Is "slow love" the key to a successful relationship?

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On Valentine's Day, new research shows a revolution is in the works when it comes to finding love that lasts. Biological anthropologist Helen Fisher studied the dating and sex lives of more than 35,000 single Americans. She says the research revealed an emerging "slow love" movement. A similar study found that couples with longer courtships were less likely to get divorced. Fisher joins "CBS This Morning" to share her findings.
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@chancebriggs7556 5 лет назад

It’s hard to talk to more than one woman. 5-7? No, one at time until I find the right person.

@sincerelysof Год назад

In a different interview (WIRED TECH) she explains, once you have gone through 5-9 people, stop there. Don't scroll for more. Try to get to know at least one. She is talking about how apps these days (like tinder) allow you to see many people just by swiping left and right. This "binging" is not a good thing, since your brain doesn't even registrate them anymore after 9 people. This is why some people tend to give on online dating or have an negative view on it. (Edit: I just realized this comment is 3 years old. I'm sorry!)

@onelife7247 2 года назад

This is hardly a revelation. People with common sense have learned that sex too early clouds our judgement and we often miss major red flags. By the same token marriage before sex is just absurd. People need to be sexually compatible otherwise you’re nothing more than friends, co-habiting.

@TH-eb5ro 2 года назад

Agreed, I realized this in my teens before I had sex/relationships by noticing what happened with others and often not in accordance with my mother's conversations on love, and marriage. By the time I was in my 30s I knew men/women in my age and into their 80s that were in unhealthy and unrewarding relationships. My 80+ friend couple told me that their only life regret would be not having the strength to separate because everyone including their two daughters did not accept that they deserved to find happiness. I cried on my drive home.

@christophergraves6725 9 месяцев назад

No, sex prior to marriage and especially living together leads to higher levels of divorce. If the sex takes place with a commitment to each other prior to marriage, this is not so much an issue. The more sexual and romantic experience prior to marriage also leads to less happy marriages and a greater risk of divorce. The fewer partners a person has had prior to marriage, the more likely the couple is to have a happy marriage. By the way, you can tell a lot about your sexual compatibility from kissing and fondling without intercourse of any sort.

@vivychen2013 4 месяца назад

I respect Dr. Fisher. She is my role Model

@jaiyabyrd4177 10 месяцев назад

HOOK UP CULTURE is what it is

@beldonhuang 7 месяцев назад

as it is today, which is a little bit unfortunate

@hererightnow1 3 месяца назад

We need to go back in time-Anthropologist Margaret Mead has the real scoop.

@2Uahoj Год назад

Actually a lot of research shows just the opposite of what this woman says. Couples who cohabitate before marriage are much more likely to divorce after marriage.

@christophergraves6725 9 месяцев назад

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!! Helen Fisher has gone off the rails on this advice. I can't believe that she is not aware of the research on "Sliding vs. Deciding."

@692nesian 9 месяцев назад

Lol Damian Lillard and his soon to be ex wife Kay'la

@Srilankan2024 4 месяца назад

❤❤❤

@burningaether1720 5 лет назад

Find a wife overseas or one not poisoned by what we call "feminism" today.

@froggreen2067 5 лет назад

Sorry, I am from oversea and a feminist and married to a man since 25 hapoy years.

@Jocelyn_Jade 2 года назад

Gotta sift through seas of bitter men

@user-fu5cd8bp1v 2 года назад

hope you'll go to an island overseas where there's no women. boom! no more feminism!

@jjtiojohn12 5 лет назад

If that’s the case then why are a majority of women still single well into their 40’s? Picky perhaps???

@islip376 Год назад

No I don’t think so. We are actually just more patient to wait for what works for us. A woman is more self confident as she ages so she’s less likely to rush into anything that isn’t fulfilling. We have a definite of purpose. Sadly, men go the opposite direction, many have low self esteem and target women young enough to be their daughters. There are a few who aren’t that way, it’s about finding those men. That takes time and patience. I had the most relationships when I was in my 20’s and 30’s, because my boundaries were nonexistent and I was afraid to be alone. That’s no longer the case.

@christophergraves6725 9 месяцев назад

And the later they wait and the more failed relationships on the way as they pick and choose, the less likely they will have a happy marriage if and when they do marry. The more partners a person has prior to marriage, the less likely that the couple will have a happy marriage.