Everyone’s talking about the kid being good, but nobody’s talking about how he said “It’s ok mom, don’t take this lady’s bag” before the Karen even *started* trying to steal it. That means she’s tried this same trick enough times that the kid has learned to see it coming, and that’s the saddest part. I wish the best for that kid in the future ❤
@@caitrionanoone8662 maybe the kid learnt that from somewhere else or is simply a good person, I doubt that such a mother actually teaches her kid any common sense.
That kid didn't seem like a brat. I think he knows what his mom is because he was actively trying to stop her. I would even go so far as to say that the kid was quite admirable for saying that he would save up and buy the bag himself
yeah it's the kind boy said mom stop and hed by one for him self with his own money , hats of to the kid for not letining his entitled keren moms crimnal ways to get to him and stayed on the women's side
i dont think we should think that kid is a "spoiled brat" because its normal to ask your mom that you like a backpack a person has and buy it for you at the store and he even tried to stop his mom like bro he doesnt even want it anymore and the mom still tries to take it? the mom is the true villian here.
The entitled mom's son from the first story showed more maturity than the supposed adult who tried to steal the OP's backpack. I honestly would never be okay with being in an open marriage, especially considering what if the woman that I would be dating becomes pregnant by another man that she was "just flirting and kissing" with on the side or vice versa, or how awkward would it be to introduce her to family members. The third story OP's girlfriend was definitely toxic.
Open relationships only work if both parties are truly okay with it. It's definitely not for everybody, and if one person decides they don't want to, even if they said yes previously, then the open relationship can't stay open, and they should either reevaluate the boundaries and revise the agreement, or break up.
Mother: *tries to steal someone’s property for her son risking jail time and possibly losing her son to much needed cps* Also mother: “A small price for dragon backpack”
"If someone treats you like an option. Help them to narrow their choices by removing yourself from the equation" The OPs of the last two stories need to help their parents/SO narrow down their options.
ikr? kid was literally telling his mom to NOT steal that bag and saying he had no problem trying to save up for one himself, that is the OPPOSITE of spoiled
That's fair. If you're monogamous and she's not, it's to be expected that you go separate ways unless an arrangement is worked out that you're both ok with
Always love the contrast a Karen gives between demanding something and wanting it for free. If you wanted it so bad and saw so much value in it, you'd buy one, Karen... But the thing is, you don't see value in it - you just want to impose your will on others and upset them. The OP of the first story handled things well.
I mean, I don't think so, we can't always assume that their cheating because they want an open relationship. Not everyone wants just 1 partner, as I'm poly myself and thats ok..but what the part I don't think is ok is pressuring your significant other into an open relationship. If they aren't comfortable with it then you 2 just aren't combatable, I've broken up with partners because I was poly and it sucks ik, but the relationship is supposed to be equal, not just what 1 specific person wants. But I will say, it's a little strange that she's pressuring him, that rubs me the wrong way
Fourth story: Ask for an open relationship is a red flag, is either she already cheated and loved it, or wants to cheat, both without feeling guilty and don't losing the "benefits" of dating OP.
Story number 3, it's time to put the parents in the same category they've put their daughter in. These parents are friendly acquaintances--not loving parents. Treat them like old neighbors, or former teachers. Don't volunteer ANYTHING, EVER. Unless they ask for your company, don't go visit, or call, or make plans with them. If they ask, say 'no,' unless you can feel really good about it. If they want to spend time with their grandchild, never change plans to make it happen--"Sorry, she's got a dentist appointment. No, Tuesday is our day to go to the park." If your child wants to spend time with them, limit it to an hour. She doesn't need to be around toxic people that long. Basically, be as cold to them as they've been to you. If they want to know why, explain your feelings, but try to leave the money out of it. They'll see this as being entitled, and bratty.
You should change the title of this video because the kid in the first story definitely wasn't a spoiled brat and showed a lot more maturity than his mom.
In the first story, the mother is obviously at fault. Her son actually seems to know better than her, and he's only six. Six! If a six-year-old knows better than their parent, it says somethin' 'bout that parent. Second story: The husband can't do anything to make it up. As the wife said, he spends a lot of time with his friend, not her. So, he needs to fix his priorities, or else he might lose his wife. Third Story: The OP's parents are really neglectful, abusive, and obviously pick favorites. They're not good parents, and never will be good grandparents.
In the 2nd story the wife is the jerk imho because he made the friend arrangement first either forgot about it or valentines day being on the same day made the valentines day arrangement then going to his first routine arrangement.
I absolutely KNOW the "look up and down thingy" over where im from it means "u wanna scrap"! It's a way to express the desire to get into a fight, and it's something that I'm very familiar with. Growing up, it was a phrase that was commonly used in my community.
A friend who lived across the street asked to borrow my backpack, a good Jansport that held up a few years. Said we'd hang out at noon tomorrow. I went over and he left for California that morning. A year later he calls me and asked me to ship his PlayStation he left at my house. I said no, had another call and never clicked back over. Years later he was on the news for starving his kid as punishment and he went to prison.
It always makes me really happy when I see kids growing up as decent people despite their parent(s) being intolerable. The kid in the first story knew that taking ops bag was wrong despite his mom's actions.
The kid from first history is so cute and mature! ❤️ " No mommy! I don't want this lady bag! " - " I can save my pocket money to buy that! " How? How can a kid like this have such a Karen as a mom?? I think its probably just the dad or something like that 😶
Story 1; You know if some crazy karen is willing to just grab some random's personal property like that you have to wonder if she's done it before and how many times she's gotten away with it.
Story 1: Stuff like this is exactly why there are cameras pretty much everywhere nowadays. That Karen was a complete nutcase and i dont know they think they can just steal someones belongings. Even worse when they just expect someone to just hand our their things. I got a pretty good laugh when the OP pulled out on of her bras, that was quite amusing. Good on the bus driver too, for handling this well too. Hopefully the OP doesnt have to take the bus for too much longer. Story 2: Ok, im somewhat conflicted here. While the husband can be seen as a big jerk here, the wife/OP can be too, to a smaller degree. I can clearly see the OPs frustrations with the husband wanting to hang with his friend over her a lot, but when things cancel/change, be it the plans or his mind, the way the OP handled it wasnt great either. He clearly wanted to try and make things right and better, and she pretty much threw it in his face. I dont know if that was the straw that broke the camels back here, but it wasn't handled well by her either. Im sure there are some things that arent being told here. Story 3: More money, more problems it seems. The parents here do seem like spoiled rich boomers here, and i can see here why the OP would think that Boomers have screwed Millenials... and they have in a number of ways, but if i were the OP, i would be limiting contact with them, regardless of their financials. The parents clearly only cared about their cheque book and living the super high life, and certain other relatives and not the OP. I can see sour grapes here, but in the end, i wouldn't be putting up with their attitude. Story 4: Run, OP, RUN!!! If you aren't into that kind of lifestyle, an 'open relationship' is just a poor excuse to cheat. This gf clearly should not be in a relationship of any kind if that is how she views it.
Yeah, if nothing else, she’s made it clear that she doesn’t want the things he wants. Most people consider that a sign that it’s time to end the relationship.
In story 2 the husband isn't being a jerk more stupid. He just forgot when valentines day was and intern scheduling two meetups at the same time. The only "jerk move" was choosing the friend and that's because he made the friend meeting first he evencanceled the friend meeting only to get pushed away he even begged for forgiveness (which imho he shouldn't have) kind of being a doormat there and still getting rejected because "I don't even feel like going out anymore.".
Backpack stealer/attempted mugging with child in tow. Just disgusting Valentine's spouse: If your husband can't give you 20 minutes to share a banana split, maybe you should split. Child of wealthy parents: that's child abuse to centre you out like that and require you to work to pay for hygiene products. Run far away. Committed relationship guy: if your basic values about what constitutes a relationship are polar opposite of your partner, it's a dead end.
it's always sad to me when the kid is the one having to stop their parent from being entitled idiots, gives hope they'll be better adults, but damn, having to grow up having to do this gotta be hard
Bro obviously she is a karen she’d already have a expensive bag that would cost like 200 bucks or more and they have no problem with that, but apparently 20 to 40$ for a school bag is to much lol.
Open relationships equals cheating I'm out I'm 26 years old & never had a gf before. If my future girl does that I'll just walk out & be heartbroken/anger 🤬 I'll find a loyal girl who won't do that
ur not 26 ur name is GAP gamer bruh. You also said anger with emojis like no one above the age of 11 types like that. Also it would be actually sad if u didnt have a girlfriend at that point. last thing, if your that age u wouldnt just say that on a random comment section.
I don’t get why the title is untrue but great stories! (It’s untrue because it says the child was a spoiled brat, he’s like the politest boy I’ve heard on this channel)
Story 4: see my take on open relationships are if you want one, it needs to start open, or else you blind sight someone. People need to set boundaries in the beginning.
At the first story I felt really bad for EM's kid, he was probably really embarrassed by his moms bad behavior, as you can tell by how he said "mom stop it's fine I will save up for one with my pocket money" and the mom completely ignored him. Poor kid.
When the Backpack owner said I can’t help that it totally sounded like my brother like on the dot And bro that kid needs like goated respect he more mature than the freaking adult ❗️🤣🐐
story 3: when op started talking about their parents living the high life, my reaction was "burn the house down". That's just my opinion, but I'd rather be in prison than being denied even basic needs while having rich parents. Also, I'm pretty sure that child labor laws require children to be at least 16 to be employed, so if I'm right about child labor laws, then the parents (and management at the stores) would be breaking the law.
Most children need to be at least fourteen to be employed. It could have been a bit different in the nineties, and we don't know what country OP lives in.
In the second she’s definitely the jerk. He apologised and wanted to make it up to her. Even though he canceled in the end she was still mad. So there is probably something else the problem
@@emocosplayer21 ok what's wrong with you huh, first of all op wants to spend time with her husband, but he made plans to spend with his friend so why would op overreact over that and the husband is clearly in the wrong?
@@viviennemorgan7217 Nothing’s wrong with me. Thanks for asking. The husband very clearly made plans to hang out with his friend first. He then completely forgot about those plans and then asked OP what she wanted to do. When he realized he already had plans, he told her hoping she would understand, and she lost her mind for no good reason. She’s mad because he’s sticking to prior commitments. It would have been understandable had he made plans with her first, then his friend, and cancelled on her. But he didn’t and she pulls the typical woman “I’m mad so now you can’t do anything right or to make it up to me.” to her husband. Did she have a right to be upset? Yes. But if Valentine’s Day is that important to her, she needs to make it clear to him and make it a clear expectation.
Bro, I’m not kidding. The kid must be the hero of the story well kind of because he tried to stop his mom from taking somebody else’s bag my dude needs an Oscar because it’s rare for a kid to be nice but their mom or dad being entitled Karen’s
To the question in story 4: no it's not gonna work, and yes it will get worse over time it's inevitable, so op if you're reading this, prepare for the worst
The child in story 1 is not a entitiled brat, if anything, they are more grown up than the ‘grown up’. that’s all. must’ve had a great father figure that sets better examples.
All she wanted was a banana split! And she even wanted to share. That’s so cute and it was simple enough that he could’ve gone to his bromantic partner the next week.
As for the second story, you’ve gotta consider this from that guy’s perspective. His changing of plans on valentines day shows a back-and-fourth of thoughts and decisions, demonstrating that he was nervous about his decision from the beginning of the problem. I’d be willing to bet that he was torn on what to do and, seeing how it didn’t actually take that long for him to abandon his plans for OP, he made the choice to put OP ahead of his friend. You’ve also got to take in the psychology of the interaction as well. He had prior plans to meet and had a habit built of visiting his friend. Humans, by nature, are habitual creatures. This means that it is prewiered into his brain that his schedule should be followed, and even though it took him a bit to come to his senses, he still broke this psychological tendency. Yes, he should have sorted out his priorities a lot earlier than when he did. That was an ass move on his part, even if it’s understandable from a psychological standpoint. The best way to move forward is to simply sit down and have a chat about exactly how you feel and let him do the same. Work out what needs to be taken as important in your lives and come to a mutual agreement.
The 1st story, sometimes parents taught bad thing to their kids. Hopefully, the kid will do well. I remember my story about an entitle mother and her good son. We were in line to buy street food. When it was my turn, this entitle mother immediately spoke that she wanted this and that while her finger was pointing the foods. Her son (probably 6 - 8 years old) spoke that it should be my turn. You know what? The mother "shoo" him and said "be quiet". I can't believe what I just saw. This woman taught her kid a bad thing! It could possibly affect him. Fortunately, the seller knew that I was first before them, so they served me first.
Story 4: open relationships are a bomb waiting to go off, and in that situation there are three different ways it can go down,1 you break up, 2 you stay with them but don't do certain "things" with them if they do it often with other for obvious safety reasons, and 3 give them the ultimatum it's either me or them you can't have both.
I'm an a polygamous relationship and yeah it can have its downsides but I've never been happy with one person (didn't knowni was aroace until recently) But being either the partners I have, has been the most loved I've ever felt. Open relationships aren't really cheating if both parties consent abd communicate with each other. If only one person is suggesting an open relationship after years, its mist likely they are or have been cheating already.
Last story - Most likely, she has already met someone she either wants to be with or has already been with. Tell her to have at it and move on. You deserve much better.
Watching this video reminded me of when I was 9 and I was riding my bike on a bmx track and a Karen told me to get lost because her 6 yr old son wanted to climb on the ramps
Last. I think that poly/open relationship can work ONLY if they start as such. Because only like this both people are 100% ok and there's nobody taking advantage of the situation. To me cheating is betraying someone's trust, so if someone starts a relationship as non monogamus they all know how things are going to do. But if someone suddently chooses to open the relationship, then they are practically forcing the partner to choose between opening the relationship or breaking up
Well, preferences change. I feel like as long as you're respectful about it then it's atleast somewhat ok. However either way someone's feelings will probably get hurt, and that sucks it really does
As someone who is polyamorous personally, in the last story I truly think that guy needs to break up with her. I cannot see that working out for him at all, not even if he were to give her that chance. It would just hurt him like crazy.. and I feel like he'd be better off finding someone who is also monogamous.
So about open relationships. I agree that it's cheating with extra steps, if only one partner wants it open. If both partners want it open then it's fine because it means they both know the other will always come back to them in the end. But if only one wants it open, then the other is put through a lot of mental turmoil trying to figure out if they're gonna lose the one they love so much to somebody else.
feels weird every time someone brings up the idea of an open relationship as a bad thing, I mean yeah abroad is different, but one of my best friends is in one and they turned it into a poly group and they love it
That kid in the first story is the furthest thing from a spoiled brat. He tried to stop his mom as best he could and even wanted to save his allowance to get his own bag. And he’s only a second grader at most. There are teenagers who haven’t reached that level of maturity yet.
Honestly, it usually goes like: Kid: Mommy, can I have their backpack? (Not going to blame them for that, they're just kids) Parent: FXFGHHTJYJHKLKK GIMME DA BACKPACK YIDWUISISIHHDHDH AHHH SHE TOOK MY BACKPACK FROM MY SON Me: One of these again? Lady, you're already screwed
Omg thank you kid most are spoiled and just cry or complain this kid tried to take action to defend the poster and just get his mom to let him buy one himself through earned money good job kid
Story 3 - I would Never stop trying to find a way to make the parents lose EVERYTHING by any means i deem necessary. They deserve it. Story 4 - She is cheating garbage. Get rid of her. Tell her if she does ANYTHING then Do NOT ever come back.
ayo the kid that said It’s ok mom, don’t take this lady’s bag is a g bro he is gonna be successful as having good morals from a young age is very beneficial. (also no demon son title bonus)
People on the bus are the strangest and most unhinged people on the planet. I know from personal experience. The most dangerous moments of my life have all happened on the city bus when commuting to college. I’ll never take the bus again, even if I was paid to do so.
I USED TO CONSIDER THAT GOD WOULD BE CRYING WHEN HE HAD TO CAST HIS OFFSPRING INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE, NOW HEARING ABOUT KARENS, NOT SO MUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
