One of the hardest things about being genuine on the internet, in front of an audience of over 799k people, is that there are inevitably people who have nothing better to do than tear you down. That being said, those people are vastly outnumbered by those of us that appreciate what you're doing. Keep up the good work Dewayne!
Amen Brother! I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior 7 weeks and 1 day ago actually (the same amount of time I have been sober from weed and porn), and my new life in Christ has not been easy, but it is worth it. I just finished reading my Bible, made my self dinner, and sat down to watch this video. As a 25 year old man who was led astray most of his life, your videos on this channel have been amazing, to say the least. I am grateful for you. Peace and Love be to you and your family
im 19, its gonna be a year soon for me with the same issues. My small advice is literally never look back. Don't worry about disassociation and yucky feelings, they go away. Pray always, read daily, praise God. God bless you, brother:)
Welcome to the Kingdom!! I am so excited for you! Remember when you are at your lowest point, it may be easy to fall back into old patterns. When you are there, just talk to God and ask for strength to continue and strength will be there for you. I have a similar background and I will be praying for you as you are on your journey of Faith!!
God bless you man! That's awesome to hear. It's a long journey, and it is not easy, but Jesus promises it will be worth it. I'm almost 24, been a Christian for most of my life and struggled a lot with pornography among other sins. Please do pray for me. God bless you, brother
Dewayne you're a legend! As a pastor myself, I wish half of the pastors and Christians I know had the faith you do. It would completely transform the way people see Jesus and the Church. Keep fighting the good fight!
You love jeebus, but are ok with him dying in the most gruesome way. It's nothing but schizophrenia and narcissistic gaslighting. But it's profitable, that's why you're not a Humanist.
Jesus Christ be with you and God Bless you. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." - Proverbs 22:6 :)
Religion is nothing but narcissistic gaslighting, and schizophrenia. Invisible being who is better than you? No. You ever heard of Humanism? Wonder why, when we're all Humans. Does that not seem weird to you?
Dewayne is part of the reason I'm back at church and back on my faith journey, a long with bluegrass and country gospel. I was having trouble finding a church I resonated with but I prayed about it and a week later I found the cowboy church in barn with a bluegrass band and a beautiful sermon, so so excited about it. Been a long time comin
Not my exact cup of tea, but I'm glad you found the right church for you! There are clear rules to being a Christian, but some things just need to be left between the person and God. And I'm not gonna sit here and tell you that the relationship between you and God is wrong because it's not mine, because that's just wrong. God has different relationships with different people, and ik they'll all come together in the end to work consistently, and concisely. God bless brother 🙏
@@andrewchristie2970 -- I could not have said it any better myself. We're not likely to change if we're comfortable with where we are or who we've become. The blessings arise from the fires of the hard times, and are accordingly, a hidden blessing of their own. Peace be with you brother.
Okay so he only found it when it could supposedly support him going through a hard time? Thats why religion is so effective, it caters to our most primal instincts.
What you said about not needing your wife is so true and it goes both ways. Years ago I got that revelation after about three years of marriage and suffering a roller coaster of disappointments. I thought my husband would be as thrilled as I was, but it took awhile for him to understand how freeing that was for me. We laugh about it now! Next summer is our 50th anniversary. I also want to thank you for that last horse video: “Facing Pressure vs Escaping Pressure.” You have no idea how helpful these videos can be! I was starting physical therapy to help with a brain injury when I saw that video. It depicted perfectly the approach I needed to take to nudge my brain to accept the challenge. I shared it with my therapist who said it was “Very applicable.” Thank you so much! When you get to heaven I think you’ll be amazed how many people you helped!
Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary. My parents are just a bit ahead of you, reaching the same milestone. It's not easy and it is rarely simple, but it can be worth all of the effort. I'm just over a decade married with my wife and I love her more today than I ever thought possible when we first met.
@@ProCoach2373Please do not twist my words. You are conflating need with love. Does God love us? Absolutely!!! Does He need us to exist? Absolutely not!!! This is the realm of the revelation that was so freeing to me. I need God. My husband is not my god, but I love him! If you are genuinely trying to understand, I would suggest reading “A Severe Mercy,” by Sheldon Vanauken.
I know this is an old video, but my husband and I JUST recently stumbled upon your channel and what a breath of fresh air! We have enjoyed them. I get the sweetest warm and fuzzies hearing you refer to your wife as "momma". Makes me smile. Thank you for these videos. I told a friend you are like you walked right out of a Louis L'Amour book. Lol. My husband and I LOVE his books. You should narrarate some! 😂
You are a gift upon RU-vid and I appreciate you Mr. Dewayne. It's no wonder people will want to have conversations with you about things that trouble them.
I do not think I will understand the people who come here to argue, or question anything you say, I come here to listen to words of wisdom and learn what I can, and then make my own mind from that. I do not believe that my understanding of the English language is as great as yours is Dewayne. Thanks again for such an insightful video.
Six months of Dewayne's videos have done more getting me to get my temper in check and my life together than ten years of therapy, meds, etc. after getting out of the Army.
it isn't YOUR spirit, it is THE HOLY SPIRIT, left in this world by the Father when he poured his wrath on his Son, Jesus Christ. Taking the punishment for our sins on the cross, for the wages of sin is death.
@@chrisanok9283 perhaps. God has to send the message somehow and the people who’ve fallen out of Christianity / religion in this era are receiving that message. The call to action is still there. Modern words explaining the same thing as ancient words. My understanding of it is that the message is the same. The important thing is that god is knocking on people’s doors and the ones willing to open it, are. Spiritual awaking is happening this way and I accept it. But, looking back on this post it was extremely corny to say “my spirit” LMAO
Thank you Dwayne for all the wisdom that you share with us. Your videos have given me a bit of guidance and I appreciate it very much. Much love to you and mama ❤
Dewayne, I’m not a Christian man, but I want you to know that your advice and wisdom reaches way beyond mere cultural boundaries. Whether you’re a Christian and I’m an atheist, or a Hasidic Jew, or a Tibetan Buddhist- your truth comes from the soul. Something that all humans can relate with.
Just become Christian man. Come unto Jesus. The lord awaits you. Stop beating around the bush. Atheism is disrespectful to your creator and the creator of the world.
@thehightide2559 ? According to you I'm not at Peace with my soul. Interesting opinion and analysis from a stranger who is sitting on his high horse claiming he or they? is at Peace with their soul and claims that they have the authority to determine and analyze who isn't and who can talk to people and who can't . I feel so much offended. So anyone who pleads others to come unto Jesus our Savior is not at peace with their soul and is not qualified to talk to others. Thanks Satan but that's just like your opinion dude. Are you at peace with your soul?
@@Eli1993. I do not have anything to say about your peace because that is your matter, Do I wish you peace? Why of course, everyone deserves to be to be happy and at peace! Even the bad ones, which no one has shown peace and happiness yet, so they don't know it!
@@Eli1993. I don't even want to have beliefs because of what they have done over human history and it's easy to see... they bias us and we are biased in choosing them... the beliefs, systems, ideas etc. Not everyone can completely become one belief and explore it all he needs to become nothing again and try out the next. Whether you actually switch religions or you can do it right now, in your head. It's enabled by being human, and you can believe one thing then another in the same minute. Personally, I think there is some kind of force or god, but I am happy and content with what being human brings... we are all connected and if we remove from ourselves the things we consider distinct, we see the picture... we are alike and we can relate, no matter the culture, religion, ideas, world view etc. life is so vast which makes you think is it god or just life's vastness that creates special moments and coincidences, or is it both?
Amen and AMEN!! Preach it, Dewayne!! "Need" is a tricky word. You answered correctly! "I want you but I don't need you." That's the proper stance. Well done and God bless!! ❤
DeWayne, never really got in touch with my faith in God until I watched your channel. Now I find myself thanking God when I make it to school or praying to God when I say something bad. Thank you and God bless you.
Best line ever, "I dont have manure between my toes and cotton in my ears. I generally know what Im talkin' about." 👍😊 If you don't mind, I'm going to borrow that line for a rainy day. It's just too good to waste!😂 Love this channel. Always been dumbstruck for words by the absolute awesome majesty, beauty,and mystery of horses,and listening to this channel I'm beginning to learn something about why that is. How such amazing animals could teach humans so much about life is quite fascinating, and I'm sure that this understanding and caring relationship man has with this wonderful creature has to be some part of God's plan for man's heart and soul as he passes through this life. God bless you for all the wisdom you share.
I really appreciated that last video you did about not being needy. That struck a chord with me as I feel that in my life I have too many needs, and if I were to just get rid of them, then I would have nothing to worry or stress about if I were to lose everything.
Dwayne, I am a new horseman at the young age of 48. Started my first horse 2 years ago and she and I have learned so much together. Thank you for your videos. I believe I have seen all of them. Great down to earth helpful and straightforward information. I also started up on real cigars and I am very much enjoying them. We have a great little cigar shop close by and I can find most of the ones that you have shared about. Love trying the different types. Thank you for the helpful info.
Well spoken as usual Dwayne! Much love & respect to you and Momma. PS. Shared your channel with my son and have been encouraging him to have a listen.your a well rounded man with morals ðics and he is looking for a male figure to learn from.
Hey Dewayne, The more reach you have the more people will criticize things you say and do. I genuinely appreciate the time you take to share your thoughts and wisdom on different topics. I misspeak just about 100 times a day, even when I think thoroughly about what I’m saying. Just know that I’ll always be giving you the benefit of the doubt if I hear something a little off or confusing, knowing the man I believe you to be. Also - you got me into cigars after trying them in my earlier youth. Now I know how to cut, light, and smoke properly, and not to inhale, haha. Still tracking down a charter oak (as many places around here don’t seem to carry them) but before too long I will. Always the best - Thanks again.
Your right about the more people Dwayne reaches. The world is full of negativity. Once you get into the cigar life, few things can compare as far as relaxation. Good luck on your Charter Oak hunt.
Jesus Christ is King. I smoked marijuana for 7 years, 5 years everyday. I thought i could never stop, after realizing i need God i researched several religions from budhism to islam and it wasnt until i gave myself to Christ was when i started seeing progress. Im now 4 months sober, im not angry or depressed, i still fall short but because my love for my savior i want to overcome everything that ails me. I know i can though him because he strengthens me. Praise be to you Jesus, my savior.
Dwayne, just wanted to say thanks. I watched a couple videos and it’s helping me battle this depression. Gotta go rewatch ‘Nature of respect’ Much love to anyone reading this
I hit that thumbs up the minute you said Jesus came and died for our sins and was risen on the 3rd day and that He loved and loves people. Keep up the good work bud and all thumbs up to you standing up for your faith👍
I agree one hundred percent, brother as I am a Christian. God knows our hearts and trying to please man is not what the good book says. Your videos are so true to real life and not about pretending to be something you aren't. Look forward to every next one you post. You are one of a few that shed a good light in a dark time we are living in. One other thing I really like the hats you wear, I'm kind of a hat man and will be buying me a new one this week on my trip to the mountains. I hope I can find one similar to the one you are wearing
Dewayne, I appreciate you and your perspective. I'm always lurking in the back of your videos, watching and not always commenting but you mirror my own thoughts here. Blessings to you and the fam 🙏
Any reason these folks go after you is cause your reaching the young and we are listening instead of listening to the mainstream bs. Your videos have power and they are scared of it. Keep up the good work.
Dewayne, keep doing what you're doing. You're a positive role model and mentor for young men who face unprecedented challenges with mental health, in a time in history where they get very little real help with it.
Well said! I've had similar discussions with my wife and we're in agreement...we want health, we want bright futures for our kids and we want each other...but we need God!
You are the easiest brother to listen to on the net. I'm enjoying your common sense take on things. I subbed, hit the bell, etc just so i dont miss anything. As a Christian Pastor i especially LOVED your Christian content today my brother! Love and prayers to you and yours❤
As a man who aspires to be a missionary throughout my life, you encourage me to be a better man, and you are my kind of Christian. I cant stand the heavily churched people who have no idea how to converse and minister with those who need the Gospel most.
I agree, i left my chruch not all that long ago because it had moved away from god and have had a hard time trying to find a church that if focuses on christ and scripture. Thanks for the guidance and fightin the good fight for all of us.
Absolutely love this man. I need to start listening again. Used to listen to you on my daily commute to the mines. I've moved, trying to start a horse sanctuary in Southern Colorado. Pretty tough times. You helped me follow my calling. Thank you sir you are exactly who I think the coolest man in the world would be like. I still am career oriented, just following a calling.
Amen! Well stated! Especially appreciate your Practical, no nonsense, balanced, down to earth approach to a life as a Christian! Thank you for sharing your experiences and much-needed perspective on the times we live in! Good sound advice: Be logical, be reasonable, be safe and have fun! Keep those videos coming! 🙏👋from 🇨🇦
Keep up the good work Dewayne. Appreciate the wisdom, insight, and teachings your videos offer. The scenery is also a nice bonus. Thank you, and best of luck with the new adventure out west.
Mister, your life and your content are a true blessing for us all. Please don’t mind these people. Please don’t let them get to you. And please keep your golden content coming. It helps me A LOT in my life and I really appreciate it. Thank you. Oh yeah, and I’m a christian. All the best to you and your family
DeWayne, Great video, truth is hard to find today especially in most churches and I find it refreshing and thank God that you speak truth. I hope some day to meet with you and share some cigars. My go to is Padron Damaso Double Corona. God Bless you and your family
In 2021, after 21 years of life, I decided to convert to Catholicism after being Protestant for my entire life. I then discovered you late last year/early this year and you have helped me in some ways with my faith with a lot of the advice you give, thank you.
I’m a cradle Catholic and Dewayne’s beliefs are so totally consistent with my faith that I feel like applauding when he clarifies his thoughts on Christianity. We have 2000 years of skeletons in our closet but the foundations stand firm; in spite of what too many men, who certainly knew better, have done to discredit her.
if you put the same energy into reading the bible you would read how jesus said you cannot worship him at the altar. being christian is not something you brag about. read the fucking book. all prayers are made up by the church. apart from lord's prayer, which isn't a prayer in fact, none of them are in the bible. catholics worship the mother of jesus, not jesus himself. their bible is catechism, not the bible itself. i could list things all day. if you get it, you get it. if you don't, you never will.
My only regret is that I can only subscribe to this channel once, and I can only like each video once. My wife laughs every time Dewayne says something that I've said before. Thanks Dewayne, for spreading the word about leading a simple life and just believing. Hope to be able to get up to the school sometime.
I’ve been struggling with my faith in the church, and you put it into words exactly what my struggle is. I have never let my faith in God wander, but the church constantly gives me reasons to stay further from it. God bless and thank you.
Not a criticism of you, but a suggestion... find a church that actually believes and preaches what the bible says. You might have to do a little research but there is likely one within reasonable driving distance. Be advised, no church is perfect. Be a critical thinker, but understand that if you wait for the perfect church, with the perfect pastor, you'll be waiting for ever. At it's root, a Christian church should preach the word of Christ. Don't go to church for the music, don't go to church for the ceremony and don't go to church for the youth group. Go to church to hear and understand the word of God. If your current church isn't doing that, find another. If your church follows the word but there's a lot back biting and politicking, ignore it, if possible. Perfect is the enemy of good. If you can, get involved and make it better.
👍 There are times where certain things must be said and positions enforced and I appreciate Dewayne coming to say it in a calm yet clear and concise manner. Nobody Ive ever met wanted to be chased by religious folk or had their personal faith put under a microscope because that really isn't anyone's buisness. For all the talk and money I grew up watching go to the "charity" sure didn't see many families and communities grow. One reason this channel drew me in was the very grounded strong sense of family.
As a non religious atheist I still find comfort in your videos and even agree on some points. I feel like it’s super valuable to listen to others and find our commonalities instead of focusing on differences
I'm with you; agnostic atheist. Just because I don't believe in a higher power, so to speak, doesn't mean I can't learn lessons from other religions--in fact, I see it as a strength that I can take the best lessons from any and all of them!
Same. He's one of the few that don't just pedal the bible as the answer for everything. He actually encourages critical thinking and being proactive. Having someone say "let's pray on it" instead of offering real advice & real help in a time of need has always been what I receive from folks of faith.
Lol. I find being an atheist is a religion just like all others. I am not saying you need to change your belief system. I personally find connecting myself with Nothingness, I found my true self the I am.
Philippians 4:19, KJV: "But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Your words reminded me of this passage and how some would construe it to say "God shall supply all your greed..."
Good morning, Dewayne! First time commenting on a video of yours even though I've been following you for more than a year now. Just wanted to say that I appreciate your videos and sharing your thoughts with us. Sometimes I even light up a cigar and watch your videos. I understand your frustration with people who think they know everything and that they where put on this earth to lecture everyone on their messed up ways. Just keep doing you brother and let those people disappear in the oblivion. God bless you and your family. Warm regards from Greece.
Not a Christian, but I have always been fond of the King James Bible. I've learned many valuable lessons from it. I believe that with any holy book, whether it's the Bible, the Gita, the Quran, etc., if you pick them up, you'll only learn new wisdom, even if you're an atheist."
Same here, this gentleman put the standart of christian very high, always a nice way to make a clear point, im mi eyes deservers a good argentinian barbacue
Same. Took me a few years but read the Bible cover to cover and there certainly is wisdom to be had within the scriptures. There are also some evil bits that no moral person should follow. And of course, zero evidence any of it came from anywhere else besides the minds of men.
@@AD-dw6cb There is plenty of evidence if you truly think about it. These people were inspired by the Holy Spirit to write scripture and historic events during their time. We should also take into account that these books and manuscripts were written CENTURIES APART in different locations on the earth and by individuals who had no knowledge of each other with perfect cross references to each book. Multiple prophecies in the Bible have come to pass and history has actually repeated itself a couple times, most of which line up with scripture. It’s been proven scientifically that Jesus Christ did walk among us as well. There are just too many things that prove it too be true and that’s not even counting all the testimonies people have had with God. Now im not here to tell you you’re wrong but i will tell you this, dig a bit deeper and keep searching. The truth is out there and the fact you saw this video isnt a coincidence. Jesus loves you and He’s leading you to Him. 1 Corinthians 2:14 NIV “The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit.”
Keep up the good work! I’ve been a pastor for over 25 years. It is obvious to me that you are serving God in your calling. God is blessing you as you help out a lot of young men. That’s what I’ve been trying to do for years.
I heard something a while back hell I think you said it, “ true prayer comes from wants but from need“ When my dog was having a neurological issue I thought it was his time so we took him to the vet ER and the vet took him back and I just sat and prayed and cried for god to help my best friend thought this tough time. wether it was god or just the vet I don’t know but I believe that god helped my dog. I am very grateful to god for helping my dog get better
I really appreciate your perspectives on things. My theology and worldview has been evolving over time and I’m sure we disagree on a lot, but to be honest that doesn’t really matter to me because of the kindness and wisdom you use in your teaching :)
Thank you for your videos. When people try to put in effort to bring others down, it says more about where they are at in life and how they feel in their own bodies. Genuine good people without an agenda or anything to prove don’t waste time leaving nasty or stupid comments. If I don’t vibe with you, I move on to focusing on something that I vibe with and enriches my experience. Judging a persons work instead of giving constructive criticism is the equivalent to saying “My own life is crap. But let me focus on you because I feel better when I bring you down.” If reading my comment stirs up anxiety in you, then I’m talking to you.
✝ Well said. You've captured the essence of the Gospel with very few words, but with great personal intent and without ambiguity. Those false Christians who critique you should first take the log out of their own eye.
I've recently started praying again years after walking away from church and God. It's a real pleasure to hear about your faith. Thanks for sharing, Dewayne.
I'd love to hear more about the books you enjoyed reading while you were younger. I saw that video you posted some time ago - really great one. Do you have any updates to that list? I always find I read more when it starts getting colder outside and I'm working on my list these days. Thanks for another great video!
Also no longer a believer but appreciate and respect Dewayne’s insight and approach to religion and life in general. I’ve followed the channel for a year give or take and always look forward to the content. Thanks to you, mama and the whole family for being such bright lights in the world. -Andrew in New Orleans
Hey, don’t mind the people under your comment. Religion and belief is very personal- whatever path you take is yours and yours only, regardless of how it may shift or stagnate. I hope you have a nice day!
1 Timothy 4 1 The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron.
I love the way this man thinks, and speaks the truth, he explains thoughts directly and he speaks with words the way words should be spoken with. Thank you for your wisdom.
Good evening sir, I typically don't comment on videos but felt the need to this time. When you started to speak about how churches are today you are absolutely correct. My family and I have been attending the same church for 4 years. We have seen a pastor change and change in leadership a couple of times during these four years. Unfortunately, I see more drama at church than anywhere else anymore and it is extremely disheartening. To be honest for the last six months I have contemplated on not attending church anymore due to the drama and many other issues. More and more people are leaving church due to the same issues. It is sad to see but I believe some people at church don't understand the whole point of church. To love one another and to reach out to the lost and speak about Jesus.
We just had a new calf and named her Jubilee!!! You're right about what's being called the "church" nowadays. My husband and I don't go to those buildings anymore. We meet with a small prayer group in homes about once a week. There are still a few good groups out there, but they're few and far between. Now, my faith is stronger than it's ever been, I believe the bible even more, and I love our Father more every day. Go get 'em, Dewayne.
Hey Dewayne I love your straight forward wisdom and honesty I have been flowing your channel for a long time now, Your cowboy wisdom sounds like the cowboy wisdom that I had growing up in South Dakota. I spent 20+ in the Army as a (13B)Cannon crew member/Section Chef (13B38) in the Field Artillery, field means far away from any thing churches too. We would spend weeks at a time in the field training, but you know what brother that's were I was always was closes to the Lord. I did three combat tours in Iraq and Afghanistan nothing gets you close to God like a rocket attack Howitzer's are a big priority target to the enemy. Churches can be loud but the woods and open places is were God meets us and talks to us. God bless you and your dear wife.
I recently was visoted by my father and we had a bonding moment when we bith staryed talking about Dewayne and his videos. Most churches today are broods of vipers. Houses of gossip and wolves in sheeps clothing. I try to remember who Jesus hung out with and what he actually said. I also like to jokingly say when asking "what would Jesus do" to remember that flipping tavles and getting chased arpund with a whip arent out of the question. Thanks Dewayne for sharing your knowledge with us.
