Alex the Hun Sometimes I feel that way too. But you gotta just push through the idiots. They reason why I make it; is because I use a certain mindset to get me through the days. Here it is: “Somebody out there has it much worse than me so stop acting like your unhappy...” is what it is though :/
The teacher is right tho, you are just not able to see it. This was a class for people who CANNOT express anything in a mature way. Anger is not something that is neccessary or unavoidable. You might live without it. I don't know why but this comment section is filled with mentally deficient people.
@@TheManinBlack9054 You don't know what you're talking about. The teacher's methods are asinine. Issues with rage are treated with a mixture of cognitive behavioral therapy, exposure therapy and in severe cases medication. Telling an adult who has problems with rage to visualize a person as a bag of dirt, pet a pretend cat or do a dance will at best do nothing, and at worst actively set them off.
Lessons in a nutshell. 1) Blaming Others 2) Silly Humor 3) Soothy The Kitty 4) The Avoid-Dance 5) Keep Composure When Receiving Misspelled Diploma Hink Hall
No, he's not. He's obviously the bad example of the episode and if you think that he's not then you clearly didn't understand what it was all about and need to work on your comprehension skills.
@@seronymus a lady was driving along and instead of paying attention to driving the vehicle she was using one hand to hold her cell phone (i assume she was using it) and in her other hand she had a catalogue for lands end She must have been glancing at the catalogue and cell phone instead of paying attention to the road and driving erratically
If you ask a shopkeep for a tap and dye and some wd40 and he clearly doesn't know, there is no need to yell, just ask if he can direct you to someone who knows or ask where a hammer might be, you could easily find it yourself then. Self sufficiency is always better.
That wasn’t the point of the episode A dude literally died due to his anger in the exact same episode he was introduced and it was played as a bad thing. The episode was less about anger management being shit and more about hank straight up being set up 💀 It ends with hank acknowledging that anger management is important (despite not having anger issues). Its just all about the time and the place and how you use it. Its a necessary emotion to the human body for a reason and literally saves AND ends two separate lives in the same episode Theirs such a thing as: “Too much” or “too little”. Both can exist equally and even in grey areas that fit on a pendulum and less on some binary scale. Its not even looking too deep into it, its literally just what happens in the episode.
When I was a kid I had a therapist just like this guy. Always telling me to avoid the problem, bottling up my emotions and saying they were inappropriate (particularly anger and sadness as I was a very angry child due to emotion being shunned/punished in my house). Indoctrination begins young and I sadly was one of those unfortunate kids. I grew up continuing to try and make sense of emotions I wasn't allowed to feel and now as a mother I fight twice as hard to try and teach my kids that emotions don't have to be confusing but they also don't have to make sense all the time. I also fight myself every day whenever I have trouble expressing emotions to my kids (I come off as very emotionally gray). And that nobody is allowed to tell them what to feel or how to handle their anger. And they've done super well.
Well the issue with these anger management courses (provided this is an accurate representation) is that they don't really care about people and their emotions; they're more about liability and the bottom line.
This is what we call "indoctrination". The teacher is not trying to solve anyone's anger, he's trying to get them to think like him. To him, there's only one way to solve anger and that's his way of thinking. It's concerning because this way of teaching has made it's way into schools on more important subjects than just anger.
@@FunkyJeff22 there's what to think, then how to think, then how to think for yourself. You can solve things for yourself if you're taught how to think for yourself
That’s the difference between anger management classes and behavioral therapy. A therapist can get to know you and help tailor coping mechanisms to fit you best.
I find this funny cause I didn’t notic anything was wrong then I realized There should be delay cause I’m using Bluetooth in my car which delays audio a lot but in the case the video is delayed making it perfect :D
I like how Didi only knows Hank from Kindergarden. It's the only reference she has of him and she uses that as ammo to shine a harsh light on Hank. Like hush up woman you don't know him.
Ok I’ve never been to an anger management class so I don’t know if this is accurate but it really seems like the class is teaching you that your feelings don’t matter and you need to IGNORE the cause rather then confronting it. Like there’s nothing wrong with being angry there just has to be some middle ground
Cotton said one word in this clip and he had me laughing as much as Big Jim in this episode. 😂 Cotton was a O.G. Plus very blunt and funny as hell. Great character.
Didi: Hank has always been angry when we was in kindergarden when the other children would use the finger paints he would pinch them. Hank: you are a bull face lair.” Cotton: Amen 😄
+Satoshi Rei What's funny to me is that seems to be the only reason she remembered Hank exists. Other then that, she's a total stranger to him and his family besides Cotton. XD
Anger management isn't THIS bad, but they do assume everything you say is a lie and/or an excuse. They basically want you to repeat everything they tell you.
@@om3ga109 i think that's the point. They want to see if you can deal with infuriating but not life threatening things so you can be well equipped to deal with life. For example, if you can't deal with someone who misunderstands you and assumes you're a liar who blames others, can you deal with heavy traffic without blowing up and hitting other cars?
Funny enough this video actually helped me dealing with road rage going to work. Instead of getting angry I imagine the person as a literal bag of dirt and start laughing and the person looks at me like I'm insane 😂😂
This is why people hate anger managment Imagine being talk down by an patronizing idiot who blames you for everything and will punish you if get them upset just by being just an little annoyed,These patronizing idiots will hold no mercy for those who they think brokes their dumb ass rules,but hasn`t
I’ve never been the angry management class but I can tell you for sure this is not how it is. I think if I ever had instructor like this it would make me even more angrier
I can only imagine how much rage the teacher is suppressing, people like this are like the real Ned Flanders, when he had his breakdown in “hurricane neddy”.
2:03-2:19 This legit pissed me off! Peggy, Hank’s very own wife, SHOULD be taking his side! She should know that Dale wasn’t right in the head and that Hank wouldn’t go so far as to cut his finger off on purpose, which, he actually didn’t. But instead she believes that Hank did it on purpose with her excuse being “I wasn’t there”. And then she tries to prove that Hank did it on purpose?! Shame on you, Peggy! And before you say “There are times when Hank didn’t take her side”, that doesn’t excuse her behavior. If it’s not okay for Hank to do it, it’s not okay for Peggy to do it either.
she didn't try to "prove" he did it on purpose. she asked if he may have subconsciously wanted to hurt dale, as if cutting his finger was a freudian slip. kinda like if u accidentally say something, that may be how u rlly feel deep down. If hank rlly did want to hurt dale, that may have caused the mental lapse that resulted in him (still accidentally) cutting dale's finger off. I wouldn't be surprised if ppl do things like that
I had this situation nearly the same back in middle school. I try to stay out of trouble and never got in their badbooks (because they weren't reasonable to begin with) and I ended up in trouble for the first and only time with a kid because he bullied me and instead of asking me and him; this nasty teacher asked the troublemaking kid what happened. We both got detention for it because we couldn't agree. Because of that they got a small booklet and made me write how I felt each day like I was some regressive idiot who had to tell people how I felt with a smiley or frowny face; so I had about a week of that before the dentention was due, so I decided to give them what they want and removed all emotion from myself because every time I talked up about it they started belittling me with a dumb frowny face and claiming I said "lies". Anyway... detention came and we had to sit still and quiet with the teacher who didn't believe me, so i did that. I usually end up alone during P.E. so it was easy to do, calming too. Anyway the troublemaker kid started to try and irritate me but I can't say anything because she wouldn't believe me, so I ignored him. However... that kid decided to irritate the teacher instead; we were both shocked he wasn't learning about it but I can't say anything due to the smiley face thing so I just looked and she gave me such a priceless face. It was a mixture of realisation, anger and regret and looked like that the entire detention. After that they literally forgot the smiley thing, never gave me a detention and pretended it never happened. I don't know why it all happened as I often sit in the library reading a book quietly before the bell and only left to get lunch (which is when he did the thing). So anyway the school isn't around anymore. Apprently it closed later on due to "creative differences" and never reopened since. I'm kinda happy in a way because that school was bad, a lot of complaints about it from other parents and kids, along with them treating disabled so bad it put them in danger; to know kids are safe from it is heartwarming.
If I’ma be honest, I’m getting angry myself watching this. I have been blamed for things I haven’t done, and while I’ve never had to go to anger management, or even a court in my life, it’s all too easy to put myself in Hank’s shoes.
My primary school teacher made me walk around the day in my socks because a girl I never talked to went and lied about me doing something to her to make her cry ????? Yep makes sense to me. Male life :D no say in anything
The most hilarious thing about this is, the 1 timer anger management teacher went on to become a reoccurring character on another show: Phillips Frond on Bob's Burgers (of which some KOTH moved on to in late 2010 following KOTH's end in 2009). They dress alike, have somewhat similar personalities, they're even both voiced by David Herman
Judge all you want, but I was a student of this instructor in '79. His groundbreaking "silly humor" approach really got me back on track after a long period rageholism, being hopelessly addicted to rageahol.
U have to say that Peggy had a point about sibconciously wanting to cut off Dale's finger. He has an annoying personality at times, and he does frequently get up to hijinks that cause grief for Hank.
...If I EVER ran into a person like this, I would snark the hell out of them until he A. Had a nervous breakdown or B. Passed me just to not deal with me.
I wanted to post an angry youtube comment but ya know what? I thought of a youtube video with an angry face and had to stop because I had the giggles. Thank you, silly humor.
