Such a wise young woman.. I am 80 years old and wish I had your insight before I married.. I walked away from a controlled and manipulated marriage after 39 years,that was 22 years ago.i wish you much happiness in life xx
Bethany Schlinger proof, and also it kinda does not matter. She knows what she’s saying and it’s obvious she’s not reading off a list. I know a lot of philosophy which I learned from authors as well. It’s the same.
Recommendations from 12 step programs are that a person has 12 months of sobriety (from sex, drugs, alcohol, etc) before they consider getting into a relationship. Some guys DO get serious about their recovery, I am one of them. But from what I have seen so far, most do not. It takes time to get out of an addiction. Addicts fool themselves and others all the time. 12 months of sobriety speaks for itself.
@@DaTa-wm5yc sweetheart, you know it's gonna mess up your life if you 'enjoy' your youth with some cheap cowards from the clubs. So no. She's right doing these notes. She'll know, what is really important before it's too late.
As a young woman in college the type of feminism i see on campus doesn’t appeal to me. This form you preach is such a breath of fresh air!! I love this channel and this community, this is real female empowerment!❤️
I think the problem with modern day feminism (I'm a feminist) is it assumes that females need to compete with men or each other for male approval. This is not true. I love my all-female work team and we don't have egos, we just love and support each other. It also pushes females into a hostile work environments--like who wants to be a corporate wage slave? Not me. True feminism is about choice, not pushing women to be men. While I don't think I could ever not earn money, I am not on a "career path." Career paths are capitalistic in nature and not something the divine feminine can really comprehend since we see all the corporate bullshit.
@@margaretwerncke5307 I disagree with you, just because this is how you feel feminist doing it, doesn't mean the rest of women are. I am a feminist too, and I love being female, but I would love to compete men as well and it doesn't make me feel less of a woman doing so, nor I am trying to be a man when I enjoy competition.
@@margaretwerncke5307 I'm not sure what kind of feminism you're looking into (let's be honest, there are a lot of different interpretations and I can't get behind all of them) but what I consider feminism is addressing the problems that keep women from reaching their dreams, that add obstacles to women (that are absent for men) to deal with. Stuff like discrimination for work (companies would ask a woman if she has a boyfriend or has plans to get married but would they ask a man that? No, because chances are the man's career won't be affected their marriage nearly as much as the woman's), paying women less for the same or even less work, keeping girls from receiving education, preventing them from engaging in community life and stifling their voices, telling girls that they can't aspire for the things they do and they should settle for something "lower", the underappreciation for all the unpaid work mothers and daughters do in the household, and the preceptions that women are not as capable as men nor their work as valuable as that of men.
It’s funny that she doesn’t even have to say she believes in Jesus.. you can just see it within her and know it. I one day admire to be a woman like her. Where you can just see Jesus through me without me even saying a word.
That's what i thought too. I saw a video of her and i just liked her for no reason. I mean there was something "attractive" in her face and in her attidtude/spirit. And in another video i saw these "God bless" comments and then i realised: she is a Christian! That was the moment i subbed to her.
I'm a 23 year old man from Germany, and I'm quiet fascinated by this channel. You seem to be the mother most girls lack of, teaching femininity. An amazing and, to me, very attractive trade that many girls and women sadly lack of. It seems that many people of BOTH genders entered a strange and purposeless grey area between masculinity and femininity. But then there's people like you!
Interesting that u say that. I live in Germany and find the women here (mostly) not being feminine and had an impression that men also aren’t a fan of that either
@@MariamAli-wg6gk German right here🙋♀️ I feel exactly the same that majority of men here don't value femininity in women. I'm only 17 and know that I will not marry such men haha
Funny that in the US I've found trouble finding women who are feminine. There's a lot of ideas about competing against men and many women are offended talking about them being a good wife and mother. In turn, I've chatted with many women in the UK who would be perfect for me (but not exactly eager to go through that immigration process). I like to imagine it's similar in Germany.
Hello Gina :) I'm from Germany too! I am with the Lord for 3 years now. It's amazing to see that some other girl is also from Germany here! Have a blessed day. :)
*Gina, pass auf dich auf, die Welt ist voller Versuchungen, man muss sehr aufpassen, dass man auf dem gesunden Pfad bleibt. Die meisten Menschen heutzutage degenerieren über die Zeit, lassen sich gehen etc.* *Manchmal muss man sein environment verändern, um toxische Einflüsse zu eliminieren. Selbst wenn man total diszipliniert ist, kann es einen schlechten Einfluss auf die Seele haben, immer von Degeneration umgeben zu sein und es jeden Tag mitkriegen zu müssen..* *Z.B. habe ich aus diesem Grund entschieden, nach Ungarn umzuziehen, das ist noch ein gesundes christliches Land, wo die Leute noch gesund im Kopf sind..* *(Hab Glück, dass ich einen unbefristeten Job habe, den ich übers Internet ausübe, sodass ich meinen Wohnsitz frei wählen kann. Ich wünsche dir auch viel Glück im Leben. Die wichtigste Entscheidung im Leben ist die Wahl des Ehepartners, und Kinderreichtum ist der einzige Reichtum, der am Ende des Lebens zählt.)*
Hello sister! I'm 22 and from South Africa. (I mentioned that to show you how many feminine (and Chrsitian) women you're reaching). It's so refreshing to see your videos. They've helped me rediscover my feminine side. I especially love this one as I'm now in a season where this advice really applies to me.
you are absolutely gorgeous and such a good role model, you believe in things that not many people believe in these days and the way you present things is refreshing
When you spoke about a man really loving you and not just loving your body or money... that hit me hard. I've noticed that I have been attracting men that only like me or want to be around me for my body or physical appearance. I'm not super attractive, but im attractive enough. As much as I appreciate what god has given me looks wise, I just want to feel like I can be loved for who I am. I'm at this point where I feel kinda empty, because this has been happening to me since a young age(i hit puberty early and started blossoming quite early too). I just want a man who can look past my exterior and actually love me for who I am. But I have trouble attracting such a man. What advice do you have for me?
I know it's an old fashioned view, but I'd advise you (if you don't already) to dress modestly (that doesn't mean like an old lady 😊) and keep flirting, holding hands, kissing etc... for when it really means something. I'm sorry you've been treated badly, the fact that it began when you were young is terrible. It isn't your fault, too often people like to prey on others. It's not your lack, it's theirs 🙁
As long as you are dressing fashionably modest, no cleavage, no mini shorts or skirts, nothing skin tight you can't really help men being attracted to you because of your appearance. When you do meet someone who wants to date you it should be pretty easy to see his intentions. If he constantly wants to be physical, alone with you all the time, makes comments about dressing sexier for him, wants sex those are red flags. Just know, when men really want to have sex with someone some have waited years to get engaged, get married, get the sex, get bored and then leave. Nick Lachey waited for 4 years to marry and finally have sex with Jessica Simpson, who was a virgin waiting for marriage. They divorced 3 years later because they weren't compatible.
You do want your husband to be physically attracted to you. That's important. The key is, can you both share ideas, laughter, work through an argument. Do you both really care anout the happiness of the other?
I also believe in God's timing! Some women may feel ready to enter a relationship but God feels she has things to work on before he presents her with a husband. I didn't meet my husband until I was 27; I had grown a lot and during that time learned to appreciate having a partner. I think it's also important to find a partner who's family also shares these values; men who have grown up in a traditional home are more apt to want that! I LOVE my husbands family, he's the youngest of 7 and we all live close to each other. His sisters are homemakers and are so helpful with our children, we really do have strong support system and for that I am blessed! ❤️
How did you get through feeling like God wouldn't send anyone? I'll be 27 this year and although I'm generally happy and thriving, I cant help but look at my biological clock or all the women getting married around me....any advice?💕
Wow, that's awesome Nicole! I am about the same Canela, and going to be 28 near the end of the year. Because of mediocre or rushed marriages around me that have already crumbled, I gradually have found no problem waiting if it means that it will last and is God chosen and approved! I am definitely satisfied in that fact, that God will honor my waiting and faithfulness and will not give me second best when I have Him in the forefront of my mind for relationships. Hopefully that helps you Canela but it is what helps me. Though it is another unknown in our lives, we know Who holds tomorrow and that He has our best interest at heart, like any loving parent does. So we have no need to worry (though it is natural to worry sometimes). Another thing that has helped me is that even though God has shown me it's good to wait (through other people's examples, good and bad), He has encouraged me as well through people I know. Some mature elders have reached out to me to ask of this area in my life and just took time to pray with me and encourage me not to worry because His timing is perfect. Whenever something like that happens, I record it in someway, either physically or through my journalling so whenever I may feel uneasy, I remind myself of what has been spoken already and the words of encouragement that I've already received. That's my version of what David did, when he encouraged himself in the Lord. To end this mini essay off, I honestly have NO PROSPECTS at this time and I'm totally okay with that. I'm too busy to be held down with this as I am working to do my best at the things God has given me to do within my family and church. But it doesn't mean I don't look forward to it...it's actually an exciting season because when it happens, God's name and fingerprints should be ALL over it and He will be glorified in the end! What matters most it that both parties are ready to take the next step into marriage.
thank you for this comment.. i'm almost 24 and I feel ready (and impatient!), but you reminded me that I have to wait until God decides it is right for me to be in a relationship..
You have to be careful with the Christian part. My one boyfriend was such the talk, talk, talk Christian but his actions really didn't follow. He wanted me to talk, talk, talk Christian but then he'd be after me to sleep with him. I'm like can we do other things. So then he'd become judgemental and start verbally attacking me; instead if he was really a Christian, he should have invited me to his church and offer for me to see his world. It was a very fire and ice relationship that I had to finally give up.
Sorry to hear that! My mom’s third ex was the same way. He claims he’s Christian, but his actions don’t match his claim and he hardly practiced what he preached. He forced me to read bible verses he gave me when I had zero interest in Christianity. He also had anger issues and was very abusive towards my dog and sometimes his, and he would control and police me on what I should wear. I will never forgive him and I hope he gets everything karma owes him.
I'm really proud of you! It's hard to leave sometimes and it doesn't matter what you did or what happened, all that matters is that you realized the truth and the goodness for your self and own future and YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH to leave someone, all of those are hard to overcome!❤❤❤ Amazing job :)
I love how you clarified the "respect your husband" aspect! Because I think so many people get angry or defensive at such statements because some people think it doesn't mean "being respectful aka considerate and just a decent human being" but "obey his every word / him as the highest authority" which are obviously two very different things. So thank you for making that clear, I agree with your definition of respecting your husband / partner. (Also I believe you really like the word etcetera, don't you? It's a little bit funny but not annoying at all)
Guy here passing through out of curiosity, didn't know channels like this exist for women, I think it's pretty cool instead of that over the top type of aggressive feminism, I run from that. This is good.
If I may add; emotional maturity is something to look out for and also work on ourselves. Does he have self control, will he put others first, does he have concern for his family? If things go wrong how does he react? Great video :-)
Being this kind of "traditional" woman in today's generation is sooo hard. Good thing I found you, it helps me to think that I am not the only one in the world who stays traditional despite of this modern society. Love from Philippines 💕
Hi Caitlyn...its funny...you are so young and yet you are very very insightful like someone much older. I have been married three times and am 55 years old. Sometimes it takes to my age to learn these principles the hard way! Also mental illness issues can derail some of the healthly thinking and decisions you talk about as it did with me in my past. Now I am on a healthy path though!! Keep up the good work.
May your channel become one of 1 billion subscribers. It is much needed in this world of toxic feminism. May God’s peace, protection, grace and mercy Shine upon you. Also to all the ladies watching this. This woman loves god and truth. If you desire a high quality man, we are looking for women like Kaitlyn. The number 1 is to LOVE GOD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS. Take note.
Your channel is a breath of fresh air on social media 💜 19 years old student from Finland here 🇫🇮 I feel like I'm ready for a serious relationship soon, so I take all the tips I can get 😂
You're right about having subscribers from different countries; I'm a Brazilian living in China and I really enjoy your videos! Please keep them coming up!
In my personal life, religion isn't a problem in my own marriage. I'm a Hindu and am married to a half Russian, half Latina and completely Texan Christian girl (I know it's a very deadly combination), with a baby on our way. We've been married for over a year and have been in a relationship 2 years prior to that. Religion isn't as big of a problem if you have the same kind of moral values. Respecting each others religious beliefs is very important. Participation helps too. I go to church with her every sunday and she goes to the temple with me once a month. Convincing her parents was the hard part. But I wasn't going to walk her down the aisle without her parents blessings.
It will be when you guys get kids and you want them to be Hindu/more Indian/love their culture and they can't in the same way. Seen it before, the Indian dad tries to reach out but the kids aren't interested Imo it's cuz guys aren't taught to be the pantheon's of culture in the home like girls are. There's more of an emphasis on girls to not become Americanized with the clothes and who they hang out with. So yeah, be careful, expose them to Hinduism, put them in Balavihar, yoga, pragnja, etc. Teach them your language to the point of fluency. Otherwise they won't fit in with other kids and you'll be heartbroken as they have lost the 'you' in them
Does anyone have any other groups/social media they love like this channel? Want to include more healthy, biblical feminine content! Would love to make or find a group of likeminded sisters :)
I am a college student studying finance right now, and even though I wouldn’t necessarily consider myself traditionally feminine and we don’t necessarily have the same aspirations or lifestyle I enjoy your videos and have tons of respect for you! I am a midwesterner myself and feel like the values of balance, honest work, and making do that you so often talk about in your videos really resonate with my own values system and the way that I was raised. You are so sweet and genuine in your videos and it really seems like you make an effort not to come across in a way that makes it seem like you are looking down on others with different beliefs or lifestyles. I know that you are from Canada but you truly embody many of the best things about us midwesterners! Sending you blessings and support from Minnesota :)
With love from the Philippines! ❤️ xoxo I just turned 24 and I'm glad I got off the feminism bandwagon before it's too late 😂 I'm so grateful for your videos and thank you for being such an inspiring role model for us 😘
On point girlfriend! I'm 52 and divorced. Wish I saw this video when I was 29 and married an emotionally unstable man. I'll do better with my next/last marriage.
Absolutely loved this video. This was such a great topic to cover and is such a vital part of seeking relationships and marriages. There is a strategy, there are questions and standards to be asked and met. This is so so so important. It is so good to hear this from another young married woman who is pursuing Christ. This is so encouraging
As someone with multiple chronic illnesses, I really respect what you said about considering a partner with health issues. I've seen many people get into a relationship with someone who's sick but they weren't realistic about the implications so it failed. Loving someone who's ill is hard work and people need to go into that with their eyes open 💖 love your channel!
I love you 😘 sis. I married my my high school sweetheart and we have three children. The stress is real !!!!! However ,watching your videos have helped me restore my original feminine side and develop a mature feminine side. The maturity part is essential to blooming.
This comes at a great time as I am currently entering the dating realm :) You where talking about the five love languages right? Those are so helpful understanding yourself and your partner I think.
Would you ever consider doing a video about the use of birth control? You’ve alluded to it before but I’m curious if you think women, especially Christian women, should be using it to stop pregnancy.
I'm 22 from Spain! I'm in a 6 year relationship and I am certain that when we are financially stable and can support each other and kids we will tie the knot. My classmates think I'm crazy for thinking that being so young but I know we are ready!
Your teens and early 20s are the hardest time to make a relationship work, because your life is changing so fast and is financially unstable. If you can make it work now, by the time you're ready to start a family you two will already have overcome so many things together, you will know and trust each other so much better than other couples your age. I am so so glad i found my love at 17 and stayed with him. I hope it works out for you guys 😊
While your age of 22 is young...it's Not too young. They only say its too young because they are brainwashed by feminism and the media. Many career women like your classmates wait too long, and when they get older men don't find them attractive anymore...unless he's much older, fatter, or uglier, or broke making little money. Don't let them brainwash you...because you have more options when you are young.
you inspire me so much ♡ I am 21 and I love the idea of being at home and only work part time if at all and nurturing my man and family. I also saw your blog post where you said not to waste your twenties on partying and boozing. I dont go partying at all and finally saw some confirmarion that its okay to desire marriage and a quiet life. Can you please make a video on how to get in the mindset that its possible to be married and have a nurturing wonderful partnership? I have already found my perfect partner and he is just wonderful to me and masculine and we share the same futuee goals. I just have this fear in mind: todays world doesnr have secure long relationships anymore and struggle to believe that its possible for me. I dont wanna ruin my relationship by being stuck in this patteen and would like your views and advice on that :)
Feminism doesnt want us to trust our men and marriage. Life is all a risk isnt it? Yet women are more secure under the protection of a man who loves them, than they are without
i came across your respectful channel. I am a Muslim guy aged 42 years old. I will tell you in a glance my feedback: my struggle with finding a woman for marriage was always because it is either they find me better than them and they were acting silly to show they are great and i dont want that or they perceive me as inferior and i was the person who was struggling to say 'hello i exist", finding an equal is extremely hard. A final word: casual relationships and the focus on looks and sex have destroyed the culture of marriage everywhere. Many people thought they could settle down after they had sexual pleasures and hookups but it never resulted in that, rather t resulted in lost souls and bad temper when they grew up. I wish young men and women could hear people like you and at your age. greetings
I'm 18-year old student from Russia,you are very helpful,'cause there was a good chunk of time when I didn't even think about my femininity,but you made me realize that it's very important! Thank you
Omg!!! Yess Thank you for these amazing videos darling. For many years I’ve been wanting to be more feminine and sweet because I grew up in a household full of men I feel like I’ve become some sort of masculine in my personality. So these videos are honestly a treat!! Love you girly !! 💕🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😊
"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers..." In Context, Paul is talking about Corinths association to teachers of false doctrine. Any theologian will tell you this. The grammar is a present imperative, which is not "Don't do something you are thinking about doing," but "Stop doing something you have been doing for a while," So it isn't advice about whom to marry..the context is that the Corinthians are getting THEIR FUNDAMENTAL IDENTITY FROM WHOM THEY ARE HANGING OUT WITH (idolaters). The uncleaness he mentions all over the book are terms tied to having sex with temple prostitues and worshipping false gods... And when Paul states that "all things are allowed but not all are beneficial" this is Paul repeating a statement the Corinthians had wrote him, which he then later refutes (read the passage). Nowhere does it say in scripture that you cannot marry an unbeliever. NOWHERE.
“Now, brothers and sisters, I have applied these things to myself and Apollos for your benefit, so that you may learn from us the meaning of the saying, “Do not go beyond what is written.” Then you will not be puffed up in being a follower of one of us over against the other.” 1 Corinthians 4:6 NIV “Do not go beyond what is written”
@@kensigregory361 that's true, but i'm 19 and it's hard to find that where I live here in the UK. I mean some men understand but they're generally much older.
I’m a 25 year old male and I still believe in traditional, healthy, and balance marriage. I don’t do social media anymore, I just work towards my goals and hope I meet a good charactered woman
Hey Mrs. Midwest. Hope you read this comment. I'm a 22 year old male and I love your videos. So no, I'm not one of your sisters :P The reason I started watching your videos is because of the struggle I have when it comes to the way my sisters treat their husbands. I come from a conservative christian family and I'm very proud of my sisters and my mother. My question to you or anyone who knows more about femininity than me, is how can I help my sisters tap more into their femininity? They're all so so lucky to have amazing husbands that are so talented and confident and lead great lives but there's one thing wrong. My sisters seem to take them for granted and love to boss them around and it feels so wrong :/ One of my sisters is crazy for attention and doesn't give attention back and the other sucks at being thankful, like really sucks. I've helped her out many times with something and when I'm done, she doesn't say thank you or anything. (I've confronted them both on their problems in a loving way but doesn't seem to help) (They have many more problems that I won't mentioning. I get it that everyone has problems but these problems are so destructive in my opinion) My father is one of the best human beings I know and he works all the time, whether it has something to do with the house, ministry, dinner and regular work, he's always doing something but even though he fixes most of the things broken in the house (which he's very good at) my mother keeps on nagging on him asking why he hasn't finished something very minor that really doesn't matter at the moment and I get so mad, she doesn't see or she does but doesn't care how great of a husband he is. She's always so negative. One more thing I feel like the men in my family are too accepting of this behavior and all this seems to me to have something to do with the feminist movement. Am I way off my lane or does this make sense? It's like they're afraid to say no and stand up for themselves. I'm making them sound like they're unconfident but they're not, they're just extremely tolerate which I believe is a masculine trait. And also my sisters keep calling me by their husband's names. I find it kinda funny.
Thank you for sharing. Unfortunately people have jealousy in their hearts and it makes it difficult to have conversations with them that are deep. It’s helpful to feel like you’re not going through this alone.
Honestly, I very much agree with you when you discussed respect in marriage. In a relationship, respect is THE THING. Right next to God, respect is just.. we need it. Respect and God. Without these two, you have nothing.
I'm a 34 year old unmarried woman who identifies both Massachusetts and Los Angeles, California as my two homes. I'm not a Christian (nor anything else, religion wise) and likely have politics very different from yours. However, I absolutely acknowledge your intelligence and wisdom. Our culture is a mess, and women are suffering, and while I don't aspire to be a housewife or even necessarily married, your insight gives me food for thought. Thank you.
Girrrrrllllll the struggle is so real. I feel like I'm in the wrong era. I turned 35 yesterday and I'm starting to sweat a bit. I long for a happy marriage and a family of my own.
my problem is that I meet guys with similar values, beliefs, thoughts, wants the same things, but... they live on the other side of the continent so it's hard to form an emotional connection because we only interact online, so I don't know if we have that "spark".
Been with my man over a year, known him for 8 to 10 an he doesn’t do emotions it’s his actions that say i care......... some men can’t say it but can show it, man would walk through hell for me an has proven it an ladies that is a man you want.
Queer female here, who feels the gay world needs a conservative movement within it to enable it's normalization in the wider world. I wish it was easier to find a gay woman with all of the wonderful features of femininity and without shame of their feminine power. I agree that homemaker should not be a dirty word because mental stability is vital for good health and longevity, while a lot of ambitious men and women both neglect their home and stability for work. This is due to all the societal devaluations of feminine power. Power within the home is the backbone to power in the wider world. I personally used to identify as both a boy and a girl, until I realized that phase was a normal part of puberty for a lot of young people. I love your channel because I feel very behind the curve on my femininity, while people say I actually make a very flattering woman. I have a hard time accepting my femininity because of shyness with my own sexuality and form, but it is very inspiring to see a woman like you wholly embrace who she is, unapologetically. I struggle with balancing my femininity and masculinity still because I primarily seek to attract feminine women, but I still would hope that I could maybe posses the ambition and strengths of men to attract a lovely woman without having to compromise my natural feminine blessings. I know this is an unconventional post but genuinely thank you for your content. Women in all walks of life can benefit from your channel.
You hit it right on the nail with the kids growing up and wondering why my mom married an abusive man. I still wonder today on what my mom was thinking. I think in the moment she felt stuck with my dad because she had three kids with him. My dad was always screaming at us daily and beating on mostly my mom and I. Then the same night or soon later he would say he loves us blah blah blah. I know to never marry someone that will treat me like my dad did.
I dated a lot in highschool and I wanted a relationship so bad. First week of college I met my guy of near 4 years. God helped me grow so much in that summer though from moving to adulthood. He always has a plan us 😊 love from a 21 year old San diegan :)
I'm 17 and while I'm not looking for marriage at the moment (obviously lol) this was really helpful because I'm going off to college soon (a Christian college) and so hearing this is something I'll definitely keep in mind! I love you and your channel so much! Keep doing what you're doing!
No feminism is #killAllMan #ManAreTrash War again man, man spreading, toxic masculinity and so on. As a man I kindly ask to don’t bring lady’s in connection with females and there feminism. Sorry but there are worlds in between and the don’t deserve to be seen as same. There are literally worlds between feminine lady’s and modern female feminism.
I'm looking for my equal. I'm from Argentina and the city where I live has a small town mentality. We were talking with my friends that it's getting hard to find one's equal. Many men are insecure and they cover it up with sexism or just are push overs. Plus it's easy to find those who look for a caretaker and homemaker a mom) who has a job too. I think I might have to move out
Thank you! This is what I really needed to hear (but didn't want too). I'm with someone and we're obviously not compatible (on politics or lifestyle choices). He is 7 years older than me but still goes out and drinks way too much to the point he stumbles and falls over. The problem is I really care for him, and he can be really warm and loving. It totally sucks. I can't just wait for him to change (he's SO stubborn). I guess I'm channeling my nurturing energy in the wrong direction. I just wish it was easy to cut him out of my life.
talking about it like only women viewers from all over the world are watching when you betcha plenty of guys are watching to get the inside scoop on how to ensure being marriage material. haha. eh, I don't know if guys have the time to listen for the whole thing though... haha Is he this, check, is he that check. How many children? 8? Nothing wrong with high goals! Lol But I did get something out of this at least. Does he love you or is he just settling for you? That's real good cause I know some great girls that I would feel I was just settling for if that was how life ended up, but I'm glad I like my friend and am happy to make time for her. I'm glad you said the thing about addictions too; like that's good. I'd also recommend that your cultural background is similar. Like the two divorces I've seen was due to cultural background differences.
1. Has character ..is kind generous compassionate towards you 2. Is healthy mental as well as Physical 3. Do u respect him 4. Do he loves you for who you are n will listen to your stories @85 5. No inner conflicts i.e rubbing personalities 6. Compatible Beleifs religion values align so that you have less arguments .. Your future goals align with each other ..also do you want babies.. Emotinal comparability can u share laugh together.. do u get others emotins..
What a fantastic video. We are very different, I am more in the direction of career driven non-believer who does not want kids, but your tipps and tricks are just universally true. I have to look for the exact same 5 points before committing to anybody for a longterm relationship :)
One reason ‘respecting husbands’ is a touchy subject is because the man is the head of the family and wives are to submit to their husbands authority. - An idea the modern woman loathes. (I don’t like it either!😖) What we might call ‘a health problem of addiction’ is called the sin of gluttony in the Bible. Instead of ‘coping strategies’ the sinner would need to repent of their sin. Greedy people and drunkards will not inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
You are a mature and conscious you lady. It took me years to get to where you are and still haha you might be ahead of me. That’s probably why I listen to you with an open heart and mind. Thank you. Praise be to God.
As always, amazing points! But I do disagree on the religion thing! My man is a Christian and I am not, but just because we don’t share that aspect doesn’t mean we argue about it! He practices what he wants and I don’t, but I support him 100%! We are sure we want to spend our lives together and I don’t believe that will be in the way at all! ☺️
I live your videos!!!! Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom! This is so unrelated probably, but am I the only one who can't stop thinking that she is the modest version of Tatiana Buree from luxx curves? Very similar face and way of talking :) all the best!
Can you do a video on ways a women is marriage material? (How to be a good wife) If I were to ever meet a man that is "marriage material", I'd like to know how to honor him and bring equal effort into our relationship.🌼 ~Much Love sent your way💕
