I am 83 years old. Cannot do a lot of the things I used to do, but do the things I can. I get up every morning and thank God for the free gift of eternal life. Romans 6:23. Then I make coffee. I thank God for my wife of 64 years. Taking my Harley to the shop to day for new tires and a little maintenance I use to do my self. But my poor old back just does not like doing those things anymore. I still do most of the things like changing oil and changing spark plugs and fixing any electrical problems. But the heavy stuff is for the young guys to make a little money from me for their service. Fortunate to have a good shop a half mile from my house. Appreciate your wisdom and encouragement. We all need it every day. Tomorrow I will do this or that, Lord willing and the creek don't rise. God bless you for taking the time for insight in what you do the cowboy way. You have a way of putting people at ease but also not to give up and do nothing. Just find another horse to ride. I like it. I retired 19 years ago from being a trouble shooter for a refinery pipeline. I had 220 miles of pipeline and four pump stations to keep running. Worked around pump stations with 1400 pounds of pressure on gasoline and 2400 volt pump motors. Lots of driving and worked alone most of the time.
@@jeffdixon5430 Thanks guys. I just got done mowing my acre of yard this morning. I live a couple of miles from a small town of 7500. Just thankful I can still do the things I need to do, and I will keep on keeping on until I can't. The Lord said, occupy until I come. That is what we do. I owe a lot to my wife who has supported me in everything I have done. When I was 14, back in 1955, I had an old 1942 Harley "45" flat head. I was at a track meet 4 miles away, and asked a girl if she wanted to go for a ride. She hopped on behind me and we went for a little ride around town. She is the one I have been married to for 65 years on June first. Best earthly decision I have made my whole life.
I am currently 19 years old. I have a decent job, I work with good people, and all things considered I should enjoy it, but I don't. I do not enjoy what I do and have felt for a long time that I'm not where I'm supposed to be. Ever since starting this job my mental and physical health have declined to the lowest point they've been in a long time. The whole time that I've been feeling this stress, depression, and anxiety, I've felt guilty. Most of the people I've confided in about my uncertainty, have told me that I should be grateful for the position I'm in, and this just increases the guilt. Watching this video made me realize that no position in life is worth sacrificing yourself. I think it may just be time for me to find another horse to ride. Thank you Dewayne. God bless you.
@@tylerhammond8392 my last day at my current job is tomorrow! I will instead be working with a local business building a website for them and focusing more on a passion project of mine. I was worried how I’d feel approaching these last days at my current job, but as I get closer I feel more and more excited.
When Dewayne said " I still feel alive" my eyes opened up wide and I felt this lump in my throat.. those 4 little words are so powerful.... thank you very much.
I started welling up with tears a little bit when you said "What if it goes right?" Just reminds me of all the times I expect things to go wrong. Thanks again Dewayne!
Exact same here mate. Wife and baby taken into a mother and baby unit yesterday due to postpartum depression and on the same day I was in A&E with medical issues. I hope you get through your issues whatever they may be. Love from England 🙏🙏🙏
Get busy living and don't worry about things you can not control. Your passion for things in this life are the things that dreams are made of! Best Wishes to You and Your Family!!!
Dropping an obligatory "God bless you", Dewayne. You've been helping me get through some tough times with your videos. Heavily appreciative of you and your advice and philosophy.
I’m 77, and still appreciate your wisdom DeWayne. I’ve had to start over several times, but I did it for my family. No regrets. I recently pulled a starved old mare out of the kill pen, and she’s turning out to be my perfect “ last horse.” Not only me, but I think my mare, Molly, also found another horse to ride. Best regards.
ever since i was a kid in the 60's i wanted a horse so bad i would sneak with a friend to a local stable against my dad's rule. i always read books about them and just dreamed i would own one. life does get in the way and after raising 3 kids , my husband and i bought 2 acres with the idea to build a house and finally get my horse. my husband got hurt and became disabled. i knew we couldn't afford the dream so i just prayed and asked God to have horses for me in heaven . i bought those 2 acres in my 50's thinking it wasn't too late. now i am 69. no regrets b/c i still have my best friend, my husband ,and we go camping with our 4 boston terriers . God bless love your wisdom and philosophy on life.
My Grandpa would say be careful of the doors you open ? Sometimes you can't close them ! I say build a New Door! Congratulations Dewayne i enjoy all you do! Yahoo
Hello Dewayne, I live in the bitterroot valley of Montana and I’ve been following you since you were over in the Palouse. You and I are kindred spirits I think. I’m also originally from Kentucky and in a few days I’ll be turning 67. I’m not much of an internet guy so I’ve been nervous about posting comments. After listening to you in this video I just wanted to introduce myself and let others know that you are 100% spot on. After being away from the cowboy world for quite awhile I was ready to get back to this life, and it’s exactly what you say. I purchased 3 horses in an online auction over in Oregon 2 1/2 years ago. Everyone I know thought I was crazy but it has been extremely rewarding. It’s taken a lot to get past accepting that I’m not 25 anymore,And yes I have fallen off and I sure don’t bounce like I used to, but it’s all been worth it. Thanks for everything y’all are doing, you’re making a difference for folks.
Dewayne not sure how but you always seem to reach into my soul. Both my wife and I “fell off our horses” a few years ago. She was let go from a job after 20 years for refusing the jab. I had medical issues and had to retire early. We are both trying to find our way still raising two daughters who are still in school. We both need to get a new horse. Thanks
Wow -- super impactful. I am young but for several years the wind has been absent from my sails. I have no excitement for my future except when Jesus returns, perhaps very soon. I was sharing a prayer request earlier this week that I feel like I've "missed my calling" "missed the boat I was supposed to take to different harbors" and in response to my prayer request the advice given to me was: there's still life in you so obviously you haven't missed your calling. God still has a plan for you, and that was really comforting to me. Made me feel like less of a failure. ❤ Made me feel like God hadn't given up on me or wasn't up there rolling His eyes feeling like He has to just "deal with me." Instead, He loves me. He has a perfect plan for me. He works all things out for good. ❤
People have been waiting for Jesus to return since he paid for our sins. Just focus on making yourself the best version of yourself. That's all the lord wants for all of.
I wouldn’t advise putting your life on hold because you think Jesus is coming. There is a very long history of humans that did nothing but rant and rave in town squares about how the rapture was coming that died without ever seeing it. Whether the rapture comes is God’s business and God’s business alone, it does you no good sitting around making plans for it & creating stagnancy in your life.
@@avril99887766 @avril99887766 Agreed. I am saying there is nothing for me to look forward to naturally. As he gives an example, he got himself a new horse to enjoy instead of reminiscing on the years gone by, and I haven't really done that yet. But I don't have much hope in retirement in this world, lol, unless the world repents. Mind you I am not on some mountain waiting for Jesus to return, because not even Jesus knows the time. But I am watching, which is a good and instructed thing to do with the wisdom that He may not come while I am alive. He also instructs us to "redeem the times for the days are evil." So we are to be useful to God, and working in His good work when He returns, not looking at the clouds having sold our possessions. I just need another "horse" to look forward to. Something earthly to enjoy, the natural fruits of reward, of hope, of future. And this man has found it in a simple thing as owning a new horse, and I think that's a wonderful example and hope. ❤️ Thank you for your comment; lots of great conversations here. ❤️
Been there when the forever horse doesn’t work out- it’s an adjustment for sure. Went to Az bought a 3 yr old and proceeded to get to know him and learn a bunch of new skills. At the age of 70. Never give up- get another horse to ride🐴.
I’m listening to your message and asking myself the same questions; “what now”? I’ve had a good life, some might say a not-so-ordinary life. I’ve been successful in virtually everything I’ve attempted. College, US Air Force pilot training, flew in Vietnam for 2 tours of duty, started and built up a successful business that allows my wife and I to have all we want and need. But along the way, I lost two boys, one at 19 and one at 40. One remaining son and four granddaughters. They are the roses among the thorns of life. I’m not ready for the rocking chair yet, as Gus told Woodrow. I’m looking for new challenges, and hope to find one or more soon. I’m involved with my church, which means a lot to my wife and I. And don’t worry about where you might be at 77, the Good Lord will take care of you Dwayne. He has plans for you and me. I trust Him completely at age 80. He has saved my life on more than one occasion when the lead was flying. All the best to you and your new horse.
You sir have lived a life, amid the gallantry of thorns that is losing a loved one. And came out the other hand, with rose petals and words of encouragement. We need more men, and I hope that church does succeed. Not arrogant dominant machismo's, but gentle sweet, and battle ready if needed. I hope that was worth your time. Lord have mercy.
@@vimalpatel4060remove arrogant. But Dominate is still needed. How can you be “battle ready” with no dominance about yourself. To win a “battle” one must “dominate” the opponent.
Thank you, sir, and God bless. I'm 33, disabled autistic with PTSD, your content has helped me quite a bit. I've been struggling lately. Rough on myself concerning a lack of profession. I've always wanted to help people, and I'm now quite interested in becoming an EMT or some kind of paramedic. I have these goals set before me on my own behalf but I thank you for the inspiration. God Bless.
I bought a horse over the internet and had him delivered from South Dakota to Central Oregon and I’m happy as a clam. And I will be 68 this July. 🤷🏼♀️ Love your videos and good luck with those two handsome boys!
Tyler, TX here. An illness has made it so I've got more years behind me than ahead of me, Dwayne. I'm no horseman, but I love this story. As well as your love of a good cigar. Great message, Sir. Thank-you.
I used to be a boxer and as boxers know liver shots are crippling. The pain makes you cringe and bend forward but the best way to get rid of the crippling feeling you have to put your shoulders back, straighten up and then you can breathe. Now i know i have been taking a few liver shots but I didn't realize I bend over. You need another horse to ride and i realize i needed to put my shoulders back. Either way you made me realize you have to go again. I still have my hands up but I'll be dancing soon enough, thank you sir.
Mr. You aren’t BSn. Life can and does kick us in the belly at times. I’m 55. Just turned 55 at the beginning of this month. I’ve found in life that we get beat down several times, and I’ve seen people who just gave up, and others who “get another horse”. 🐎 Myself personally, I’ll never give up on myself or my family. I’ve had to start over 4 times in life. Completely. And at the age I’m at now, I think I’ve done pretty well for myself and my family. I find myself reminding my kids to never give up on themselves. They are getting into their 30s and are starting to experience life’s real ups and downs, but I’m there for them. Hey, anyways, I hope you made it back home safe and sound and with those 2 horses. God Bless ya and keep on ridin bud.
Sir, I will believe until the day that I die that God put this message on your heart to share for me. I needed this more than you will ever know, and I appreciate you sharing this wisdom.
Beautiful message and beautiful horses, sir. They put a sparkle in your eye, no doubt about it. Very happy to hear your fire for life is as bright as ever. Just got me a couple wheels and a motor to tear up Nevada. I’ll call it my new horse!
Hi Dewayne. You might be amazed to learn how this message literally saves lives. The suicidal thoughts are intense for many and this message helps a lot.
Just lost my job after 15 years with the company, and have to say, this really got me excited about the future, like I am in my 20s again (I am 53 now). I know what you mean.
Poco bloodlines. I am a Morgan breed lover but even I know about the Poco horses. Nice,sensible,athletic. I hope he turns out to be all you dream. Thank you for this video. A granny in Canada.
I once bought a horse online and got scammed badly. I wouldn't recommend paying until you arrive with the trailer, as there are dishonest people out there. It was a heartbreaker. Dwayne, I'm glad everything worked out for you, and you found good people and great horses.
We bought a few horses over the years and it’s always exciting when a new one comes in and you get to find out what you got but also when a deal is made its made and don’t look back keep moving forward
My heart horse (7/8 Arab 1/8 Quarter horse) lived to be 40. I rescued an OTTB last year. He seems fine to me but the owners of the place I'm boarding said my horse is "too dangerous" for me. I think they're just trying to get him from me.
Hi, God brought your videos to me and I’m thankful. I’ve sure been kicked in the belly. I’m on the downhill side of life and both of your channels have helped me so much so thank you.
Well... I had hoped that I wouldn't need this video, but today I finally came to terms with some heavy stuff. This video was the kick in the chest I needed to finally admit that something's gone wrong and I need to find another horse to ride. God bless you, Dewayne. God bless you, your family, and this channel. With tears in my eyes and from the bottom of my heart, I thank you for everything your words have helped me do and helped me to become.
I had to do that with a career. I lost a job that I had come to really enjoy and it paid really well. It went away unexpectedly. I went broke in the process and learned to rely on God. His provision came from places I didn't expect. In the end I found another horse to ride. It's a good job and it fits me pretty well. In the process I got closer to God, to my family, and found a church family too. My wife found her own horse (career) that she loves along the way too. Our future isn't going to be hardship free but it's looking better every day.
I bought my first horse 8 months ago as a Middle Aged adult and I hadn’t taken lessons since my early 20s and it’s been amazing. He’s been lame for half of it but I’m working hard to find the right farrier and vet to get us straight. Current vet and farrier said we can get him sound and they focused on his shoes and feet first and didn’t push injections so they seem to be the right people.
When I'm going through hard times I know I can always come to listen to these videos and they're going to remind me that everything's gonna be alright.
This is Alpha energy. Recognize.. it’s calm, comfortable.. and take charge. Even keeled… keeps an eye out on the ranch- calm but one also knows not to mess with him because he’s a survivalist. Alpha does not mean crush “just because.” It’s called Leadership.
Been awhile since I heard one of your videos - always appreciate them. I'm a truck driver struggling with a bad skin infection that's getting worse and threatening to maybe loose my arm if I don't just stop to heal. I'll lose my job by doing so and have been forcing and trying everything I can do to keep what I got. This week I finally accepted that keeping my arm and finding another horse to ride when I'm ready is just whats going to have to happen. Thanks for this confirmation
Thank you. I needed this today. I have been in a deep depression for the last year. Just starting to pull out of it. I need a new job and you helped me see i need to get moving on it. Well pat a horse for me. Mine died years ago miss him dearly.
2 divorces iam good. I bought two motorcycles and live at the beach. Not getting another horse. But my Concours has 1400 horses! And I got excited while on a walk on the beach this morning while watching a sun rise!
Good luck with your new horses , lost my last horse this winter ( he was 26 ) I’m 69 , he was wonderful and I just can’t bring myself to find another . I think I’m ok with my memories . ❤❤
Ohh My Brother YOU did it Again ! Your video a while back telling us that you lost Ray 🥲, The Lord spoke to me . He was preparing me to say goodbye to Willow . I did not want to even listen as your kind heart shared how We had given the Horse a good life . Be comforted in that . Anyway, Willow is gone from my care . I was never able to buy Her . The owner wanted more than I was able to. Pay. This new video you just posted has made me smile 😊 I once again hear God’s Voice . Through you He is encouraging me to keep moving forward with Horses. Funny enough, I actually just began to sit on top of Bear ! He turns 3 in June . We are going slow and He is doing fantastic. ( I gave Little Bear to my Husband ). So like You, maybe I will find my Horse to call my Own . After 50 years waiting, your message gave me that hope . Thank you Both you mean a lot to me . Laura 💜
Thank you for your words sir I’m so proud of you for getting these new horses And I’m glad you got the second one It’s gonna be a new chapter for them and for you
Your videos showed up on my feed last week, and I've been watching you since - it's as if the Uncle I should've had finally came to encourage me and tell me lessons I needed to hear. May your new horse Peso serve you well, Dewayne.
Dewayne is hittin me in the feels. Thank you yet again sir, your wisdom is helpin me grow and learn from my mistakes. I'll be 27 this year & your videos are the advice I've needed all my life. Beautiful horses & amazing video. Happy belated birthday and I'm glad you've found your horse you deserve it. Be well
Love the video and thank you for taking the time to make it. Your my favorite fellah on RU-vid and a inspiration to a Dad of 7 boys and a brand new new baby girl 😃
As if the shared wisdom of Dewayne did not bring the tremendous value and perspective that it does, the reflections of the readers adds to that significantly. Thanks to all of you, but most especially to Dewayne for creating content that actually has value. Just tremendous. Best sermons I've ever listened to.
Your videos are the best thing that’s ever happened to me man thank you for being this genuine of a person 23 & convincing myself I’m 56 because of everything I’ve been through found you tonight quitting everything tomorrow and focusing on being a better me!!
Doesn't matter how rough day I had at work, coming home and watching one of mr. Dewaynes videos will always make my day. he teaches, he inspires, he makes peoples day he's one of a kind. On top of that i love how no matter what work stuff he's dealing with he always finds a moment to record a video. ty for sharing sir.
Wife and I switched to riding mules last year, I met a gentleman in a mule camp that is 79 and he really inspired me (I'm 61) to keep moving forward. Thank you for this video.
