Sir, bada beta agar wife ki help kare tho Lattooo. Agar chota beta wife ki help kare tho… haiii bhagwan dono ka pyaar bnaa rahe. Ye parents aisa kyun karte hain????
Vo esliye kiuki bade bhai ke uper koi responsibility hoti hai jonke use dhikhte nhe hai.. Jo ke galt hai... Wife or maa ko ek sath leke chalna chaiye ...
I am wife... respect is more important than anything else... Wife needs RESPECT Respect k bina kuch bhi nahi hai... If husband respects .. that melts my heart.. if i feel disrespected then nothing can calm... not even love... Respect Respect Respect
@@Ashu__108-i5g both genders needs are different, some need are same like love , support etc nd many more But some are different for example women seek more stability and security in relationship more than man , women need more emotional comfort more than man , women need attention more than man , Man need more physical intimacy more than women etc . We are different and thats beutiful becouse we compliment each other The reason we are attracted to each other is becouse of bieng different, just imagine if everyone would be same ,if both genders were same than there would be no attraction to each other People confuse bieng equal to bieng same , we are not same we fullfill each other's need and that beautiful 😍 That's my opinion if you have something else then do share 🙂
Mutual respect and mutual love with each other and never taking granted for each other , polishing the memories and moments time to time . I think these things will make the marriage heaven
Respect for wives is an equally important ingredient....the husband who humiliated his wife in public, family how can he shower love....so love and respect both matter 🙏
@@maheshnaidu2676 लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
Respect is as important as love for wives.. if your husband disrespects you and talk in an insulting manner and then show love without apology. It feels very toxic.. so yes I firmly believe respect comes before love.. for both
एकदम सही बात कही आपने सर जी.....आपका बस एक व्हिडिओ देखकर मूड अच्छा हो जाता है....even if it doesn't apply one's own life....and feel like interacting with you live and not the recorded one....
Raat raat bhar jaagna, bachche sambhalna, unhein padhana, unke saath bina kisi fruatration ke khelna, classes le jana, subah jo ghar se sabse pehle jata hai office us sepehle uthkar naashta tiffin banana aur jo sabse late aata hai, usko khana dekar, kitchen sametkar sona- cook ko khane mein kya banega aur bartan wali ko manage karne se zara zyada kaam hai ghar par sir
madam paisa nahi kamate itne effort ka to kya fayda. no appreciation from family jo chiz measure nahi ho sakti wo chiz dekhi nahi ja sakti. earn money it will show competence to your family that you are more valuable thus earning more will bring respect and appreciation
Avoiding marriage is the best way to escape marriage issues these days...🤣...However if one prefers to marry gender neutral mutual respect is a must I think......
We r also working and put our level best in office, face office politics, work hard at home too. Most of the Indian men do not even cut veggies at home. They don't want to earn respect, just want to get it without deserving.
@@doncorleone3901 he starts being taken as granted for those household tasks. The solution might be just to help/support her in chores instead of doing them completely by himself?
@@akashnagpal not good. Household chore is not gender specific, but in India, unfortunately it is made so even now. And there are other things, other chores , mutual understanding, respect, communication etc. To be considered too.
I spoke your language long back and when I told my husband to stand up for me and be my shield, he said you are not laachaar, stand up for yourself. So I did;) Now I don’t need anyone to stand up for me, because other people have lost their backbone 😅😂including the husband who has lost his control😂
@@FromProfessor how so? If a husband does not stand up for you, do you just shut up and take shit from everyone else around you? Did you not watch the video before commenting?
@@FromProfessorwow men claim to protect woman . This is how they protect. If one can't take stand just don't marry it's just that simple. Waise bhi bharat Mei bohot faltu aadmi h jinki shadi na hi ho toh future generation or uss ladki ke achha hi hoga.
@@ankitamishra0405Actually men never protect women and never stand up for their wives in front of their parents. They want their wives to tolerate every shit from their in laws and other family members. But in comment section they will get angry over it😂😂
Sir aapki video dekh kar meri married life me already magical change aa gya hai.. thank you so much for your wonderful channel.. all I did was I did good, respected everyone and wanted nothing.. husband k sath sath unki puri family mujhe bahot pyar krti h and meri bahot respect krti h ab..
Would have been great if you have spread some examples of love and respect because people might interpret it based on their own understanding and mindset
With due respect, I partially disagree with you. Women need respect as well. Respect is more important than love. Infact love without respect is not long lasting. Respect and Love is the requirement of both husband and wife.
Love agar real hai, to respect uske sath sath aati hai.... Agar husband actual love karta hai, to usme respect to rahega hi rahega....aur phir wife bhi bina kuch kahe hi respect karna shuru kar degi .... Lekin har case me husband ko pahal karni hogi.... Things and scenarios have changed now....
When husband is taking side of her her wife for protection of self respect from his family members, it's one sort of respect only..men don't n can't give direct respect..but not disrespecting is also a form of respect...
Genius honest. May god bless you. Thanks for clarity. I hope everyone thinks the way you think. Truth if life sir ji. You know you deserve many designations.
Aap bahut acha bolte hai. Aur saccha bolte hai. Society mein iski bahut jarurat hai. People became educated but failed to apply it especially in family life. Maine apke bahut sare videos dekhe hai and you are absolutely correct and to the point in almost all the points. And certainly yes, these issues are holding our economy back because women can't apply all their skills and potential at the right place at the right age. They need to wait till their 40s and 50s to do what they are best at. I am also a deep thinker just like you, but no one listens to me. 😂 Thanks to you. Many people like you should come forward. I just pray that your videos should get viral asap..
Love and Respect are byproducts of TRUST. This aspect is missing in this video but I feel it's the most important aspect for successful marriage. Your thoughts please...
yes today husbands even those who are highly qualified & very wealthy are mortally scared of showing concern and care for their wives because they fear - really they are s**t scared of - being labelled "Joru ka gulaam" or in today's sophisticated English - you cannot and will not "control me" or "define / dictate how I act or behave in anyway. It may seem like a very small insignificant thing, but as Sangwanji has explained here, it causes a lot of painful experiences in Indian marriages.
Sir husband respect, care aur pyar bahut krte hain pr earn nhi krne dete. Bolte hain sb tera hi to hai pr di kbhi chvanni bhi nhi. Plz btaiye kya kru? Work from home bhi nhi krne dete. Unke tough time mein unke business ko join kiya. Apni education ko kaam mein liya aur business bhi boom pr aa gya. Relationship improve bhi hua. Pr vo mujhe salary tk nhi lene dete. Bolte hain paise pr dhyan jayega to technical aur fundamental skills khrab ho jayenge mere.... plz make a video n guide sir..... mere jaisi bahut hongi jinhe ye help chahiye.... much needed... 🙏
Respect jhootha hai. Wo respect nahi, management hai। Mera swarthi bhai bhi meri kaabil bhabhi ke saath aisa hi karta hai, aur wo mere support ke baad bhi uski baaton mein fans kar koi stand nahi leti aur भुगतती जाती है।
You are right sir mostly. Women need more of love and men primarily respect in a manly sense but women also need respect in the sense of feminine energy they give to your life and family.
Absolutely right you are! All the love without respect(and respect does not mean jee huzooree or capitulating(by giving in to every unreasonable logic by mahilaaen) is useless! and secondly, there should be a certain reality REALISTIC(realism) relationship to call a relationship a real relationship or marriage !
Wives need love from husbands; and husbands respect from their wives. Once these needs are fulfilled their relationship becomes heavenly. Wonderful marital advice. But husbands don't expect genuine love will reciprocate respect from wives immediately. It takes time...Forty three days at least. All the best.
Before marriage, I asked my husband to vall me "Aap n jee". He does so even after many years, and ppl look at him so strangely and with jealousy that you call your wife with so much of respect. And we both rock 😂 Touchwood,
@@tirthaobiswas equality htane se reltnshp nahi bchne wale... try krke dekh lena... Equality hta k dekh lena... short term me ego boost ho skta hai long term me na ego boost milega na aur kuch milega
One follows the other IF men start loving and women start respecting the other will follow But the starting point is different for male and female (AS THEY ARE EQUAL BUT STILL DIFFERENT) And this video clarifies that starting point as people these days lacks basic maturity
Athens Bhai sahab jee : thoda Google kijeye...love and respect are overlapping spaces...and men&women are not equal...they are different...so their needs are different! ( AAP thoda astrology seekho Sir se...aapka mangal bhaari hai... Jai Shri ram😊)
Thanku You Sir🙏🏻For This Deep Psychological Truth Abt Women In Relationship.. Also Deep RESPECT TO YOUR EACH & EVERY WORD & ADVICE THAT'S EXTREMELY TRUTH FOR HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.. AGAIN THANKS FOR SHARING UR DEEP WISDOM WITH US🙏🏻
