Listen to Black Women - CO-PARENTING 

a man should not be shamed for not wanting to date a woman with kids, especially if he has no kids of his own. women are allowed to have their preferences when it comes to mate selection but if a man says he doesn't wanna date a single mother he gets shamed for it, which is what they were doing. its not in a man's best interest to date a single mother & most men know this! my advice to any single mother with kids would be get back with your kids father if he isn't deceased or in prison becuase we ain't coming to save y'all. guys ain't out here looking to be stepfathers anymore in 2024.

Dating a single mother will be the biggest mistake you ever make

Crazy how they try to shame dude for not dating women with kids but then she turns around & says she don't date men with kids.

It amazes me how men arent allowed to have standards....

Single Mother's: "For recreational use only"

I will never making this mistake ever again! Dating a single mother was the biggest mistake I have ever made!

As a father that raise his alongside the mother we both tell our children to never date a person with kids. Fellas especially if you don’t have kids, make your own. Being a stepdad isn’t worth it.

I love how his personal choice in dating became all about her 😂

There is one family structure that moves communities forward. Everything else is degenerative and destructive. No other culture is trying to make “coparenting” a thing but us.

How exactly do men benefit from being stepfathers???

3:22 Not "How men think" That's how MOUSE thinks. Most men with kids understand they'll be blended families. The side note is the man will be the provider of BOTH sets of children. Hence why men might be more choosy when picking a single mother as a partner.

This was a great topic. Naturi hit it right on the nose. Mutual respect is what it should be about. Introducing your new partner to your ex is not a bad thing. This way you can set your boundaries from the start before the new person even meets the kids. A lot of people don't think that the introduction is a necessary step in coparenting, but it truly is.

Double standards these women say THEY DO NOT WANT MEN WITH CHILDREN DO TO BM DRAMA! So why the push back on the man when he says, “he don’t want woman?”with no children

I LOVE ❤️ BLACK WOMEN!

Great Interview

Thank you Naturi!!!

How men think?? No, Thats How Mouse Thinks ma. Cmon now. Yall wildin.

What I never hear in these conversations is the importance of the initial choice and accountability for decisions at that stage. Once there is a child, that is already complicated. Its not impossible, but its not desirable at all. A man who leads wants to do so without external influence/baggage etc (babydaddy). We should talk more about initial choices by men to make women pregnant without plans to be with her long term and initial choices women make to become pregnant by men they either don't like, don't want long term, or that do not want them. The woman's role in this is probably more important because she decides whether to have the baby and also will be the one to raise them.

I think single dads with kids and single mothers with kids can get together like a blended family😅 But if Im a single guy with no kids Im not going for a single mother with kids. Unless the kids are like in middle school or highschool and well behaved. I think if youre a single mum with kids. Your kids need to be at least well behaved. The world works with some realities that we need to accept. Most men are not gonna go for a single mother with kids. And you cannot force anyone to date you. Also kids need to have the right to not really fully accept you as a step dad or step mom. You cannot force people to love you.

Every single mom claims she’s a great mom…blah blah blah🙄it’s BS

I date women with no more than 1 child. 0 to 1. Thats just my preference. And yeah, im with what dude with the red hat said...as to my preference and how I was with them that I dated that had 1 child.

We need a better diverse representation of black women smh

I am sorry but that is double standards

Mouse the dust!

Why they didn't go at blonde/yellow hair for basically doing the same thing? She gave a lame excuse and they were like ok your good.

4:24 to 4:36 says it all. You don't hear that from women when it comes to men, they want grace but don't give it. SMDH

Actually there are some guy with 4 baby daddy who have great value like me

Wait, how did she get married when her child was only two?? That's fresh off having another mans kid.

Dude was pressed to wear them Jordans. They to big!

Stepkida area bad investment . If the real dad don't want to stick around or if they couldn't work it out it's crazy for you to try. Ain't nobody checking in the guy they momma dated 20 years ago . Y'all mlthers and aunts used our father's and uncles we ain't having it

Date women without children and avoid all of the extra stuff that you didnt create.

These men they chosen i guess were the best available.. lord we gotta have better examples. Cause they sound silly.

"How can she focus on me when she's a mother?" So single fathers can date but women can't? And then "me and her can have our first kid together. It has to be her first kid though." So youre allowed to have kids but she has to be single with no kids for you to be invested? If anything, you should wanna date a woman *with* kids so you both can accept each other. Bruh 🤦🏾‍♀️ be quiet.

the fact that these women talking out both sides of they mouth is tremendous audacity

Women always trying to convince dating single mothers is a good thing

Never date a single mom.

U Tariq mama and ghost ex wife. We not listenen to you

This is an important topic to discuss. Thank you for this video. Coparenting is very sad within the black community because there is no coparenting. It's sad seeing my sistas struggle on their own. Even a white male youtuber reacted to 'dear mama' by tupac with his mom and she started crying, telling her son that she's an elementary school teacher and that when she does parent-teacher conference meetings the black mothers always come alone and she asks where the father is or what does the father do for a living and how involved is he and what can you both as parents do to help your son get all caught up with his work and everything etc. And it breaks her heart when these women say "he doesn't have a father. He died" or "oh hes locked up, he's not in his life anymore" like... it's getting really sad out here. Black men need to stop. I can't say I'm surprised though. Most of us black families have grown up with single mothers so it explains why Corey Hardrict (an actor who was raised by a single mother and never met his dad) couldn't financially provide for his famous wife Tia. He never seen a man do the work as a child. He saw the woman doing everything. Same with Kevin Hart. He said he's a huge feminist because he believes women do deserve to be treated equally and paid equally cause he's seen women work twice as hard as men because he was raised by one. Again thank you for this topic. It's heartbreaking. And we need to do better. More importantly black men need to do better and step up. Even after a divorce caused by the man cheating, they bitch and moan about paying child support. Well, don't break up the family to begin with and black women won't be single mothers 🤷🏽‍♀️ problem solved.

Elle Varner is a mother?!?😮

These women are lost. Yellow hair? Really