Listen To Black Men: Interracial Dating 

FR. Same. SMH

Exactly

SAMEEEEE! I just knew it was gonna be better…. Yeah naw.

@@carynbarnes674yeah this wasn’t it at all besides the one little clip I saw from tiktok!!!

EVERYBODY WANNA GET A PODCAST & BECOME A LIFE COACH RELATIONSHIP EXPERT SOCIOLOGIST & THEY ALL JUST SPEWING THE SAME IGNORANT NARRATIVE/RHETORIC!!!!!! A LIL BIT OF KNOWLEDGE CAN BE A DANGEROUS THING!!!!

So true 💯 It is very sad how this is even a conversation that our people even considers to be an important discussion to have when it is not. With the current condition of the black community, talking about dating outside of our race should be the least of our concern when in fact, it is not in anyway beneficial to our race. We have way more things to worry about. Instead, we should be talking about how to reunite, build up our community to be strong again, addressing the issues with the genocide of black men killing each other & black women hating on each other and how divided we are & all the issues that have been detrimental to our community. Also we should be talking about how black men and black women should love on one another. It is enough self hatred within our community as it is and interracial relationships only contributes to the issues that we have which makes it worse, but our people think that dating out will solve those problems when in reality, they are just running away from facing the problem. At the end of the day, no matter what anybody says, no one understands our struggles the way we do and this is why we should stick together and promote black love. We don't need anyone else but each other.

@@lonigibson2797 See but what you're requesting from our people requires work and a lot of us do not want to put in the work when it comes to building with each other. Most of our people are comfortable living in their own demise. Deviating from that would warrant us looking in the mirror and self reflecting. So it's much easier to sit and have nonsensical debates about sex, gender wars and dating out. Most of our people are in a childlike state. We are easily influenced by things that holds no value to our betterment.

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@@originalstorm6272 Absolutely and that is why things are not changing in our community because of that poor mentality that they have. It takes strength and maturity to do as you said that we should do but until they do that, things will never change. I just pray that our people will eventually wake up 🙏🏾

@@lonigibson2797 Well the way things are going, I'm not sure many of us would ever wake up! That's just the sad reality.

Yeah, just don't force it like I hear other women saying they will do now..now that it gets pushed so hard to bw. And Please don't be desperate. Nothing more pathetic when bw get a little attention from a wm...or he say he like bw, and yall lose it. Like WTF?? SMH 🤦‍♂️ Just be cool. Actually, they should work for it harder than others. That's how I do others...but the ones with ws mindsets don't do that unfortunately. SMH

Your part of the problem

It’s no issue. As long as you don’t put them on a pedestal for being non-black and downing your own.

If dating the group of people that hate you, "works" then...

@@Jay-jb2vr bm trend for high test divorce per census even when married outside …. Statistically it’s not wise .

It doesn't just create unconditional solidarity. You can build emotional bonds and love through shared trauma.

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No there aren’t enough suitable black men. So black women are either single or sharing men. It just logically makes more sense for them to date out.

​@@dnicole4236 there's alot of suitable black men black women have unrealistic standards

@@BIFC216 facts. And im saying this as a 6 figure earning black man. It's kind of fucked up to admit but the more money ive made, the less ive wanted to deal with black women and those "unrealistic standards." And it's one thing to deal with unrealistic standards, because every race has women with those. Then you package in the obstinate, combative behavior, demanding attitude, and unwillingness to take any kind of direction and/or constructive criticism, my thought process goes to "why am I here?" Im not obligated to be in some tug of war of sorts with a woman because we share the same skin tone, thats ridiculous. So as of ~5 years ago, I said "no more" 🤷🏾‍♂

Yes - exactly. Some people aren't comfortable allowing a panel of all black men to simply say what they need to say. But that is what was needed. And it did not happen here.

This didn’t age well lol

@@user-js9kq3gr7r It did. Papoose stance won't change just cause what he may or may not have gone through. It is what it is.

@@jayc5756 stance on what exactly? The love he would’ve spoke on was betrayed and broken. He may want to go get a snow bunny.

@@user-js9kq3gr7r Nah bruh. Stop trolling.

@@jayc5756 trolling how ? It’s public knowledge Remy ma cheated on him. He held her down and got played. I’d hear Jim jones.

Something is TOTALLY wrong with you if you date out. Waking up to a European spouse would make my stomach turn.

@@DrUmarJohnson1 😂

@@DrUmarJohnson1 something is seriously wrong with me then. Lol not only did I marry out but I’m trying show more upwardly mobile BM the path.

That is BS.

Yeah, we can tell you need all the help in the world based off that profile picture.

whyte women understand blck trauma?

@@jamalwright2854 What? I didn't say that at all!

@@misunderstoodkj I'm talking about Jim JOnes!

@@jamalwright2854 oh ok. Lol

@@misunderstoodkj is he even blck?

Everyone doesn’t have a victims mindset.

Because those men don't want love, they want a false sense of acceptance and a feeling of escape from themselves. It's truly sad when you think about it, but they are apparently happy in their delusion.

@@rivemorhum sounds like a projection

@@rivemorhum A Black spouse indicates consciousness, pride, strength, and a high self image

@@rivemorhum A non-Black spouse indicates shame, isolation, weakness and a poor self image

Black men have been disrespecting black women for centuries!! It has been time for black women to open their options to other groups of men. Even rethinking their own unattractiveness to white men.

What push, I cannot stand BM like you, the overwhelming majority of black women want black man. You should see how most women react to me, even having the audacity to suggest dating outside the race !! it always disgust me how BM are more concerned with the underwhelming, 3% of black women compare to the 25% of eligible dating BM who date outside of the race. You are more concerned about the minority over the majority, how the hell do you think some BW feeling ? Especially when a lot of our successful black men are dating other races of women. And before you start, I already know over 70% of black men are dating black women, but the unfortunate problem is only 30% of black men are married so if Jamie who is white and offering marriage and a relationship and provision and protection to my sister, do you honestly think I’m going to tell her not to date him because she needs to wait around for Tyrone. The same way Blackman exercise their rights is the same way. Black women have the right to date whoever they want. So many of you Client, you don’t care but look how triggered it has got you at just the idea that a black woman can have the audacity to try something new. I don’t know why you are so concerned about women who don’t like you. One thing about the black community. The man have a plethora of ride or die, hard back, “pick me” mammies who will go to the ends of the Earth for black man, and who cannot stand black women like me who have married outside the race. So please pick from those options, and don’t worry about the very small minority of black women who are dating out and the even smaller percent of black women who don’t want you to begin with!!

Agreed. I'm a Black woman and agree.

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💯 and we still need to stay with our own today and a white woman can't produce a Black child and to say that is an insult to Black women.

That’s sooooo true🤦🏾‍♀️

Well f'n said...

Europeans, Arabs, Asians, and Latinos are steering their children to be with their own and Africans [Blacks] are DYING to be seen holding hands with them......SMH!

It’s not a mission , black men are desired by all races of women. Black aren’t going to limit themselves to only black women. White men date out more than black men (with Asian women) they just don’t get backlash.

@@user-js9kq3gr7rThey do get backlash. Asian men are hating on it.

Yeah, this the only comment that is needed!

What was really needed was more critical thinking Bm. Who're not afraid of pointing out Bw's Hypocrisy when it comes to IR dating.

FR. Mann

​@@Andrew-gq2otThat true

Wait so when when we have listen to black women I don’t heard one person say there aren’t enough black men when they talking nonsense without a filter quit the double standard

For real.

Where has the African gone and gotten appreciated outside of being entertainment or a political pawn???

@@DrUmarJohnson1 answer: other than inventing and building an economy, not much.

What 😂

At least you are honest. You don't care about the black community. And you don't care about black women. And think most black men who marry outside of the race think like you but, ashamed to admit it.

Fetish

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@@19petal ?

And had the nerve to mention trauma bonding! He created the trauma in his relationship!!

@@dday3322 he sure did

Chrissy been waiting how many years to be married to this man? It’s crazy!!!

@@IyaIfamodupe ikr 💯

@user-sc3st6ry2v Yeah, you're a troll. SMH! A white troll. GOH!

Whyte women only want to f*** y'all bm or non-black women overall non black men overall only want to f*** us bw they don't like us romantically even if you're in a relationship with one that s*** is cap.

No. Most COLORIST black men don't want black women. Show that you are SELF-HATING without saying you are SELF-HATING.😂😂😂

why ?

I hate when people use the phrase "love is love" as if love isn't developed, nurtured, and a choice at the end of the day. The word love is so misused.

I agree love is love. But when Bm think that way He's a sellout, colorists, he hates Bw. Just look at the reaction to these passport brothers. To them love is love as well.

​@@Andrew-gq2otAnd what about the bw that think the same? Is it the same case? 🤔

@@kp9779 "Love is love" is an acceptance of interracial dating slogan. Lets get back to "Black Love". Not giving our wombs and resources to White women/men

@@jayc5756 BM actively seek whiteness in all forms at a disproportionate rate. Do your research and see the percentages of relationships and marriages between bm and ww. It’s astronomical and so is the failure rate 😭 the amount of bw dating out is tiny. Pls be real with yourself. That’s where it starts

They didn't invite me

Lisa, us Africans [Blacks] in America have been red-lined, denied loans, wrongfully imprisoned, spit on, thrown bannas at, bombed in Phillidelphia/Tulsa, water hosed, shot while unarmed, endured medical aparthied, and inhumanely enslaved for 400+ years. How can you as a European honeslty expect us to not stare at you and your Black spouse, become triggred at you and your Black spouse, and STRONGLY diapprove of you and your Black spouse? Where's America attempt to make amends with us not including a holiday or street name?

At All

@@jayc5756 exactly 💯

Exactly

So... are you still Pro-Black if you're on a monoracial Black relationship with a self-hating & or colorist Black person? I get what you're saying, but just curious about how you feel on that one.

@@FluteCheerios if the person you're dating is self-hating regardless if they are a black person from a different culture no that's not pro black. THEY hate themselves so how could they be pro themselves they would have the same ideology as non-black people that are anti-black. Most importantly you are who you date so if you're willingly dating a person that way that speaks loudly and volumistly about who you are!!!!

I disagree. A black man is NOT a trophy. No man is. Especially a man who is low on the socioeconomic totem pole.

@@nmhoskins I agree that a Black man is not a trophy. I was simply stating there are white women who see it that way - they are wrong

@user-sc3st6ry2vfor fetishizing and pissing their yt parents off. It’s almost never love which is why they WW and BW have the highest divorce rates of any interracial marriages.

The Cosmos and karma and DNA

It’s definitely the white persons family business if there family member is dating a black, they definitely would have a problem, blacks are the only people who says this, I bet your black dating none black