I mean, Mulaney and his wife had been separated for 6 months already. To be honest, Mulaney and Munn might have just been dating and had an accidental pregnancy
I'm sure he did love her. It's sad for everyone involved, but celebrities don't just exist to please us. They fall out of love, just like everyone else.
No. He’s a disgusting man and the public needs to know what people they are supporting. I used to enjoy his comedy but I would never watch them again because of that.
@@geodude247 I could be wrong but im pretty sure HE broke up with HER after he was brought into rehab. But I havent seen anything on why he is disgusting other than his addictions
I honestly thought they were so much in love. This news was such a shocker to me. And he went from not wanting kids to having a baby straight out of rehab with a new woman. Gosh! Can't even think about what Anna felt seeing it all happen.
Maybe he changed his mind about having kids and that was one of the reasons they broke up - we don't know. That's why my dad got divorced from his first wife.
@@sadem1045 Doubtful. It's almost always the guy who doesn't want kids, and the woman who decides to go along with it. Also, I gotta restate this. No way he got Olivia pregnant on purpose. Come on. They're already broken up.
@@sadem1045 You can google as well as I can. I just don't believe for a moment he got Olivia Munn pregnant on purpose. Do you? Doesn't anybody? Therefore I have proven my case.
If that'll stop everyone from griping, then great. I always had kind of a queasy feeling about Anna & John. Every single anecdote he ever told about her was about her needling him, chipping at his self esteem with tiny slights and comments, and his courtly way he'd publicly declare his fondness for her always just felt like a) a people-pleaser, and b) someone speaking in their own interpersonal best interests. Of course he was going to say he loves his wife, he wasn't allowed NOT to. So yes, if Anna & Chalamet get together, good for them, but none of this is any of our business. We should regard all of them like we're in the era John's voice sounds like it comes from, in the 1930s, way back before we knew everything about celebs' personal lives.
My father is one of the best in his field. His staff love him. But his alcoholism ruined all of his personal relationships including ours. Addiction is very powerful.
@@iwantaburrito. imo she didn’t come across very nice or supportive when it came to john. not saying she’s an inherently mean person but more of a strong, bossy personality type that may not have meshed well with his personality. as you can see in the video he often played negative moments with her off as mere jokes but that kind of stuff can stay with you and wear on your self esteem after a while.
Im largely not emotionally invested in this whole thing, but the "how do I know Im with the real you?" thing hits really hard in retrospect haha. Especially since Anna was obviously shocked and distraught by the divorce.
There are reasons why people are encouraged not to couple up in the first year of recovery... Hope they can use their humor and big brains to coparent their daughter with love.
@Mike G In his September 2021 interview he said and this is a quote "I went to rehab in September, I got out in October, I moved out of my home from my ex-wife. Then in the spring I went to Los Angeles and met and started to date a wonderful woman named Olivia." He didn't cheat, still probably not great that he already has a partner... And before you get confused he went to rehab in both September (for a month) and December (for three months).
Fr, and the fact that he was once cheated on by his gf during a long distance relationship, he must've known how it must feel to the other nd how wrong it is.
From the age of 18-25 my behavior w/women bordered on sociopathy. I was constantly unfaithful, verbally abusive, utterly self-centered, etc. Worse still, I was a high-functioning alcoholic/junkie. I got sober 5 years ago & as a man in my early 30s, I can't imagine acting that way w/someone I cared about. I say this bc I deal w/the same sickness as Mulaney but I can't fathom discarding my wife so casually. This is a person who built a life w/you, supported you through your addiction struggles, loved you & (likely) gave up on having children w/the promise of being w/you. That's legit sociopath behavior & I hope Jon gets financially DECIMATED in divorce proceedings. I have zero empathy for John bc if there's ONE thing you learn in sobriety it's "the world does not revolve around you". I hope for the kid's sake John stays sober but goddamn it doesn't look good.
@@devonbogdan8527 I'm sorry that's happening to you but I'm glad my comment helped some small amount ❤️ You don't need someone like that in your life, there is someone better coming your way in short order 🙂
@@mbrammy7 You should stop ASAP, if only bc you'll probably end up getting sober at some point & the guilt you're going to carry for your actions is HEAVY. Trust me, not a day goes by I don't have to consciously stop beating myself for cheating on a dozen+ wonderful girls who did nothing wrong but love a junkie alcoholic serial killer.
THIS. I get the whole deal with people saying he hes a human being and doesnt exist for our entertainment. but hes the one whos saying these things left and right and even used his relationship for stand up. also trust me, I would judge a non celebrity just as hard.
@@JNJ1014 I thought Anna didn’t want children? The woman doesn’t always “give up” having children, sometimes we don’t want them. Also we don’t know that he carelessly discarded her. He might have very carefully told her it wasn’t working out. I don’t know why people think they know what happened in a relationship between two ppl they don’t know and have never met. I feel awful for Anna. I love her recent art and I’ll continue to support both of them. As a human, I know how hard it is to just survive sometimes. Life is beautiful. And life is suffering. I’m also a addict and never was sociopathic or treated people like you mentioned above. I fucked up plenty of times sure. I make mistakes. But I didn’t treat ppl badly. We are all different. We all have our path. And piling on only creates more suffering. I’m glad you are clean and doing well.
When mulaney divorced his wife, it was reported quickly that he was in a relationship with olivia munn. Soon after, munn was pregnant. Apparently, the ex-wife was blind-sided by all of this. The separation, divorce, mulaney’s rehab all don’t align to favourably suggest that the divorce was amicable and whenever anna is interviewed, she admits that she is very uncomfortable (more uncomfortable than usual divorces). There may be alleged cheating and home wrecking. Munn also has a weird reputation with married guys.
i find that munn putting her kid/new love life all over media to be disgusting af under the circumstances...seriously - she got what she wanted/to flaunt it on tv show after tv show is beyond insensitive . feel SO sorry for his ex.
I feel bad for the ex. Seems like she was present at his worst. I'm surprised she stayed that long. But u never know if he was hiding it well. Seth mentioned how they did an intervention at his worst. SNL is a toxic environment. Once someone starts drugs there is no stopping. Relapse is very quick after recovery. Most times nothing really triggers the relapse. It's more the addictive nature of the drug.
Surprised she stayed this long? It just all depends on the person, and we weren't there so I don't feel it's right to blame one or the other. I suffer from horrible anxiety and depression, suffered a sexual assault, but my husband was my rock. He stood by me through the mood swings, the outbursts and the suicidal thoughts. He always asks if there's anything he can do or if I just need him to listen. I don't blame her for leaving and I don't blame him for his addiction I. The grand scheme, they just didnt work.
I feel bad for both of them, clearly they couldn't give eachother the support they needed. And addiction really is not a joke, nor are the people who are addicted to any form of substance. I don't think he deserves to be shit on just as she doesn't deserve to be shit on for this situation. I'm sure they both have valid reasons as to how one made the other unhappy. I hope they go happily on separate ways.
If you listen to his material, he started abusing substances WAY before SNL!!!! He was barely a teenager. Poor guy has had a lifetime of struggle. He wasn't happy during lockdown & couldn't take not being productive & having a work routine. Educate yourself before you speak ppl
I agree-a lot of sadness he put a smile over- I think he has unresolved issues with his Dad - and even in that Seth Meyers interview, Seth was so amazing and supportive yet I felt like John was, as you say, putting a smile over, but deep down there is NO WAY he doesn’t know how much his unfortunate actions HURT ANNA and i am not convinced he’s fully dealt with that reality yet
i love john as a celebrity but y’all have to internalize that just because somebody comes across as charming and bubbly and fun and likeable when it’s their job to do so, does not necessarily mean they’re always like that. i’m not gonna say john is a bad person, because he’s a human being who’s surely seen his fair share of pain and struggle through his life, but i’m also not gonna say he’s a good one because none of us truly know him personally. it’s unfair of us to butt our head into the personal business of a celebrity like that
I think the problem here is that this stuff is deliberately made public. So people will talk about it. It's like when Will Smith mentioned he is in an open relationship, people will talk about it. Maybe keep that stuff private?
I think the hardest part of accepting this was that the girl was Olivia Munn. The girl who wanted John regardless that he was then in a happy marriage. Plus, her being problematic didn't help
he wasn't in a happy marriage bc people in happy marriages don't have affairs, I don't blame her for the affair, he was the married man but she is known to mess around with married guys
@@kelseycoca when the guy u messing with is in a public monogamous relationship, any normal human with enough emotional intelligence would feel guilt. Obviously he has most of the blame and he's a pos, but she's not free of guilt
I understand people fall out of love. And I myself used to LOVE John mulaney and his comedy. Every Friday me and my family would sit down to watch his shows and laugh. But what he did to Anna truly broke what respect I had for him. I hope she can find someone new and better than him 💖
He has a lot of his own personal demons to slay. There’s no way anyone can be in a successful relationship especially a marriage with another person without resolving their own issues first. You have to be solid first and good with yourself before you pull another person into your life. Loving someone only goes so far.
I think dealing with your shit before having kids is a bit of a fake ideal. I’ve never seen it lol…especially nowadays, with how expensive it is to care for yourself, not to mention therapy. You either like the person your with and want kids or you don’t.
@@rakimhinds6388 i mean, what you’re saying is true, but generational trauma is still so prevalent. when ppl talk about sorting their issues before having children is usually cause they’ve first hand felt what having unavailable parents does to your mind. it’s so hard dealing with that later in life. so trying to be a healthy parent is at least a good way to start, even if you’ll never be “fully healed” from all your issues and scars.
Yikes... his words did not age well in the slightest. The comments about his wife never knowing the real him, his complete disinterest in his wedding, saying how it's nice for someone to know the real him when he's not on drugs... So many red flags that all point to him having never cared for his ex wife to begin with. The way he talked about his wife versus the one time he talked about his girlfriend? Night and day. He never cared for that woman. He settled for someone that was in love with him but it was not reciprocated. Wasted her time and efforts and now she's hurt because of his adultery and sloppiness. What a trash man. Really thought Mulaney was a wholesome guy. And the way he just so casually says his ex needs to die?? He really couldn't give two shits about that poor woman, huh?
The comedy routine where we wants his ex to die was made a few years back and not directed towards his ex wife at all as they had recently gotten married at that point in time, Tbh that was just a jokey “relatable” standup routine from one of his Netflix specials. Not defending his actions at all as I agree what he did was scummy but we don’t exactly have the full story either only bits and pieces. That clip was horribly edited out of context here, in my opinion.
What pisses me off the most is that Anna was there for him throughout his addiction….addicted have NO CLUE what it is like for the ones that love them. The ones that know they are more than their addiction and they deserve to be the best version of themselves. It’s takes so much love, so much selflessness to love an addict and stick by their side throughout their addiction & recovery. John quite literally took all of that love and effort and sacrifice Anna made to stay with an addict over the years and just shit all over it like she was absolutely nothing to him and I think that’s gotta be the saddest thing of all of this……for this reason i unfortunately think most addicts should be fully single when starting their recovery process. You have no idea who you’re going to be at the other end of recovery and it’s not fair to drag those that loved you and we’re there for you along for the ride
I think you are adding your own experiences to this and not actually looking at the timelines. 1- Anne and John meet when John was years into sobriety. 2- John didnt relapse until the pandemic. 3- Interviews with John at the time showed a rocky marriage. She didnt go to his award show because she was certain he would lose, he was constantly doing appearances and working with seth meyers because he wanted to keep busy, etc. 4- The first time he got out of rehab, he immediately seperated. So the second time he relapsed and went into rehab again, he was already separated from her. 5- He's talked about one of his interventions, and hes named the friends that were there to help him get to rehab. From the sound of it, she was no longer involved in his life at that point. I don't know enough to say this was his first rehab or second visit, but he says he was unwilling to go the first time. So to me this sounds like his first intervention. From all this i have to imagine that their relationship was already rocky before he relapsed, and although Anne loved John, to say "she made a sacrifice over the years to stay with an addict" is a bit much because she just didnt. Also, im going to be honest here, she's making great use of this divorce in her career. I know it sounds incensitive now, because obviously shes an artist and shes expressing her pain through her art, but isnt this the same thing we criticize Justin Timberlake for doing with his breakup with Britney Spears?
@oh my lanta Thank you for this comment. I agree. So many people are projecting and assuming positive things about Anna that we have no proof she did do for John and therefore there is no proof that him wanting to get divorced is so unfair to her. We don't know either way. Honestly, all these clips imply Anna WASN'T supportive of him. There's another stand-up clip that wasn't included where she wasn't concerned he might have lung cancer and believed he could've been accused of a Me Too thing. But he never was. The way
I love John Mulaney's work, always have and I probably always will. Although I have never met Mr. Mulaney "in real life," he is, and has made himself, very relatable over the years. And while a performance on stage is exactly that, a performance, I think it's safe to say there's enough reality in John's performances that cause several fans/ followers/supporters to feel they are allowed to have a response or reaction (despite some who will comment that it's not normal or healthy to have a "parasocial interaction" with the "stars" (he's a normal human being like any of the rest of us, just happens to be more famous and well known, but he's still a human being, living life) and as both a fan and a fellow human being, I want what is best for him. I want that for everyone, including myself. Life's not easy. It is a struggle. The part that's hard for me to watch, even though "it's not my personal business" (it was exposed publicly, and persons in public positions, receive public feedback, it happens) I am saddened that others ended up hurt namely, his wife, yep- Anna IS still legally his wife. For those who don’t believe she was hurt in the process, LOOK at her artwork. The photography of Anna Marie Tendler is talent and success in its own rite. I hope she sells all of her work and I hope she receives all of the awards and accolades that work of her level should receive. Study "Dinner in March" and "A Room that Was" from her series titled Images in the First House and tell me that your mind and brain and heart and soul are not affected. As I study Anna's work, I see a level of talent and skill and artistry that is on the same level as John, but in her own area of expertise and as I think of them and the 11year history they had, as a team (they dated well over four years before they married) I saw them as an unstoppable couple with power together that was still in the stages of being fully unleashed. I'm saddened because the pandemic triggered a relapse for John, it triggered a lot for a lot of us. The year sucked, no doubt about it. And while I understand “things go the way things go” sometimes, I can't help but think and wonder, if O.M. had NOT ended up carrying John's offspring, if more time could have passed for John, without the distraction of DATING someone new RIGHT outta rehab, maybe, just maybe at Step 9 of his 12 Steps, when it was time for making amends, his amends with his lovely and talented Wife who he had at once adored and held dearly, that his bonds with her could have been remembered and reawakened and been re-exposed (for I fully believe they are all STILL there, beneath the surface, and John could have been rejoined and reunited in relationship with a woman that I believes he shares a more compatible union with and I believe he was meant to be with- but it seems now, we may never know.
@@fineanddanya and truly, thank you for all of the work and time that you dedicated to create this contemplative compilation- the use of the blackouts, on either end, along with the emphasis on the transition lines, “You Don’t!!” “…something happens” and the final line struck thoughts -not only about how well we know others, but causes us to question how deeply we are willing to go to examine the depths of ourselves- thank you for creating something that did that for/to me.
Very nice reflexion, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I haven’t heard of John Mulaney for some time now and I’m very shocked by what’s been happening. I just hope everyone involved will turn out okay :(
And this is life.....totally unpredictable....and, speaking for myself (soon to be 74 yrs old), nothing has worked out the way I planned. Still....even at this old age. 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve never dealt with alcohol or drug issue (had a husband who was usually out of control and after 7 yrs and two little girls...after trying to help him for 2 years), but I’m kind of an expert on schizophrenia (yes..my ex had it all...and I never knew it) and people who over indulge in alcohol. This is life. In my next life....hopefully....I’ll be unmarried and caring for unwanted animals at a sanctuary. No kids...tho I adore mine and my 5 grandkids (all grown up adults now). I just prefer non humans to most adult humans. Too much drama and causes a drain on my already pretty low energy level (from caring for so many beings ... both human and non human... this time around, in this lifetime). Not sure why my life has been so chaotic, stressful and full of sorrow.....but, I’ve come to realize I was looking elsewhere for what has been inside me all along: strength, compassion, empathy, love, joy, peace and common sense.
Thanks for saying this. I can relate. As for drugs, I did develop a dependency for a while and it was all rooted in trauma and trying to escape pain. Drug use destroys a lot of things and people who are addicts are very unhappy people. As for children, They are grown and I love so much and will never regret having them, but my babies are gone and I will miss them everyday for the rest of my life. And things did not work out the way I’d hoped when I had them. They are beautiful people but i would love to rewrite those years. If I’d known there would be this much pain when they grew up and are no longer the children they once were I may have decided not to have children. I know not everyone goes thru this, but I do. As for animals, I foster and advocate for them as well as care for my menagerie. These sweet babies never grow up or change and get me through my most difficult days.
I'm turning 32 soon and I just found my 4th kitten on the streets living on an island I moved to 2 years ago. My life looks like it's heading in the direction of giving my energy to animals and the environment. People have drained me as well. I appreciate your honest outlook on your life and I hope you are finding some peace these days.
@@herenow4550 Awwwwwwww. There’s nothing like that first look of trust in a stray kitten’s (or cat’s) eyes. In my opinion. I love non humans. I love a few humans....but not many. Since I was a child I connected with my grandfather and his ability to hide (and care for) stray dogs in his big tool shed (we had two dogs inside house and my mom would have flipped). Never told my mom. She liked animals, but not like me and my grandfather. I’ve lost so many tho....it hurts a lot. It’s like losing a child (I lost my youngest daughter to heart issues almost 10 yrs ago...she was young...a vet tech....loved animals also). It seems worth it tho. It’s not the quantity of life that matters....I think it’s the quality of life that matters. My dad died when I was inky 16 yrs old (heart issues too). Why I’m still here, I have no idea. 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve taken in two stray cats (they’ve been inside now for many years...both showed up different times....the one who showed up almost 5 yrs ago was diagnosed with feline leukemia.... had to get two vaccines for Maya...the cat who was here 3 years before Zuzu showed up). I adore them...they tolerate each other. Also I’ve been feeding 13 feral cats for the past 9 yrs. I have huuuge cat shelters in my little back yard area. They’ve survived almost 10 winters. Only lost one...to cancer....last summer.😢 Sorry...I’m rambling. I’m glad you’re helping our non human pals out. They have no voice to speak up for themselves. Most humans, in my opinion, won’t shut up. Sorry for the chatty ramble, but I’m human. 😊. Good luck with your kitties! Thx for taking them in. 💖🥰
@@juliakay6204 Thank you for sharing this and being honest about your experiences. I'm sorry things turned out this way for you. I hope you can find peace and joy.
Let me start by saying that I wish you well and I thank you for sharing. However, I think it's awful to say that you don't want children when you already have them. I don't say this to hurt you, but I think you should consider that it may hurt your children or grandchildren to hear that. If not yours, then maybe for someone else in a similar situation who reads this, think about that. I know that it would hurt me to hear my mom or parent saying those words. It would make me feel like I was a mistake. I do wish you well and I empathize with feeling drained. I hope that I wasn't too hard on you. It sounds like you need a recovery of your own from the traumatic events that took place in your life. Please take care of yourself and take all the time that you need to heal in THIS life.
I’m sure they were very much in love for most of their relationship. I’m sad that it ended the way it did and I can only wish the best for both of them.
Not for me , he has gone through trouble and has always been funny, just because his marriage didn't worked out , it doesn't mean He did something wrong
Addiction puts huge strains on families. Addicts are not themselves when they are high. They can be mean, they can be explosive or broody and detached. It is hard enough to keep a marriage hwalthy without that added challenge. I can absolutely imagine a situation where a once loving and great relationship ends amid an addicts relapse.
@@susansmith493 Along the same vein, no parent wants to watch their son suffer at the hands of a selfish partner either. This is not about her thinking her daughters are flawless.
Idk where this is going but my heart broke a little when I heard his voice on late night. He sounds so unsure of what’s happening. He’s a really talented and I think good person but this could go any which way
I loved John mulaneys stand up but it’s hard for me to watch it anymore... my first relationship failed due to cocaine and alcohol changing the person I loved 😢 this news actually caused my heart to break again because i can empathize with Anna in a very real way. Drugs are horrible and now I’m not really able to enjoy his specials any more. 😣
The coolest thing about John was his nice, guy next door kind of humor. Idk shit about their marriage but he shot himself in the foot. Imo, Anna is a better artist anyway, lol.
She's a painter lol. Even if Picasso made his best work today, I doubt anyone would give a damn about it as much as they'd like even a mediocre stand up routine.
it's not a competition. Also I'd never heard of her except as his wife. It depends what sort of art and what sort of performance you are into. Not into contemporary visual art at all, so she may be amazing but totally off the radar for many of us
At the time of his intervention before he went to rehab, he was already living in an Airbnb, so it's not a stretch to assume his marriage might have been effectively over by that point anyway. I think people are operating under the assumption that he got out of rehab and only then made the decision to end his marriage and take up with a new girlfriend.
Idk. I can't say I didn't lose a tiny bit of respect for him 😅 I completely understand that celebrities don't exist to please us, but also.... Dude your life is quite public... It feels like an explanation isn't an outrageous thing to ask for
Celebrities, just like anyone else, can have changes in life and move on to different things...but he had made his relationship with his wife a big part of his act. We know a lot more about his marriage than some others. I know almost nothing about Dave Chappelle's wife, for example. It makes it hit harder than just hearing the headline "comedian and wife split".
Some people are saying that he cheated because of the babies timeline and birth but I checked and their divorce was finalized January 6 and the baby was born on November 24 a month after the divorce was finalized would’ve been the time of conception so based off that we don’t really have proof that he ever did. It’s perfectly normal for people to date after a divorce and sometimes accidental pregnancies happen.
He got married, had a crisis, separated then got divorced. He’s not unique in that respect. People fall out of love especially when there are additional stressors like addiction to contend with. I do think that his addiction probably made children an impossibility for his wife to contemplate but Olivia was ready for kids and hasn’t experienced living with him when he’s under the influence. I sincerely hope it all works out because half of the battle in recovery is learning to live in your new reality and his has shifted A LOT. All that said he seems to have a fantastic support system in his friends so it looks promising.
Welp, he’s moved on to Olivia Munn 🔥 and now their expecting a child. Kinda feel bad for his ex, I read that she was devastated from the divorce and now he’s starting a family with his “rebound”. I don’t know the details of their life, but she was with him from the beginning even thru his addiction problems. I dunno 🤷🏻♂️