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@brenale_heartsJesus 4 года назад

When the youngest said that she was afraid to have children because she thought she would do the same to her babies 😭😭😭 Jesus

@cinemeleon2808 4 года назад

GIRL! Broke me down.

@arleedennis791 3 года назад

@@TheNinnyfee wow I have never thought of that.

@yvonneward740 3 года назад

Kick her out on the streets. Let her go and find the men she allowed to abuse you take care of her. Let her go to a shelter or live on the street. It is not your responsibility. She needs to find her way like her daughters did ALONE.

@TheLoveweaver 3 года назад

I never had children because of that. I would never want a child to feel like that.

@purplephoenix81 3 года назад

For years I prayed not to have any children. When I got pregnant, I cried uncontrollably because I was terrified to be my mother. Today, I'm raising a smart, beautiful little girl, and while I'm not perfect, I'm sure I'm nothing like my mother.

@michellem2524 4 года назад

That daughters cry was like a gut punch 😔😨

@creamekay 4 года назад

It was

@nikradik 4 года назад

Yeeeesss omg

@vw1649 4 года назад

Yes, it was....It brought tears to my eyes.

@toniiblack7014 4 года назад

It broke me out in tears... I had tears I didnt think were possible to have. I've been abused by my mom..but I didnt realise it was abuse untill I was 21...I'm 24. Iyanla is the first person to break me down...despite being on TV. We all need somone like Iyanla to hold us. If nothing else. We just want to be held

@estieeu2364 4 года назад

@@toniiblack7014 It's good to let out the tears and frustration. Hope you are on your way to a full recovery❤

@ashleimichael562 4 года назад

" I don't want my mother in my house or around my children" ... Lord please send a covering over her. I felt that in my spirit.

@daniellemccarter5706 4 года назад

I said the same thing and feel the same way it’s a horrible thing.

@91GKN 4 года назад

I don't have children yet, but I feel the same way!

@rijoyce8996 4 года назад

I don’t have children of my own yet, and I feel this way with my father. I’m protecting my PEACE. 💯

@Luckie382 4 года назад

Do u mean a covering over the mom or daughter? Hope covering for mom & daughters.

@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 4 года назад

Same! All that love couldn’t take away her spanking me!

@lsantiful1 4 года назад

I'm sorry her mother was abused but her being abused is no justification to allow it to happen to her own daughters. I was molested by my brother and abused by my mother but NO ONE HAS EVER ABUSED my 27 yr old son...Because being his mother and a victim, no survivor, of abuse, I refused to let anyone near him long enough to even think of forming a thought about doing something inappropriate to him. I vowed to love my son beyond measure and to this day I do and he is doing Wonderful. Our relationship is sooo Awesome. It is a choice how you treat people and because of the abuse I endured, I vowed to never let my son feel unloved Period!!!!

@tamlaparris-ba5402 4 года назад

Isantiful, I am so proud of what you achieved despite what you suffered as a child. You are an extraordinary woman.

@msthrillingcommentary1343 4 года назад

lsantiful1 Reading your comment sent chills down my spine. Your story resonates with me, to my soul. My kids are very young & I’m afraid I will parent them from fear and unresolved anger. You have inspired me today.

@notjordinary 4 года назад

Your strength has propelled you in this direction through grace and mercy. You are covered and your son was able to have a positive life

@BayouKitchenGuy 4 года назад

Because you are not selfish.. As a parent the only job u have is to protect your children and provide. If you can't do that u have failed. I know plenty of women that was abused as a child. And they didn't allow a man to come in and hurt their child.

@bahachick242 4 года назад

Yesssss Amen!!! So happy that you and your son have an amazing relationship. Breaking curses.

@jasminepruitt9644 4 года назад

When Kim cried in Iyanla’s arms I felt that cry.. it’s gut wrenching 😭😭😭

@shantawashington6420 4 года назад

Tore me all the way up! 😭😭

@lindseyhobson4273 4 года назад

Yes. I felt it also. 😭

@JohnsonKayla12 4 года назад

Yeah my eyes welled up even though I hate crying... couldn’t help it

@ruthiemartinez5552 4 года назад

Girllllllll yesssss. I cried every time the Daughters cried. I felt ALL their pain. (My mom was the same when it came to men).😭😭😭😭😭😭

@sharonwilchcombe9801 4 года назад

Thank you Jesus, that's one

@Authenticcomedy2512 4 года назад

I heal from watching Iyanla, she’s a blessing to us😘

@mzTayTay17 4 года назад

NkatikanoTv I healed from another show she had I think it was in 2005-2006. It was called Starting Over, it was her n two or three other therapist💯💯💯🥂

@Authenticcomedy2512 4 года назад

FORGIVENESS ISFREEDOM that’s good to hear love💕

@OWN 4 года назад

She really is amazing! If you found this inspiring, you can find more of Fix My Life here: bit.ly/rtu85rd OWN ~ Caitlin

@DomDom0990 4 года назад

NkatikanoTv She truly is. ❤️

@plpblack 4 года назад

NkatikanoTv #metoo 🙏🏾

@daisyspa34 4 года назад

This woman is an instrument of God to heal people.

@inacook2285 4 года назад

Absolutely

@ramonachaney4855 4 года назад

Indeed she is. May God is keep her in perfect harmony with her gift.

@rubyredruby1305 4 года назад

I have heard that she was not sent from God .....not sure yet in my eyes seems she is tho !

@ramonachaney4855 4 года назад

@@rubyredruby1305 as a believer , we should all be vessels to carry out his word. She has what God gave her, gifts. I have a gift of speaking to women. I was so scared to walk in it but couldn't deny it because of the women that sought me out by word of mouth. I can't say she's called or not..she knows though. You can not escape it. We have to embrace it. I honestly do understand what you said.

@BrandonlLuster 4 года назад

@@rubyredruby1305 you've heard that from who?

@AuthorLHollingsworth 4 года назад

Generational Curses are real, y'all. As a race, we got to get therapy. Pray none stop of the many pains that hunt us. Lord, bless this family. Amen!

@Tlove201 4 года назад

Yes it is. We have to pray and get them broken off us! And therapy is where the healing starts.

@fashamoore9322 4 года назад

@Queen Mercy, in all respect, call it what you want - rather it is generational curses, intergenerational abuse, selfishness, pride, et cetera... Whatever the case may be, it is time for "all" people to heal, forgive, accept responsibility, incorporate therapy, & keep God as the Head of our lives. The healing starts now! It is up to each one of us! Much love & peace! ✌💛✌

@inacook2285 4 года назад

@Queen Mercy I'm sorry but this IS true...It's not as though there were counselors and therapists lined up to help these people to mentally and emotionally transition away from slavery. Can you imagine being born into an environment that completely reinforces the idea that you and everyone that looks like you are less than human and deserve nothing but to be used like an animal? How does one's mind psychologically process the idea that you are inherently less than another? How does one psychologically reconcile this to themselves? For their entire lifetime and for generations after? Can you imagine ANY group of people going through that sick nightmare and emerging unscathed?

@rachelle6555 4 года назад

Yes 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@rachelle6555 4 года назад

My thoughts exactly 😔

@missmontana2184 4 года назад

We must protect Queen Mother Iyanla at all costs

@CamsPurpleCorner 4 года назад

YESSSSSS!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

@redevous 4 года назад

Millie C yes

@queenbutterfly4888 4 года назад

nonsense

@cameeldavis487 4 года назад

Yes we must she is here to help us heal.

@PalinLW 4 года назад

I always ask who will her mantle be passed to ...

@mslashay35 4 года назад

So many adults have UNCHECKED TRAUMA and PISS PO childhoods. Hurt people, hurt people. A lot of people need therapy.

@dj5180 4 года назад

mslashay35 hurt people either hurt people or allow others to hurt them

@sketchpadangel 4 года назад

mslashay35 it’s not an excuse to be a bad parent. You can deal with trauma and issue without having kids.

@nikradik 4 года назад

I agree..alot of adults are torn and never dealt with it

@theuglybeing4673 3 года назад

No! That doesn't excuse their bad behavior! They all know what they did is wrong!

@theuglybeing4673 3 года назад

Desiree Desiree no. I've been hurt but I never allowed it and defend myself.

@evawambani7992 4 года назад

Iyanla breaks you down to pieces then shows you how to put yourself back together.

@RaulGonzalez-xt1kx 4 года назад

You are beatiful lady l love youre last wambani

@omarlynda 4 года назад

This, unfortunately, was my reality... being raised by a mother who was emotionally unavailable. There is so much healing in forgiveness and compassion... Those that know, do better... My heart goes out to all those who have experienced this form of intergenerational abuse, we owe it to ourselves and our future offspring to do the work and break the cycle

@mzTayTay17 4 года назад

lyndeeeeee I agree💯💯🥂

@nixxb449 4 года назад

@lyndeeeeee sending you lots of love, health and strength Sis xxx

@omarlynda 4 года назад

@@nixxb449 Thank you wonderful and right back at you too :) xx

@zimflame2368 4 года назад

Broken mom's never know how to take care of kids

@johnnyleopard2668 4 года назад

Was mine too. #wereinthistogether

@marymcdaniel8999 4 года назад

I don't respect any woman who allows abusers, especially male abusers, to violate their children.

@cressapellom4205 3 года назад

Why especially male abusers? what a strange thing to say.

@Jo-annSamurai3069 3 года назад

I agree but this woman was being abused also. I'm not giving her a free pass. She didn't have the tools to protect them. Some male predators seek out single mothers because they are vulnerable and alone.

@sleo7781 3 года назад

Mary McDaniel baby hurt people hurt people!!

@marymcdaniel8999 3 года назад

@@cressapellom4205 Because some of those men target single mothers...it happens more than some people want to admit.

@marymcdaniel8999 3 года назад

@@sleo7781 Ummm nawww please stop.

@aronelrealtygroup2997 4 года назад

The saddest part is to hear a mother say I don't remember .

@austinrichards1740 4 года назад

My mother says that all the time

@JC-gq2lo 3 года назад

@@austinrichards1740 they remember they just ashamed about it

@austinrichards1740 3 года назад

J C thank you for your support you should text me

@JC-gq2lo 3 года назад

@@austinrichards1740 I came to peace with it years ago💜

@dollishnenaa 2 месяца назад

She claimed she didn’t “remember” but can remember her trauma at 8 years old. Interesting.

@Couture426 4 года назад

This was one of the most intense episodes 😢

@sheeshneesh 4 года назад

Honestly, not even closeeee to some of the other episodes I’ve seen

@Mrs.Adrian Месяц назад

@@sheeshneeshyeah like the woman whose husband moved the entire family in and their newborn baby died. That was a hard episode to get through

@blackcosmos 3 года назад

"When a woman puts her belly on mother Earth she's been nurtured by the greatest mother of all" Sista Iyanla is the truth! 😭😭

@ceebee8255 4 года назад

12:31 when Iyanla gave her permission to cry .... my heart is so broken. I can hear her pain.

@ObviouslyTatiana 4 года назад

Cee Bee how do you give permission to cry 😢 sometimes Iyanlas methods irritate me

@penelopeb1370 4 года назад

Cee Bee, my earliest memories of being hurt by family (because family are the first teachers) and me trying to communicate it to my mother got the response of "You cry too easily and too much. You need to stop crying so much.". Not having permission to express hurt and pain can be torturous. (And when the other daughter began to cry at about 18:30 was hard to hear for me too.)

@arleedennis791 3 года назад

@@ObviouslyTatiana its about letting someone know this is a safe place for them to feel comfortable to be emotional. Dont be so literal.

@moonchild2478 4 года назад

Breaking a generational curse🙌🏾

@TW-mg3ld 4 года назад

Black women won't stop sleeping with losers that abuse their children

@fashamoore9322 4 года назад

@@TW-mg3ld, I believe you meant all women, not just black women! I understand your point...

@gigigonzalez8569 4 года назад

It's not generational curse, choices one can break the cycle you live you learn from it

@moonchild2478 4 года назад

Gigi Gonzalez if that’s your definition of breaking cycles than let that be yours. I said what I said 🤷🏽‍♀️

@letsdothis3332 4 года назад

Yes beloved.

@raissa4260 4 года назад

I thank God for my mother. She is a single mother and never ever did my sister and i feel abandoned or side lined. Shes a wonderful mother. Praise God. Thank God for my grand parents who were our backbones back then.

@faithwalkz 4 года назад

The mother's numbness with the honey bun situation bothers me.

@ThePecanTan 2 месяца назад

No emotion at all...

@cedricworthy6727 2 месяца назад

@@ThePecanTan makes me cry

@ivyvoltage 4 года назад

Sure, I guess I'll cry today

@jessicaaudate 4 года назад

Okay! All this stuff I've been holding in because of this shutdown is coming out!

@TheShaws22 4 года назад

Right, I just cried like a baby😭

@riakohee 4 года назад

honestly i always cry at these😭😭

@rainerwells1573 4 года назад

📠

@summerflower4058 4 года назад

I think I died emotionally at least 3 times while watching this 🥺 I hope they found healing at the end 🙏🏽❤️

@arnetrahughes2277 4 года назад

She knows who that child's daddy is!

@aura5944 4 года назад

Probably lives near by.

@1Mystn 3 года назад

oh, were you there?

@amchetoungahane6320 3 года назад

@@1Mystn i wonder

@nbbim2012 28 дней назад

Probably an older married man -- that's usually the case in scenarios like this. When the men are single at the time of conception the mothers disclose

@mercedeguillory1770 4 года назад

There is a thin line between excuses and reasons. Listening to the mother it’s hard to decipher.

@kawesome1970 4 года назад

Mercede Guillory yes!

@mayakelly3457 4 года назад

A mother is just a woman. A woman. A human. We all are full of our crap. It doesn’t excuse what she did - it simply explains it. We attach too much to “mother” - she can only be who she knows herself to be & if she doesn’t who she is - she can be told who she is by those men etc.

@tamlaparris-ba5402 4 года назад

@@mayakelly3457 what you said is on point. What a beautiful mind

@mayakelly3457 4 года назад

Tamla Parris-Ba so kind. thank you 💕💕

@sketchpadangel 4 года назад

MAYA KELLY we don’t attach enough to Mother. Fix your crap before having kids. The kids don’t ask to be here. Children don’t just “happen”.

@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623 4 года назад

This made me cry. I felt for everyone individually and collectively. 😪

@rachelsweets 4 года назад

😍

@kiaramarshall08 4 года назад

Girl I'm crying too. Ain't talked to my mama since 2017 or seen her. Wish she would listen to me like this. That mess really hurts so many of us women

@amypein215 4 года назад

Same here 😭😭😭

@audfosutv2500 4 года назад

Those girls, my heart breaks for them. I wish them nothing but blessings moving forward.

@rebirthed1274 4 года назад

My mom chased me out of the house at 19,at 12 midnight,threw my clothes out in the road and mind you we lived in a notorious neighbourhood...REASON: I came from Varsity hungry at 22h30,after cabing home(although we had 3 cars in the house but she told my stepfather not to drop or pick me up),so,I was hungry and I wanted to eat. After taking food,she yelled at me coz nobody should eat till my stepfather comes home(who is always coming as late as 12midnight or 1 am)....my price was being thrown food at,kicked out ...32 years later, am still healing from the emotional neglect,abuse and trauma,yet she behaves like nothing happened....am a trauma breaker,I never want to be like her to my future kids,hence,am willing to heal in Jesus name.

@theiswithin3649 3 года назад

Wauw I'm sorry that this happened to you😔

@erinjohnson4273 Месяц назад

My heart breaks for you! I pray for your healing

@alisayoung Месяц назад

So sorry for you my dear

@khanyisantanda 4 года назад

This is too real and too painful for me, if anyone needs me I will be under my blanket in the corner watching sponge Bob😭😭😭

@rc6449 4 года назад

Take care of yourself. You’re not alone. This is a tough one.

@kikirolle7091 4 года назад

Yes we all are going through this, your not alone. Please stay strong.

@nihoward6219 4 года назад

The situation is sad but your response is funny.

@memyselfi1828 4 года назад

@@nihoward6219 Right! I actually giggled through my tears.

@suberinacooperjohnson6544 4 года назад

I.knowthats right

@user-jd29ac6sdw 4 года назад

This is so heartbroken and it brings tears to my eyes = To grow up without the love and support from your Mother = I give those two daughters credit for reaching out to get help and to heal years of pain = I pray that all of them finds peace for a new beginning = When you forgive it's one of the most peaceful feelings

@rayyj410 4 года назад

This is therapeutic to me. I can't afford a therapist right now so I watch the show and I try to learn how to break my own generational curses. Even though I have a mother who would never admit to any wrongdoing at this point I have to heal myself..

@goodlife8044 3 года назад

Me too

@Katlady001 3 года назад

You all are already heroes for even recognizing this and wanting to heal yourselves. 😘😘😘

@Smittyworld165 2 месяца назад

Same lol

@MaxCharpentier 4 года назад

6:30 NO! You don't lie on your children and let someone else abuse your children 😡

@chillinandchattingwithmsne8826 2 месяца назад

I’m pissed too ugh

@MsJae-qk2tw 4 года назад

I wish Mrs. Iyanla would Mentor and counsel me. I need her 💔

@xoxomaniiraelle 3 года назад

Toya J Bae same sis same

@MommihasSol Месяц назад

She has a podcast called the R Spot!! It’s great!

@ebonywahine 4 года назад

The "sins of the parents down to 7 generations"... and yet deep healing is possible with the right time space intention and teacher.

@Tiffany-hj8cf 4 года назад

She let a man beat her baby over a honey bun.. I rather be single then sacrifice my children for a man. I could never even leave my children around a man to many what if’s..

@alkalinelifestyle638 4 года назад

The daughters are SOOO beautiful especially stripe tee with her big brown 🌟 stary eyes 👀

@TW-mg3ld 4 года назад

Yes they are

@lesliehubbard6341 3 года назад

Both of them are Beautiful very,Beautiful

@Simplee_Shan 4 года назад

I know for me she would not be living with me.

@dj5180 4 года назад

Shannon Laws sis would’ve been on the streets begging for bread 😭

@heartcandy1588 4 года назад

four babie same

@vanessavargas3687 4 года назад

When you have children, THEY ALWAYS COME FIRST🙏🏻💜.....which is exactly why I don’t have children😆 But I am woman enough to say that children are not for me, but if I did have children, I know they would have to come first!!

@sosaimblessed7230 4 года назад

Vanessa Vargas Yes they always come first.

@jeanineruggs7301 4 года назад

use wisdom don't judge

@vanessavargas3687 4 года назад

Jeanine Ruggs I am going to judge her a bit... extremely broken people should not have children, until they have healed within themselves 🤷🏼‍♀️. There are too many parents trying fulfill selfish desires after they have children, and that boat has somewhat sailed 🚣‍♀️

@jeanineruggs7301 4 года назад

ok almighty.....watch again, than your heart will see....

@vanessavargas3687 4 года назад

Jeanine Ruggs nothing I’ve said is offensive..and I’ve seen this episode multiple times...I said what I said😏

@MariePriss 4 года назад

Oh my god ! 😳 when they laid their bellies on the ground ! I’ve done that so many times and it made me feel so much better. I’ve ran out the house and literally laid on the ground crying 🥺 who would’ve known .. Iyanla is amazing !!

@lollipop1316 4 года назад

I wanted to try that , maybe I’ll feel so much better

@MariePriss 4 года назад

Pretty Cherry Do it, it helps. I remember getting some really bad news, and just breaking down. I was in shock just hysterical. Ran out, no shoes, cried and just laid there on the ground.

@Woundedbuterflynj 4 года назад

This makes me cry so much because I went through sexual abuse at the hands of my mothers ex husband who also happens to be my little brothers father every time I look at my brother I see his father and it’s makes me not want to be around him and my mother dances around it but never outwardly addressed the elephant in the room , I’m still dealing with my own trauma in therapy !

@april_dawn 4 года назад

Riareality Tv Sorry to hear that...Praying for you 🙏🏽✨🌸

@theartistmind7028 4 года назад

🙏💔🙏🙏🙏🙏

@Woundedbuterflynj 4 года назад

April Dawn thank you so much

@april_dawn 4 года назад

Riareality Tv You’re very welcome ☺️

@lunaceline1886 4 года назад

Bless you ❤️ truly and sincerely. No child should ever.

@ABRASILERA17 4 года назад

The power and pattern of men’s use of us is appalling

@sherrisolomon8673 4 года назад

Daniela Galdino-Jolly, trust you have Single Dad's who let women move in a mistreat their kids too esp the daughters.

@annabanna1873 3 года назад

@@sherrisolomon8673 you are right. I've seen a guy let his girlfriend beat up his 13 yo daughter in a parking lot in front of the grocery store.

@shalandacampbell7314 4 года назад

Because of how my mother verbally and emotionally abused me as a child and into adulthood, I refuse to allow my boys around ANYONE without me, their dad, or my sister present. I trust very few people with my boys because as a mommy, it's my duty and honor to love and protect my boys.

@rosalynngray6919 4 года назад

I Thank God for the loving parents I have ❤️

@PranaChi369 4 года назад

Be very thankful💜

@aaliyahlunan876 4 года назад

Please do

@trinidadianbeauty1 4 года назад

U better

@Katlady001 3 года назад

Me too and I pray for others to gain the same.

@kawesome1970 4 года назад

I wonder what was going through the daughters mind when the mom confessed she has NO idea who her dad is. My heart really broke for her in that moment 😞

@mopowresp1 4 года назад

That's my life everyday.

@nreynolds75243 4 года назад

My cousin went thru this her whole life until she died at 47. She kept asking her biological mother who was her father. The mother would never tell her. She probably didn't know. I saw how it affected her.

@MrsMabusu 4 года назад

You need a box of tissues before you watch this episode! I have cried and felt their pain

@jaygarland267 4 года назад

The Black man MUST learn the importance of leading their families. After they learn this, they need to learn how to lead their families, and after they learn how, they MUST learn to impregnate the right kind of woman. Doing these things will insure that children are rightfully protected. In short, Black men need to do their job, take responsibility, and lead. Us men have collectively lost our connection to The Most High. A man can only lead when he is first a follower ... of God.

@KatrinaMartinezStoutmire 2 месяца назад

❤

@SedB101 2 месяца назад

Amen

@AmyLou733 4 года назад

Iyanla does what she does with so much love in her heart. She uses her whole self to make someone feel her love. You can hear it in her voice, and see it in the way she uses healing touch. She is a treasure.

@toyunpredictablegemini 4 года назад

Omg this was so heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying for the daughters & the mom....I truly hope they work through everything & be that happy family they all deserve to have

@aidahm8275 4 года назад

The daughters crying was so haunting full of raw pain

@gloryolomi7 4 года назад

Finally full episodes..... 😍😍😍. Thank you own

@mzTayTay17 4 года назад

This is one of my favorite episodes because I grew up with a mother n a auntie just like her🤔 plus it shows me how much I have healed💯💯💯🥂

@JudionSmith 4 года назад

With my desire to become a therapist, I am bless to have met Iyanla and Spirit through this medium. I feel more fulfil when I help people emotionally. I love to use my words to uplift people. Pull people out of a place of pain's captivity. I want people to heal and be free. Pain is detrimental to us all. Stay bless everyone🙏🏽💛.

@Angela-ne9cy 4 года назад

Bless Iyanla - my mother did the same. Divorced my dad when I was 9 years old and 3 husbands after that. She always bent to their will, including abusing us. I chose not to have children because I feared ever falling into that pattern. Just watching this episode feels healing.

@chubbytummymafia 4 года назад

I wouldn't move someone that abused me into my home with my children.

@Mariefth 2 месяца назад

Me too

@TimaYT362 4 года назад

Wow this was a hard one 😔

@Ronji_health_peeps 4 года назад

Yes it is. Watching it just now

@Psnatiraxoxo 4 года назад

Whew that cry in the heartbreak exercise, pierced my soul.

@Simplee_Shan 4 года назад

I’m sorry i just don’t feel sorry for the mother. Even after hearing her story. She seems to not take responsibility for her actions.

@hannaw193 3 года назад

I don’t either. She also has a lot of nerve moving in with her daughter and her family

@jacquettedaniels422 3 года назад

Same I see str8 through her.

@michellehubbard8865 4 года назад

I wonder what she secretly had against her girls.

@aura5944 4 года назад

No identity, no self-esteem, no self-love cue the multiple men, no lasting healthy relationships. Not just failing, abusive not just to the mother, to the children by their own mother.

@reyjenetapia2559 4 года назад

Same everyone needs to get right with god

@Katlady001 3 года назад

I bet the mother had an equally dysfunctional upbringing not to excuse her though.

@c.misztur7358 4 года назад

I LOVE how when a guest gets in touch with a deep pain and speaks it out loud , iyanla says with such compassion: yeah , yeah. She’s so affirming

@parrishwhitted1442 4 года назад

I don’t feel sorry for the mother

@Simplee_Shan 4 года назад

Parrish Whitted me neither

@daniellemccarter5706 4 года назад

Me neither

@TiffTALKS22 4 года назад

At ALL. I was waiting for something to hit when she was talking to Iyanla.... but it didnt....

@ashleycross6045 4 года назад

I don't think the mom needs sympathy, but she was born into generational curses and cycles. It's tough to break those curses. I appreciate this episode.

@lindaniral 4 года назад

This Episode tore me tf up!!!😭😭😭😭😞 I had to pause mutiple times....I had never seen the whole Episode...so watch that years later is a blessing!!!! I hope the Family is doing well!!🙏🏾 I wish them nothing but the Best!!💖💖💖

@pinklady4772 4 года назад

The silence is the killer.

@tishacurtis82 4 года назад

I feel the daughters pain it’s so hard when the pain is inflicted by your mother the first women you look up to as a little girl and after going through that pain you have to try to find forgiveness💔💔

@sinalogqunu9232 4 года назад

Kim and Annette's cries, my God they hurt! But I know that gut wrenching cries free your spirit, they'll heal. ❤️

@2436golden 4 года назад

Oh Iyanla, Iyanla, every time I watch your program I learn something about myself.

@victoriapatterson5170 4 года назад

It's sad for theses two ladies

@shereekern6801 3 года назад

The Iyanlas and the Lynn Tolers of the world are golden blessing us with what God blessed them with.

@tinishaoliver3374 4 года назад

She is the reason why I mentor young until this day. I truly admire this woman ❤️

@mariah8400 4 года назад

When the older daughter cried it break my heart. You could hear her pain.

@141Lav 4 года назад

😔 my story as a child too still not resolved as mother doesn’t want to take accountability over 50 years 😕

@LarennJay 4 года назад

Damn u have to speak to her.. let her know how u feel

@daniellecorley6425 4 года назад

Sometimes you have to accept an apology that is not given in order to heal...my heart goes out to you and I pray you find peace. Bless you.

@traciesommerville3819 4 года назад

Ditto.

@141Lav 4 года назад

danielle corley thank you 🙏🏽

@141Lav 4 года назад

Jessica Auguste I have tried and I’m still trying and Auntie Iyanla gives me the strength to persevere along with kind people like yourself who understand - bless you 🙏🏽😘

@lilaworley8935 4 года назад

For anyone coming from a dysfunctional family of origin..... Look into ACOA and read or listen to the book called 'After The Tears'...... We truly don't grasp how our childhood shapes the way we think and perceive and react to people and problems. That book and the ACOA organization can help explain it. You are not alone. You can Break the generational legacy.

@memyselfi1828 4 года назад

Every time that daughter cries out my heart shatters.

@hookedonmarley5917 4 года назад

Iyanla is a woman that saves lives. I would love to be her understudy. Just like her I had to break myself down to build myself up and I did it with my mother. I didn't go through this exact situation but I was emotionally neglected at times. It's heart warming to know all three woman do want to fix the issue and become one again.

@shivanthikulasingham6131 4 года назад

This episode was therapeutic for me. I cried with the two girls and released the pain I hold in my heart over the mother I don't have. My mother and I do not have a relationship. The "Mother Wound" is devastating. Thank you for uploading this (full) episode. I consider it a blessing to be able to watch this. Thank you to Iyanla for the work she does. And thank you to the three women here who had the courage to do this show. I admire and respect you for helping so many of us out here. We share your pain and story.

@sammi8211 4 года назад

Yes own uploader i could re watch all of Miss Iyanla's shows.

@sasukeaclown705 4 года назад

3 minutes in and I’m crying this hit home for me only difference is my mother knew of and allowed step dad and her friends to sexually abuse me, mom beat me! I have 1 real sister my mom stays with her. I took care of home at 14 till I left at 16 my sister dose it now because I don’t want her around my kids

@masimbim.therese2551 4 года назад

So soorry for what u went through, I pray God will heal you 🙏

@divinelychosen5554 4 года назад

I pray for your own healing and wholeness to manifest speedily. Trust God to guide you through your healing.

@theartistmind7028 4 года назад

🙏🙏🙏

@juscam5141 4 года назад

im praying for you love wow thats hard im sure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@user-gd5tq7df8h 4 года назад

I'm crying with you.. EDIT: This has developed as a deep healing processs for me whilst watching it, sobbing my heart out and even puking out the disgust I've been carrying. Thank you.

@serpilkaddy1609 Месяц назад

I hope you're so much better now. Sending love. ❤

@user-gd5tq7df8h Месяц назад

@@serpilkaddy1609 I am doing well, thank you! I was in healing mode back then. I guess it worked :P

@serpilkaddy1609 Месяц назад

@@user-gd5tq7df8h I am so happy to hear that! May Allah guide and protect you and bestow his blessings upon you and those you love ❤️

@user-gd5tq7df8h Месяц назад

@@serpilkaddy1609 Thank you very much. I am a spiritual atheist but receive your blessings and extend my blessings to you 🙏

@afunlivelylife 2 месяца назад

That cry from Kim. Rocked me.

@Judy1201. 4 года назад

This was hard to watch.. I hope the mother gets a job and find her a place to live. she shouldn't moved in with her daughter. she appeard to be in decent physical shape she should have been working and taking care of herself.

@perseveranceministrieswith8909 4 года назад

😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔 my God in Heaven!! I'm crying so hard Jesus Christ, I so understand these young ladies. I'm 34 and going through the same thing.. healing from past childhood trauma.. Lord this touched my soul.. Heal them Father

@perseveranceministrieswith8909 4 года назад

@Forgive And Live thank you sweetheart. May our Father in Heaven bless you abundantly for your prayers. I truly appreciate it. I'm writing a book about the trauma and the Refinement process that God has taken me through to get to a place of healing. Bless you beloved

@141Lav 4 года назад

I sleep in that foetal position all the time sometimes with a pillow at my belly to feel bit better but, it’s true once you wake up it’s back to ground zero when you’re going through this - blessings to ALL going through this and thank you Auntie for always trying to help May the Most High always guide you to help us 💓💓💓🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@thalesalexandre-inglesbase8060 4 года назад

This has been the most emotional episode for me. It's so incredible how damaging generational trauma can be. Thank God for Iyanla.

@lorebay2593 4 года назад

These beautiful women, hurt, broken, weak. I sure hope they can clean it out and heal.

@fashamoore9322 4 года назад

I have already been crying, but this episode took me to another level! My God today! The reason I strive to honor my mother daily is that she made the "choice" not to allow another man in my siblings or my life after her marriages were destroyed. She only allowed "God" to be the center of her heart. Through the pain, discontentment, physical abuse, et cetera... that she experienced - she only went to God! J. Canidy, thank you very much! Thank you for loving your two queens & two kings enough to keep us safely protected! 💜

@alpn113 4 года назад

I am crying on my knees, I went a lot in my life is my Father, I can't count how many times he made me to sleep outside at night. And he could come and beat me to death. My wounds are not there anymore, but the scars are still on my heart. One day someone will hug me .

@ashleyhines7583 4 года назад

🧡

@daniellemccarter5706 4 года назад

If he’s alive beat him once good.

@MrsMabusu 4 года назад

Danielle Mccarter 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@theiswithin3649 4 года назад

I'm so sorry that this happend to you.. send you a virtuel hug❤️❤️❤️

@adiam217 4 года назад

I am sorry you deserve many hugs

@missmontana2184 4 года назад

I felt the heart break exercise in the pit of my stomach! The pain is so raw

@arethafranklinlove984 4 года назад

I can’t do it when Kim started crying I was like I can’t do this 🤦🏽‍♀️😭❤️ I love you Kim I wish I can hug you and your sister ..

@Cscott1821 4 года назад

She’s better than me because I wouldn’t let that lady live in my house! Ever !

@serendipity534 4 года назад

This was a good one. This healed my pain since my mother lacked the tools to stand on her own and be the great mom she was deep down. The best thing about this episode is that they were all open to healing, the mother allowed herself to be vulnerable. That is the first step.

@katielainedesigns 4 года назад

Oh those poor girls-I’m only 10 mins in and my heart breaks for them 😭😭

@curtisjohnson9907 4 года назад

Love this healing can we get more Iyanla fix my life full episodes on RU-vid please!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@MissFayeLuvA11 3 года назад

This was deep. My mother would never do what their mom did she would fake apologize with alligator tears. I have no need to reconcile with my parent and I’m at peace with it. I never put any man before my kids ever or let a man hit my kids I broke that cycle before it even began. God took my soul and he gave me a strong heart.

@jeaninemorgan9118 4 года назад

Awww, healing, forgiveness, generational curses broken..praise Jesus

@naomipask9956 4 года назад

"Mother" is name of God on the lips and hearts of all children. I heard this line in the movie The Crow and I have never forgotten it. I am far, far from perfect but nobody will ever come between me and my babies. They come first until the day they are able to fully take care of themselves.

@Maria-zy6qr 4 года назад

you were my God before I knew who God was, Whew! I felt that!

@girlmellaceus 3 года назад

When you've whispered to your subconscious that you never want to be like your mother or repeat her mistakes.... those whispers jump out of you and shout loud in other ways... Hope the healing continues. "I'm breaking the curse" was deep

@joanfolds476 2 месяца назад

This hits hard around Mother's Day 2024. My mother also put her needs before mine. She died on Sunday, 1/21/2007 without dealing with her issues. I am 67 with no children and I never married.

@tgree18 Месяц назад

Did she ever regretted doing that?

@autobotdiva9268 Месяц назад

narcissitic parents are something else.

@lewiscomeaux4040 4 года назад

This story was deep dam Iyanla is a real healer

@jeanineruggs7301 4 года назад

Powerful..... this need to b addressed in the body of Christ!!!!

@Charrisnemtblueprint 4 года назад

I agree! All of the jumping, running, and shouting but inside they're broken. The truth needs to be revealed and dealt with for sure😢

@jeanineruggs7301 4 года назад

@@Charrisnemtblueprintright....bc I went through that....not knowing if I could open up regarding deep hurts and pains which in some household aren't addressed but swep under the rug...I found out some things can't always b prayed away, but released in which yokes and healing will begin😇

@JudionSmith 4 года назад

Amen! I desire to become a therapist for people who are broken in the body of Christ. To hold their hands through the process of healing. To lead them to the light (Jesus)🙏🏽💛

@adewdew6019 4 года назад

@@jeanineruggs7301 The an be prayed away if you're saved and allow yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit.

@jeanineruggs7301 4 года назад

@@JudionSmith Amen..... and as a Intercessor I'll be praying for you!!!

@OptimisticerikTTV 4 года назад

Sorry is truly the mom's state of being!!! Hurt ppl hurt others most of the time, bc that's all normalized to them!!

@NolaPie 4 года назад

I never related to a phrase so much. Who wants to say they hate their mother. It took me a long time to get past the hate unfortunately I no longer see my mother as my mother.

@juscam5141 4 года назад

🙏🏾🙏🏾 for you love, just curious do you desire any relationship with your mom, these girls were me only to the parts that my mother suffered this from her mother and it crippled her to honestly not know how to be a mother to my brothers & I, my son being born 17 yrs ago gave her a reality check & allowed us to grow some form of a relationship i didn’t think would ever exist...sorry so long

@NolaPie 4 года назад

Juscam until my mom can address her own trauma I don’t think we’ll ever be close. I’ve attempted multiple times, then I tried twice with a therapist and she just deflects and starts crying about her past. I love her but there’s only so much I can do.

@laplusnoir 4 года назад

I hate my mom too , she’s the type of woman putting men first of everything...she disgusts me so bad !!

@sabreenamohr330 4 года назад

Blessings to alllll these women!!!!! #crying

@curtistinemiller4646 4 года назад

A lot of women let a man come into thier house and mentally and emotionally abuse thier children(physically too) Just to let him be in "Control" ,Its not right Your kids will never ever forget and when they have kids by him ,The abuse Escalates and You are ignored and hurt and Now you have a Truma Bond....

@rabeccarynder9514 4 года назад

This just broke my heart, fr fr, especially because there’s a lot of hate and resentment in my heart for my dad, with what I’ve been through and what his partners have put me through after my mum died. I was verbally abused for years by his partner and he just let it happened, the worst thing is, he blamed me for all of it....