sense. Thanks for this video

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thanks! I'm glad it helped!

@mariekimgayoso 3 года назад

Wow what a life hack! It is well presented, highly organized, and very useful. Now just got to put it into consistent practice ie the hard part. Thank you so much for this!

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@huda157 2 года назад

thank you for sharing this

@specter99 2 года назад

INTJ male here, I've watched over 20 of your videos and all your points are like flashlights highlighting a dark corner I didn't know existed this whole time. Thank you

@Juan-qn3yl 2 года назад

INTJ here - very helpful video. Thanks. So you know I find that doing auto and motorcycke mechanics hugely relaxing, and now I see that is forces me to use Se and Te. Very insightful.

@mic55y 3 года назад

Thank you, you are very good at explaining anything about INTJs :)! And I feel something very good and interesting from you and I like it :) We are always in alfa-level when we are thinking, that is why we are "seeing trough people", but actually, we are in some kind of meditation&thinking in our own inner world, detached from outside world. It can be weird for people who not experience it or are not capable of understand it, but we know how exactly it is like :)

@Maya_Ruinz 3 года назад

Definitely one of the best videos for INTJ tips, dealing with Se can be like trying to squeeze blood out of a turnip but once you push through it becomes a great ally. I spent my 20s completely immersed in Ni and it lead to a huge amount of Se problems, body started to fail, car broke down, losing friendships. Once you can manage the Se and get it scheduled there is nothing that can stop you.

@N0URii 2 года назад

👍

@charliesamson422 2 года назад

As an INTJ male, it was very helpful to hear your perspective. It seems like you have really worked at Se, which I am doing right now. I am only 19 so I cannot be too hard on myself. Thank you for such an open, informative video.

@JoseRamirez-sc3io 2 года назад

thank you very much, the best content I have ever seen.

@Daver2517 2 года назад

I recently got on a INTJ video youtube bing and I agree most of the videos are lacking Se as you stated. Your has been by far the most pleasing visually and auditorily. It is amazing how much better people sound at 1.25 speed. I love, as I see other in the comments also, your practical examples like planning for the day the night before, joining more groups to make friends, and ect. There were actually a lot of practical take aways that I think will really help me. One suggestion visually is I have trouble reading the font you use on my phone. I think visuals are great addition its just I struggle to read them.

@FAROS2006 3 года назад

This was helpful to me. Thank you.

@lennyj6318 3 года назад

Fantastic insight - thank you.

@DarinHamel 6 месяцев назад

19:15 "Se must serve Ni", or physical actions must serve your vision. This is the answer I have been looking for many years of why I can do some things effectively and sometimes I cant. Like stick to a diet. Thank you for this insight.

@FloridaRaider Год назад

As an INTJ I've never felt myself attracted to a female INTJ, until now. The feelings of being understood and the vibes of a more cerebral ENFP. --meaning that positive and dare I say -vibrant energy.

@polyester-pants 3 года назад

Good insights. Huge video. HUGE!!

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thanks Stanley!!

@crazygalz2147 2 года назад

I understand myself more because of your video. Thank you so much

@georgeklein6078 4 месяца назад

Thanks, this was cool.

@vocalmaestro 2 года назад

I recently discovered your Channel and I really enjoy it…An INTJ friend of mine recommended it…He said there is a lot here that would help me as an INFJ and I agree…thank you for the entertaining yet insightful and informative videos…👍

@AlexisKingsley 2 года назад

Thank you!!

@maryabiad4966 2 года назад

I have never personally resonated so much with a RU-vid channel until I stumbled across your account. Initially I disliked the idea of developing my Se since it wasn't (nor is it currently) something I'm comfortable with. Thank you for broadening my perspective! I'll be binging your videos for a long while :)

@elizabethstea 4 месяца назад

Thank you Alexis ♥

@johnnygilbert8163 2 года назад

Wow! You really get me...

@anudeep4752 3 года назад

You are super good, showed me what all I need to learn

@vishyav 3 года назад

I recently discovered that I am an Intj. Thank you for making this video, it’s possibly the most helpful resource I’ve found where each thing you said sparked a resounding YES from my head where I completely related. Do you plan to do Q&As in the future? I’m still figuring out how to come out of the dull loop you described and feel very uninspired by working out or starting a new project so I find myself becoming very self-deprecating. I’d love another video with how you’ve researched this loop and other strategies to develop more intrinsic conviction.

@NavjotSinghpatiala Год назад

I will watch this again many time.

@DZM1720. 3 года назад

New subscriber..really like your point of view and how you put it..

@b.eunisse4347 2 года назад

I'm a INFJ/P and I really enjoyed every part of this video. There are things that I think will come handy for my daily routine. I've just realised how many Se things I avoid haha but all in a good balance is good.

@saradahioui5522 3 года назад

This is such a good video. Wish I had found it in my teenage years 😂

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thanks Sara!! Same! I wish I had this stuff when I was 15 lol 😂

@savannahraisor1154 11 месяцев назад

Recently I learned I am intj, still learning exactly what that means but this video resonated with me so much. I’ve learned some of the mentioned things just from living with myself, but this was so enlightening

@lilpink6192 2 года назад

slightly embarrassing to admit, but this video made me so emotional. i felt like i've never had anyone to guide me my whole life, and always doubted and questioned myself and my reasoning for certain situations. recently realising that im an intj and being able to find videos such as this to explain why i am a certain way has helped me accept myself for who i am. im so grateful. apologies for the incoherent rambling.

@TokyoTaisu 2 года назад

Welcome to the club.

@BeachBushandBeyond 2 года назад

INTJ female here. I'm Asperger (happily) and would encourage anyone else who is INTJ to get assessed. Game changer for self awareness.

@WateryFire 3 года назад

Great advice! I love all the Se changes, background looks awesome and your new hair really suits you. And I admire your way of verbalizing your thoughts, it’s something I’ve struggled with all my life and you make me think it’s possible to get better at it, it may be a skill. Very inspirational! Thank you.

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you Val! It's been about 8 months and I'm just now getting to the place of **almost** being satisfied with how I express my thoughts, but the first step was believing it was possible. And you articulated yourself wonderfully here so it's more than possible, more than probable, almost certain. :)

@leorblack Год назад

Thank you!!! thank you!!! thank you!!!!

@mpcc2022 2 года назад

You could boss me around any day of the week and I would just smile.

@mamu7976 3 года назад

Great tips! You've really developed that Se! Really impressive! Te development. Find smart people and mentors. Work smarter not harder, is the INTJ way. Thanks for the video!

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Thank you!! It's pretty easy to put on Se for a 20 minute video lol, the other 98% of my life isn't nearly as developed lol

@AlexisKingsley 3 года назад

Actually scratch that. It's hard even for that 20 mintues lol

@mamu7976 3 года назад

@@AlexisKingsley LOL

@justjoyce21 2 года назад

For an intj female I can say my Se is very well developed which I often mistook it as Te but yes thanks to your video I know the difference now and will be working on improving my Te as well. I watched your vlogs too and they were fun.Thank you!!

@Hughster127 3 года назад

You have the eyes of an INTJ, that's for sure.

@Miche- 3 года назад

What does that mean?

@francinelieto8899 Год назад

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