My son is 6, he wants to be an ice cream man for the benefit of consuming most of the product. I would probably er’ on the side of caution if he wanted a sex change and start hormone therapy.
Well it is different with genderdisphoria, but the number of children who still strongly expresd this will after puberty is about 33%. This all makes scense, if one looks at the brains of these people. The brain of a trans woman is more like the brain of a woman, than the brain on a man. This difference between men and women is not as pronounced before puberty (not so visible for us at least). Puberty seems to 'fix' the brain in some regard. But thetis not enough for some brains.
I just read the name, if you can call it that, what in the fuck? Elon needs a kick up the ass, he has to wear that name for at least the first 18 years of his life before he can change it legally. These moron parent just don't think, selfish cunts satisfying themselves. My first Wife wanted to name our first child a common nice name, but it would have rhymed stupidly with our surname. I'm not going to tell you my name, but would have been something like Micky Bicky ect.
Yeah, and the biggest irony is that in order to get rid of those "constricting gender norms" they put way more pressure and control over children than normal parents. Their medicine is worse than disease.
Close. He's got the tracksuit but missing a v-neck or wife beater t-shirt and a gold necklace resting on some chesthair.. Had that he'd be OG russian mobster all day..
I was a teacher for years, and boys are more active and aggressive. That doesn't mean that a girl can't be those things, or a boy can't be quiet, but generally that doesn't happen often. Let's say in a preschool class of 20 children, you have 15 boys and 5 girls, because I was always given the boys, cause I knew how to deal with them. Within the 5 girls you have 4 princesses, and 1 tomboy. Within the 15 boys, you have 5 demo workers, 5 construction workers, 4 wrestlers, and 1 artist that is quiet. So out of the entire class of 20, you have 2 that don't fit the norm. Which, is usually how it goes. Also, the boys and girls don't really interplay all that much, unless they have to.
@Overweight fair enough, though I also think it's a societal thing in addition to parents. Most people are adaptable (which is good) and act, think and feel based on peers and film and literally everything around you. There's no way to know for sure why we end up the way we are, it's a lot of things. But I think to claim strict genetics and that "I was born to love trucks/makeup" because of what's between your legs is just unrealistic. It ain't that black and white.
People can't force anyone to enjoy something, you gravitate naturally towards what you want. No one forces or teaches boys to Ruff around or for girls to be princesses and dress up.
@Rancid Hummus Problem with Karate is that it's not realistic You can't hit the face and you have those blocking moves, Matrix kinda shit Jiu Jitsu and BJJ are very good to, if not the best, couple it with some boxing/muay thai and you can basically fuck up anyone trynna fuck with you
harburgs harburgs can confirm. Until I got older I was an angry kid. Though some fathers just make things worse. Unfortunately, my mother wasn’t much better for a long time.
Well stop having the stockpile in the same room as your kids room Koresh and go and buy them an outdoor basketball hoop or something.. My parents made that mistake too and my friend got shot. When his dad found out I did it in 3 shots actually, but they were all at 500 feet with a tight grouping, he said "I wish you were my son, my kid cant hit the broadside.of the barn"............. So ya know after we dropped off the flowers in.the cemetary now I have two dads. But not everyone is as lucky as me ya know
that's entirely your fault as the parent, how could you not realise that? obsessed with guns already because that's what you and your husband talk about and you let your shit USA TV brainwash them all day
Good old times, he has been clean (alcohol for a year now) getting cigars when the opportunity arises, you should check out his weekly podcasts, very honest guy
Bill made a very legit point with girls being socially aggressive while boys are physically aggressive. It's a pretty well established theory. P.S. The pause after, "This is Folding Chair Johnson," killed me.
Yep. The consensus science for decades has been clear: girls and boys are different at birth. Eleanor Emmons Maccoby, a distinguished psychologist and a pioneer in the field of gender studies who was the first woman to head the Stanford University psychology department, writes that girls seek out other girls and they teach each other how to be girls. Parents and society have nothing to do with it. Same as boys. Her books, "The Psychology of Sex Differences” (1974) and “The Two Sexes: Growing Up Apart, Coming Together” (1998) spell it all out.
I learned that young, I saw the girls doing that because I never clicked with guys. I wanted to, but got bullied for some fuckin reason so stayed away from groups and did sports on my own to the extent that you can. It pays to be physically and socially aggressive, it gives you a look into both worlds and it makes me a better people person as a result.
I remember taking my girls to a boy's birthday party when they were 2 and 4 as the only two girls. They gave the kids water guns for a backyard water fight which we encouraged the girls to get into, but instead they used the water guns to water some flowers along the fence. We actively encouraged them to participate but they were drawn to this nurturing aspect of tending to these flowers.
@@elfidge1 unfortunately some of them already are - or will be. Here's another scary thought: less intelligent people tend to have more kids _we can't stop the dumb, the dumb is inetivable._
@@seththomas9105 Amen. Found that out by experience too. Absolutely ruthless, cold hearted, pre planned and devious above all else. And I am likely thousands of miles away from where you live.
@@Infinityflow0well, there are female stalkers. Maybe you chose one. But the rest: when your utility runs out, they move on like moving one hydro company to another - a bit of paperwork and boom! - new power supply and now we're happy again, ensconced with whatever they need. You? You and the whole experience is filed in Chapter 13 baby.
My friend complained about women being held back by gender assumptions with toys.....he then bought his two year old girl a mini kitchen....oh how I laughed
Soul Chicken thing is the muslims of China are not really in China they have lived for thousands of years in east Turkestan, Which China took over same as Tibet.
Joseph McDermott yes it very far away from major Chinese cities, China have had to entice the han Chinese to move there, so to make the uggars a minority in their own “state”
I didn't raise every kid but for my kids they both had access to toys for both genders and my boy went for weapons and my girl went for baby dolls. People just can't choke it down that we have preprogrammed behavior just like any other animal.
But are people able to choke down that not everyone fits the biological standard? That if a person's inner biological instinct is to gravitate towards more feminine/masculine based interests, it has something to do with a change in dna? Thousands of years ago men did the heavy lifting and hunting ect. and women did the gathering, crafting, and made jewelry. After the last about 1000 years or so men became actors and poets and models while women ended up usually doing the same things; chores, yard maintenance, laundry. As the modern era has risen men and women's jobs have mixed, with men integrating to female work first. That is probably why you see more MtF transgenders as opposed to FtM. Male dna has had a longer amount of time to transition to female brain patterns.
I do also believe that what society causes is the idea a child has of wearing a dress means they must be a girl or playing in mud means they are a boy. As a male myself, i grew up with a doll for no other reason than i wanted to be a dad when i grew up (i thought it was a profession). In my teens i got into makeup as well. I even had a time where i was confused about why i did those things? And thats what society caused. My confusion. Why should i as a boy feel weird doing makeup? Is it FOR GIRLS? or is it MOSTLY USED BY GIRLS. see where im goin?
@@painttrail No one said "everyone". Thats a straw man. All animals have natural behaviors and all animals have individuals who behave differently. If every single person must exhibit a behavior for it to be recognized as natural then its a wonder anything survives long enough to reproduce.
@@painttrail You don't have to pretend that typical behaviors don't exist to not feel shame at not having a typical behavior. There are typical behaviors and it doesn't matter if you line up with them or not. This to me is the heart of the issue, people have this need to pretend a boy liking a toy sword is created by society when it isn't but obviously neither does it say any awful thing about a boy who doesn't like a toy sword. The idea its good or bad are whats artificial.
I gave my 3 year old son a baby doll to practice for when his sister came...he launched it like a rocket, same year took the pine cones of my Christmas tree and threw them like grenades....he never watched anything like that either at this point 🙃🤣
Bill Burr's story about the boy destroying the chair had me laughing because it reminds me of his stand up when he's talking about crushing this ladies donuts for no reason.
I can't dispute the last name, but if Gad refers to himself as the "Gad-father" then couldn't we agree that his name is pronounced with a "G" not a "J"?
@@dustbrum3607 that's a valid point. But I know a lot of Lebanese (being Lebanese myself) who change how their names are pronounced in the US for example Houssam becomes Sam, Mohammad becomes Moe and many more.. that could explain the first name. Maybe...
@@bilalnajjar903 I understand the name change for ease of communication. Only problem with that would be "Gad" isn't exactly a normal/popular name to use. I think the only ones who really know the truth are his parents :)
How do you know what a whole year is about before the year started? Maybe this is the year sjws have a good look at how stupid theyve been and change thier ways.
Here's why Bill Burr is an outstanding comedian: He does not give TWO FUCKS about what people think of him because of how he thinks or what he says... More people should operate like that.
@@westworld509 but thats exactly why he's funny. His persona on stage is a pessimistic guy who has funny negative views about the world. Same reason why George Carlin is funny.
I’ll never forget when my 1st son was 4 - everyone in our neighborhood seemed to have baby girls - we are invited to a little girl’s birthday party ... all the moms were sitting on a blanket with their sweet little dress-wearing girls playing tea party, for an hour .... I watched my son run rings around the blanket, then run up their stairs, then try to jump from the stairway a few feet, etc etc etc .... my extra babyweight was long gone and all the moms laughed that they knew why .....
But dude. Do you see how sick we are? All that gendered princess tea party crap we shove down our daughter's throats? Then we make them think they are boys if they don't want to do that shit!!
I remember the stories about me as a baby. As soon as I started walking, I got the hang of running. I ran all the time. Hell, I can even tilt my head to avoid hitting something while I was running. They didn’t put me in a play pen or whatever is the glorified version of a crib. I was just locked in the bedroom to keep me from running around.
Women don’t like when you collect things True, my ex tried to get me to well one of my guitars so we could pay for (read that as I could pay for) a holiday together. Apparently 4 is too many. Her 36 strong shoe collection though... that’s not too many..?
Same thing could be said for money. I had a rough patch a while back and my ex kept complaining that I couldn't get work. Then I finally got out of it (not thanks to her inexistent support) and I started getting way more money than her in no time. Guess what ? She got fucking jealous over it and gave me shit. I swear man.
When I was 6 I used to play with my sisters dolls, then just naturally gravitated over to football and now football is my life. I had nobody in my life to influence that change.
I knew a guy named Bill Williams. I didn't know it at the time but bill is short for William. So his name is William Williams. There, I beat it... or bill w beat it...... poor guy, but at least he was rich.
Got a niece of 4 and a 14 month son. The only on that me and my wife are constantly actually discouraging to do all the potentialy dangerous shit he seems to gravitate to is my son, his boyish behaviour is in no way encouraged and he has being like it since he could move around. First thing he did when he could crawl was clime the stairs first chance he got. By comparison my niece wouldn't even attempt stairs untill she was nearly 3.
I have 3 boys and 1 girl, I totally agree with these guys. I never forced my kids to be their gender. My daughter was born girly. She has always had her very girly personality and my boys have been the same. My son one year for x-mas wanted a baby doll to take care of so I got him one. He played with it a little bit went back to his boy toys. I never forced him to be a boy, I can see some parents swaying their kids toward a different gender though. Kinda like if my son wanted a doll and I all of a sudden get him only dolls and tell him, “It’s ok if you are a girl”.you start to confuse them and they start thinking I am blah blah blah. There isn’t anything wrong with boys being boyish and girls acting girly.
Let kids be kids unless they get out of line, in which case good parenting needs to be implemented. But at no point should adult issues and adult politics be brought into their lives until they are old enough to actually need to deal with it.
My wife & I decided to let our 2 sons to pick the toys they wanted to play with when we introduced them to a mixed sort of toys. Each one ALWAYS went for a construction vehicle of some sort first. The Polly Pockets got played with too but after they were done with crashing & racing
I got two girls. It has never been difficult to tell what they're into when we play. I've also tried getting them to play with stuff i find more fun, and they might try it out. But in the end, if it's not fun, they won't play. And they're reaally girly girls so it's all dolls and playing cats :/ From what i can tell, it's totally preprogrammed.
@@mrpy4389 , like I said, TV is full of examples. My niche watches horse farm cartoons, she likes playing with horses. The question is, if we expose boys and girls to the same knowledge and similar behaviours.
@@weizenobstmusli8232 i agree that they copy stuff from tv but i really don't think tv shapes their interests. It feels like it's already there beforehand. No science to back that up, just the impression i've gotten from my own experience.
I remember two different fathers (different occasions) that scolded me and their young sons because we were being artsy and creative, saying they didn't want them to be girly and gay. Art is just art and has nothing to do with your gender or sexual attraction. They just made the boys cry and feel awful and they were aggressive towards me as well. So yeah, sometimes kids are being raised wrong.
yeah, of course. Its not every parent that nails parenting. Still, if your kids are or arent into artsy things this doesnt mean they are right or wrong. They are just kids. And I dont understand why would someone not expect kids to like arts. Children love to make a mess.
Saad in arabic sound a liiiiittle bit like the american version, like in the "aa" part there's some sort of pressure on the vowels. It means happy in some sense, means also good fortune in some other contexts.
Aviation ethics class: why are there not more women pilots? Student: they all joined the nursing program. Edit: also my college is aviation, health, and education all under the same dean. Aviation is about 95 percent men. The other two are 99 percent women.
I remember listening to this and Just when Joe was going to go into something really cool that Gad Saad said about the dynamics of human relationships, Bill gets caught up on his name and they never got back to it. I was upset lol!
Gad is a biblical name, one of the 12 sons of Jacob. Saad isn't pronounced "Sad" but Sa-ad (like Suh-ad), and it means "aid" or "assistance". Idk if that's the same meaning in Arabic but at least that's how it's like in Hebrew.
@@LitoGeorge You typed a sentence fragment, you arrogant piece of shit. The correct version of your post would be: Americans *are* navel-gazing, uneducated know-it-alls. Isn't it obvious that Saad isn't pronounced _sad_ ? Sad.
When I was a little girl I had a fight with a boy my same age. It was short and I managed to end it somewhat even. However, I remember the pain I felt on my chest. I got really sad because I thought I’d get cancer from that hit and decided that if I made it, I would never fight with a boy ever again. Of course I didn’t get sick but I kept my resolution and learned to solve arguments or just walk away.
My daughter and nephew is 6 months apart with my daughter being older. Both are only children so we kept them together often... they were raised like siblings ya know. Around each other everyday. From a young age, I noticed my nephew was timid and girly and my daughter is adventurous and fearless. They're 8 now, but they still act the same. Hes weak and timid, my daughter is still fearless. So idk. So far, they're both acting opposite of what society would say aligns with their gender. I guess it wouldn't hurt to mention that my sister in law babies my nephew, while my husband and I dont baby our daughter. If she fall, she better get back up. If you're not bleeding profusely, you better not be crying. And you can see the results. My nephews cries over everything, while my daughter is just ready to take on the world.
I agree with this much more than the "biological" argument. Although I agree biology may play somewhat of a role, I have noticed waaaaay too many exceptions such as yours to be able to believe that males and females innately are that different in their aggression levels, etc. And I don't even care about "studies" b/c, unless the kids were raised in a bubble with absolutely no exposure to culture, society, media, and their parents gender prejudices and expectations, we don't actually know why the differences are there.
@@jwinter6105 you do agree that biology plays somewhat of a role. How many exceptions have you seen?100,200,1000 There are more than 20 million people who are lgbt in USA in 2022. That is approximately 7 percent of the american population.The rest of the 310 million people are straight. 20 million people are a lot but compared to 310 million people, it's very small. (Please dont say that there's a secret agenda by the white male patriarchy to only have straight people and not gay people LOL 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂) Same with your comments regarding gendered behaviour in kids. Boys generally will show masculine behaviour and Girls generally will show feminine behaviour. Of course there are exceptions, but that's not the norm and it is biological not social. All the studies show the same results in behaviour between boys (masculine behaviour) and girls (feminine behaviour) Social scientists did the same study among monkeys and chimpanzees with their toy preferences and the results were same as human children.
@@jwinter6105 I actually have proof that biology plays a part in gender differences between boys and girls There's a video in BBC where people gave monkeys different types of toys. The male monkeys chose boy toys and the female monkeys chose girl toys. There are multiple studies like this among other primates as well and all have the same results. This clearly proves that it is biological and not social in monkeys, chimps, baboons, etc. We happen to be related to these primates and human studies show the same result as well. It is biological, not social.
Was raised in a very open minded house. Mom and Dad are teacher and scientist, both lean super left. Never forced any roles on my sister and I. I always gravitated towards the swords, guns, and vehicular toys. My sister wanted make up and dolls. When we’d watch movies or shows, I was captivated by every incarnation of good vs evil, where the heroes physically destroyed the bad guys (Beast Wars, Star Wars, Ninja Turtles, Power Rangers), and my sister was into character stories with interpersonal drama and focus on how plot points made the characters feel emotionally. It’s an anecdote, I get that. But it was literally 100% of my childhood. And at school, it applied to roughly 85-95% of the boys and girls, which drove how we compartmentalized into social groups. The one girl that hung out with my group of boys in 4th grade, was such an athletic tomboy that got bored with girly shit. 🤷🏽♂️
The only "girls toy" that I wanted as a kid was an Easy Bake Oven solely for the purpose of eating however many cookies I wanted without needing to ask my parents. I think they were wise to it because they never did buy it for me.
These two are so comfortable around each other, they really make for a great show. Both of them drop their egos's & just talk, & shoot the shit & have fun. Its a Blast to listen / watch ! Two of my Favorites!
