Why do women post sexy selfies? And why does this behaviour anger some people?
Claire Lehmann and Zoe Booth discuss the complex world of intrasexual female competition and their experiences with it, concluding that the more we know about human behaviour, the more empowered we are to make good decisions.
"Slut shaming" can also be referred to as sexual shaming, sexual bullying, sexual stigmatization, or promiscuity shaming. It refers to the practice of criticizing or mocking someone, usually a woman, for their real or presumed sexual behavior, including for dressing in a sexual manner, having premarital, casual, or promiscuous sex, or for behaving in ways that deviate from traditional or socially accepted gender expectations.
"Thirst trapping" is a term that originated in online and social media culture. It refers to the act of posting provocative or tantalizing images or messages on social media platforms to attract attention, particularly of a sexual or romantic nature. The intention behind a "thirst trap" is to elicit compliments, admiration, or even expressions of desire, often called "thirst," from others. While it's commonly associated with photos that emphasize physical attractiveness, a thirst trap can also be a post that highlights other desirable qualities or achievements to gain attention or admiration.
00:00 Intro
02:15 Beauty privilege
06:00 Meghan Murphy's tweet
08:55 Claire's experience with shaming
12:47 Roy Baumeister and Kathleen Vohs' Theory of Sexual Economics
17:30 Female vs male bullying
19:00 Signalling
27:00 Objectification and Exhibitionism
28:00 The male gaze
30:45 Is female sexuality autogynephilic?
33:00 Knowledge is power
35:00 Politicising sexual behaviour
#socialmedia #psychology #gender #beauty #woman
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8 авг 2024