Life Changing Habits For 2022 - Putting Myself First - MissLizHeart 

Hi Liz, I love this topic, it’s so important especially in the times that we are living in currently… Like you, I no longer say I will wear the best perfume for special times or eat out of the best dishes during holidays, etc. My favorite thing to do is to just rest, sometimes I will get in the bed at 7:30 PM and as long as I’m lying down I could be watching TV or scrolling on my phone for a bit until I fall asleep. it’s so great for me and the next day I wake up feeling quite rested.

Loved this video so much!!! Need to start romanticizing my life 💗

I agree with everything you said! I just purchased new pajamas sets on Monday. I light my candles every day and spray my perfume every day, just to WFH lol. I make my own floral arrangements weekly. These things make me happy. I also did my solo date this week...bar, and movies. I don't have children yet, but my husband understands that my self care is important.

When I get a notification that you have uploeded a video, my happy time begins 📸❣️🍊♥️🥳🧁🎊🎉🥳💖🫂❤️🍨🪄👑🥰💕When I watch your videos I feel comfortable and happy 🥳🎊♥️ I wish to see you always and wish you a happy life my best friend🫂🍡❤️🥰😍😘🍭🌸💖💕🧁

I love the longer videos, I don't watch shorts so thank you for this one! And I'm a firm believer in using your nicer things. I started using the good dishes, nice silverware, fancier clothes, etc a long time ago and it really makes life even more special! Life is short so enjoy every single special thing you can!

Your video today is exactly how I am presently feeling. I had a baby last year. So currently have a 17 year old, 4 year and an 8 month old. Yesterday, I went to the spa and tomorrow I will use my Tiffany Manhattan Coffee mug. I am also calling a cleaning service too! I am with you 100 %, it is time for me to get my life back and snap back. Thank you so much for the inspiration 💗 I love all of your videos.

I am watching this Video a year later, but I wanted to tell you how I really appreciate what you said about "Living In The Moment". I'm 73, now & we raised 2 boys also. We played with them, went out to the River with our small boat & went fishing, drove thru the Desert in a Dune Buggy, Vacationed at the Beach, we had Campfires & roasted apples on a stick & told Stories to them. We went every where & had fun & did so on a very tight Budget. But we made MEMORIES! Now we're in the Future & our boys are 55 & 48 with Families of their own! At our age alot of our thots are based on MEMORIES. I'm glad we made them & Lived In The Moment, bc where has all the Time that we had "In the Future" gone? You only have Today, Tomorrow is not Promised so Enjoy Today & you'll have Very Few Regrets! God Bless!

I'm 73 & I learned a long time ago that if you don't take Care of YOU, then there's going to be No One around to take Care of THEM. The Massage, the Flowers, Morning "Me Time", Afternoon Tea Time, Good Books, Meditation, Exercise, even the Mammograms, Dental Visits & Annual Physicals, ALL are Necessary. Your relationship with your Husband, your God & Yourself are necessary to make you a Well Grounded, Up-Beat Person for your Family. I learned my lesson about wearing certain kinds of things around the house! When our oldest son was just over 2, we lived in a Small Town, that I'd grown up in. I was running late on Dinner Prep & running around trying to do everything including a load of Laundry, when I discovered that there were a couple of items I was missing which was necessary for Dinner & I was also going to run out of Laundry Soap for the last load of Clothes, so Yes You Guessed It, I ran up to the Main City Market, without changing into better clothes or putting on makeup & had my long hair pulled back into a low pony tail! (I'd left our Toddler at Home with Hubby) Wouldn't you know it... at the Store I Encountered the Former High School Senior Class President & Valedictorian who as ALWAYS was perfectly put Together, with a perfect Salon Fresh hair style, make up & a VERY Nice Jacket & Pant Suit over a Perfect Sized body! Of course I'm trying to hide behind my shopping cart in the Potato Chip Isle, but she recognized me from afar & nearly ran down the isle to say Hello. YIPES! What could I say or do but stand there feeling bad about myself, listening to her tell me about her highly successfully Career! Me? I'd just been married 3yrs, had a 2yr old & hadn't gone to the Store looking like anything other than a Slob! NEVER AGAIN!

Romanticizing your life !!!! Girl Thank You for saying That and explaining it I feel like probably 90% of women need to hear that and implement that 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

I totally agree. I’m replaced all my old pj and recently purchased matching yoga/biker shirt sets. I started using my white serving ware to make beautiful salads it makes everything taste.

I love the solo date idea! I love the idea of doing stuff by yourself or doing staycations. It’s so therapeutic

Oh yes, I'm a true believer that we should use all of our beautiful things, and not keep them for that special day. Tomorrow may never come.. loved this video we've missed you .

"You create memories by living in the present" ❤️ words to live by. Great self love tips and it was nice seeing your whole family🙂

What stood out to me in this video was when you mentioned. "You've been so focused in the future that you you forget to live in the present moment." Wow. That was deep and powerful, and something I can relate to. I love this video! Thanks Liz! 😊

I agree with tomorrow is not promised. ALL my new items I wear them/use them immediately because YOU NEVER KNOW. I also 1000000% AGREE with a day for yourself. IS NEEDED SO MUCH!!!

Thank you, Liz. Your videos have helped me through my depression and anxiety for years. Now that I'm on my spiritual journey, I no longer have clinical depression, and my anxiety has gotten better. Your videos are still helping me on my hard days. So thank you!

I was in tears when you talked about use your good things now. Tomorrow isn't promised. I loved this. I need to romantize my life also. From one mommy to another, Thank you for the inspiration ❤️

seems like we have same goals to work on this year. i have my 2 boys and a stay at home mom finds the time is not easy and i vow to change that.

Que bueno que estés de vuelta!!! Que alegría 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I love solo days, after work one day I had my lunch in the car at the park all by myself and it was glorious

Missed you on RU-vid Liz! You look gorgeous ❤️ I love that quote “You create memories by living in the present” That needs to be on a huge wall art in my living room!

Tomorrow is not promised. That's something I believed in too!

I was only able to watch half of this yesterday, just finished. I was soo waiting for you to drop a video! Your hair is gorgeous, can you do a hair routine update and grwm soon? The kiddos are so sweet 💕💞

Choosing not to wear stained or frumpy clothes is a gift to yourself AND your family. You will be amazed how much your kids will remember how you presented yourself in their childhood . Unfortunately, I learned this the hard way when it was too late to change it.

Definitely enjoyed this video Liz! As a mommy of three lately I’ve been in my frumpy clothes and feeling so out of it…. Us mommas need to take care of ourselves and feel good to continue to be the greats mom we are! Love all your videos!!!! God bless you and your family❤️❤️❤️

I completely agree with cleaning out the closet and getting rid of clothes you don’t feel good in. Feeling good with what I’m wearing means everything. Love watching this video. Thank you for sharing.

Wow, this is what I started doing myself. I work from home and having 10 kids to care for is very challenging sometimes. Not challenging in a sense of caring for them, but caring for self. This year I decided that I will no longer work on PJs all day long because it was bringing me down. I started waking up, being grateful, loving myself and getting dressed in the morning. This has changed my mood, mind, and everything associated with self. I’m no longer feeling down and out. I’m more productive even with my kids. I love it. I wish I could show a before and after pic. You would not even recognize me.

I love your positivity! You have an adorable family! Your decor is perfect. Tysm

One thing I did 2021 was get rid of frumpy pj’s…. I bought silk sets from H&M and comfy sets to wear around the house with make up on, because 2020 kicked my little tush and I was a train wreck!!!!

I lost my mum 3 months ago because of covid and it really has made me reassess my life and do more of what I enjoy and start putting myself and my own well-being first, so this is an amazing topic

Yes to matching pjs! 🙌🏻✨love how you said “ I’m in my 30’s there should be no reason for me to have holes in my clothes” I’m about to be 29 and I’m valuing myself this year. Investing in Chanel make up but essentials . Investing in a good perfume and matching lotion to go with it. Keep up with my hair appointments. Look classier, cleaner yet simple routines. ✨

Yes!! 2022 is my year of renew for myself!! I definitely get lost into things when life gets crazy & I have a family too😮‍💨💜 But I enjoy my food presentation at home too💜 I love nice kitchenware, China, etc.. That's 1 of my Me Times🥰 Life is short..So I will enjoy the present more!!💖

I don’t have a separe china for special occasions. I use it all the time, I love the way the food looks in those plates 🥰

Welcome Back, Liz!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hi Liz.... Wow, I started watching you back in 2016, but life got a bit hectic over the years I couldn't keep up with sitting down and watching RU-vid (my favorite were your decor and clean with me videos), but I still saw you post here & there on Instagram..... So last year I kind of settled back into RU-vid and just watching this video I see Sabastian is now a big brother and you've changed homes. I love the new decor esthetics 😍😍... Happy new year & more blessings unto you & your family 💐💐💐💐

Hi! I am so happy and pleased with your video. You always look and present yourself as a beautiful, classy, comfortable, and intelligent lady as well as a great mommy and homemaker. I love all your videos and always learn something helpful. Plus your voice is so soft and smooth, relaxing is the word I’m thinking of now. Thank you for all you do and for sharing with us.

Please don't stop making videos! Just seeing you makes me happy 😊 when I got a notification that you have a new video I felt my heart full ♥

I love this! We have to remember ourselves. This is how we continue to grow AND glow!

I don't know why but I haven't been receiving notifications for your videos. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. And you really gave some great advice. I've noticed when I dress kinda frumpy it does affect me mentally. I can't explain why? I'm not saying I have to wear pencil skirts or dresses daily. I'm talking clothes that are older or have little holes in them or bleach stains. And I've heard of people eating chia seeds by themselves but I never knew how they prepared them. I put them in overnight oats. And thank you for talking about investing in yourself. Warren Buffet is one of the wealthiest people in the world. And he's said to always invest in yourself. It's great advice.

Love, love, love the matching sets and pajamas tip!! And the water pitcher and wavy glass are sooooo cute!!

Your comment about how the way you look impacts how you feel on the inside is SO relatable. I too have recently thrown away some old winter sweaters - ones which were only worn at home but they nevertheless made me feel rubbish. Even something like painting your nails can boost your mood. Sometimes it can be an effort but the payoff makes it worth while.

THANK THE LORDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was literally going into detox!!

You are so beautiful, food always looks delicious and your house is so aesthetically pleasing ❤️

How you look definitely can effect how you feel and preform. Since working from home since March 2020 I've had to make changes. I make a to do list at night i keep by my bedside for the following day and allow myself time in the morning for pray, devotion and meditation in the am. I've had to keep up with simple routines like washing my face, brushing my teeth and wearing a outfit to my work from home space vs waking up working in PJ'S. Selfcare is so important. I love going on dates and being pampered alone. Loved the topics. Thank you.

So happy to see you back on youtube. I always love your content.

Yes! Your back! Love this video, will you create your morning and night routines? ❤️

Thank you for this timely video, it’s just the pick me up I needed.

Thank you for posting this video! You are an inspiration to me in many ways. As a wife, mom and friend we are pulled in so many directions. Which requires alot of energy. I'm slow at getting up in the am as well. I usually get my coffee, and pray. That really helps me start my day off. Taking time for ourselves everyday is necessary. So we can be everything we need to be for ourselves and for our family. Thankyou!

The best jewel: Live in the moment and don't put too much focus on the future. It really causes anxiety frfr

Omg I needed this. I’m 6 months pregnant with like nooo motivation. Just tired and looking not my best…. Totally doing every single thing on this video, thank you for the motivation 💕

Awe Liz I love this video and your message!! Thank you!! :) Here's to 2022!!!

Meditating really has helped me enjoy the little things more and not take everything so seriously. Also, romanticizing life/chores has helped as well!

This video was everything amiga! I 1000% agree have to start using all your things not just “special occasion” 💕🙏

Good tips I def wake up slowly and I decided at the end of last year I dont want to be frumpy anymore I’ve been shopping and replacing my old wardrobe with items that make me feel good

Awww we missed you too, Liz! 💕 I do have to say that I relate to this video so much at this time. Last year really took a toll on me and I realized that I wasn't taking care of myself. Something so simple as a relaxing bath has never been a part of my life. I'm always on the go and busy doing things that I forgot about me. That's my main goal this year, to improve my mental health and love myself. Also I just want to point out how lovely you look! Te ves super linda. 💕

I think we all slid into not getting dressed up as much this last two years or so. I am also really trying this year to look good every day so I can feel good. I'm almost scared that next time I put on high heels I will have trouble walking in them because it has been so long.

Thanks for sharing. Great tips for anyone. Blessings to you and your family.

This has to be the most aesthetically pleasing video I’ve ever watched 😍 thank you Liz!💗🤍

Loved this video and your reflections on family & self care. I minimized my clothing, shoes etc. over a decade ago and use only items I love in my home, but as the family grew, I focused on quality time. Last year I realized, I would rather raise my girls and spend time with them and not focus on a career I wasn’t happy with anyway. I don’t know what the future holds but I know I will always appreciate being with my loved ones. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

Last year I decided to take an interior design course and it gave me the confidence I needed to move forward with one of my passions in life.

Wonderful video Liz, all Mothers deserve solo dates. Thanks for the positive tips, you have a beautiful family. Love you ❤️

Loved this video. You not only gave good advice, but you also gave real life examples that we can apply. The lesson...don't lose touch with yourself and invest in yourself because you are WORTH IT.

I am so glad your back! Your videos are sooo pleasing to watch 💜

I live in South Africa and One reason I would never consider moving overseas is I cannot do without my domestic cleaner! Here in South Africa majority of us have daily cleaners it's such a help especially with kids! It's not about being lazy get help when u can.

You are my absolute favorite RU-vidr,Liz! My inspiration and example for manyyyyyy women! Thank you for everything you do! Stay beautiful!❤️❤️❤️

Hey Miss Liz Heart ❤️ YESSSSSS we definitely must learn self preservation and learn how to be intuned with one's self🧘🏽‍♀️ Have a blessed and beautiful day 😊

Thank you for the reminder I understand life happens and before you know it you stop the romance 💖 and it feels good to treat yourself.

Hi Liz, thank you for this video. It was very inspirational and helpful.

I loved this Liz you deserve all of it

Hola Liz❤️gracias por poner traducción a tus videos🙏 y siíiiii tienes toda la razón, cada día es un día especial es un regalo y hay que disfrutarlo. Ya te entrañaba. Eres una persona que inspira a hacer cosas buenas. 🌷

Thank you! You gave me the best reminder ❤️

What a beautiful video, glad to see you’re caring for yourself 💕

Hi Liz, thanks for the reminder welcome back 👏

Love the style of this video :) the sit down and chatting style is so nice!

yay! it seems like it has been at least a year since we saw you on you tube! I have always loved your videos and this one did touch a cord! one of the things that I am doing this year is retiring! I am trying to set up everything so that it is fairly seamless. altho I am not entirely "retiring". I am more like leaving the job that I am working at right now to hopefully find a remote position until I can apply for medicare and social security! that's what I am doing! thanks so much for sharing! the boys are getting so big! love ya!

I really enjoyed this! I agree with everything you said. We must create a life we love living 💗 Also, glad you’re back 😊

You go girl you are a very responsible and lightens young woman. I can tell you as someone who is much older than you this is a part of embracing your a life. The fact that you realize this and are taking steps to make your life special and enjoyable is commendable.

This is THE BEST!!! I miss your vlogs so much!! It feels like good girlfriend time🥰🥰🥰 Wishing you a HAPPY & BLESSED 2022!

I just did the “Home clothes” clean out too. I had all these ugly home clothes. I bought a few matching sets and I feel better about myself. Even if no one sees me at home.

All great Tips You’re a great inspiration on RU-vid for us young mothers. It seems like there’s never enough time in the day to get it all done. Stay Blessed...🌷🌷

I miss u Miss Liz. Its good your back.. Looking forward for your videos especially vlog and organization videos. Keep safe. ❤️

I totally agree! Use and wear what you have and ☺️enjoy!

Agree with you 100% on self care.

My favorite RU-vidr is baaack!!! So glad to see you Liz!🙌🙌🎉🎉❤️❤️

This was an amazing video and much needed as a wife and mother of a 1, 3 and 11 year old it was a nice reminder to take care and time for myself! Thank you

Great vlog. I also believe you feel better when you look better!

Tienes toda la razón yo ando toda la mañana con pijama porque en ese tiempo hago limpieza y aveces duro todo el dia asi..!! Gracias por tomarte el tiempo de ayudarnos a ser mejor cada día Dios te bendiga 🙏 ♥

Wearing nice things you like at home is absolutely smart. It puts your head in the right place. I have no clothes, weather PJs or other that I dont love. And I own a LOT less clothing than I used to: it makes it so easy to keep up with 💕

Good point is important to build memories with the kids. Enjoy them because they grow to fast. Great video😀

So happy to have you back!! Missed your videos so much!!

Doesn’t sound superficial at all! Im in my 40’s and don’t do frumpy either. 😊 Been home for 2 years, and I recently upgraded all of my pj’s and lounge wear making sure it makes me look and feel amazing! I love watching your videos! Such a beautiful family 🥰

So so inspiring and awakening, I am guilty of wearing old clothes and I need to change that

Thanks Liz, this was beautiful and insightful - thank you for the reminder .. - Navi xoxo

Love the title of this video, “Putting Myself First.” Thank you for sharing!

Yesssss Queen Love you HAPPY NEW YEAR MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU AND FAMILY XO ROCKING WIT U SINCE DAY 1

Exactamente lo que necesitaba Mirar esta mañana un video de motivacion

I missed you too dear. Love watching your videos . Love from Pakistan ❤️

Hi Liz , welcome back I really missed your videos I always love your recipes ❤️

Did a happy dance when I got notification that you uploaded a video, so glad you are back. Happy New Year 🍾 🥂 ♥️ ✨ loved the video

Thank you for this. I am guilty of not using my nice perfumes. I really need to Romanticise my life more.