I totally agree with you. Now of days it's a lot of parents that neglect and abuse their children just for the fact they were born or they'd just decide not to be in their kids lives all together. I have to say I was very lucky because I had great parents. I hope my kids can say the same for their daddy and I, because we've tried to give them the best childhood we could possibly give them as well as to prepare them for adulthood
Story 1 - first thing cousin should have done when she found someone had taken her child out of school without her permission was, get on her phone, and report her child had been kidnapped. That would have been the best revenge against the her family for throwing them out all those years ago. Also she could have died the school for giving her daughter away to a stranger.
Story 1 should have immediately had the police involved for kidnapping. Furthermore the child’s college should be covered easily by the legal suit against the school.
Maybe is his henpecked and doesnt really feel like he has a support system. Maybe the mother feels the same but his being bullied by the leader of the family? This is just a theory .
There is always a point in these stories that makes you question if they're made up or not...that point for me, in the first story, was when the school just allowed a stranger to take a random child from their care. Schools have contact lists that are turned in and verified at the beginning of the school year. If you're not on a child's list, then you can't take the child from school. This school, allegedly, allowed a child to go with a perfect stranger just because the stranger looked like the parent...and the mom didn't call the police to report a kidnapping or to report the school for child endangerment?
I question the story being fake from the moment that he revealed how much she was making up until that point they were still treating him like s*** then all of a sudden he's looking to reconcile how dumb do you have to be
"Schools have contact lists " Yeah and we all KNOW that schoold NEVER break their rules? Schools have anit - bully roles too and we all know there is NEVER any bullying at school /s
Also remember most of these stories are from overseas and most have a bad American spin on it to get us to listen 🤷🏾♀️....and there are some that are just unbelievable 😂
don't reconcile with your family op after they treat you horribly and see u u earn millions now you don't deserve to be involved in toxic peoples life at all op just move on in your life op😮😮😮
Right!? Don't understand how he would even feel bad! They treated him like shit for years and years but he keeps putting himself in the situations to be treated that way...
Your family disregarded you as being beneath them until you mentioned your income. DO NOT LET THEM BACK INTO YOUR LIFE! You have your family. Callum, Lila, Cassie and her daughter and your friends. Count yourself as fortunate and move on. Your cousin is beginning is reap all the dribble she spewed all those years so now she'll be a single mother only her baby daddy is going to be in prison. Live that one down, lol 😂 Story #2: CPS should have been called years ago.
@@jacksparrowismydaddy The problem is not that there are no rules The problem is that ppl will ignore or break them because < reasons> Take as example the speedlimit! Is there a rule? Yes So is nobody speeding? No ...ppl will break or ignore rules
@@robertx8020 that's true too but when you break rules to the point of committing a crime you not only lose your job and open your former workplace to lawsuits you get arrested.
Sweetheart, one of the most important lessons my dad imparted to me was to never discuss your finances with anyone other then your partner. It isn’t anyone else’s business but yours.
And about your taking care of cousin and Aunt… standing up for other half? Good for you! When dealing with people that are snobbish you really can’t reason with them until they climb off their high horse and get down on stable ground with the rest of the world.
I cannot understand why OP would allow himself to be treated so horribly along with his husband.. It's like he was a glutton for punishment.. Thank goodness for LIE-LACK (Lilac), it's a shade of purple, like lavender, it's a flower Mr. Reddito 😂 He should go on with life and cut out the toxic.... They don't give a damn about anything about his life but jealous he's helping Lilac and Cassie.. They want nothing from him beyond the fruits of his labor... Run OP
He might be one of those people who have brainwashed into thinking that abuse is normal which it isn't. That's why I always think therapy is a must for people who have gotten out of abusive situations.
Some people have that what I like to call "Golden Retreiver Gene" they have to please everybody and take shit from abusive people. Luckily I don't have that gene. My cut off toxic reflex is strong and I'm glad for that.
Story 1: I would have called the Police as soon as I found out the child had been removed without her mother's permission. That is kidnapping. Story 2: call CPS
First of all it’s no bodies business who you sleep with even if your gay and if people can’t except your choice of who you fell in love with then those people are not worth having in your life
Story 2. CPS should be called on all 3 parents in this story..and I use the word parent very loosely. None of the 3 should be allowed within a mile of any child. They think that one the child is popped out it is the child's job to cater to the parent and up the parents ego, all the while being neglected and or abused. Just goes to show the truth behind the saying "you need a license to drive a car but anybody can be a parent to a child", as bad as that situation is.
Are you bothered like many of us with the mispronounced words, extremely slow reading and adding in words that mess up the sentence to make zero sense??
I totally agree with Sam’s choice to help the other “black sheep” in the family. Eff the rest of the family. Hopefully his dad will grow a backbone one day and leave his toxic wife as well 🤷🏼♀️
They were there for you at your lowest, and you were there for theirs. Don’t ever apologize for doing something good for someone who truly appreciated you and what you have done! You are you and should never have to change who you are, for anyone! Stay strong, you got this! Darla needs to be arrested, and the school sued! Now a days I don’t believe a school would just release a student to someone because they look similar, like family. Security procedures are thick at least around here.
This is hurtful!! I can't believe ppl talk like that about other ppl bc of who and what they love, that made me very uncomfortable hearing that. I wouldn't want to ever be there, ever! Those are fighting words she spoke and ppl need to watch their tongues. Pure hate!
Story 1: The family didn't want to reconcile until they found out he's wealthy. They put him through Hell and their apologies are based on his money. He's better off without that toxic bunch. IMO, OP gave his 'family' far too much grace and too many chances.
Good for Sam!!! You are truly a wonderful young man. I’m so glad your cousin has you. Your family is horrible. They just wanted to take advantage of you.
Although I personally don’t believe in homosexuality I would NEVER do any harm to my child. This so called mother only cares about money and doesn’t care about the feelings of her own child. That’s horrible and she doesn’t deserve to have her son in her life. I would never go back around them. The real people that have morals and true love for Op are Cassie & Lillie so he should consider them his only family.
You the AH for telling ur income n also telling how u were helping ur cousins who were ostracized. U opened a whole new can of beans that not only effected u but ones u were helping. Your dad told u not to let family no ur finances when u were a child u should not only remembered but acted accordingly. REMINDS ME OF A OLD OLD SHOW "FATHER KNOWS BEST." My sister told me something when I was very young, in school, I'm 70 n I continue to practice it to this day n passes it on to others.
Bruh.... "...even though my magenta tux was not flashy..." I was with you until then. I'm now under the impression you're a liar. One does not order, have tailored, buy, then wear a magenta tux without the knowledge of the flashiness. One with the fashion desires that lead to a magenta tux as a guest to a wedding does not take their fashion so lightly as to create an attire ensemble for such an event without specific intentions. The blatant lie demonstrates a lack of trustworthiness equivalent enough to demonstrate necessitate taking all details with a block of salt.
@@joyceheadlam1909look wearing magenta to a wedding is asking for attention to be on you. Unless the wedding had a bright color theme OP was definitely looking to be the center of attention. He just needs to own it.
The dad should have grown a backbone and called the family out for alienating his son. I’m a very conservative guy and love my gay friends and family. Sure we have our differences but family and friendships are way more important that differences in ideology.
Sam did the right thing she took care of the people that no one would take care of and people with money always feel like money stick with money if I ever become rich and I probably never will I'm going to give half my wealth charity
I always ask in goldigging cases why would yhe person with money give any to you? How do they think that happens? I know many wealthy folks but I've never seen them just start handing over wads of money for no reason or even a lame one. What makes them think someone else's money benefits them in any way?
Family is family when they act like a real family. This is a matter of extending love, kindness, happiness, respect and caring to each other. Sam found his real family and is taking good care of them. The people he only shares DNA with who have only extended a lack of respect, been cruel, thoughtless, uncaring, unloving, mean, and vicious are not his family, and not worth his continued concern.
21:40, Considering how Money Hungry that woman is, it dont surprise me that her husband Embezzled from the company in order to Support her Frivolous Spending Habits.
Mr. Reddito, love you too death so I'm writing this with ZERO disrespect.. You mispronounce so many words so often, ADD in words that mess up a sentence and that makes it make no sense at all.. That one, you do A LOT!! The difference between pounds (£) and euors (€) .... I know you've lost a bit of subs because so many complained about these things and your reading is so slow etc but, I'm just posting this because you work DAMN HARD across ALL of your channels so I hate to keep seeing you losing subs over these things.. ❤❤❤❤
@@kaarenhendrickson3977 I just hate coming off as disrespectful when I mean none at all.. I don't want to hurt feelings either.. Thank you for seeing that I'm not being that ❤️
Story 2: Op wants to take her sister with her when she has saved enough but by then her stepmother would've had enough time to make ops sister resent her enough to not leave so she wouldn't lose her servant
OP, don’t give in to that family. They are nice to you now because you have a great income. All they want is your money. They are two faced jerks. Nice to your face, however, if given a chance they will stab you in the back to get at your money. Even Calum will tell you this.
Erg, how many people in these stories are named Lilac (Lie - Lack) I have counted 4 different stories so far. I have never come across anyone named Lilac inn all of my years.⁉
I can't understand why the parents expect OP and her sister to raise their step brother. I can see helping every now and then but to guilt OP into doing everything for her step brother is crazy. OP is basically raising her brother like he's her child while the step mother does nothing. I would've called her out on all of it. Number 1 I didn't have this child so therefore it's not my responsibility to watch him 24/7 while you do whatever it is that you do. I don't mind helping out but I'll be damned if I do it all. Then I would've left
How can you deny your own children, because your new wife doesn't want people to know that before her you had a family? The toxic entitlement is disgusting and the father doesn't deserve to be called one! Neither does OP's bio mom, what a joke a three so called parents are. I pray both girls can heal and have happy healthy loving families in their futures ❤
MIL got what she deserved. Son came up with idea n personally I think it was great. What u do in the dark will come to light. To find out mil was responsible for 2 miscarriages, killing 2 potential babies, knowing her son wanted a child, she got what she deserved. She lucky they didn't press charges against her for fetus abuse n murder od unborn children.
"Passive aggressive is the only way to deal with them" No, try actual aggression; tell them you will use your wealth and power to completely ruin them if they keep it up.
B.S.! They are lucky heaven speaks to them at all. It is his money and I wouldn't give them a penny if it was me. I THINK I PUT THIS ONE ON THE WRONG VIDEO. IF I DID I'M SORRY.
I'm just going to be honest on that second-story the number one the original poster needs to do is get child protective services involved get themselves emancipated from their mother and father and start saving up money to get a place of their own and yes they're going to have to start working the only way their situation is going to get better eventually the biggest thing that's going to get affected is there by their terrible stepmother and they're terrible father and I feel bad that they were stuck with two parents that we're just completely terrible pieces of shit
