Isibongo is the spiritual foundation of Umsamo and the person. This episode of Umsamo Encounters Dr. Mkhize will take you through each of the 7 types of children, what surname they should have and how to correct it.
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Heavy stuff... Nonetheless, we are thankful and really appreciate. The reality of our being, especially us the Black South Africans who grew up in townships, it's a dilemma. Township life is a by product of Apartheid. And one of the main object of Apartheid was to destroy the black family structure, hence we find ourselves in this mess of absent-fathers and unmarried mothers. A situation that was systematically created, and NOT because our parents had intensionally chosen to be in this mess. That as it may be, we need to find a way to appease our ancestors(especially those that recognize their culture, customs and traditions)... In order to rectify this dysfunction brought by systematic and oppressive life created by the evil Apartheid government. I strongly believe our ancestors continue to love, no matter what circumstances. Lesedi, Kganya, Bophelo, Mahlohonolo le Bokamoso
Baba Mkhize please ask your team to have subtitles to your videos - it helps you reach more people who do not fully understand isiZulu. I followed as much as I can
I fall in the 1st category and what is so painful is that my mom got married to another person after having me and I am not even accepted by her family. I'm now a someone with nowhere to belong and my grandmother who loved me is no more. I cry every time because even her it is like to me she blames me for not getting married to my father. I am so alone and when she dies I believe I won't have anywhere to belong. I wish someone could help me I am so confused and even undergone intwaso yamaXhosa still I feel lost in it😭😭😭
Really factual an practical..yes subtitles would be lovely also as English is a mainstream language and we don't want to be detoured from our rites of customs by our lack of efficiency in mother tongue..thanks alot wonderfull information
Akuve ngiwathokozela ama video akho Baba khabazela. Ngike ngifise nokuthi ngifike kuwena, ngingezi ukuzohlola kodwo sizoxoxa nje ngeynyada zesintu, sibonge
Siyabonga babuMkize this topic just touched what I was asking myself...and can I ask will what u were explaining course the child to be naughty at home or troublesome as he or she grows
Thank you for sharing such vital information. However, i am struggling to understand certain words, baba. It becomes difficult especially when one isn't umZulu
Ngiyabonga bab uMkhize ngokuchaza mina ngalotsholwa angishadanga manje bafuna izingane zibize isibongo sabo baphathani bona uma sekwenziwa ngoba layikhaya zikhishwangembuzi
What happens when a child is born during a temporary separation between parents? The mother leaves her home while pregnant and has a child at her original home? The separation is for more than a year. Does the child take the mother's maiden name or the father's surname?
Hallo babu mkhize mina la ngihamba khona kuthiwa kumele ngitshelwe is ongoing sam sangempela kodwa Uma uphika aze akhale athi ngingu Mhlanga seize asizwani no ma
Baba uMkhize cela ukubuza la uma ubaba ehlawulile wangaqeda. Bese ubiza isibongo sakhe uma wena usuthola ingane uyibiza siphi isibongo? Lesi esababa wakho onikwe sona noma esikamama wakho?
Thokoza Mkhulu. Uma uma no baba bashada benza konke okufanele including ingubo/imbeleko but later divorved while you were still young and you end up ukhula kulo mama ushintsha ne sibongo nesithokozelo. Manje kukhona umbango phakathi kwale zibongo.
Baba Mkhize kuthetha ukuthini ukugcagca?I want to clearly understand what you are saying....2ndly if you were married with kids then you divorce ,do you keep the husband's surname for the benefit of your kids or I can change it when Im divorced?If that is the case,what needs to be done before I change the surname?
Wayichaza futhi Baba Khabazela lenkinga.Kade uyichaza baba inkinga nje ikithi asizwa ngoba skhonze ukuyohlola bese siyadukuswa.Onke amathongo kaZulu asigcinele wena baba ukuze sihlezi sphuza la emthonjeni wolwazi.
There's something I don't get, sometimes kids are abandon by their mothers and you are forced to take the child so can not suffer, on that case wenza njani, akufanele uyiphahlele njengo baba since umama wayo eyilahlile,. Amandla okuyoyihlawula nokuyilobola ungekabinawo wenza njani? Uyayichitha uthi angikuhlawulile ngeke uzohlala lana,