Sometimes he reminds me of the movie Major Payne ha ha, especially the bed time stories about nam or breaking of finger so your forget about other pain and also he reminds me of Critical Bill from things to do in Denver when you are dead. Guy never slept and waited for the killer. I expected he would say something like - sleep when you are dead!
Another Tip: Don't try to go to sleep. Trying to go to sleep, by its very nature, as long as you are trying, you are failing. unless you take pills or a good meditator, you don't actively go to sleep. Sleep passively happens to you when you relax enough.
@@stonebud well if you wait it's kinda like ur mind staying alert actively trying to anticipate something right. Don't wait, don't even try. It's like, ok, w/e happens happens. Even if I'm just lying here my body is resting to some degree. Meanwhile might as well do some mediation / try to think of nothing, or do thinking something monotonous like counting or repeat a mantra (nothing that would engage your emotions) Next thing u know it's tomorrow morning.
The thing about people who need less sleep is that their ideal is 6 hours. So them getting 4 hours of sleep is the equivalent of some people getting 6 hours. NO-ONE functions optimally with 2-3 hours of sleep. Trust me, I have a PhD in broscience.
I’m one of those who has that 6 hr sleep Cycle. Don’t need more ( unless it’s an unusually active day) and it will work negatively if I stay in bed longer.
i've done certain experiments with myself and ive found out that, to go to bed earlier, one must wake up earlier the previous day so that you feel sleepy earlier on that day. So its not sleep early and wake up early, its wake up early and sleep early that night, in that order. You dont start the process by sleeping early one day, you start the process by waking up earlier that day and sleep early in the coming night.
@@thomasjohan3138 exactly. Otherwise you would be just looking at the ceiling and go to sleep the same time as before, because you’re not tired from waking up early.
@roy you literally just described my last couple nights. Tomorrow I am waking up early no matter what time I go to sleep tonight and that way I’ll be tired earlier tomorrow night. I’ve had a hard time sleeping my entire life so I’m working on developing better habits.
This is a true story: when I was in high school, I used to be a hardcore gamer. Constantly staying up late to about 1 or 2 AM playing games. I'd be tired the next day and sleep in class all the time and got known for doing so. Well, during my senior year I had a seizure. Out of nowhere, I remember sitting at my desk one minute and waking up in a hospital the next. My doctor literally told me that it was because of a lack of sleep. My family has no history of epilepsy... Young people out here, PLEASE GET YOUR 7+ HOURS OF SLEEP!!!
Thats’s interesting. In 10th Grade I had a seizure, no family history, never had one since. They couldnt figure it out and attributed it to head trauma due to football. But almost that entire year leading up to it, I avg’d 2-3 hours of sleep a night during the week and would crash on the weekend and sleep for 15 hours. I wonder how much of it was that now.
Same here bro, I am 34 and last week I had a complete seizure, ct scan no brain tumor, but all because my 5 hour sleeping habit. Young guys, I know the world is yours and whatever, but don't neglect your health.
@@FatShadow56 I played one year of football my junior year, nothing serious happened since I wasn't a starter but had some collisions in practice as well as in backyard football. But after laying out my habits and life up to that point to my doctor, she said there was nothing that was more likely to have caused the seizure than the consistent lack of sleep. I've never had another one since either, but everytime I'm short on sleep I cautiously take a tylenol (probably doesn't do anything but just as a placebo for myself lol). I was on Keppra (a medication that prevents seizures) for a few years and I have to carry a medical card that needs to be renewed every year until the doctor says I don't have to to the state BMV
This was a great listen. Really can't underestimate the importance of quality sleep, we naturally talk about how long to sleep for but 8 hours poor quality sleep is nothing compared to 6 hours of good sleep (not to say people should sleep 6 hours)
Last 2 days I've woke up 10 minutes before my alarm. I used to work night shift and dealt with shift-work disorder. Sleep is important. Usually go to sleep around 9 alarm goes off at 4. Past few days I've cut out processed carbs and most dairy (lactose intolerant). Haven't felt this good in a long time.
Sleep 4.5, 6, 7.5 or 9 hours. This will help you as the human sleep cycle is 90 min. If you wake up when the cycle is over you will see the difference. For those of you who want to know, the avarage amount of cycles a human has a night is 5 which is 7.5 hours of sleep. If anyone is still reading this than make sure you find your ideal amount of cycles.
*If anyone is watching this while dealing with insomnia: you can totally use the long form podcasts from the website to get to sleep. There's no white light so you can just leave them on in the background.* (also minor adjustment, you need a "play next" option bc it wakes you up when they stop playing - 4 hrs of rest is still better than no hours, but over 8 would be ideal)
I had terrible sleep schedule throughout my life. What helped me to get better sleep, "Dry Sauna". I would have 90 minute workout and then I throw myself in the dry sauna and marinate for 15-20 minutes. Ever since I've been going in the dry sauna I've been noticing I have been receiving the best sleep in a long time. I know some of you will say, "Just smoke weed". I can't because of my current job policy.
It’s currently 4:02am, and I’ve been scraping 45+ year old paint/undercoat off of a car for the past 4 nights in a row. Don’t be like me. But the good news is, I just finished the major area that I was working on while watching this video. Bed time.
can you post that? like do a video of you doing that and then post it? Its what I watch when I can't go to sleep, but need a break from podcasts. Gotta have contingency plans
I wear a fitness tracker and can usually tell I'm getting sick from my resting heart rate ticking up and quality of sleep is poor. Circadian rhythms are also very important so a routine should be the top priority. Go to bed and wake up at the same time everyday. Do the busier/more difficult things earlier in the day, and taper off by the end of the day so you're not "running" in the evening (difficult > moderate > easy > chill/minimal). Stay away from screens and drama/stress in the evening. For those with children, having a solid evening routine where everything is off (adults too) except the people in the house for a few hours before sleep is like a dose of medicine for the family.
Never had any ongoing issues with sleep -- but sometimes lights and TV prevented drifting off . . . until I trained myself to be a nose-breather. Having a slightly deviated septum had gradually brought on habitual mouth-breathing. But now, as long as the volume isn't too high, the TV is powerless against the biologic imperative! Of course, I'm metabolically squared away for a couple of years now too.
if you watch the long form of the podcasts from the website you can totally use them to get to sleep. and its a dark background so no white light to wake you up >:D
I’m listening to all these podcasts of jocko and I’m in the middle of reading the book he’s looking at (at 3:04). This is awesome, can’t get much better at hammering good habits through a thick skull than this
I’ve always been an early to bed early to rise dude. I married a girl the same way . I think it does matter . We are healthy and don’t get sick . I had the misfortune of catching the coof and fought it off in under a week . Diet, sleep, fitness = good immune system.
I've never been like that. I'm more comfortable at night when it's dark outside and enjoy being awake at night more than at day as a result. I wish I was like you, but it's not something I think I can just change
This can all be boiled down to hard work. The more you embrace the struggles of living a good life the closer you will be to sleeping like a baby. The strenuous life will leave you at the end of the day not only physically tired but also with a healthier psyche and probably a cleaner conscience as well since your mind will have been occupied all day. This is why throughout history there were not many documented instances of sleeping disorders. Insomnia is a condition of modern living, of a frictionless existence. and worst case just take melatonin
I feel the intended goal of every day is to work hard mentally and physically to the point of exhaustion. That way you will fall asleep faster and the quality of sleep will be better. If you toss and turn every night, it's probably because you aren't working hard enough that day. Stay Hard!!
I disagree. Balance should be stressed more. There are many days where I have done just what you said and have not been able to sleep. That's a losing game.
Coffee defeats sleep but that doesn't halt cortisol, the body's stress hormone. Sleep is important in my world especially with big days. Joko, push the button, never stop talking. Your words are true in my eyes and your stoic philosophy is something to strive for in life. Hooyah Proud Peaceful Warrior!
I’ve been getting 5 maybe 6-7 for the last three years and I train and eat good but let me tell you discipline and being tired isn’t healthy balance is key 🔑 hope that helps someone
3rd shift was amazing just due to it being new and a certain sense of freedom. After like 4 or 5 months it went downhill so fast, felt like shit psychically, sleep deprived, and mentally worn out.
@@shevdevastated7987 I'm there but 5 years in. Exercise helps a lot to reset. But even with a good diet and exercise nothing can replace quality sleep.
Get black out curtains for your room. Once it's time to sleep shut out ALLL light. Go to sleep at the same time every morning and wake up at the same time. It takes a bit of adjustment but it's doable.
Problem for me is when I start reading I get so engrossed that I forget about sleeping. Ended up ruining my eyesight cuz I used to do it so much when I was young
@@yusafmalik5171 me too when I was younger. Now that Im 30 and working long days I can barely get through a couple of pages before nodding off. Try to use a dimmer light maybe.
@@yusafmalik5171 screens and books ruining your eyesight is a myth. None of that is proven. Your eyesight is likely either hereditary or a genetic defect(like mine)
There's really something about diet and food quality. I gave up coffee at the start of this year and swapped it out for green tea. I had been drinking 4-6 cups of coffee(without sugar or anything added) a day and could never fall asleep and when I did sleep it was very restless. After cutting it out I now fall asleep when I go to bed and I don't wake up or toss and turn. I was only getting about 6 hours of sleep before and was exhausted the next day, but now I'm getting that same 6 but since it's restful I actually have all day energy. Still trying to get to bed earlier though, it's just tough during the week.
I did exactly everything you said about sleep just about night ago then I found this video and it was like “oh you’re right I did it and I feel totally different I know what you’re talking about” I used to sleep in the day and work at night and I was exhausted. Every time I wake up early for more than 1 day in a row which just happened. I feel like I have sooooo much more power.
You should try mindfulness meditation. It may seem like hippy trippy bs at first, but trust me, it works, and I'm the same way. Overthinking but under-focused, right? Sit comfortably in a quiet place, set a timer on your phone for 5 minutes, and close your eyes. Focus on your breathing and listen to it naturally. Don't control it, just listen to it, and let everything go. If you catch yourself thinking about something, let it go and refocus on your breathing. 5 minutes could seem like an hour your first time doing it. Make a goal to be able to do it for 30 minutes after 30 days, and you'll notice a huge difference in your ability to focus and fall asleep.
@MesaB That's great to hear! Yeah, I've found that it helps in general with focusing and clearing your mind. In today's distracted, multi-tasking world, it's easy to let our default state become overthinking, and under-focused at the same time. Meditation helps us to learn to focus on one thought or process or activity at a time, making us more productive and less easily distracted, which has the effect of making more efficient use of our time. I'm glad to hear that it's helped you in rehab and in life :)
Participated in a Stanford sleep study. They tested hundreds of student athletes getting 4-6 hours per night. Gave them a baseline test including cognitive, reflex, athletic performance, etc... They then had them all sleep 8 hours minimum per night. All of them improved their baseline scores. The takeaway was that people tend to adapt and compensate and think that they don't need sleep but their performance would increase with more (better) sleep. They just tend not to know/realize they could be better with more sleep. Fitness and healthy eating certainly help but they don't change that the 8 hours sleep will improve them across all metrics.
I do audiobooks as a sleep aid. (I have night blindness) Halo books are great, all that space travel and combat stuff. But listening to a book is like watching a movie in my head. I often find myself almost falling asleep listening and i have to turn it off before I do haha.
I work a new split shift that requires high cognitive functions and being able to articulate my points. 8am-1pm work 2pm to 5pm sleep 545 - 11 work 2am 6am sleep. I feel ok but my mind deterioration factor is high on Thursday morning. Friday -sunday off and I'm getting 12 hrs on off days.
I'm the complete opposite of Jocko. But because I have a hard labor job. I move peoples furniture all day. And I just finished a 13 hour day, so 8-10 hours is ideal. Otherwise my body and mind is weak.
Men I was so sleepy afternoon should go on a 2hrs drive I just couldn’t keep my eyes open I saw your previous video about 6-8min power nap. Didn’t believe but hey let’s try it. And sure enough after 8min and alarm I was like new! It is just freaking unbelievable, thanks for all advices!
*nods head, mmmhmm, mmmhmm* Totally, dudes. *puts another hersheys caramel kiss in his mouth, starts opening another, creates a giant pile of wadded up tin foil on his desk* Preach it, fellas.
My body starts hurting after 5 or 6hrs of laying down! My body is broken and hurts sitting standing, or laying down! I mostly lay down but Have to do therapy,. Getting to the mailbox is a Victory!
@@AlkalineGamingHD Ok thanks, Yeah I would also agree with the views in this thread. I briefly worked graveyard shifts years ago and most coworkers always seemed to be sick/or of noticeably poor health, and driving home into the sun rise was a fairly sickening feeling.
Since I have lots of international customers, I tend to work in the evenings and overnight during double shifts. I did just sleep 6PM to 3AM on Sat-Sun after previously sleeping Friday morning 7Am to noon, and i feel great. Often, I'm a day sleeper though. This last week, I was generally sleeping 6AM to 10AM ish and was doing okay. I have no idea when I'm sleeping next and for how long, and I usually do well like that. It's the scheduled activities that get in the way though.
YES! ha! I knew there were more ppl like me out there! If you put on the long version of the podcasts from the website, its a great cure for insomnia >:D. website bc there's no white light
I like that Jocko points out how people are different by going as tight as family as the example. How he doesn't need much, one daughter is the same, another is polar opposite, his son is about average, and his wife loves sleep. BOOM, great example.
What help me and my family was taking magnesium supplements. It changed my life completely. Also, anyone with twitch eye and leg, take some magnesium supplements.
Ive had hallucinations from being awake for 22 hours driving across America, the only reason i was able to drive for that long was adderall. But I started vividly hallucinating seeing cars,people,deer and objects that were not “there”. Scariest thing was the brake lights from the opposite highway were turning into demons and flying at me. thats when I realized truly how important sleep is
That's very strange. Sleep-deprivation induced hallucinations are very common, but I've never heard of such intense hallucinations from less than 48 hours of being awake. In your case, I imagine the hallucinations had something to do with doing and seeing the same stuff hours and hours. Without stimulation, our brains can tend to create it for us. With sleep deprivation + amphetamines, I can see how that could happen. Still, in high school I would have weeks where I averaged 3 hours of sleep while hopped up on prescription amphetamines, and the worst stuff I experienced was some paranoia and what I believe to be some very mild hallucinations out of the corner of my eye after hours of work.