I gotta say…100% truth. The paradox of change are brutal. She finally called our house “our home” again and gave me a real hug after being stonewalled, told she would never spend another day under the same roof…and a lot of people saying “why bother you can find someone else” in the background. This isn’t for the half hearted
On the real, you have to be consistent, untether from the outcome of getting her back, show up as the leader she needed from the get go, and realize that it will take time. I’ll tell you this now, the guys who do this program and get their partner back in 4 months…I have done that before with an ex. But my spouse now is what makes the situation “unique”. There are guys in this program that take two years to get the person back because their partner is much more complex. Gauge how much you wanna put in. I can look at my partner now and see that it will take a good year or two to get her back. I’ll put in the work so she herself can see I am a guy worth choosing again
And no it isn’t all fixed. But that’s how reconciliation starts I’m sure of it. She has been SMILING again and thanked me for keeping the door open. Going back to working on myself see ya you guys are all amazing, don’t give up
Pray for me brother i need it, i have hope, but feel hopefull. Ive done all the wrong led my wife into the arms of another. And now i finally have the wake up call and see it all for what it was how i was in the rrlationship and am working on me, but she says she doesnt want me anymore, and doesnt have feelings anymore. Im trying ti stand tall and work on me and just continue to handle things in the best way to show her my real change.
@@TrustingColston i need it man honestly. I know i have ti be in there somewhere, but that wall has been built up high, an than this other dude came along and had those unmet needs. Doing tons of reasearch reading videos books lookin, holding in to hope man that she can still choose me in the end. I know she still has to be abke ti choose me thiugh maybe even the absense of feeling that love right now. Since she has limerence for this other dude big time. i really fucked up a good thing. Its crazy how women try to save the relationship before its broke an man try to save it once its broke. Many man have faced it before an succeded i pray so hard that im another one man honestly.
