IS THERE RACISM IN THE GAY COMMUNITY? 

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You are just not attractive, it's not that you are black

+Soup Don't your a troll

lets see your picture Kermit

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Come on you liberals argue how gays were born this way, but as soon as it comes to other preferences which we cannot control you go throw that right out of the window, give me a break. If I don't find black guys attractive I just don't and it's fine, also I don't find women attractive at all, by this retarded logic gays are also sexist.

@@harshnemesis take your ass somewher else whitey

WE ARE YOUR TEST lmao I’m mexican I agree with him. if something doesn’t give me a boner then that means I’m not attracted to it. How hard is that to understand. Preference is what attracts you. Stop trying to weaponize that.

You are absolutely correct.

Thomas Korn Yeah you're a new breed lol

You see racisim everywhere only because you look for it. Stop looking for it

Thank you for proving my point.

Thomas Korn The only point you've proven is that you're a hypocrite. You went out of your way to voluntarily watch this vid, expedite your bitch fit and bother me just to validate yourself 😂👈

Homophobia is a struggle to practice a certain behavior! Racism is a struggle to be treated like a human being! Racism and homophobia do not fall under the same category!!!

@Johnny Joestar get off this page then

I went on the app and first time I said no white guys no Asian men I was looking for a black guy but then I found a sexy Asian dude who was give off incredible big dick energy and knew he was hung and told me I'm going to be his slave forever now we're getting married

I had a white gay guy asked me if I like white guys. I said yes, I like white guys. He then proceeds to gaslight me saying I only white guys. But he himself never asks if I like black, brown, etc, cause I would have said yes also. A normal conversation, I have to think so much to LGBTQ? really?

@@tuck295q You know your lying! Your not into black guys. Asians are only into other Asian or white. I had an Asian tell me this to my face. On dating apps y’all would act like y’all into blacks but end up being dry so they could just stop talking to you.

You can also be black Asian or Latino and racist as well

I guess white gay guys get this idea because gays are a minority and they experienced frequently struggles with narrow-minded people. Just like skin color people. So they hope gay guys can easily relate to people of color and not to be racist...

Preference is NOT racism! I can't help the fact I am not sexually aroused by black or Asain men. That is an inherent as being gay itself.

Except it is not inherent. So it just happens that "inherently" most people prefer white guys? How come people can see all these different types and shades of white guys but all asian guys get put in one box, all black guys in another? They are not all the same, don't look all alike, nor act the same way. Our preferences are molded by images we see everyday (magazines, movies, advertising, etc) and by our interactions. If you live (and we do) in a racist society, that is going to affect your preferences. Once you understand and accept that, you may be able to change. If you don't want to change, I understand, it's confortable to not think about race, to not think about prejudice, and finding excuses for racist behaviours is easier than confronting them. But if you want so much to defend that "preference" and keep only dating/hooking up with white guys, there is absolutely no need to advertise "no blacks, no asians, no fats, no whatever". You can choose not to be that much of a dick, if you're not interested in someone who sends you a message or hits on you, you can simply ignore or you can say you're not interested in a polite manner (as in: not involving the person's race), just as you probably do with other white guys that don't fit your "standards".

+Gabriel Gutierrez da Silveira I freaking love you.

Right 😂

More like: How can we stop SJWs like you putting diversity in everything. The only diversity that bothers me is forced one, like all that cast being put in movies just because they are black or asian creating a whole new level or ironic racism at the same time, lmao.

@@harshnemesis they're doing it because of the lack of representation for poc, not because they don't want white people in movies. The same cannot be said of that prince of Persia movie, which lacked any Persians (which is what put me off seeing it).

@@ShrewdEmpath Oh I though I was watching movies for interesting story and great acting, but no apparently I only cared about the inclusion checklist and virtue signaling, oh wait no I don't. You leftists need to stop ruining the every movie franchise. The forced feminism and lgbt in movies makes terrible movies that nobody wants to watch. Ghostbusters is great example of that, people from 90s wanted another sequel so bad and when they finally delivered it, there was no original cast, instead we got a feminist flick complete with unfunny jokes, cringe and special effects that look worse than the ones in the original movies from 80s.

@@harshnemesis if a film is obviously unrealistic in some way, then that can be a problem. I don't expect every film to be about certain demographics. But why wouldn't you want a film to reflect the reality of society at times? If a film is not aiming to be representative of real life in different ways, doesn't that kind of defeat the object of the good acting you're talking about? You are free to watch films with only white straight cis male actors though, if that's your priority.

@@ShrewdEmpath No I don't care. The diversity and inclusion is literally the last thing I would ever care for in movies. That isn't the reason why I watch the movies, that's the reason why sjws watch the movies But if you want movies to reflect the reality of society, then that what holywood is doing now is extremely inaccurate. Blacks are the minority and so are the gays, but they are the majority in movies these days. Besides acting isn't representing the reality exactly what it is, acting is doing something or being something who you're not. A straight person acting as gay person or a disabled person is exactly what acting is and if they do the job great then it's good acting. A gay person being gay in a movie is not exactly an act... it's just who they are. Also CIS? isn't that exactly what SJWs use to define the normal people who have a penis or a vagina and are happy with that fact? Well that is 99.7% of the world, so we don't need an extra label, you can just say a man or a woman, thank you very much. Btw how I'm supposed to only watch those movies when they no longer exist? Thanks to the left Every... single... franchise and new movie has a feminist, lgbt, BLM,.. agenda to push that is completely irrelevant to the movie

Well, thats pretty much what a preference is, some people have strong preferences to where it can be difficult for them to give people a chance, but I find it odd any preference at all for a race over others is considered racist.

Ry Estares not seeing entire races as people is racist. Not being attracted to a race means that you don’t view them as human. White guys are so racist in the gay community

No it's called saving time and battery, by being upfront with your preferences... yeah it may come across rude and there might be a better way of going about this by telling everyone they are just not their type (not mentioning the reason), but not everyone has time for that. Dating is by nature biased and nobody can control who they are attracted to, get over it, besides isn't that like a good thing... if you think someone is racist or w/e for not wanting to have sex with you, they just saved you time by putting that on their profile, so you don't have to find out about their "racism" on your own

+Bleedy Schastivyy It's not racist here is why: By being different race you have different aesthetics... the aesthetics some people are not into, so how would one put that on their profile? Yeah in the same way as we name more curvy aesthetics, we call that fat people. So if you're not into certain aesthetics of a race, you just put that down as that race in profile. And another note: This is not equal opportunities or being allowed to use public spaces, this is dating and once again nobody owes you sex.

@@harshnemesis I see what your saying but here is my problem with that. Being of that race doesn't mean they fit that aesthetic. I have seen Asian guys with relatively large eyes, Black guys with thin noses, and White guys with fuller lips for example. Even within a race there are still some many variations in appearance.

No you not having a face pic makes you get weeded out

That's embarrassing!!

SAME

+Drew Gonzales you need education

That’s crazy.And ignorant too!.😮

***** And You're another cute guy

Powi are you shittin me? cut the phobia nonsense crap. this political correctness is insane

But, sadly, bisexual is not race... Race is like Asian, African, Caucasian, Arabic, etc...

"Biphobia isn't a thing because bisexuals (FILL IN THE BLANK). Trust me, I know." Time for gay men to stop acting like they know and lecturing everyone about rigid binarism.

Being BI usually means a) a baby step out of the closet or b) inability to commit to a gender yet alone a person That above is my opinion and reasons why I turn them down. Time for some facts: Bi guys are highest risk of stds, that's a fact (another reason why some people avoid them.) Another fact nobody owes you sex, so you can be turned down for any physical property or mental property/ideology and it's completely fine, dating is by nature biased, so it's not biphobia or w/e you PC idiots want to flag that as... also in this case it's about as same as turning down a curios straight guy... perhaps some people don't want just sex, ever thought about that? Dating goes beyond physical appearance.

See Ya Shawn

Such a strange logic... Racism = "these races are below my race, they don't deserve what my race deserves, they should not have what my race has economically and politically, I don't want to be friends or mingle with them or have a type of relatinship that establishes me and them as equals" Sexual Preference = "this shape and color don't give me boner, you are my friend and my equal, and you deserve everything that I deserve, but you aren't sexually attractive to me" Of course, maybe one day people who say they won't date a black/asian/white/latino guys will find someone in that race whom they might fall in love with. But calling them racists is just an exaggeration and misleading.

Preference is based on physical attraction for the most part. Why should I be forced to date someone I am not physically attracted to just to satisfy the whole "be open-minded and liberal" BS mindset? Again, preference for a certain physique is NOT the same as REAL racism, which exists in things like the housing market or job market or the justice system even. I will simply not date a man who I am not attracted to physically because I have the right to. Please get over yourself.

@@RanDizz No sweetie, I did not. If I only dated Black men and nothing else and specified that on an ad would that be considered racist? Let know please.

@@RanDizz You didn't answer my question. Let me ask you again. If I were to put an ad out saying I only date Black men and no White boys please (I HAVE SEEN ADS LIKE THIS), would YOU consider that racist? Yes or no? Simple question. Just say YES or NO.

@Private Info this video is focusing on racism in the gay “community”. Why bring up straight culture? That’s not the topic.

Except we aren't you can't just stick labels to people, many gays (including me) do not identify as lgbtqabcwtfwyz movement. I will put this here as well: It's not racism it's called saving time and battery, by being upfront with your preferences... yeah it may come across rude and there might be a better way of going about this by telling everyone they are just not their type (not mentioning the reason), but not everyone has time for that. Dating is by nature biased and nobody can control who they are attracted to, get over it, besides isn't that like a good thing... if you think someone is racist or w/e for not wanting to have sex with you, they just saved you time by putting that on their profile, so you don't have to find out about their "racism" on your own

Dark yep it is racist. At least in term of your racial superiority in your head bias in your head that makes you go for certain someone base on race. I am pretty certain I have dated far more people with different backgrounds than you do.

Here is the thing I don't date people for different backgrounds, race, etc to check up virtue signaling list like movies do these days, I date them because I find them attractive. Nobody ever said anything about racial superiority, our preferences just don't allow us to have sex with certain people that's all and it's fine and it's really same as not wanting to bang fat or ugly people, just not attracted to them, doesn't mean I would refuse to sell them something or be their friend, or w/e else I just wouldn't bang anyone I'm not attracted to. I can't tell whenever you're mentally challenged or brainwashed by lefties because I literally just explained why it's not racist, or w/e. Stop SJWing and get over yourself, nobody owes you sex and if you still believe not wanting to bang someone is racist or w/e why do you turn down women? I mean are you a sexist pig? What now is it fine to be gay or not? Because by definition you don't find women attractive, so refusing to bang them by your own logic makes you sexist.

That's where you're wrong friend, humans only have one go an with is to gain power and money based off their own aspirations. People feel good when they have someone to hate

That appears to be the majority of them in the lgbt world. Almost all of them chase pretty white men at the exclusion of their own race & other colored people.

To all of the Preachers - we didn't spend the guts of 40 years getting one set of Preachers, just to replace them with a different set of Preachers. All our lives we've been shamed because of who we love and have sex with - the fact that it's now members of our own community doing the shaming is just sick.

It's not racism it's called saving time and battery, by being upfront with your preferences... yeah it may come across rude and there might be a better way of going about this by telling everyone they are just not their type (not mentioning the reason), but not everyone has time for that. Dating is by nature biased and nobody can control who they are attracted to, get over it. Besides isn't that like a good thing... if you think someone is racist or w/e for not wanting to have sex with you, they just saved you time by putting that on their profile, so you don't have to find out about their "racism" on your own

@ Hamlettell Fuck you! Who are you to dare speak to just the "white" gays! 😲 I being an "ethnic" white gay male, and I cannot begin to tell you how many times that gays of "color" haven't given me the time of day, filthy looks, or insulted me flat-out. Yes, I do agree that there is a majority of the prejudice coming from WASP gays; but oh boy, you Blacks, and Browns, and Yellows have sure caught up. Whites, historically, have been prejudiced and classist; being the majority in this country, but as times change, the once opprossed have now become the Oppressor. Spare me your preach on a soapbox; it will simply fall on deaf ears.

Stefan Marchione as a Hispanic, I solely I agree with you. I don't know if you've heard of intersectionality, but if you're a white gay, your opinion will be less valued, not to mention POC gays lecture white gays on "racism" and shit

So can I say it's not racist if I'm Latino? That seems a bit racey to me too.

@Phoenix Knight and that would be great

How bout no.

@@rodrigomonter.8688 how about shut the fuck up

I think Asians only make up like, 2% of the population in America or something. You'd be lucky to see an Asian & white-much less anyone else-lol.

🏜️MmmWhatchaSayॐ𝅗𝅥 that's the dominant

Absolutely ❤

seriously what a dream

Chris

Yes, he's very handsome.

Aneko Otaku yas queen

Aneko Otaku why dont u focus on the message instead of how they look. Be intelligent...not stupid

Thats usually because when white men get old (and boy do they age quickly) they get discarded like a piece of used toilet tissue by young baby faced white Caucasian males..... of course unless they want to be a generous 'sugar daddy' and this I have seen time and time and time again. There are so many rejected old white wrinkled men after me that it is pathetic and I am 60 years old. But keep in mind these are the same men 30 years ago who would not even look my direction when they were young twinkish and good looking according to white standards. Oh well I guess men of color should count it a blessing to receive left overs.

Robin Kindred oh wow... So that's how it is

EXACTLY!!!!

@@robinkindred6456 you hit it right on the head! When they’re young, they wouldn’t even think about touching a black man. When they start getting rejected because of their age that’s when they turn to black men. It’s fucked up and that’s the very reason why I don’t deal with them at any age.

@@noirjack7 This is so relatable. I'm a latino person of color and I get messages from older white men in there 40s and it's annoying how they keep spamming me with messages. These are the same white guys that used "no black, no asians" when they were younger.

Delton McLemore you dont have to prove yourself to anyone but yourself. a gay bar or ANY bar is THEE worst place to find friends. try a coffee house (but not starbucks) or a gym

Delton McLemore being with people or the so called good looking people is not a great situation. It's overrated. Friendships happen rarely but if it does it is great. If certain ppl reject that doesn't mean you have to be sad. Everything is over rated. Even happiness. Don't fall for these situations. Build a career make money be safe be healthy. Enjoy life. Definitely one or two or more people will like you. The people you mentioned are a minority in real. Maybe the area you live has bigots. But don't limit yourself to that situation. Meet people around the world. I am sure you will get thousands of friends. People who don't understand you well just leave them. A perception cannot be the last word. Unfortunately those ppl will never understand this. Move on. Life is exciting. Get your goals. That's more exciting than love or friends.

who wouldn't want to date you. My goodness

+Gay4gay awww thank you!! But you'll be surprised.. 😔

I would love to date you personnaly 😏

It won't get better if people keep hiding behind "preference" and don't dig down deep within themselves to find the root of their racial prejudices.

Luis Bravo Honestly by your reaction you probably have alot of guys who would date you but you most likely turn them away or give them the cold shoulder because they aren't what you're looking for.

Why would you even care what white gays are into? There are plenty of black gay men out there. So why would it ruffle your feathers? It's not like you are owed attention by anyone. Grow up and move on.

My Marquez well said. Amazing. I might need to borrow that. Perfectly precise.

Beautifully said!

Thank you for this!

Yess!!!!

being old isn't a race so it's not racist, that would be ageism. Like how some people won't date someone older than 25. Odd how that cycle goes since a lot of the older generation wouldn't date the guys who were older than them. But of course that would be if they were only excluding someone based on their age and not other factors.

Thank you! It seems like everyone wants to pick on white people only because of the liberal narrative that all white people are supremacists and racists, but every race (especially the minorities) can be racist.

Nameless Profile lmao no one said specifically white people you just played yourself

So right. So many asian guys "prefer" white. I am asian and hard to find another asian because everyone wants white... And same goes to Latino.

ZIQ Yeah but I'm quite sure you wouldn't date a blk guy..lol

Dodahbay Lol i would, if he looks like Will Smith

gmooreheadiv I'm only half with you about sexual preference only because really when you're eating ice cream nobodys dick has to get hard. Same way these guys know they don't like pussy they could implicitly not be attracted to or especially turned on by certain features just to cut people some slack. That said though, a lot of the time it is prejudice. I've had people be disappointed that I didn't act like a thug, been spoken to like a representative of all black people and had Mandingo fantasies projected on to me countless times. I do feel that white people in these things get to be considered as people where as POCs are more an idea, a notion, an experience or right of passage.

SoyoucancallmeKEN because you only want the white guys?

Finally someone said it. I was just scanning through the comments just to see if anyone comment fit what I was thinking

TRUE VIBES

For real tho

i just laughed out loud

Oh you know he would..lol That's why when white gay men speak on these subjects, I just laugh because we all know that at the end of the day, they're no different.

Agreed. His Instagram is nothing but images of himself half nude or fully nude. Needless to say, with that kind of narcissism, you have to wonder how he would react to a black, obese gay man hitting on him. I still do not get how some of these Instagram queens are so famous.

Anyway, Johnny's instagram is johnnysibilly :)

Ikr it’s fucked

That's an absurd fallacy, rather narrow minded for you to think that, and a tired argument. Don't think in absolutes. Do you think everybody lives in some black utopia like Baldwin Hills or big city like Atlanta, having their pick of the lot and plenty of black princes to socialize with? As a whole black men are essentially 6% of the U.S. population. That isn't even equally spread around in all states of this nation, nor does factor those not in prison. Who truly knows what minute percentage of that refers to out, bi/homosexual black men. Less than half of a percent of the U.S. population are even homosexual/bi black males. 0.6% is roughly 10% of the U.S. male black population, which is already a generously estimated and likely overenthusiastic percentage of non-heterosexual black men. Let alone those who are out and over the age of 18. There are more homosexual black men in Africa than the U.S. and Canada alone, but obviously not as accessible for obvious reasons. Stop being so closed-minded, as not everyone is as fortunate as you have been to be blessed with access to other gay men that identify as black and enjoy compatibility. You are not wrong about the "white obsession" though, as they are plenty who fixate on dating that way, truly because of self-hatred. Don't assume everyone is that way. I certainly don't feel sorry for self-hating people, but not everyone is dealing with that who complain. There are many of us that reside in areas where we are already amongst the very few black people locally and cannot leave where we live for various reasons, whether economic, academic, or family-related. In those cases, many already opt out of participating in local GLB events/groups in feeling already ostracized or strung along like a third citizen in the form of a token, like they are somehow irrelevant to the greater cause. They stay single or even remain closeted, in feeling it's pointless to come out where they are in seeing no imminent social benefit to do so. Or they settle for "non-black" locals willing to "supposedly" give them time of day (and possibly fetishize them) or white men who take advantage of unfair racist societal dynamics (have below average demeanor unlike the black partner) . It's shameful, but it happens especially to many young or successful black males that are coming out and have yet to find their place in the non-heterosexual world. At the end of day, the dominant racial/ethnic group in a limited/minority sect is bound to have substantial influence on everyone, that we'd have to go out of our way to truly avoid them and live like Amish or the Gullah to keep them out. People should not even be segregating on "race" and then chastise those who don't "stick to their own".Equally there is something wrong with those that negatively discriminate against others (then pretend to be innocent), as well as those that deliberately stray and stay away from good people of their own background (and then whine about prejudice). It doesn't mean we are somehow noble for sticking with our own, like you think. Everyone is not as lucky to find what they want at home.. The problem with that is, there's just not enough of us everywhere in this country nor enough to even go around. We are disadvantaged in how between (many countries in) Europe, UK, South Africa, Australia, NZ, and North America , white men are free to mingle with and date many other men of the same "so-called race" at much higher rates (with much less effort), while we can only make do with a much smaller pool of African-American or South African black males. Other countries with large/dominant black populations are either "anti-gay" (Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana), or suffer from blistering institutional racism (Brazil). Regarding orientation, we have very little freedom in nearly all of Africa and the tropical Americas (Caribbean). Where G/Bi black men have legal rights/freedom, we are too few in numbers. For Latinos, there are more of them from gay-friendly countries by ancestry, this is less of a problem. For non-black Latinos from anti-gay nations, they already easily assimilate into the general population or have the alternative/escape from racism via LGBT sects of Latino dominant U.S. cities and probably deal with less prejudice than most black people, due to a combination of colorism and racial prejudice at play. East Asians may not have it easy either, but probably fare much better in their home countries than us Caribbeans and Africans in regards to anti-gay sentiment. The wealth factor of Eastern Asia, also makes provides an alternative/escape for them in some cases. South Asians and those from Muslim nations in mostly West Asia can be discriminated against, but when determined they are able to change it up and easily assimilate here as "white" depending on their "physical appearance". The best us African immigrants can do to even fully "assimilate" here is to tolerate the subtle condescending insults and micro aggressions from the general U.S. populace (i.e. white), while doing 3 times better or hope to make strong connections with African-Americans on shared experiences as black people. I find POC a silly term anyway, that presents false solidarity. Just like LGBT. It's not as if Asians and Latinos do not discriminate against "black" people as well, in fact that is where your first sentence does make sense as the latter is more likely to complain. Overall, I find all human ethnicities attractive without specific cosmetic alterations (i.e. unflattering cultural piercings, tribal scars, gauged ears, etc). Black people only keep to themselves at times to survive the animosity of others towards them in this world. In my opinion, it would be ideal to have in addition to the gay population of African-Americans & black immigrants in the US, a politically stable gay-friendly black superpower with a glittering economy and infrastructure (South Africa still suffers from Apartheid aftereffects, so not of relevance). As long as we are solely tied to this country, with no gay-friendly black super power of a nation as the alternative to move to or visit, do not expect out non-heterosexual black men to only wait for out-black male partners that aren't even available at the level of heterosexual men. Other than the go-to assumption of self-hatred or societal indoctrination, it is simply a game of numbers that don't work in our favor as a whole and many "POC"/black men resultantly complaining after being (racially) bitten for seeking out others. People are sometimes forced to "date out" when they are a minority of some sort or simply remain single. If Africa was as developed as and (sad to admit) gay-friendly as North America or much of Europe, we'd hear so much less of these endless racism complaints, but that is not reality yet. Would any of us be here having this discussion? No, we wouldn't. This is what happens when you are a sub-minority (out/non-closeted) of a minority (homosexuals) of a minority (race/black). Yes, the majority of men attracted to other men are likely in the closet or fail to recognize they are not truly heterosexual. There may be many fish out in the sea, but too many of those fishes are white and not enough black fishes. Interracial dating is already too much trouble to deal with, so I doubt many of us would dare to even consider it if there were more of us to choose from. We're not heterosexual black women, we're a smaller group of men with less to work with population wise. The only gay acquaintances/friends (black Americans) I've truly had, agree with my beliefs, as a black West African man. Your attitude that you don't have these problems and trying to imply that "POC" that do are fools, is a big slap in this face to those that love ourselves and want more for our people of various nations and tribes. We are not all Don Lemons and Todrick Halls.

nwaeze1 First let me give you a slow clap because your reply was an interesting read. LONG but interesting. And for the Gay Men of Color who do find themselves drowning in a sea of mostly White Gay Men, where interracial dating is your only recourse...then of course it is understandable why you would seek out a White Romantic Partner... they're the only options you have. No shame in that. And for the record I have no issue with people dating interracially. In fact I have no problem with Gay MOC dating interracially even if their were alternative options at their disposal. I don't condemn it whatsoever...but you should know what to expect. If you are going jump the fence then issues like "sexual discrimination" should come AS A GIVEN. I get ANNOYED at Gay Men of Color who act surprised or even have the gull to complain about "sexual discrimination" when seeking out Gay White Men, for whatever reason. Follow me on this. White Beauty is promoted by White Owned Media. So why would Gay White Men have an interest in dating outside their race when their own race is seen as the pentacle of beauty by western societal standards? Especially here in the USA. (Although I think that standard is bull btw) But my main point is, if you're going to date White Gay Men don't be so surprised when they don't find your phenotype attractive. It should be taken as a given at this point. Black Gay Men are not promoted on Gay Magazines like INSTINCT, ADVOCATE, OUT etc...AND TO BE QUITE FRANK I find it odd when people of any race (White, Black or otherwise) find another race outside their own more attractive. That's something I just don't get. So I never really get mad when Gay White Man say they are almost exclusively attracted to other White Men. They find their own more attractive. So do I. That doesn't mean on occasion I don't find other men from different races attractive, but I do think people of my own are more so and I don't think there's any shame in admitting that. And in the USA most Black People do live amongst each other in metropolitan areas. So if you are Gay and Black you can more than likely find a Gay Black Male to date. Very few Blacks live in rural areas. Very few Blacks live in areas that are predominately other. For the most part racial groups tend to live within communities that share their same background. BUT for the unfortunate few who do find themselves "stranded" I can completely understand why "sexual discrimination" would be a problem when most of the gay guys available to you are White. I sympathize. That is a type of horror I have never went through and do not wish to see.

Amen, I hope to leave where I am one day. It is mainly a Mexican sanctuary where I am. Black and white people are small minorities here. All of the few black people here are solidly middle-to-upper class transients,but socially ultra-conservative types (most Dem though) and super-religious. More of the Africans compromise civilian black populace, while most of the Americans are military. Those are of us that are LGBT black men are literally non-existent, so deep in the closet they can touch the Earth's core, or have fled town to escape the closet, in a more worthwhile environment. Don't get more wrong, I like Mexicans and come across many beautiful men everyday, they are extremely cliquish here and only both reach out to the few white people here. Generally, most of them express bewilderment that the few black people here are extremely successful and that we keep to ourselves, as we don't play around with fake friends and silly drama. Doesn't mean I don't like the whites and Latinos here, one has truly felt welcome in a place, whether expect you be sweeping up Taco Bell and instead you pulled up at the Drive Thru in a Benz, picking up meal. I mean sure, I do know plenty of other local black people, but none of them are gay and instead mostly anti-gay. That's my dilemma and I do not find worth dating interracially, if people think they're somehow doing me favor. As young as I am, I continue to unearth and have learned a lot about the damage done to us in Africa, here, and the Caribbean through deep indoctrination the past 500 years. I always have this deep awareness of who I am, as I mingle with others. I have never made any non-black gay friends and can only count 2 black ones I made. Many of our men can also be very nasty in parts of Texas, expressing irritation towards being seen in the same room in a club/bar and treat you as an undesirable encroaching on their territory There is really a stronger element of bigotry in men, when same-sex attraction is a factor. I know that heterosexual can be terroritial and overprotective along the lines of caveman-like behavior (or tribalism), but racially prejudicial attitudes are different with gay men. The platonic aspect of friendship differs in many cases from that of hetero men, that you are less likely to be friends with many gay men who hold greater biases against you, also affected by sexuality. As a life-long gear head (car-obsessed), I have only met so far one bi black guy, who I met through my old business last year. He had a much younger white boyfriend :/ and clearly had some self-hatred issues, in being an East Coast suburban kid. Every other gay gear head I tried to connect with (no black men sadly) over shared interest in cars and hopefully also some common ground in being LGBT, never panned out over prejudicial treatment or me refusing to kiss their. feet, Nearly all of the local hetero young gear heads were either Trump supporter-style racists or just plain homophobic people. A lot of white/Tejano car guys are small-mined people in Texas and like that to be anti-PC. Interestingly, the only person that ever reached out to me who shared a passion for cars and motor sports was a white guy name Lance Nelson, a prominent RU-vidr. He is probably the only gay white person I have personally met and actually respect. I have never taken sexual interest in him though, as never would cross that bridge. Sorry if I came on too strong in my last comment, I just felt hurt as an young African man people act as if those of us struggling in the gay world, only do so because we deserve it or somehow hate our fellow brothers.Like black Americans stripped of our motherland kinship, it feels like I don't have a ancestral home nor a heritage to embrace anymore. My ancestral nation is a homophobic, unstable powerhouse in West Africa, which I can never go to back to. America already treats its black like dirt and pretends everything is all great, when it's truly a farce. If the Brits and French left Africa alone, we'd have a stable homeland and less homophobia over there. It really sucks that all one has in much of Texas are a bunch of unfriendly LGBT Mexicans and cynical white gays that are chock full of bigotry and only respect self-hating dominant black jocks as top. I guess I'm too lean and average in height (basically not a Jason Collins) or a Michael Sam. Or treat you like you are some sex slave that is supposed to be seen and not heard. I bet it is not much different where I have moved back to earlier this year, but with more Mexicans, less whites, 0 gay black men. It is only when these people learn I come from a rich family or that I'm a distant relative of Kerry Washington's husband, they either express bitter disappointment or try to save face. Screw them all honestly, This wouldn't happen in ATL, which I hope to move to in a few years and work for Porsche North America. Texas gay life sucks ass and maybe so does New Mexico South of ABQ. My advice to my gay brothers are, don't come to anywhere in TX unless you are a loaded and have a vast social net already there to rely on. I'm all about family, building my career now, and money until then. Very excellent points BTW and I understand how you see things, especially in never being in my shoes and never being exposed to such a dreadful environment. I would blame my family for isolating us in a bubble of hyper religious upper middle /upper black professionals that despise LGBT in the middle of the desert. Sorry for the length.

nwaeze1 ATL, LA, NYC, DC, ChiTown all of pretty good thriving Black Gay scenes. I think surrounding yourself with your own will make the issue of race less apparent when it comes to dating at least...of course there will still be issues like masc vs fem, body discrimination and skin tone preferential and social climbers, but most of those issues you'd face in any gay scene regardless of race...although skin tone is usually an issue only Blacks have to deal with. Being raised in a country that promotes Whiteness can have adverse side effects on what even Black People deem to be beautiful. But at the very least when you are around your own you won't have to worry about whether or not someone will like me due to your race, so that is a extra burden off your back.

Taking a different road to avoid an accident doesn't mean that the accident never happened....

Exactly, But you see it from all sides, Black men only wanting black men, white guys only wanting white boys. Then you have some Blacks only wanting whites, and whites only wanting Blacks. I'll fuck a white dude but in a relationship I'll rather be with a black man

That would be equally racist as well....

Blk men, gay or straight will have more options when they travel abroad. Less racial hang ups than America.

Brittany Mayer Many of us don't go for white men, it's mostly the white-washed ones who do.

I get what you're saying BUT I'm a black gay Male myself and the other black men I've encountered are often times dl/in the closet, not ambitious, dont have anything going for them, or are prostituting themselves. Not saying all but a good majority of black gays have issues that probably stem from our community being drastically homophobic and the expectation for men to be hypermasculine. So with all of these issues as a out black gay man it's hard finding gay black love where I'm at. That's why I'm open to other races but as the video mentioned the grass isnt greener on the other side. Dating is so fucking hard :(

YES!!:)

Because for many they are desired, and these white dudes know this

@@toyosciodesired by whom tho! I’m not into pale skin and body spots, flat asses and lil dicks 🤷🏾‍♂️ I just PREFER MY MEN WITH COLOR

Wait so you went to school not to be black anymore?

Yes but not everyone thinks like this

Yes, it's true. Only not attracted to unhealthy and extremely unkempt people. It's never about race, but maybe culture and compatibility.

Badar Akmal well said. Perfectly precise. Yes we don't have to suffer because others are bigots or racists. We have our own lives to enjoy. Ohers negativity or negative feedback is bad but immaterial. Living happily or not happily is also over rated. Life is not connected to these situations. But we make our lives tougher by focusing on people who don't understand us. Just leave them and enjoy life simple truth. As a so called introverted person I was side lined by the so called extroverts who feel they are better. That's so uncool. And people call extroverts as cool. Yes I agree with you 👍.

Not everyone is attracted to every race

Because we are in a predominate white Caucasian society where they control the media, fashion industry, Hollywood, the internet and all institutions of marketing and even down to porno..... mind influence upholding the beuty of the young white caucasion man and women emphasizing that whites do it better. After so many thousands of hours of this indoctrination into your subconscious it has to take affect on some people and what they choose.

@Anonymous Persons you are so right so you don't know what to do!

@Anonymous Persons But that doesn't answer the question of why are you going after white guys knowing most of them are racist? Go for another person of color at least.

@@robinkindred6456 It can but smart people recognize it and fight it. I did. ALL ON MY OWN. If i can do it anyone can. The question is why dont they?

No, it's global problem

no, its definetely a global problem but the worstttt in the states but racism is the worst in the states so i understand

robert rawley Its more pervasive in the USA & Australia & encouraged & condoned under the umbrella of 'community' As a man of color I prefer homophobic situations to the racist ones of the gay community

its worse in Britain

its a leftist/social justice problem. Most people in the world, actually just accept that they're not someone else's type and if they get rejected, they move on to find someone else. Only those who are unable to get over it, have some remarkably delusional attitude, that they are somehow entitled to every other cock out there that they like, will complain and play the race card. Being rejected isn't a crime. And at the same time, you are NOT entitled to every other dick out there, regardless of race. Get over yourself, and you are simply NOT going to be lusted after by everyone else on the planet. People like what THEY like, and because you don't match that, tough. And if you can't get over that, then the person with the real mental identity issues is not the person doing the rejecting, its the one who can't get over rejection.