Iyanla Vanzant Speaks On Dealing With Abusive Relationships And Reflecting On Her Journey + More 

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@sunnyctv7526 could you please give the book name? Thank you in advance.😊

Please share the title ❤

Was it "Don't Give It Away" her book for young women? If so, it helped me in middle school to make sense of 9-11.

This is a great conversation. Thank you. I did a 8 year healing journey.

I totally agree

She is wiser than aunty Oprah

Perfectly stated!💚

@@rachellesmith2355 May GOD bless and keep you. 💗♥️

Yes, this!! ❤

@@TheodoreBakes💗♥️

May God Bless you as well! @icedcoffeeandchaplainlcy

Exactly!😁 Hilarious, but definitely a good way of thinking.✨

Value in the Valley was my book.

❤❤❤that book is so awesome

That book is phenomenal

Thank you

'Only' is a stretch. Iyanla got her perspective from Shahrazad Ali

@@OBieMavuso Yea, ok. SA is in her own lane.

TommIsALoser

Watch her show on demand! Iyanla fix my life! She also has lots of interviews and a RU-vid channel

This isn't the her podcast, this is her radio show which comes on right after the breakfast club. Her podcast is called Lip service.

​@@DoMyDoMeDoI3490alright thanks for the correct terminology.

Yes. Ive never seen Black women so dismissive and malicious toward others. Its disappointing, heart breaking. I think its the reality shows, the ugly depictions of women as normal, the extreme emphasis on looks, material things, who has the most, who is doing the most: all that nonsense. . Don't let it keep you in tears. Find your pack. Run with them. You may have to walk and stand alone for a while until you do but there's still love and loyalty; there's still women who do not consider you a threat and they can be great friends. I'd say read a lot of literature by and about Black women. It helps to know some reasons why and not to take it personally. Plus look within and learn yourself. What do you need in relationships wwith your peers, and why are you not attracting the friends you need in your life? Get outside your comfort zone and remember to smile. Don't get mad or sad if they don't smile back. Not your problem. Keep your heart open but guard it from predatory people. Peace and love to you young lady.

I mean!! ❤❤❤

Flawless

Another woman that divorced her husband. More proof that marrying you things is the wrong decision for any man.

I'm curious as to what the "work" is in particular? They didn't really elaborate too much

🫨🤔🫳🏾, I CONSIDER MYSELF A POWER-FILLED 'ALPHA*WOLF* 'B.I.T.C.H.*[B.eing*[I.n*T.otal*C.ontrol*(of) [H.erself]! THE POWERFUL HEAD WOLF OF THE PACK OF 'BETA' SHE*WOLVES. WHY ARE STONG POWERFUL WIMMIN INTERJECTING & SUBMITTING IN AN APOLOGETIC DISCLAIMER THAT THEY ARE 'ASSERTIVE' AS APPOSED 2 'AGGRESIVE', YET MALE'Z R PRAISED & VIEWED WITH ADMIRATION, AWE, RESPECT & FEAR WHEN THEY DISPLAY MACHISMO/AGGRESSIVE AUTHORITARIAN STRONG PERSONAS?! I ADORE HAVING 'YANG/MASCULINE' SYNERGISTIC' AURA/VIBE. I THOUROUGHLY ACCEPT/EMBRACE THE MALE*[YANG] AS WELL AS THE 'FEMININE/[YIN] ENERGY..BOTH GENDERS POSSESS YIN/YANG! SO, U CLAIM THAT U R AN 'ALPHA?!...WELL..GENUINE, 'ALPHA' CHIQS OFFER ABSOLUTELY ZERO APOLOGIES FOR THIS RAW, PRIMAL, FERAL/WILD ENERGY!

Wisdom 🌠

Yup I I just got out of a four-year relationship with an abusive man. He knocked my front teeth out. i’ve had to come to a lot of self realization of why I chose to date down.

Dating down is not the issue, trying to belittle him for making less is the issue, but your never look at it that way because he was the problem and you did nothing wrong in that relationship, absolutely nothing.

I believe you are scared to date a competent man especially a black man, women typically date Pookie (cause she can control him finacially) or Brad (cause she wants to replace white women). I see yall dodging the Melvins and Poindexters cause that goofy yall play with Brad and Pookie will not fly. Thank goodness for passports. So dating down and getting your ass kicked is a personal problem.@@HH-gv8mx

I never belittled my boyfriend. I always told him how proud I was of him. I supported him in his decision to switch jobs and supported him when he decided to go back to his old job even helping actually well I wrote the letter to his boss, demanding that he paid him more, because the company was using him and he was barely making a Livable wage. I was his biggest supporter and fan. I lost friends and the respective family members for dating him. But I also lost my front tooth and he did a lot of damage to my bones and I’m stuck here with huge medical bills. I cooked him dinner every single night and packed in the lunch and waited by the door every morning and gave him a kiss. I rallied for him. There’s not much more I could’ve done@@poindextersheelturn436

Oh and I’m fine AF people would often takes, like it blew their mind that I was dating him. But I loved him. I think he had a lot of hiddBut what he did to me and the way he left speaks volumes about his character. A true coward@@poindextersheelturn436