In some ways Al Bundy was rather wise. Women are EXTREMELY competitive with each other. I heard a female comedian once say, "women will buy shoes they have no intention of wearing to keep other women from buying them". Women can be nasty to each other. Guys might fight, but once it's over, it's over and, back in the day if two guys fought, there was a good chance they would become friends at some point. With women.....it's ongoing....it becomes about EVERYTHING, no matter how petty....little to nothing is off limits. And women wonder why men will welcome them into the bedroom but not the boardroom. We don't want the drama that seems to accompany them.....
@Traveling Guy no they aren't man, they have the potential and capability for promiscuity, but humans are naturally monogamous creatures, and we evolved on monogamy. Theres a reason why humans inherently react terribly to promiscuous behaviour, and theres a reason why almost every civilisation in history has practiced enforced monogamy as the cultural norm, and those that were institutionally promiscuous, always led to a rapid increase in violence, along with the detabalisation and collapse of the society, and even those societies that were institutionally promiscuous, majority of people still practiced monogamy. The introduction of contraception such as the pill and condoms, as well as abortions, and a whole new wave of younger generations who are so desperately tryna convince themselves that they can treat sex casual with zero consequence, and that they can get away with abandoning responsibility.
@@PC.NickRowanYou contradict yourself. "Enforced monogamy" is not "naturally monogamous". We did not evolve on monogamy, we built civilization on monogamy. For civilization to exist, as you correctly indicate, you must have monogamy and every civilization builds institutions to enforce this. The civilization crumbles when these institutions do (see "Sex and Cultire" by JD Unwin). Ducks are naturally monogamous, they didn't need a church or government to do it. I agree with you that casual sex and hookup culture is not good for people's psyche; what we are naturally are serial monogamists. Pair up, make a baby, raise it to the point it is self sufficient (5-7 yrs old in our evolved, pre-civilization state), then move on to the next breeding partner. The "7 year itch" starts when the youngest kid turns 5-7 and she is wanting to procreate some more, with some new genes to maximize success of her offspring. She will also look for a better deal in terms of the candidate breeding man's resources. The original guy (modern husband) at that point has had the same itch for 5 years, and so is ready for a change too. In the modern world you get cheaters and a 60% divorce rate everywhere. Unfortunately we've built a civilisation where optimal outcomes require both parents to be involved well past the 'natural' time, 15-20+ years. So, our civilisation is bursting at the seams against our nature until we figure out how to scratch our promiscuity/serial monogamy itch AND keep a civilization going. We are forever trapped in this cycle of rise and fall until we figure out how to resolve this; we are maladapted to the current environment and our fertility rate reflects this and we will collapse and be replaced by another civilisation that is earlier in their cycle.
@@visionaryman3548 "enforced monogamy" is simply the term used to describe monogamy as the cultural norm. If polyamory or promiscuity was the cultural norm, they'd be called "enforced polyamory" or "enforced promiscuity". Also you know lw theres more than one sociobiology study on sexual strategies right? I personally havnt read the one you've referred to, but in my research, the consensus amongst the sociobiologists was that we evolved off of monogamy, as polyamory caused too much harm toward not only the males and female individuals, but their children as well, and on a side note, I had also mentioned that across history, the societies that did practice polyamory as the cultural norm, majority of the population voluntarily chose to be monogamous. Now perhaps I'm wrong, anything is possible, I personally dont like to claim or assume that I know anything, on the count that anything is possible, and I would like to think that I focus on evidence as oppose to definitively trying to prove something. But from the evidence I've seen, I think that we've the capacity for both monogamy and polyamory, but I think that we evolved on monogamy, as there are just too many reasons as to why polyamory would have completely disrupted our evolutionary cycle, as humans its been well documented that all hell breaks loose in the practice of polyamory for both men, women and children. Evolutions supposed to operate in our favour, and we became monogamous to ensure that Males increased the probability of their genetic code passing on, the likelihood of Male commitment and resources is increased for women, and children are rared by both a mother and a father, thus fulfilling the necessities for development.
@@visionaryman3548 Note that the 60% divorce figure is misleading- if you only count first marriages the divorce rate is 40-50%. Serial divorcees drive the numbers up. (these are US stats)
I’ve been married to the same woman for 28 years. Raised two girls who are now college graduates We met as broke college students. Her engagement ring was about a weeks salary. She didn’t cry because the diamond was small. She cried because of the love and commitment being shown. Some years she made more money, some years I made more. It’s always been about US, not what’s in it for me.
@@mordredvonumbra154 Na. People don’t want to be compassionate. The minute you’re significant other stops doing for YOU. People get upset and cheat and end up lonely. Learn some fucking compassion and forgiveness. Love exists. Stop fucking denying it. Heartbreak happens. Be happy you get to feel it. It’s all part of this human experience. And it’s amazing every step of the way. Just love.
When joe has guests around.. He doesn't want to show off his knowledge.. You can feel him withhold statements.. He allows his guests to shine. Take the spotlight.. I think that is a skill in itself.. Beautiful.
@@TheWizard134 If you think the world just suddenly got over populated by a few and not the majority then you need to get out of your 1st world country.
Patrice O’Neal said it best, men don’t really care about women making $100000 a year when it comes to us being attracted to them. We probably find the cute girl at McDonald’s more valuable than a woman making bank
Yes they do, they see it as a negative if they're not making 100k+. That's still caring about how much they make. A lot of men are really insecure which is why I never let them know how wealthy I am.
This is very true, men are 100% about looks, we don’t even give af about personality, as long as your hygien is good, we good, I will tell u tho if her hygiene is off men will get turned off, and once men get turned off, well there goes the whole motive, that’s why men leave after sex, once we cum, we loose all sexual desire, women must not know that since they can cum multiple times. That’s why men jack off to a women they think they love as a test to know if they truly love them. If they nut and are still attracted, then that’s love, if they lose interest, then it was just sexual desire
Hey. It was natures way of making sure we survived. Women *had* to be cruel when they select. If the husband was incapable of taking care of the physically weak woman and vulnerable child, humanity would go POOF. Men on the other hand just had to make sure the sperm meets the egg. But I get your point. Its the double standard in modern society. We are no longer hunted by jaguars. We are more immune to the impact of drought and famine. We don't have to worry about selection any longer. Women shouldnt worry about a poor husband if she's already rich. Men dont have to worry about flat-chested girls 😏because we can feed our babies baby-food. But our minds are still primitive.🤷 If I were an alien looking down on the planet, I would be laughing my ass off watching humans and their silly mating antics.
@@dithaingampanmei couldn't have said it better myself. For such an advanced society it's amazing how primitive we are when it comes to certain things.
Thats a lie look at Jeremy meeks. Dude was a convict and is now dating a billionaire heiress. There are plenty of women who will fly the coop from a man supporting them for a bum.
I got dumped from a beautiful relationship because of the quarantine and bc I was going through the hardest part of my life yet, my status got crushed to the ground, no job, no friends and under heavy depression and stress. My ex partner stood with me for some months, separated due to quarantine, and with time she told me she didn't loved me anymore. So now im here, feeling guilty everyday for being myself. Women tend to act really dismissive when a man has emotional breakdowns, its like we have to be a shield at all times and when we show vulnerable, women sees us as a nuisance and weak partner. I read somewhere that if you're a man, the world doesn't care about your problems, only solutions are expected from you. Then they ask why many of us end up being stoic, cold, and tough when it comes to emotions.
I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a bad time. Maybe she did you a favour…? It’s still hard though isn’t it. Giving love and realising it’s not sent back the same way.
First mistake you have made is letting her know how weak you are second it’s not because of quarantine she left you it’s because you keep making excuses. Women leave the relationship while they are still with you it’s happened way before quarantine sometimes they want a man who can man up and admit there mistakes and they definitely don’t want men who make excuses all the time you need to look in the mirror I hope you are doing better now
@@user-ng5ei5rg6c he needed to know why she left some people in your lives will never be honest with you so I hope he took what I said and used it it takes courage to admit the truth to yourselves then you can start healing
@@snowy1584 I'm with you, truth hurts him a little to hear, but hopefully he learned. Dude needs to know, Don't EVER let your woman see you being weak, or making excuses, or "being vulnerable" dude that's a SURE way to get dumped for the confident guy down the street. coddling the guy AINT gonna do him any favors, it'll just encourage him to make the same mistakes in the future and get his heart smashed again. Women want MEN. Be a MAN
@John S. same. I gave up trying to understand arabic. Its so hard because the grammar is so different beteeen english and Arabic. One word in Arabic could account to multiple for englisj
@John S. im african and african language has a lot of similar sounding words so ive never struggled with pronunciation. Its the gramar and understanding that killed me.
Quick side note: The whole "Spend a months salary on a wedding ring" was entirely made up by the DeBeers Diamond corporation in a 1930 ad campaign. Before that, men and women traditionally exchanged gifts as a token of commitment (upon being engaged).
It's absolutely nuts to do that as part of conditioning and programming. You can use that money towards investing or a vacation. Or just paying for gas nowadays 💀
It also only really made sense in a world where couples don't live together before getting married. In a world where you're both living with your parents when you propose, and maybe haven't even had sex yet, the idea of an expensive gift to show your commitment (be it an engagement ring or some sort of dowry) makes sense. But the reality is that in the modern age, most people getting engaged have already shown sufficient commitment and seriousness by living together for years first. You've already cooked for them every day, looked after them when they're sick, bought loads of things together, and basically had a trial marriage before the actual one. And because of the way marriage laws work, the proposal itself is already a promise to basically give them half of everything you own. If you're still relying on a man to show sufficient seriousness by spending a load of his money (soon to be your money) on a ring before you decide whether or not he's worth marrying, then something's already gone wrong. Which isn't to say you can't still go through the tradition and expect someone to do things 'properly,' but expecting things like an arbitrary amount of money dreamt up by some marketing executive at a diamond dealer is ridiculous (especially when they add an extra month onto it every time your back is turned).
I used to meet so many women who were high-paid, well educated, well traveled and still very attractive in their 30s. But they were all desperate to settle down. You know what they wanted? Someone a LITTLE older than them who was RICHER, smarter, mysterious and good looking. Meanwhile, such a successful dude in his mid 30s would be looking to get with the girls who were in their early to late 20s. LOL
@@fatesd84 pretty much. Some girls get the hint and actually stop being so picky. Unfortunately a lot of people call them desperate. I just see them as being realistic or even reasonable. Guys do the same. (I remember when I used to be extremely obese having such high, ridiculous standards.) So I guess the lesson, for me at least, is to just be reasonable. There's nice girls I know that if I was still that unreasonable obese guy, I would be complaining they're not super models, totally dumb and unrealistic. Plus, I much prefer those girls over some selfish, self-centered "hot" girls that I know.
Giant Stack women are shamed if they’re reasonable or make good decisions. Every bad decision they make is championed. Society wants misery for women but it’s presented as empowerment and women cant tell the difference
I don't see women who are really into their career as real women. They're like men to me, just more (unnecessary) competition. I suspect there are a lot of men who secretly feel the way I do.
Makes so much sense to me. I am 5’11 pretty tall and doing my PhD. I am single because I sometimes even say I just don’t find too many people attractive. The older you get the less attraction you feel to your peers in comparison to high school times when we were all equal. I had the same thoughts before. Glad to hear that on a podcast
I would say 80-90% of people think like this but it's not a requirement. There are people who don't think like this and are genuine about their attitudes to life. You don't have to live like this. Choose to be good and choose virtue.
Yeah, my mom was way more successful and more attractive than my father back when they were dating, and that gap on success was just getting wider and wider. They are still married 25 years later. She never paid attention to other more handsome and richer men who would try to pursue her. I also don't fall for the hottest women available, personality goes immeasurably way ahead looks, though the women whom had been the most interested in me (the ones who would flirt and seek more of my sympathy) do tend to be the most attractive among the crowd. There are more primitive spirits as well as the least mundane. It's a good thing that one is free to choose which of the two they will cultivate.
Met my wife when we were both 13/14, got married at 22. We now have two amazing kids. It hasn’t always been easy financially as we’ve tried various business projects and made money, lost some but being married now for 11 years we couldn’t be happier. When money becomes more important than marriage then that’s where issues begin. I’m thankful we’ve both been patient through good times and the bad.
"YOU" couldn't be happier. She will hit her "bored with you" wall and feel like she wasted her life. She will leave you. You aren't special and she isn't different. Matter of time. She's gone.
@@nazgullinux6601bro she has a family w him. Considering the fact they’ve known each other for that long I doubt that will happen. But it also wouldn’t surprise me if it did. Hopefully not
I prefer the LOX's version..."I believe in Money, Power, and Respect! First you get the money. Then you get the muthafuckin' power! After you get the power, muthafuckas will RESPECT YOU!" I heard that in the Marines in 1998...didn't say shit about a woman. A woman is optional. It's amazing...Cher said a man is optional and she was celebrated. Man says that, he's misogynist. It's amazing. Women really thought they could get away with that passive aggressive shit forever.
Interesting conversation as I have a friend in this predicament. She’s married and makes a decent living (50-55k) at a job she doesn’t love whereas her husband works a job he does like but brings home maybe 18k. He helps out around the house as he works from home, but my friend is so resentful of his laid back days while she works a high pressure job and pays the bulk of their bills. Add to that she’s a staunch feminist. 😂 I pointed out that men have been in role of primary breadwinner for generations and he’s basically a SAHH - she should be happy for the equality - omg did that ruffle her feathers. She was like “I know, I know” but then started to curse all feminists everywhere. Ladies, be careful what you wish for. 😅
Wow. this has just explained my divorce. My ex-wife could never explain to me what went wrong, the divorce was a huge shock to me.... and this has just clarified it totally. Thank you.
Your not alone. My x-wife never gave me a satisfactory answer. But it was money, it was always about money, perceived income potential and status. Unfortunately she greatly over estimated her sexual market place value and it has not gone well for her..
I never understood why it is necessary for people to get married anyway. Why can't there be such a thing as people living together without it being legally-binding for either party? I mean, if two people really 'love' each other, then making it official via marriage shouldn't really be of importance, right?
Why do you need a piece of paper from “the man,” to define a relationship? It’s the same people that tell you, you have to spend 1/4 of your annual salary on a ring! F**K that!!! (The key is to find a likeminded female...... and, I’m lucky to say..... I have!)
It's not an investment it's a financial, soul, mental drain. Get a vasectomy and bang them. If you wear a wedding ring they will bang you. Or Brad Pitt.. or rich.
"Rejection makes a man stronger. I believe that you can't really call yourself a man unless you can laugh off all the bad stuff that happens to you, or at least use it as writing material." = Jiraiya from Naturo
@@pourfour7856 that advice is actually in self help book i read called “who moved my cheese”, being able to laugh at your mistakes is geniunely the way to move past them
I had a bf that was lazy, I paid for everything, he even cheated on me, and once he got physical I kicked him out, and never looked back, I'm married with 2 kids and my husband treats me wonderfully, I'm thankful for knowing i have standards and expectations.
That's the thing to. Younger women aren't as smart when choosing guys early on. They just go for the hottest guys with a big mouth and big status that put up a front. Then when the women get older, they realize that they missed out on dating ACTUAL good nice guys. By this time the woman is usually at least 28+ years old desperate for a man.
@@wombat5252 Not all of them, I'm 18 years old and I chose the good boy before the bad boy, maybe the environment in which women grow up has a lot of influence, I was always disgusted by bad boys for being egocentric and manipulative and always putting themselves in victim mode, god yuck
Men desire beauty, fertility, sex, and femininity. Women want status, money, children, and masculinity. This isn’t true in all cases, but it’s largely accurate. *edit- this isn’t bad either, it’s just the way it is. Nothing wrong with the fact that men and women want different things.
Stellar Gnoma yes obviously women still care about looks, but it’s not to the same degree that men do. And as I said in my comment this isn’t true in all cases but it largely is. Just look to the extremes. If an older man is mega successful and wealthy it doesn’t matter if he’s ugly or handsome he can have a beautiful wife. If a older woman is mega successful there aren’t exactly rows of hot young Chads lining up to marry her. Are there girls who would marry a man solely because of looks, certainty there are, but it’s not a huge number. Are there men that would marry a women just because of her good looks? Well I think that one answers itself. The point isn’t to say women don’t care about looks, they obviously do just like any human. If you ask an average girl what she wants in a man, “someone hot” usually isn’t at the very top of the list. It’s more likely to be “wants children”,”has a stable job”, “very intelligent” etc. There is a complete overlap in what men and women want from one another. Both sexes value good looks, money, shared morals, children, sex, etc. but depending on the sex, it is to different degrees or different priorities on average
Nah man if you’re ugly I ain’t into you No matter how rich you are I don’t care if I’m shallow Women just care too much about being called shallow they don’t wanna admit that looks count
@@goldgabich6863 Looks are far more important to women than men. They just lie about it. In fact, women when polled only consider the top 20% of men attractive. When presented with an average man she rates him as below average, while men rate average women without bias.
@JJ Buddhabrot No. A must is food, water, shelter, clothing. These are musts. A piece of metal with an over-priced piece of carbon, mined by the hands of starving children... Is not a must.
I'm 5'6" and dated a couple women that were some inches taller than me and one of them even liked to wear heels. I used to get these looks from other people, especially other dudes, like "what the fuck is going on here?" 😆
Nothing wrong there. I’m 6’4” and honestly it still bugs me to see tall girls with shorter guys. I don’t think I’ll ever not feel a little cringe towards it. Doesn’t mean it’s bad though! Good on you for telling the rest of them to fuck off.
"Mating and food, you don't want to become someone's dinner ,you want to find dinner and you want to have sex" What a statement!! This is the entirety of life for most people
Wow Joe, what you said right at 6:48 is so true. You described my current situation. And I live in Miami.. You could imagine how tough it is to deal with that.
It's true, women, and men as well, are seeking to climb the social hierarchy. But why stop our analysis there? What is the core motivation to reach the top of the social hierarchy? Is it because it is perceived that by doing so we will attain something that we are lacking? There has to be something at or near the top of the social hierarchy that has value, right? Is it increased potential of survival? Well, not necessarily. With added wealth comes added risk of predatory behaviour, especially from lower members of the hierarchy. It is probably safest to be in the middle of the pack, insulated from destitute poverty, and from others seeking your wealth. So its not survival. It is, I think, satisfaction, that people are searching for. To finally be satisfied. The only thing that satisfies in my experience, is love. And so high status without love is fundamentally dissatisfying. To work so hard only to still be dissatisfied... what a torture. Work for what you love, and who you love. Forget the hierarchy. Practice self-love. Or keep on chasing... but I don't recommend it, you'll just end up where you were, with a golden noose from which to hang yourself.
@@nitinpandey6037 an ugly chick could suck her way to the top. An EXTREMELY underrated skill that greatly boosts your "mating value" is doing things in the bedroom with your mouth that others mates cannot or will not. Its a harder method of seduction than just being naturally attractive but importantly it IS something you have control over.
My parents were high school sweets hearts, my moms career took off and my dad was very uncomfortable with that and he was making just as good money too but that pretty much ended their marriage. My dad saw my mom as a stay at home mom but my mom was very into her career so that didn’t work out. It’s just the perfect example of what u guys are talking about my parents were the text book of that .
From my experience being better at everything compared to her can still not work. You need to have some flaws. At the end of the day, it's about how you maker her feel. Does she feel secure? Would 10 million dollars make her feel more secure or would 2k a month be ok? Does she feel safe? Do you need to get buff and the tallest, strongest ever or would simply going by a car and then driving instead of walking through that dangerous alley solve it? Does she feel pretty? Do you need to tell her twice a day or is simple smile enough? Does she feel sexually satisfied? Do you need to learn tantra or would eating her well be enough? Does she experience adventure? Would you need to go on 10 vacations a year or is having sex 3 times a year in a unusual place enough? I met couple of girls where the balance was not there. If she just wants to be pumped for next 3 months, you gotta have the D of destiny and money does not matter much
@Karen Aguilar There is a strong evolutional reason for female hypergamy but men not having anything to offer biologically is the most stupid argument I have ever read. Like women can make children without men lol. In the end its strongly mens genes that women pass.
Karen Aguilar you gonna give birth without a man? Wouldn’t surprise me if women start extracting animal semen to try and prove that they don’t need men period 😂
My mom hasn’t worked since I was born and my dad is very successful at his work and has been the only bread winner for over 23 years. You can tell that there’s a huge disconnect between them and lots of fighting because their contribution is so disproportional.
masterxyr not all women think about money especially if they come from it and know it’s not what makes happiness or have it themselves and don’t need to worry about basic necessities.
johnDomain well actually women seem to fall easily for “fucked up” guys, thinking they could fix them. Most men look at girls with issues as easy prey they can fuck and dump because of their low self esteem
Thank you. People are too caught up in saying one sex is worst than the other. Personality and connection are important as well. No one has mentioned that.
My husband and I were married at 19 and 20. Gad is right about the early marriage thing. I was lucky enough that although I am more educated than my husband (I have a Master's degree) and he has a Bachelor's degree ,he makes more money than I do. I love my role in our family as a mother and wife. Another factor that Gad can study is ethnicity and the role it plays in keeping young couples together. My husband and I are both Hispanic and Catholic, divorce was never an option for us during tough times. We were forced by family to work it out. BTW, we've now been married for 22 years and I love him much more today than ever before. I feel like he feels the same :)
Malena The Menace Almost identical life to mine. I was 21, my husband 22, when we married 27 years ago. We’re also Catholic, and we never considered divorce either ~ even though we definitely had some rough times in the first 10 years. I also think our relationship is even better now than it was in the beginning; the knowledge that you successfully overcame the bad times makes you even stronger.
All those problems could have been avoided by not getting a masters degree. His stress and mental health would also have been better. Women don't give a shit about men, they care about the luxury he can give. That makes them all 304s.
That is an illogical assumption, the lower your standards are the more women you can have. But I'm married, I don't know how you would rate that in terms of "experience"? Furthermore, this comment obviously is an attempt to trigger and humor with oversimplification, I wouldn't read too much into it if I were you.
@Rob Gibson until your friends get married and have families of their own. It will get lonely as you get older. An God forbid you get sick. I hope you mgtow redpill guys wake up before it’s too late. Married men overall are happier and live longer. There is lots of benefits to marriage, you just have to pick well.
Eddie Murphy said this 33 years ago. They called him a misogynist. Re-watch his bit about women and marriage (i.e. Johnny Carson)...it's damn near sociology at this point.
I miss being in my 20's with a beautiful, nympho girlfriend. We had so much fun together till she met a wealthy construction baron who paid for everything.
@@soleilsonira4467 It is cope but what he said is true tho. Why don't the oil baron go for a virgin who looks 10x better? I'm sure he has loads of option with that kinda money.
If your a woman and reading this, please marry a man that knows how to take care of there health. Or not. I don’t know who’s reading this, if you care about finding a good partner make sure he or she is health conscious, it’s all that matters, whatever else you want comes next.
I'm 5'7 so I see a lot of women who look down on me. Ha ha. But don't worry guys, money makes all your imperfections vanish for some reason. So chase money first, instead of women and watch how it works better. But yeah, being poor and short is no real fun. Trust me.
@@danielmayen6545 Yeah, thats the bonus of being shorter. Our junk looks more impressive cause the size to height ratio is better for us. Average on us looks good but tiny on taller men. Just ask @pliit upstairs.
This has to be the best video clip I have ever seen of a Joe Rogan interview. It is so informative and important especially for men of all ages , races and creeds to watch and learn from this . Save this video to your favorites and rewatch it fellas because it will be a long time till you hear the truth spoken like this again.
The only way to survive as a man is to aim to be the best version of yourself everyday, regardless of how you feel or want, and be able to walk away at any point, even at the slightest disrespect, as a man you have the advantage of time on your side. Men peak in their 30s, women peak in their 20s, women always want older, and men will always want younger, but you need to be successful first, however you define your own success. Easier to be a 40yo man with a 20yo girl to fall in love with you then a 40yo women to get a 20 year old man to fall in love
Sorry to break it to you but men hit the wall too. You get beer bellies and receding hairlines. I don’t think any woman in their twenties can fall in love with a wrinkly balding 40 year old man. She might tag along for a while if he’s rich, just like a 20 something guy will tag along with a rich old lady. but there’s almost 0% chance of actual love, because they’re ugly.
@@egordontov9814 I won't hold expectations because I expect nothing from females but it is messed up that society is gonna normalize racial preferences especially since I hear stories about a single racial society in a city, for example blacks with blacks and whites with whites is widely accepted?
@@egordontov9814 To add onto what I just said, I don't believe the color of anybody's skin should be the reason for a relationship because to me it has no value , a men either wants to fuck or reproduce while a women uses racial bias to selectively choose her mate go ahead but you bury your own grave.
I have been married twice first one at 19 lasted 7 years, second marriage 17 years going strong. This is so true. First husband didn't want to move forward past 22, drinking no job. He was a good fit at 19 20, terrible at 26. Our values split, we spilt.
I think this is the truth behind what these guys are saying. Women want the guy to work provide for her and the children do that by money. Simple as that.
@@HONDACR919USA313 that or at least someone who is a good a partner. If a women feels like she has to work a full-time job and then come home and take over most of the housework and child uprearing, she will become resentful because her spouse isn't a partner but just another human to take care of who contributes some of the money. Housework and raising children are a whole job in themselves, so if both parties work, both parties should share responsibilities at home.
Your values didn't split, they were always the same. You were just dumb enough to be fooled by it when you were younger until enough years and enough other men in sight taught you how wrong you were. I'd be willing to bet that you certainly didn't make him prove his value or commitment, which women should do by withholding sex until marriage. If you had done so, then I guarantee he wouldn't have stuck around to wait for you, or he would have been cheat g while trying to con you and you would have caught him.
@@patriciaikeda2608 I'm glad it worked out for you in the long run. I wish more people got to have a happy ending but they seem to be few and far between these days.
@@car9melo - lol ... blue pilled still I see. All in due time my friend. -mgtow is a good start to see the actual truth about todays modern selfish women
@@chadhardy35 I can afford a Lambo if I sold one of my homes but I was talking to a friend had one, after 2 years and 2,000km he sold it for 60% of purchase price, what a waste, and being in asia the roads are so bad even a normal car gets slammed wheels and busted tires.
Money makes you tall dark and handsome. They say women are complex but I beg to differ. It's really a simple matter of money. You can buy whatever. Case closed.
Yep u can get the girl with money but after some time she'll start fucking the hot Gardner or delivery guy. Same with guys . relationships solely based on money are shallow
My wife of 20yrs has easily surpassed me on financial and career status... But I'll say this... If you can sing and play guitar, and fix the washing machine or build a deck... You maintain and provide a higher value than you think.
