In this rare example Overdurf demonstrates meta model questioning and connecting them to other nlp models to help achieve deep understanding and great result
If you get this, then you get it & it is priceless.... The vibes are totally there. Words are powerful, the mind is always listening. Massive love to you people!
Wow this particular example of meta-models is extremely good and he's integrating anchors really well. Watch each time he touches the arm of her chair. He doesn't even touch her but he's obviously calibrating an anchor and stacking multiple anchors on touching just the chair. That's really key to understanding what he's doing verbally.
What I got out of this ultimately is that it's not about accessing a "state of mind", it's about accessing a "state of feeling", because the mind is confused about the concept of one's PURPOSE (because it is a great unknown), yet we know in our HEART the feelings that we feel that are PURPOSEFUL to our emotional needs, and THAT is what we should be aiming for.
Hi John, I enjoyed that immeasurably! You are brilliant and you remind me that at 85, I still have a huge amount to learn. You help me look forward to learning it! Mina McGuigan. Bonnie Scotland.
It's amazing how easily John strings together different language patterns (very slick pacing, meta model 3 type questions, non-linear, etc), depending on what he's doing. So many people probably don't even notice them.
Go straight to his website and buy some of his stuff. You will get it much quicker and more in depth than youtube. I love his work and considering a trip across the globe to go live.
1st time seeing this guy, it felt as though he was charming her into following his lead. “I forgot about those people out there” kind of talk as he’s smiling at her....🤨 making her feel different seemed like he was trying to convince her she’s living her dream right now as supposed to her realizing it on her own. Her body language was stiff and she’s probably acting to give him the right answers. It would be interesting to see a follow up of her life 1 year later.
Same here. I dont know why some many people say his approach is outsdanting and so on, maybe people couldn't understand Richard Bandler nor even Milton Erickson and these people tried everyone else to get what Bandler or Erickson meant. And the more we search for different sources the more we get confused. You see, many people here are really good in detecting patterns, but that is. They are good in teaching and remember names and terms. Betty Alice Erickson (Erickson daughter) said Richard Bandler and John Grinder did a great work of her father approach, but both Grinder and Bandler made it too much harder, many weird terms, a lot of unecessary things.
Ouff personal space, I feel for that lady sitting on that chair, he is ignoring her body language as she is leaning away and he keeps coming into her space. I do think she would be more open IF he was a bit further away!
No. He’s stretching out the problem, accessing new resources and then testing them. “As you focus on (good feeling) think about (problem)” when you work in hypnosis, real hypnosis, you can be very conversational and to the untrained observer it looks just like normal conversation.
For one thing, Socrates never wrote anything down. Another one thing, is that "stuff" belongs not to this world. For sale, it is not. Let him who hath ears, listen. NLP could be used for much greater things.
Considering how old it is & the state of the world I'm guessing NLP / psychology is starting to be used for amazing things, we are all wanting the world peace & kindness to prevail
Sometimes women don’t want us to “fix it” just to listen. Haha , NLP is the ultimate man fix it linguistic. Calm down Milton . Did you remember his birthday ? ;)
We really need to beef up the agency that licenses hypnotists to prevent people who dabble in it but control it just enough so that nobody realizes what they are doing. When someone is suggestive, and asks you to imagine yourself, another person, or another place, or asks you to make abstract connections to ideas and emotions, or to linger in your mind about anything, and they want to be paid for it, they need to be seriously vetted. There is a guy who I just saw in another video who looks like he is holding a college level class with all 18 to 19 year old girls in it who sit there for his class about an hour and 45 minutes. In the first ten minutes, I just remember that it seemed like he was going to take his time and that was boring me, and I fell asleep. When I came back to it, I started watching around 40 minutes in. You can see he filmed the girls, and by then, they were pretty much in the alpha state, that was probably the "perfect" state he refers to. 40 minutes of a rambling monologue can get you pretty tired and your mind can be vulnerable to suggestions. There is no doubt in my mind that they were on a hypnotized level. He was telling these girls that a seed of a sequoia has to be small so that it can go in the womb, (not in the earth). He suggested that it was half the size of his thumb. He compared making analogies to parables. He said this is the royal blue print and that this was the big analogy or the main analogy,. This was his shining moment to suggest this to these girls in this state of mind, and nobody said a thing. You can see them just barely reacting. He was trying to say that when they have ideas they have to start small, and his analogy was getting into the womb, and they "know the phases," and "bam," and "shit." There is no doubt that he was referring to the gestation period of a baby in a womb. He kept referring to "IT" over and over. He said basically that they have to take care of IT, until IT is 18 or 19. This was supposedly at a "university." When you get suggestions in this state of mind, they can stay with you and seriously affect your thinking. There is food that I used to eat all my life that with one statement, I have been unable to bring myself to eat that food in 5 years since. I was so sickened by this man that I wrote a full page comment, but I didn't send it because I really think that he should be fired and prohibited from teaching or, God forbid, giving therapy anywhere. His website uses words like "levels" and "spiritual" but if you are suggesting to your students getting into the womb, that is a sexual suggestion, and trying to get your students to fantasize about you using his weird analogies should at least be required to hand out free barf bags. I wish every student in that class, and their parents, and whoever is running that "university" would watch that video starting at 43:00 and see what he said. He gets going pretty fast, but the more I replayed it, the worse it got. I couldn't even watch any more because I don't know what to do if it got worse. Maybe someone else would know what to do. To all of you, I wish you would watch it and see how - what you may think is an educational class, bringing you to a better place with God, or with your inner self, or socially, can easily make an entire group of people into weary minded sheep that don't even notice when someone is completely out of line, and you can come away with powerful thoughts that you can't get rid of, or you begin doing unexplainable things. I cannot snap my fingers and begin eating that food again that I quit eating, and it has been about five years, that is how powerful it is. Hypnosis is a big deal. Once they start using the process, you know, they are trying it on you or your friends, they can totally shut down part of your brain where you appear awake, active, and even talking, but you can wake up from it without knowing how much time passed, and not remember anything. Another time, I was hypnotized at an arts and crafts fair, and I only answered about four questions with my eyes closed. When I woke up, the entire park was bare, and I don't know how much time had passed. I was totally cured of my claustrophobia within 24 hours, but I know I was just lucky nothing else happened. Anyway, stay alert and when someone wants you to focus, look at the clock, think about what you are there for, remember where your wallet and your keys are, focus on logic, your moral boundaries, what is too personal, and don't enter into a conversation that gets you emotional without a friend with you who is able to observe, who is totally unaffected or skeptical about it. I don't know what I would do about the bad guy because I don't like feeling like I have to make this claim. I think the girls should read my comment here and see the video. This is my thoughts for now.
