It's so refreshing to see a couple like yourselves being honest about the fact it's not easy to begin with and that those hormones will take a while to settle too! As a mother and grandmother it's great for me to see young people not feeling too proud to ask for help. And it's great you've got an awesome support system. Look after each other and that very precious bundle of joy! Love and blessings 🙏❤🌸🌻
It's so hard. I started feeling like I was getting post-partum depression & was having crazy thoughts but I was too scared to tell anyone about them because I was ashamed.
@@candaceelder1289 And that's exactly why most people don't want to speak up with the checks nurses do post-partum. There is a big difference between baby blues and post partum-depression. It's not crazy to have these thoughts nor to feel ashamed about it but it's so important to reach out to a professional. 🌸
Aww, you guys! Your family is an honest example of how tough adjusting to parenthood can be. I was a single parent all the way through from the beginning to present day. My only child is now 21 years old -- proof positive that it can work out. Just remember: The days are long but the years are fast. Keep keeping on. Sending you warm thoughts and strength for this new chapter!
Absolutely love how open and real you are so nice to see instead of people saying it's all smiles and rainbows. It really isn't the same for all so many people suffer from baby blues. Jamie well done for admitting you keep it all in and you cried as Megan said "Let it out" it serves no purpose being kept in. Such a lovely family xx
This brings back so many memories! I have two children in their 30s, yet it still feels like yesterday. My first born had jaundice, too, then proceeded to have a massive problem with colic. I cried constantly. I hope that things can settle in soon, so everyone can get some good rest/sleep.
Oh, I am so happy for you all! Sleep when you can. I will make one promise to you. The days are long, but the years are short. Enjoy those sweet newborn snuggles. Roo is a sweet little blessing! ❤️💙❤️
You both are a breath of real life fresh air. This will help many overwhelmed parents. Continue to take care of yourselves... One day at a time & Support each other.
You both are amazing! Your life has had a lot of changes and you are doing everything right! Using the resources within your means is exactly correct! I look forward to Sunday morning chats ! Baby Rue is the luckiest boy to have the two of you in his corner! The pizza story was hilarious ! Keep spreading your joy! Hugs from Texas! 💕💕💕
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! Roo is so gorgeous! I love how honest you two are, I’m sure it will comfort loads of new parents out there. Can’t wait to watch your beautiful boy grow.
Usually all one hears is roses and cream, it’s refreshing to hear the situations that can and do happen. You’re doing great! The next little one is bound to be a breeze! Love to that little guy💕
Thanks for keeping us posted. Know its hard to find the time so anything you do to share with us is much appreciated. Wishing nothing but the best for you all.
You are not alone! Have a 6 week old and toddler. It definitely takes a toll. Thanks for sharing your story. I like when folks share their real raw stories.
It all seems so simple until you're in it. The struggles are very real!! So good to see you speak your truth. Just telling the truth how real the struggle is helps tremendously!! Recognizing needing some help along the way is a good and important thing as well. This one is so good for any new parents. As real and difficult as the struggle has been, what you've done in addressing it and telling your truth is going to help more then you will ever be able to know. You're going great!!! You've got this, and fortunately it will get easier.
Cheers to all three of you you will get through this and look back and see what an amazing son you are raising. I’m grateful that you were speaking of the online help available. God Bless you and your family.
So glad that he is doing so well. 6 weeks seems to be the “magic” number. It seems like forever when they are babies and it is difficult, but it all seems to click (for you and the baby) after 6 weeks. You got this ❤️
He is so precious!! And yes, the first few weeks are a struggle, no matter how much other people make it look easy...but it does get easier. Rest as much as you can and take care of yourselves the best way you think you need
Love your honesty! You are actually doing great, even if it doesn't always feel that way. These early days will soon pass and you will be able to fully enjoy your little family. Laughed out loud about the pizza story. I'm sure it will become a yearly story on Roo's birthday!
Love you guys!! You are so right. We can all use help and shouldn't feel ashamed to get it. What you're doing is the hardest job ever and you have extra challenges with lil' Ru. Thank you for keeping it real.
One of the things I really admire about you both is how you calmly accept and deal with things that are difficult. Sleep deprivation is actually a form of torture; I'm not surprised you have been tearful, Megan! Somehow you still manage to look like a radiant goddess! I think what makes your videos so watchable is that you are bursting with love, and not just for each other. You truly deserve every happiness. And thanks for the cook link -- it will be really useful for my parents, who are very elderly and frail and find cooking rather difficult nowadays.
Listening to your story is like reliving flashbacks from my husbands and I journey with our first born daughter 4 months ago! She was born 4 weeks early, very jaundice, lots of hospital visits for blood tests, latching issues, random emotional crying… just all of it! Becoming new parents is hard, but when you add all those additional “hiccups,” it makes it especially hard! I want to encourage you both! It gets so much better! You guys have already almost passed the hardest newborn phase! You guys are already doing amazing! Thank you guys for being real and honest because having a child is truly 100% life changing and difficult! But it is truly an amazing journey! 💕
You two are doing great! Just remember to lean on each other and there is nothing you can't get through. Having a newborn with health challenges is very emotionally taxing. I went through it with my first. Don't try to handle everything yourselves. Don't be afraid to reach out to family and friends. It sounds like you have a wonderful group to lean on. Just take a deep breath, push through the hard stuff and remember to take the time to enjoy the little things. Love and light!
So glad that you have had some live-in family support during the first couple of challenging weeks! Lovely to see you both still smiling! My eldest daughter had a tongue tie which was discovered months after she was born and not operated on until she was 12 months old. She also suffered with colic. These challenging times do eventually pass and you're such a strong couple, you can overcome these difficulties together and keep remembering the funny annecdotes like the pizza story!! Much love to the three of you!! Xxx
You are both doing amazing.get help if you need it family are there for you.thank you for taking the time to share and.just take care....things will get better
Congratulations to you both, you’re doing great. I remember when I had our son I felt soo overwhelmed as you do and the tiredness has you feeling completely out of sorts and emotional and you feel life will never feel normal again. I promise you it will it just takes time. You are doing fantastic and Roo is so lucky to have such fantastic parents. You are doing everything right, just try to sleep when you can that’s the main thing, without sleep nothing feels right. Nothing on earth can prepare you for the feeling after you’ve given birth but you will get there soon and life will feel great again and you won’t remember your life before Roo was born. Just look after each other. Love to you all xx
Thank you for sharing your story I know just how hard baby blues are hit me with my 2nd who is now 21 years old but can still remember how hard it was to ask for help. You guys are doing an absolutely amazing job little Roo is one very lucky little boy. It may feel like you will never ever sleep again but I promise you will lol . Enjoy every moment of those new born snuggles. Sending lots of big hugs and love all the way from Newman Western Australia xxx
My youngest is now 38….so it’s been a while since I’ve been in your shoes but just hang in there dear because it will get better soon!! I remember getting the ‘baby blues’, both my babies also had Jaundice, my daughter was a good sleeper but my son, not so much. All in all it’s all worth it! You are both doing fabulous! Little Roo is precious! ❤️
Thank you for being honest ! It’s not easy I can still remember those first few weeks with our first child. That was 19 years ago she’s now in her first year of college . Hang in there . Love and prayers coming from Oregon .
You two are two such amazing loving people. I truly admire you both. I know it's very hard being parents. Very tough is putting it mildly especially since he's premature. I'm so sorry. Glad you guys had Megan mom there. That's so nice. Wishing I was so close by to bring you guys food. I love you guys. Sending you both many Blessings.
Saying Hello from the USA…as a mom of 4 and grandmother “Mimi” of 9 I so enjoy you both allowing all of us to be a part of your beautiful lives… Baby Ru is absolutely perfect and you certainly are real and express such similar experiences of so many new parents! It even brings back memories of when my babies were born. God has blessed you with a wonderful life and Thankyou for sharing the joy of his blessings. You’re both doing an AMAZING job😊
Good morning from across the pond. What a delightful video! You are doing a terrific job, don't worry, it gets better. Love seeing your cheerful, but tired faces. 😊 Love being along on your journey. Bless you all, babies are gifts from God, but a struggle in the beginning. I was a foster mom for ten years. I took in a three weeks old baby whose mother got caught in a drug bust. That baby was extremely difficult because of the drugs in her system. But she got through it, my one cat watched her like a hawk. She would lean against her for support when the baby cried, all while giving me fierce stares, and meowing at me to get that bottle ready pronto. Flora made sure that baby was taken care of. She was always near her. Have a terrific day. ❤️❤️❤️
Y'all are so awesome! I have watched you for the last few years and I just adore you. I love that you will address sensitive topics and are truly honest about the issues you have encountered. Megan, if I miss you on the 19th, Happy Pre-Birthday wish to you from me. My mother always said the 30's are the best years, they were pretty good for me. Age is just a number, it's how you feel inside that counts. Stay healthy and just enjoy being a mommy. They do grow very fast but enjoy all the moments that come your way. A child is such a blessing from God. I know that the two of you will make such awesome parents. You're both so loving and compassionate. I've got get off to Church, love you all. Sandi from Az, USA
It’s so refreshing how candid both of you are. I had a baby almost 3 years ago, and my postpartum experience was so hard I still remember it vividly. I also work in healthcare and find it sad that the moms aren’t really checked up on until 6 weeks after giving birth. All we get is a little depression screening at the baby’s pediatrician visit here in the US. The dads get nothing but in reality especially for first time parents I think at least a few phone calls the first week to check in could be nice. If the parents want it, etc. I just think it’s SO much harder than a lot of people let on. Edit: awe now that I’m watching more… my son had a tongue tie too and we also got it removed via laser. The exercises after were one of the hardest things because he would cry so much. It was hard but we knew it was best for him. He’s almost 3 now. Our breastfeeding journey started with a rough 2 months but we are still going strong and now it’s amazing. At 2 months I think it became pain free. It’s just so hard because no one talks about any of this! We worked with a lactation consultant who was incredible and she helped but we also went backwards when she wasn’t around so it’s all hard. You think you’ve got it and all is good then you don’t. It’ll get so much easier!
Oh Ruu is so cute. Being a parent is hard and for moms is a lot harder. Meghan know that it is normal to feel all that you feel, lean on someone else on top of your partner and have patience. These day will go fast enough and then it will get easier. I recommend at a certain point (3,4 months) you let your baby have and sleep in his own room. Is good for him to be independent and is it great for you and your hubby. Buy a baby monitor to always make sure the baby is fine, everything will be fine. A lot of couples have done it on their own ( including us, in a country that is wasn’t ours, with no family to help us, we did it all by ourselves and I was alone most of the time ) so I’m sure you will do just fine, you have a support system and THAT IS HUGE! Welcome to parenthood, it’s hard, it sucks sometimes but you’re gonna love it!
You Three are so absolutely delightful!!! I agree the honestly is so refreshing! Im sorry you have had a few bumps in the road. Its can be so challenging! But, I have to tell you...believe it or not...you get really good at going without sleep. I had 8 children and I became a pro! Just make sure you sleep every single moment you possibly can! My daughter just gave birth to her second baby 2 months ago. She is so sleep deprived!!! I was offering my condolences to her and she said mom...there was a time I didnt think I could possible handle such sleep deprivation. But, now I know it will all be but a memory and I will survive just fine!!! So hang in there! It will all be ok! Your little Roo is just as beautiful as you too are! My three youngest and I gather around and love watching you in your life! Thank you for sharing! May you be blessed with health and Joy
It's like being in the living room with you with this video 🥰 i follow you because you are so down to earth and chilled and it's like chatting between friends! I hope you'll get all the help even if you are already amazing parents♥️ ciao Roo Roo from Italy 🥰🇮🇹
Welcome to the world of parenthood. I'd like to say things will get better but the reality is that it's a Rollercoaster with highs and lows. Sometimes it's rewarding and sometimes you'll wonder what you were thinking and why you ever considered becoming parents. Best of luck to your wonderful family and sleep whenever/however you can
You are both amazing parents, Roo Bear is going to have the most amazing life!! Our son, Rory is now seven (we used to call him roo bear as a baby, so loving hearing it again!!) & seeing your videos bring back special memories when he was first born. So happy that you are sharing your special journey with us 😀
You are both right re sleep deprivation is definitely the worst & I too had my mum everyday to help❤️ .I always think of new mums that don’t get that close help😞 .You are both doing such a great job & it will get easier, keep looking after each other &enjoy your little Ru getting stronger & growing everyday 💙🥰
Hey lovelys ty for taking the time to do this video , just want to say years ago we used to wrap our baby's in a little sheet so that they felt secure duno if its advised these days my last babys 26 now 🤭 anyway theres these things now called woomies they make baby feel like they still inside the womb nd it helps them settle , may help enjoy your baby roo he is adorable take care 💙❤️💙💐💐
Your a lovely couple and I do wish you the very best…. … I’m a grandmother now to 5!….but the births to my sons (and the weeks after )are engrained in my mind for ever….. very special memories… hold on to them for believe me they grow up very quickly….
It takes a village to raise a child and lm so pleased you are being honest, you are communicating with each other and that’s huge. It will get easier but don’t be too hard on yourself. You are dressed and that’s a huge achievement! Be kind to yourself xxxx
I may not know you in person but want to give you both the biggest hug. I promise it does get easier and he will start to sleep for longer. Raising kids is hard but also the best thing you will ever do😊
Team parenting is the best! Having a supportive spouse/partner who is willing and wanting to help out was my saving grace with our little ones. I hope you all continue to adjust and enjoy these new parenting stages!! Best of Luck! Xxx
So refreshing that a young couple can be so honest about how tough it is having your first baby and all the hormonal adjustments and changes that brings in all areas . I remember the sleep deprivation for the first 12 months with my son then I had my daughter 22 months apart and the adjustments had already been done and second time round I found it so easy in comparison . This time goes past so quickly but at the moment it feels like forever ! Your doing such a fantastic job so dont be too hard on yourselves and having a good cry is good to get it all out xxx
Beautiful Family! Congratulations ❤️ when I had my twin girls and was nursing I learned to sleep with them and put my schedule on there’s and Nap!!! You have all the food and support it seems. Your just exhausted which is normal. Make believe your baby and take the naps when they do .😀
As much as I loved the newborn stage, the sleep was crazy, you because delirious while running in adrenaline 😳 *Sending you peace love and light to all 3 of you* xoxi
Congrats and glad to see things are going well. So happy for you guys ! My little girl will be 4 in 2022 , some days I really do miss the newborn days. Never been so scared to leave a hospital as the day I took her home. Felt like I would do EVERYTHING wrong. It’s been smooth sailing , so to speak, from there. She’s a wild one but I would give up a minute with her for anything ! She is my world. These times are hectic and there is no way to describe being new parents cause we all go thru it differently but just know that it goes by wayyy to fast & then they’re screaming at you in the grocery store for not opening every item in the basket as we are still shopping ….. lol. You guys are amazing!
I am so grateful that you guys have posted these videos, I’m nervous about my birth and you have shared such a positive video about this but also realistic journey afterwards which will definitely be so helpful for me and my partner! Thank you 💕
What a lovely sit down with you today. Oh how I remember those early days😌. It sounds like the UK does a great job with their medical care for birthings. I like the midwife aspect and after care. Jamie, my husband is also very emotional and it is one of the things I absolutely love about him, he is not afraid to show his feelings.❤️ Baby Roo is much loved by the whole village and that is a very good thing❤️❤️❤️❤️
Such a lovely family you are 💕. As others have already posted, the challenges of having a newborn are very real, but it does get better. Megan, you look amazing and have that new mother glow about you. Those hormones will sort out; helps to have a wonderful husband and support system like you do. 🍼👶 Love the pizza story; such a contrast to America, where laboring mothers usually starve (anesthesia concerns).
You're both doing great! It's hard but it's okay to let it all out sometimes. Cry it out and it will be alright. Roo is so lucky to have you both as his parents. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'll be here 😘
I cried a lot after having my second baby, unable to explain it. I was happy and sad all at once. I understand you both. A new baby is a lot to incorporate in a couples life. You love them but the unknown is real!
Congratulations! Thank you for sharing about PPD. I have 2 baby's my last one was born in March. I had PPD with my first born. When I found out I was pregnant with #2. What I was stressing the most was nothing with giving birth or recovery but it was my mental health afterwards. I spoke with a therapist towards the end of my pregnancy which helped SOO MUCH! Your family is so beautiful! :)
