As Funky Dineva said, Tamar didn't grow up with social media. It makes no sense that a person her age goes to sm to vent unless she's looking for attention or trying to put eyes on the show.
You know, reading your comment makes me wonder if she feels like sm gives her the attention she might have been seeking or secretly desiring for years. She’s the baby of the family and some of her actions give baby sibling on steroids. Maybe people didn’t pay as much attention to her antics before sm. It’s also possible that her attention-seeking actions are symptoms of a deeper mh issue. I make no excuses for any of her behavior, but it’s making me think a little
Remember? Toni said if her family wasn’t family they wouldn’t be her friends. Traci was the only 1 that would check her and now that she is no longer here, they got the hands full. Evelyn is getting old so she can’t smack her up sooooooo. 🤷🏽♀️
Preach! Like Kandi said she’s on in the Pres for negative things. I unfollowed her awhile back and still haven’t followed her again. It’s been freeing as she was draining to keep up with.
Even though she goes through the intervention, she has to want to use the tools consistently and really be honest with herself. Tamar is too too self absorbed.
Iyanla asked Mama Braxton what's wrong that Tamar needs to be seen and Tamar got mad at her but Tamar always posting on social media her business.. She stay seeking validation
@@ariahlea was eating her up and Tamar proved her point Everytime.. She def said it aloud but the sisters was scared to say it they was happy somebody finally said it.. It was a relief and now she just doing it in every friendship and relationship and it's honestly sad
That episode was extremely telling and Tamar lost her shit because Iyanla saw every manipulative tactic Tamar uses. And she didn't give in. I still don't see how anyone fell for that fake crying apology at the end. Tamar just wanted to make tv and get it over with.
I watched the episode and… I find it funny how Tamar all of a sudden has “boundaries”, but years ago when Towanda talked about setting her own boundaries, Tamar was dismissive of it. Towanda realized a long time ago that Tamar will not mature and accept accountability for behavior, which is why she/her sisters don’t want to be around or deal with her.
He gives off that he is sooooooo not into her and she's out here embarrassing herself at her big age...and on top of everything, she never takes self accountability! If only she stopped being addicted to fame online and focus more on that beautiful voice 💯
Many people wake up and go to sleep choosing violence. I hope that Tamar's son is okay. I hope her family and friends set boundaries and she learns how to be held accountable for her thoughts, words, and actions.
She spirals every time she in a relationship. She got committed fooling around with the last guy with the vintage Bentley and Locs. I saw them in the airport and he was chill af and Tamar was laughing uncontrollably while I was checking their bag. She excused herself and walked away and he said ignore her. I hope Tamar ok.😢
And another thang, Tamar started disrespecting her sister's men every chance she got she wanted them to know how terrible their man was and them sisters prolly telling Tamar about her man and she didn't like it.. Tamar cant take when she the one without a man or better yet with a man that is cheating, dogging her out, and making her look crazier than she shows us the viewers.. it's the men she choosing, they know Tamar love attention and they all act on that one thing... Tamar is the problem and needs to get help with intentions because she keep ending back up with new man but same type of man..I wish she do get it together it's starts with her mom and none of them wanna say it
In my opinion not giving no excuses but something has happen in that family that none of them are talking about. As far as Tamar she will never be happy until she learns how to love her self.
@@alexiswarren3735yes that was revealed. It seems she’s going to always have issue with her family because they all knew about it and it seems (not sure of course) nothing was done about it.
Never been this early before. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽 Taking care of your mental health is very important. It’s hard first step to admit you have a problem and then to seek help. Best decision I ever made. I wish Tamar the best.
Tamar has the resources to get proper help and chooses not to. She's used to the spotlight and thrives off attention, good or bad. She wants yes men (i.e. fans online), and that is hurting her.
I used to really like Tamar. I thought she was funny and had an amazing voice. Ive been done with her for a while...really after the way she treated Traci. That man has a hold on her that is disturbing. He's known for being out in these ATL streets...loves to be seen. He was full of it on that show where they met. I couldn't understand what she saw in him. Iyanla pulled her card years ago.
I do not think she orchestrated this stunt as a social media experiment but rather, i think she crashed out on social media because the divorce documents that they tried to conceal were revealed. Now she's trying to save face and flip the script to get us off of talking about the divorce. I'm really not trying to be funny when I say this but something is wrong with Tamar. It's giving manic
I personally avoid any show with Tamar on it or including her. I have tried to ignore her, but she over talks people and is very rude, silly and disrespectful to others. I kind of think some people were right about her! (i.e. k.michelle)
She was like that on the real daytime tv show, hella rude to Jeannie Mai and sometimes the other girls. Adrienne, Tamara and Loni didn’t play that disrespectful stuff all the time
I have been following you since I found your page when you were reviewing The haves & have nots Wtbs I feel like youre my family member in my head I thoroughly enjoy you & know that you experienced dark times you handled it with dignity & still kept your sense of humor with your infectious laugh often I couldn’t tell you were dealing with anything I said all that to say at damn near 50 TAMAR IS A HOT MESS The Attention seeking drama is so PLAYED I’m over it all I can do is PRAY
Individuals who deal with codependency and love addiction can act out in these ways. *Or it can be a personality disorder. I hope she deals with the underlying issues, truly!
Its so sad to see Tamar self sabotaging herself over the years. Shes one of the best singers in RnB but her attitude and antics just ruined it and she has nobody to blame but herself. She gotta do better.
I’m sorry but I was done from that episode when they said she tweeted “So now they’re giving out awards for autotune”, as a shot to her sister. that was it for me. Why can’t your own sister have a moment of praise? Especially when they allow you to treat them however you want to in your lil moments.
@yendaaaa could be but i have several fam n friends Pisces and pretty much all of them act just like her..lol. .they just not celebs so folks don't get to see their antics lol. they do this same stuff she do frfr lol..smh
I’m a Pisces and I am nothing like her! I’m actually the calm sensible one in my family. Tamar has a lot of mental Issues that she needs daily therapy to get through.
I know im late but at the ripe age of 33 and coming from someone who has been watching BFV since the beginning i just realized tamar is the problem! She needs a diary and a real therapist. She always crashes out over a man or something stupid. Shes always the victim and theowing temper tantrums. Everything is always for stunts and shows and im over it! And anothwr thing! I wanna know when they got married cause was it before or after that tommie situation????!!!!???? Im sorry but after that me and him wouldnt of been in the same sentence let alone room or relationship ever again! And for the ppl in the back that keep saying people that grow up in a 2 parent household come out better Tamar is a prime example of that not being true. Evelyn and michael sr got a divorce when she was about 15 or 16. I dont know what the problem is but Tamar needs to get it together.
I'm confused about when they got married too. That dating show with her, Nivea and Evelyn, she 'picked' him I think and they got 'engaged' (which honestly....I thought they were trolling us like celebs do). So when she mentioned marriage, I was like HUSBAND? lmao
Tamar it’s time to do a second restraining order on this obsessed fan. She’s giving mad yolanda saldivar vibes. I think he thinks he’s in a relationship with you or your baby daddy I think he thinks he’s Vincent Herbert 😅 the spirit coming off and out of this man’s face is rather perturbed. Do not go anywhere alone with this man Tamar we beg you. He did a whole 29:00 min video long video on you in his mama house in front of his microwave when you out working getting good money but maybe if he does enough h8 videos on you it will turn him on to be able to feel close to you and maybe give him more fans?
I feel like Tamar is a HSP "Highly Sensitive Person", but she gotta process why so much of her worth and happiness revolves around having a man... I hate that for a lot of us 🙏🏽
I agree with everything you said. The people in her life probably used to try to advise her, but she keeps doing it, so they let her cuz you can't make a grown person do nothing.
Tamar is so freaking Talented and can SANGGGG! but why she gotta be so immature, rude, attention seeking. Ughh I really feel embarrassed for Toni because that’s TONI THEE BRAXTON!
Tamar is so disrespectful. I couldn’t watch the show when she was married to Vince. She would always throw 💩 in her sisters face regarding what she had.🙄
Sometimes, I feel like Logan acts way more mature than his mom. She thinks that this behavior is cute or whatever, but it ain’t. All I can do is just pray for her and keep moving because like you said, we all got mental health issues we are dealing with.
She’s soooooooooooo annoying. So she just conveniently skips over ALLLLLLLLL the comments of people rooting for her? She actually has a Braxton shield, lol she doesn’t get the amount of vitriol that other people posted on the blogs gets because of her last name. Why would we want YOU to be negative, if it annoys US? 😵💫🥴.
Tamar uses mental health for her own convenience. But seldom really practices it. There are some people that use activism or social issues just to be disruptive and chaotic for control and attention. I find those people to be dangerous because they really dont care about anyone or anything but themselves. Also to go that desperate for attention tells you how in the gutter her self esteem is. But her relationship with JR confirms that. Tamar has deep deep rooted issues and she is a hazard.
I was worried about her thinking like Damn she’s spiraling hopefully somebody can get her some help, So to find out she was just doing it for stunts and shows it definitely irritated me especially having a child that suffers from mental illness as well as family and friends, she just did way too much for my liking, She needs to get it together she’s too old for this
How is she using mental health when she literally is going through that, or did y'all simple non thinking amnesia having behinds forget she attempted, probably cause y'all gossipping behinds too
She has a blessed voice, she is talented and all but until she realizes that she is messing up herself and not focusing on the right things, then she going to keep crashing in a brick 🧱. Praying for her🙏🏾
I think since The Braxtons came out the talk has been about Traci, Tony and Towanda. And not so much about Tamar . So now she had to try this antics to bring attention back to her. All negative, sad and pathetic. Those born in 1977 should not be acting as such. I really cry for whatever she is struggling within.
Ashley you are a better woman than I am. Absolutely not!!! I refuse to listen to Tamara’s childish antics!!!! She’s almost 50 out here acting like her shoe size!!! HELL NAW!!!! I’m my parent’s last child and I can say that we do not act out this way!!!!! She just said in this first episode that she’s had different types of therapy!!! TAMAR GET OFF TV!!! Doesn’t she want peace in her life? Is this behavior not exhausting?????
When I saw Tamar online I immediately thought of that scene in kingdom come when Jada said “laaaaaaawd take me now” and Loretta Devine say “ people don’t pay her no mind she just likes attention” I’m sorry it’s always giving stunts and shows because tamar is an ep of the Braxtons revamped.. she did this the last time ! Just stay off tv then
JR has no foundation & seems dishonest. I bet he's the reason why she's beefing with her family. She missed her window of opportunity to become a superstar.
I am so sick of this tamar hate it's ridiculous. ok y'all wanna talking about using ppl what about that white man using carlos for a come up like gurl wasn't nobody thinking about you, what about the sisters and the mammy using Tracie's life for a check WHAT ABOUT THAT HUH
Wait, she married that white man ? It’s giving her family tried to tell her that JR isn’t for her & she blew up as Tamar does. Tsk, if Tamar isn’t opening her mouth to sing.. I usually don’t like what comes out of it 🥴🙄😮💨 Tracie was the only sister to check her & she’s sadly gone. RIP TRACIE 🕊️
Now...shes with keke wyatt singing like she wasnt on a tyrant hours ago about her family and that show that just came out....where is momma evelyn to speak with her
