Happy Pride queens! 🌈 And also, PLEASE do not consume alcohol anywhere but through your mouth. The doctors in the comments have made me aware how dangerous this is. PLEASE do not give yourself an alcohol enema.
Thank you! so much for mentioning Asexuals (i'm on the a-spec) because I'm living in the closet and afraid even my queer friends would doubt me let alone anyone else so thanks again for that shout out to Aspecs because WE ARE REAL
Jonathan, I’m in eating disorder recovery and you inspire me so much! You always motivate me to pursue and enjoy physical activity that makes me feel good mentally and energetically. Thank you queen! 👑💚 Note: I started pole dancing a few months ago and now I feel like a strong lil’ fairy on my pole!
@@jvn 🥰🥰🥰 While I have your attention, I’d love to have a video about your week of intuitive workouts. You do so many fun, challenging activities. I’d love to see how you’re gentle with yourself too, and just how you listen to your body from day to day when it comes to physical activity. It would add a really important message to the massive collection of “weekly workout” videos on RU-vid. 😊
Boop! omg the coffee/wine enema stories were outrageously hilarious. You are a risk-taker, JVN! Love your honesty. We've all done some crazy things in an attempt to get healthy and/or intoxicated 😆
This needs to be a required viewing in EV-ER-Y health/sex ed/sexuality classes. High school. University. Community College. Driver's ed. Spread that knowledge, JVN!
How interesting! I’m a cis heterosexual woman and I have always been curious about this topic. Thanks for the knowledge! I had no idea about all the prep work!
HA! In college (decades ago) a friend finally came out sophomore year, but he had not yet forayed into any physical contact yet (because he had to get over his catholic crazy first.) I was an RA in a freshman residence hall and my friend would come hang out with me when I was on call at night. I liked to sit by the door when the kids were coming in from parties to make sure everyone could walk by themselves (so they didn't end up dying in their sleep which training had made me super paranoid about. So he got to know all the kids, and eventually started going to parties with one resident on my floor. That was his introduction to gay campus life, and I then got to hear a LOT of details about prepping and lots of other things over the years.... I still love him and our very inappropriate conversations in the dining hall over dinner. Memories!
OMG I love JVN sooo much! I am a 52-year-old heterosexual female, and I did my first juice fast/yoga retreat at Kripalu in the Berkshires a couple of decades ago. When one's colon is cleaned out, it really absorbs any liquid that you put into it. So whenever I was doing a 7-21-day juice-fast cleanse that involved enemas, I got completely freaked out by how my senses of smell and hearing were razor-sharp. One thing that I learned at Hippocrates Health Institute in West Palm Beach, FL, is to introduce wheatgrass into one's enema or colonic, I think because there is some vein or artery in the lower intestine that slurps it up immediately. So that would explain how a coffee enema or a wine enema would have such an immediate effect, meaning the smell of coffee would come out of your pores almost instantly, or a wine enema would make you drunk for several hours.
I learn SO much from you! You are so wide open. Thank you for the chapter in “Love that Story” about shopping. Seriously, I have never thought about shopping to excess being a problem other than for my bulging closet. It is a problem for the environment and I also loved “just because I can doesn’t mean I should.” I will be thinking about that now. Also - I am blinded by the shine on your hair. 😎
JVN, you are amazing and I love and appreciate your honesty, openess, directness, and sense of humor with ALL and ANY subject. Wether it's hair, fashion, sex education, you slay!! Also, the "BOOP!" ☝🏼🤣 Yaaaaaasssss
Omg sue johannson!! My friend and I used to watch her late at night when we were in 7th grade hahahaha she’s the real OG. I will sign the petition to make you her 2.0! lol love you Jvn, you always crack me up! 🤣
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love all the content you put out, podcast, books, RU-vid, everything. I have been struggling to find my place in the world and with you in it I know I’ll be fine. I used to wake up in the morning filled with energy and think I was too much to handle, but now I know I’ll find my place. Thanks for all of the love and joy you spread, it is greatly appreciated ♥️
@@jvn between that and your lesbian roleplay, I have no idea why this hasn't happened already. Or at least a Netflix series like Queens Who Like To Watch (I would pay a million dollars for your review of Bring It On). Also: I miss Gay of Thrones. I rewatch the one with Gabrielle Union once every couple of months. The gift that keeps on giving!
The enema story is fascinating. What an efficient way to hydrate. Those intestinal walls are just a sponge for whatever you want to get in your system.
If you’re dehydrated your body absorbs fluid from an enema. You pooped out the coffee eventually but it was concentrated espresso after your body took the fluids it needed. 😆 🌹 ☕️
Hi JVN! I love your channel and also-- your hair products have brought out natural curl patterns that I didn't know I had! I am on a brand new curl journey thanks to you! Thank you for that and thank you for making this video. I was wondering if you're still taking questions/giving advice? If so, here is my inquiry- I finally moved out of a blood red part of the Midwest and am finally coming out and also working through a lot. Do you have any dating advice for a late bloomer? I'm queer and pan which is tricky for me to navigate when it comes to the straights and the lgbtqia+ community. Another dilemma- It appears that everyone around me, on social media, and just generally in the queerosphere -younger and older- has found themselves and are so comfortably out. Meanwhile I'm in my 30s over here feeling like I'm going through second puberty. Like, do awkward coming-out-of-the-closet phases exist anymore in the year 2022? Despite attending protests, being politically active and even playing pride festivals as an "ally", I now feel like I missed the boat by not coming to terms with my sexuality sooner. I have tried to do Tinder and stuff but a lot of people are looking for a unicorn, or don't take me seriously because I "can't pick a team". Anyways, thanks for all you do. Over the pandemic, You, Elvira, Trixie & Katya have been such a safe place for me to feel comfortable really connecting with myself and what it means to be a queer person. Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable by putting yourself out to the world.
I seriously can't get enough of you and your content. Also I just received my first order of JVN! Sending Mom Hugs from SoCal! Keep up the wonderful work Gorgeous!
@@jvn absolutely! I’ve literally named my most dramatic plant after you literally all I wanted was you at your most epic and you never cease to amaze me!
Hiyeeee! So I’m not a doctor, but i think that the thing with coffee enema is that the colon is very absorbant (that not the right term, but I can’t find it right now). So anything you put in there gets into your blood really quick. Which is why you get so drunk Happy pride everyone!!!
You bring such joy into my world I am so grateful that you are with us to share your love and kindness ❤️I love being an ally-i can’t understand the hate, fuxing leave society’s unicorns alone! I do have a question!? Is there another way to say/another term for 2SLGBTQ? It’s a bit of a mouthful and my shitty memory can’t remember it all so I leave out a group then I start my shame spiral…its a disaster (I do not trust the internet)
@@jvn NICE. I have an actual haircut for the first time in years (as opposed to just, long with no specific style) and I was just thinking of finding the products to use on it
Omg yes!!! Tops need to understand we can’t just bottom the sec they want too have fun! Bottoms need to feel ready & comfortable just as much as they do. Ughhh 🙄
I genuinely don't think JVN knows what "kinky" means- he was using it as a stand-in for the word "horny"...which it is not. What would have been amazing is if he had thrown to a kink educator on that question, a lesbian on the lesbian question, etc. I know this was meant to be cute and funny (and it was) but he could be using his platform to actually help educate.
You did NOT mention Sue Johansen! Stop it! I listened to the Sunday Night Sex Show my entire childhood and completely credit her with making the adventurous person I am,
Omg I wish I’d thought of the “introducing a friend to a sex toy” when P bought a clit stimulator by accident and he was trying to give it to me and I’m like DUDE I HAVE ONE JUST LIKE IT. We totally could have been like “hey Patty come meet my friend isn’t she cute?” instead of returning it!
You have to really be careful when using longer and more powerful douches because they can create tears and increase risk of infections from STIs. Also, when buying them from a pharmacy and looking for a douche beware of pre-made enemas because they tend to have laxatives, look for douches that you put your own enema into instead, or really wash out that laxative before use if that's all you can find.