Is Your Healing Motivated By Self-Love or Self-Hate?

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If your healing efforts are subconsciously motivated by self-hate, it will end up perpetuating your pain and not providing you with the deep healing impact you desire.
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@chloejams 2 месяца назад

I've missed you Noah! ❤ you've helped me so much over the years. Your videos are the only ones that I go back to over and over and they always speak to me deeply and give me so much relief. You are an incredible person ❤️

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

:) That feels nice to hear Chloejams. I'm really happy my videos have supported you.

@333_Tarot 2 месяца назад

To have patience with oneself is to have self-love. 🌹

@chrismcintyre5668 2 месяца назад

Kisses and hugs to you, Brother Noah! We need your wisdom more than you know!❤

@lilianac.5155 8 дней назад

Thank you. From the Botton of my heart❤

@sciencewithsoul 2 месяца назад

NOAH!!!!!! I don't even care what you're saying...I'm just happy to see you saying something. Your re-apperance is so loud I can't hear a word your saying 😂

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

haha

@surakshaguragain5538 2 месяца назад

Hahhaa I felt the same. Gonna watch when I have time but so happy to see a new video

@chrisr838 Месяц назад

Good to see you on here again Noah !

@MegaJamesno1 2 месяца назад

Good to have you back noah. I get so overwhelmed with a lot of other therapists on here they give so many mixed opinions on advice It's confusing. But you are unbelievable 💚 i listened to your videos for years every night they helped me trough alot of very very hard times. I honestly think you are one of the best therapists on the planet🌍 You are the best 🙌

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

I get it James. You really have to trust yourself over what anyone else says. But, it's tricky. I'm glad my videos helped you!

@MegaJamesno1 2 месяца назад

Exactly noah. Thanks 🙂🇮🇪 from ireland

@Bats-7 2 месяца назад

Yes your back!! This is just what I needed , I’ve been struggling a lot with my anxiety & self worth lately so this video will help , thanks Noah 👍

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

You're welcome!

@chrischatfield8550 2 месяца назад

Thank You x

@eamonnleigh2856 2 месяца назад

Good to see you again, Noah

@MikhailStavin-on9iy 2 месяца назад

Thank you Noah

@johnnybhood7559 2 месяца назад

So glad to watch a new video. You always help in some way. Take care Noah

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

I'm glad it helped Johnny

@AlekThunder47 2 месяца назад

Hey, Noah. Good to hear from you. I still fondly remember a few sessions with you. I hope you're well.

@94smithee1 2 месяца назад

Amazing video, thank you Noah ❤️

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

You're very welcome

@Eric-rs1zu 2 месяца назад

Hey Noah, glad to see you're back!

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

Happy to share again :)

@surakshaguragain5538 2 месяца назад

Hiiii so happy to see this video 🤗🤗🤗

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

Yay :)

@maganrivera2447 2 месяца назад

Awwww, love your message and the timing is perfect!! ❤❤❤

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

Wonderful :)

@nhansme 2 месяца назад

Very happy to see you…!!!

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

@sodbaz4882 2 месяца назад

You have such a beautiful presence.

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

Thank you :)

@bethanyfrances 2 месяца назад

Welcome back Noah! Thank you for sharing such a comforting video. You seem relaxed and happy these days. I hope all is well 😊

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

Thanks Bethany! And you're welcome!

@gloriacarina1 2 месяца назад

I missed you!!. I ive been healing for yrs now. I still binge watch your videos, theyve helped me so much!!!

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

:) I'm so happy that my videos have helped you Gloria!

@muditdwivedi8798 2 месяца назад

My anxitety goes awayjust by listening your voice ❤❤❤❤❤ 10:23

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

That's nice :)

@scottybthebrand 2 месяца назад

Thanks for showing up again, here just when (literally today) I needed to hear this and process, and persist.

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

You're welcome Scotty

@scottybthebrand 2 месяца назад

@NoahElkrief 🥹🙏 I figured out Presence, and dissolving ego to be aware of awareness. Eckhart Tolle.

@cuckoo242 2 месяца назад

Noah...I missed u❤

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

@julies570 8 дней назад

I need to find and experience this kind of acceptance and love at the emotional level...please help me!!

@movewithpeace0666 2 месяца назад

Enlightenment. Attempting to get rid of a part of yourself is painful. Accept it and yourself. Dive into it. Learn more about yourself. You have all the tools inside. So then you can leave your temple and answer other people prayers.

@julies570 8 дней назад

Thanks for this video. Oh wow l can see and feel im full of the self hate and rejection motivation rather than love.. I had the rejection of my emotions constantly as a child and its so ingrained and i have an anxiety disorderwhich feels like so scary that i am trying to avoid the feeling of anxiety and all my feelings really seem unsafe. My brain thinks feelings must be avoided because i have so much anxiety, so i go into my head to try to eradicate anxiety intellectually...of course it doesnt work so im on medication...which cant help the situation in reality. Its a conundrum as my view of myself and in my mind others respect snd even God's love for me seems in my mind to be contingent on my not being anxious....but i am so its a cycle of self suppression and more anxiety and panic as the real feelings are still there despite my efforts to hide and control them. Where to begin?

@jlvandat69 2 месяца назад

Excellent guidance, and much appreciated. From my limited understanding, serious pain that was instilled early in life is rarely resolved. It appears to be inaccessible using known methods, so nearly everyone burdened in this way find "secondary solutions" to help them minimize the negative effects that deeply buried pain causes. I often wonder what would happen if we found a way to fully reverse such wounds in a relatively brief period of time? I imagine that doing so would completely alter a person's behavior in a healthy, sustainable way. Maybe someday.......

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

My experience is that healing is similar to peeling the layers of an onion. With each layer that we heal, our nervous system gets more calm, and we gain access to another deeper layer (earlier memory). It's not a quick solution, but it is definitely possible to heal our early life traumas.

@jlvandat69 2 месяца назад

@@NoahElkrief It's very good to hear that you have seen 'full recovery'.....I wasn't sure that was possible!

@darkmana1000 2 месяца назад

Thanks for answering my question Noah, I really appreciate your response :) i have one more question if you don't mind. Have you ever had the experience of crying but not feeling anything? I remember when my cat died a few years ago, i was bawling but I didn't actually feel any emotion or sadness while crying, it felt really strange. I've had other occasions where I've been bawling but didn't feel sadness or anything at all actually, do you have any advice on how I can feel my emotions in these situations, i don't like feeling numb

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

I think it's about meeting your fears of feeling emotions. For example, you could imagine yourself as a child feeling a particular emotion, and remember or intuitively sense how your parents viewed you or treated you while you experienced that particular emotion. Then, give your inner child love while they experience this particular emotion and explain to them that his parents couldn't love him while he had that emotion because they couldn't love themselves while having that emotion.

@94smithee1 2 месяца назад

What about if you are constantly being reinforced by people around you that certain qualities are lovable, and others are not. When people give you special treatment and attention when you show certain qualities

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

For me, it could be about explaining to my inner child that people can only like/love the qualities about you that they can like/love within themselves. So, when someone likes or dislikes something about you, it says more about them than you. For my adult self, I would make sure that I only let people close to me who are able to like/love all my parts. It doesn't feel good to be around people who don't accept some of my parts.

@darkmana1000 2 месяца назад

Hey Noah, how can I connect with confident people in society? I find it hard to connect with many people because most people seem so confident, it makes me feel like an alien almost lol. I can imagine myself connecting with people who are more vulnerable and not as confident but obviously no one wants to say they're not feeling confident lol.

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

I think what you perceive as confident people are just emotionally suppressed people. When emotions are suppressed very deep, a person is less sensitive, and can appear more solid/confident. But, that is definitely not confidence. My perspective is that you can't have genuine connection with a person who is not genuinely connected to themselves and their emotions. So, perhaps, it might be worth considering seeking friends who are sensitive like you.

@darkmana1000 2 месяца назад

@@NoahElkrief Thanks Noah :)

@trudibarraclough478 2 месяца назад

People see me as confident and some feel intimidated by me. However, I am in a perpetual state of feeling unsure. I think most real people are like this - no one has lived this moment before and no one has many answers that make sense for anyone but themselves. I go back again and again to Noah's "you are allowed to be happy" and "are you attached to suffering".

@Eric-rs1zu 2 месяца назад

I usually feel bad and want to hide my anxiety when it's a result of drinking too much or if it's related to health anxiety. I feel ashamed in the first scenario due to feeling like I lack self control and the second scenario since I'm afraid I'm going to die or need medical treatment and had bad experiences as a child and feel like a scared child again that my parents can't seem to calm down instead of relate to and accept.

@NoahElkrief 2 месяца назад

I hear you Eric

@333_Tarot 2 месяца назад

Eric are u open to suggestion?

@Eric-rs1zu 2 месяца назад

@@333_Tarot maybe

@333_Tarot 2 месяца назад

@@Eric-rs1zu maybe try diving into 1) subliminal audios of your desired outcome/theme/effect, grab em and loop em all day, they will work on u from inside, do big research, there are dozens of subliminal channels 2) rife frequencies. For example Leviathan has powerful subliminals for detachment, and also anxiety. Good luck 🏵️🍀✌️

@sidescroller52 2 месяца назад

Is self-hatred itself any different of an emotion? Should it also be embraced?

@NoahElkrief Месяц назад

It depends on whether it is current or old. If we currently believe the hatred then it is something to disbelieve. If we don't believe it anymore and it is just a remnant feeling creating by an old belief, then we embrace it and let it move through us. If we embrace the self-hatred as an emotion, and let it be expressed, but it persists... then we know it's creating by something we still believe.

@sidescroller52 Месяц назад

@@NoahElkrief Interesting. Thank you!