Little boy in China takes care of disabled mother 

I dont think it should be phrase this way. It's her right to feel sorry or not because it is her choice. She feels sorry because she feels guilty or bad that she is in this situation and couldnt do more. The correct way of rephrasing it is that, she dont have to feel sorry or bad because she has given her all despite her disabilities. That's the power of mother's love.

I agree!🥰

@@aimer3042 i think maybe what he means is "she has no need to say sorry" 😆

@@Yan-Zhan you are right!

2 year old literally being made into a care giver to a parent/ parents who always have had a physical & mental challenge is totally unfair .

Truly said😊

​@Macy Actually evil fathers are talked about a lot more than evil mothers, way more women are criminals out there than we think. It just takes a bit of thinking to understand all that, but I guess people like you with no brain inside exist in mass quantity out there in society which is why we think the way we think rn. All in all, do not talk about something that you don't even know about, and women get away with crimes much more easily than men because people like you think that women can't be criminals which is also why this is a cursed timeline. I just hope you can go out there in the real world and learn the reality of it, and not just stay inside your own little bubble which you mistake for "reality". Because if you did, then you wouldn't have written this comment, men being criminals doesn't take away from the fact that women can be criminals too and vice versa.

100% spot on!

Yes

Aye. I remember reading overworked mothers killed their autistic sons. All have different methods. It's sad.

So true ❤

Indeed we see what the 'highly' educated has left Us.

Most children are empathetic and innocent until they start getting older and society starts to tell them what to do and expectations.

could use more of that? why we use them instead of us the able-bodied helping?

this child is more understanding and useful than a child who is twice his age who sits at home playing video games every moment

Yeah for now…😒💔

girl shut up what do you mean for now?and what's with the attitude?your only acting like this since their disabled but all that matters is that their both able to take care of child,he's fed cleaned and happy and has a roof over his head and a family that loves him and that's all that matters stop being ableist and get a life,they'll always strive and work harder to take care of their son.

Wonderful family

This boy is the Buddha.

Yep. People think they are selfish like those parents who groom their healthy child to be a future caretaker for their disabled child. This is a completely different situation. They aren't making the child help them. They lived just fine before having a child. Their child is helping them because he chooses to. He is given love, care, and education and he's choosing to return that love of his own accord. He's going to grow up being a responsible, kind, and loving person.

So when they call you a toddler, you know what they be actually saying 😂

sure, but a child/teenager shouldn't have to take care of their parents in the first place.

that is BECAUSE he is not a teenager yet 😂

@@IlmurOsp sadly its what happened to me, but even though... i rather take care of them, Then to be on the loose on my own

⁠@@IlmurOsptrue but if they really need the help than we should help them

I guess the apple fell far from the tree or more like Walked from the tree😂

Exactly, they are wonderful parents

There is more love and happiness in this little family than in many financially well-off and physically perfect families.

Yeah I agree

I agree with u the kids even more lucky than me who had normal parent but has crazy life and traumatic effect for me

Actually, she does More. I know able bodied people that do less.

@@yeahyeahyeah2935 indeed 💯

The child that is a leader. So beautiful.

The issue I have with this is he's not really having a childhood. I experienced something similar to this when I was a child.

And today, he is a human gem!

@Loriann Richardson That may have been your experience, and that is totally valid, but that doesn’t mean the same is true for this little boy. This was a very short video solely about the topic of this little boy helping his mother. Of course that is going to be all the video shows and focus on, but that doesn’t in anyway mean this is a 24/7 representation of his life. When I was this little boy’s age, I always was helping my mother do daily chores like sweeping and vacuuming, helping fold laundry, etc. While my mother was not disabled, I do not see that as being any different than this. Most young children love to help out with daily tasks and chores, and that is actually something that is extremely beneficial to a child’s development. Children, especially when young, want to feel like they are contributing to the family unit, and want to feel that their role in that unit is important and desired. Many behavioral issues can actually be helped by involving children more in daily tasks and giving them little “jobs” to be responsible for around the house. Everyone wants to feel needed and that they have a purpose, and children are no different. Additionally, when I was the ages of 7 to 9 years old, I assisted my mother in caring for my terminally ill aunt. I helped do nearly all care tasks, far more than this child is doing. Sure, during that time I could have been out playing, but that experience taught me things that forever shaped me, things I wasn’t going to experience/learn by play alone. I wanted to help because I loved her and I willingly chose to do so. I couldn’t control her illness, but I could control the role I played in her life and the help and support I could offer. I felt wanted, needed and loved, and like I had a purpose. Never in a million years would I choose to have done things differently or choose to have had a more “innocent” or “normal” childhood at that time of my life. And when I myself became fully disabled at the age of 17 due to my own progressive disease, that transition was less harsh because of what I all experienced with my aunt. The fact is, we all will have times in life where we become ill or disabled in some capacity. For some it happens earlier than others, for some it’s lifelong, and for some it only happens in old age, but it is just a fact of life. Familiarizing children with this fact in a healthy way, and including them in helping loved ones in need is not a bad thing. What this little boy is experiencing in life is a blessing. He is learning what selfless love looks like, and what it looks like to care for your loved ones when they need help. He is learning compassion, grace, support, and understanding. Those aren’t just concepts taught to him verbally, they are being integrated and interwoven into his very being through deliberate actions. He is learning lifelong skills that will shape him into a wonderful, kind and loving person, willing to help anyone in need. He is in a happy and loving home, with two parents who love and care for him, who he loves enough to care for them in return in the best ways he knows how. He also has two sets of loving grandparents who also spend time with him and show him love, care and affection. The things he is doing for his mother are not things that are necessarily making her life easier in a monumental way, they are simple tasks that this little boy is eager to “help” with because he loves his mom. Getting shoes, holding a cup of water, and holding hands are not things that are going to destroy his childhood. This mother was able to live her life independently prior to having her son. From what little we did see, she is MORE than capable of finding ways to do all of these things herself, but her son, who loves and cares about her because of how much he knows she loves and cares about him, wants to “help.” Just like when I “helped” my mother vacuum at a young age, she didn’t really need the help, and it likely would have been done quicker and more efficiently without my “help,” but she allowed me to help her with things because she understood that it was teaching me lessons far beyond how to vacuum, and understood that it helped me to feel involved. Likewise, this sweet little boy wants to feel like he plays a role in his family, and he has enough compassion to recognize that these little tasks are something he is able to do for his mom, just like his mom cares for him in return. That is a child who is well balanced, emotionally intelligent, selfless, kind, caring, considerate, giving, compassionate and empathetic. What more could you ask for as a parent to know that you are raising a wonderful human being? Those are things not all children are taught by their parents, but this little boy was blessed with a loving family who did teach him the value of those things, most likely from his parents own actions and displays of love and care. That is not a bad thing. The incorporation of playtime is important for development as well, but it shouldn’t be the only thing a child experiences. Teaching them responsibility and helpfulness from as early of an age as possible is just as important to their overall development, and it teaches them things playtime never will. A child can still be a child and enjoy childhood while also having responsibilities. Responsibility and helping out those you love, whether that’s helping with household chores or helping a disabled parent with small daily tasks, is a skill and concept that a child will carry with them into adulthood. That is invaluable. This little boy’s joyful and loving demeanor is indicative of him having a wonderful upbringing, with parents and grandparents who show him a constant display of mutual love, mutual care and mutual affection towards him and between all members of the family. That is a childhood many children in loveless homes/families could only dream of. His upbringing may be different than most, but that doesn’t mean he has any less of a childhood. He will grow up and make this world a better place BECAUSE of his family and upbringing, not in spite of it.

Beautifully said. ❤

Thank you. I too have taken care of many children with physical and emotional challenges. When I look into their eyes I see a beautful soul . The most important thing is love and I see alot of love in this family however challenging it may be.

You worded this with perfect eloquence. 👌

Yes

so touching

盼望主的憐憫和看顧this boy will grow up caring and passion Be strong and brave boy Can not get in touch but pray for your family

Give that China boy a balloon! Bravo! 🎈

@@jovimathews Much better than those people from Europe

Me too bruh, 😭

This kid can be sure of one thing, his parents will always be there for him. Although they may not be able to help him much, their very presence is a huge emotional support. The fortunate thing is they are not bed-ridden. So, he just needs to help out a little here and there and he is super cute.

I am crying, too, bro.

Agreed 💯😊❤

What a great story,thanks for sharing!!!

❤️

He is kind, selfless, and considers bravo mom!

Thank you for your words. Love to you

Lovely family. People who judge seem to impose their ideas of right and wrong. And I can only surmise they have not yet developed emotional maturity. Easy to throw words at others and feel superior. I can only surmise that these people need to heal. And their ideas of being right reflects the relationship they have with themselves. The simple people who want to live and love is humbling to see. I thank you for sharing your life with us. And you will only get love and compassion from me. Something that I learned over time that brings me peace. Thank you again. Much love

It’s a great environment to raise a kid in. Love? Support? Patience? Compassion? A warm bed, clean clothes, food, and they are teaching him to take care of his space and how to grow food! Seems like exactly the right environment for a child.

Humbling words indeed 😔

Oh no believe me when I say even when we are disabled we will continue to find things to complain about. More actually except it’s not for little things. For example I start complaining that I can’t walk, dress myself, date etc but then I humble myself by reminding myself “it’s ok, at least I can breathe on my own and am not on a ventilator anymore!”

@@susangarza3203 yep. Always count our blessing. Life is a bit*h, does not mean we let her beat us up.

Toxic positivity who?

Makes me think of Steve Hawkins ❤️

Why don’t they change the law? I’m Canada that would never happen. We have these learners in everyday classes!

​@@darlinspaces Asia is more discriminatory towards the disabled. The bullying and teasing gets bad

@@elithluxe7568 So you moved away? Most Asians won't use your name btw

@@darlinspaces huh no. Asia is comprised of more than 40 countries right. Even the middle east aka Central/West Asia is considered Asian too. Nevermind South Asia which I guess doesn't exist for many. Y'all like to think that only East Asia aka China, Japan and Korea are the only ones to exist. Asia is full of diverse looking people as well as names. Not everyone looks and sounds like the people from those three countries only. Elith Luxe is not my real name. My actual first name is Russian but it is also common amongst South Asians. My last name is Arabic but it is also South Asian because my family is from a Muslim country there. Elith is like an Arabic nickname my friends gave me. Most of the Asian cultures share similar cultures meaning that many of them are conservative, traditional and care a lot of reputation and such. There is less of acceptance of people who are deemed abnormal like those born with defects. Kids aren't taught to respect the disabled from a young age and bullying in some countries gets really bad even if you are not handicapped. Many schools don't have the resources to deal with the disabled and neither do many parents have the patience to teach their kids why that person is like that or feel comfortable with them being around their kids. There are not many separate institutions and certainly not in third world Asian countries.

A gentleman raising the MOM.

Indeed

@@karna8658 😂

@@karna8658 she's been raised. Has CP, not a child

@@nikodemus6315 he didn’t mean in wrong way More like taking care of her in his childhood

He has very loving and sensible parents too who try their best to care for him and raise him well 😊 It's really impressing how sweet and caring the boy already is at such small age! He for aure is bery anntentive and a clever boy!

He’s a toddler. It’s impossible for a toddler to be selfish because they haven’t developed to that point yet

@@pisces2569 There is alot of emotional development the first 4 years of life. He is being taught self reliance without pity.

The kid must be taught selflessness. That's the only way he will look after them through out his life. No room for self needs. 😂

really!!!abusing this barely walking toddler and training him into her personal care giver.....

@@annadagmarapl do both parents have cerebral palsy or just the mother

​@@annadagmarapl how is this abuse? They treat him well and aren't forcing him to do anything...

She’s selfish and shouldn’t be able to breed, disabled people shouldn’t be parents…if that makes me ableist so be it. 😒

Great job and lovely parents. Beautiful son. What I have learned is that it isn't important what other people say and do. Stay true to your own loving character

Cerebral palsy is very debilitating when older. I hope they are saving money, they will need a personal caregiver later in life.

@@ruthiebella Not it’s not… do you even know what Cerebral Palsy is?

​@@ruthiebella they're just going to be the same person. Not going to be more troublesome. Many babies got CP because of suffocation during birth process.

@@creativesparks2164 yes it is. Both my cousin and my sister had it and they needed foul time caregivers

​@@thekaren1111 if you don't want to get mom shamed don't post your kids on the internet constantly

Much kudos to the husband too for the true love and unending support. The son learnt from the father how to help the mother. He is a real man.

I wonder if she meant where there is a will there is a way haha. Either way, the mom is very inspiring.

Im sure at age of 2 years old is his decision .....are you insane ???he us 2 years old baby !!!!dont you see that rather mom is training him like monkey to be her personal care giver ! No way that any toddler at age of 2 should be burden already with so many house chores !!!

Agreed

I don’t think she’s in any pain. It looks like they are a wonderful, loving family and are enjoying every day and support one another. There’s this misunderstanding that disabled people are all miserable, stuck inside and dependent on the charity of others. It’s simply not true for a lot of people with disabilities. We work, pay our taxes, get married, raise children, buy homes, and travel the world. Some things are harder, of course, but humans are nothing but adaptable, and we find ways to get it done. This couple is a perfect example of that.

@@pinkmonkeybird2644 thank you for the reminder we need often

@@tigerli7964 Thank you for your kind words. I’ve lived with my disability for most of my life, and I can honestly say I’ve got a great life. But I do understand that it may seem difficult or depressing to be disabled to someone who hasn’t spent time with any people with disabilities. But like I said, we typically find ways to do what we need to do on our own. There’s a lot of satisfaction in figuring out ways to be independent - at least for me. Although I’ll admit to blaming my disability to get out of the chore of cleaning the cat litter boxes at my house. My husband has been doing that job ever since I was pregnant years ago, and I’ve never even considered taking it back now or ever.

@@pinkmonkeybird2644, I know some people who have a disability and I am grateful to know people like them. I wish you the best in your life for you and your family

This is despicable. That poor child.

MY EXACT SENTIMENTS 😊

Amazing beyond words!

I disagree. People, disable or not, have right to choose their own life but when having kids it is not only effecting them. Like people bring gun to shoot, that choice effecting lives. Some choices effect society and another innocent person. The baby did not have a voice to be born. Disabled person that could make baby with same condition should not having kid(s) to reduce suffering. For her case, look like she is responsible and checked genetic information. So for her, I did not say she is wrong. Not sure if her son will agree with that when he get older.

@@annat6249 if you go by that logic then anyone who has ever had children is selfish because "the kid did not have a voice to be born". Anyone, abled or disabled, can give birth to a child with disabilities. It would be scummy to go around exclusively judging/policing disabled people on their choices to have a kid. But also that would come from the mindset that being disabled is the most undesirable thing in the world, just pure and unending "suffering" when it really isnt?? as a disabled person (both physically and mentally), the pain caused by my disabilities is *nothing* compared to the pain caused by lack of social and medical support, the stigma, and the discrimination i get from just being disabled. If those things went away, then living in this world as a disabled person wouldnt nearly be such a tough thing. Also anyone can become disabled in their lifetime, after all.

Okay ur right but what about the kid and her husband first of all society have to remove these WOMENS DAY and replace it with HUMANS DAY 🧡

​@@firefixten4794 My comment has nothing to do with women's day or whatever. You are forced to celebrate these days. Wrong video

What were you judging her for? I want to know.

@@ayakopudding5483 It does not matter. It is only natural for a human to judge but it is up to her/him to either stay ignorant or to accept and learn something new. I chose to go with the second one. 🙂

A lot of non-disabled parents can’t even compete with this family. I’ve seen moms just screaming at their kids to sit down and be quiet, while they spend hours on their phones. Some of them are single mothers and are bringing home random men every night. Or some have alcoholic fathers who aren’t even present in the home. That’s what terrible parenting looks like.

@@zack2804 💯

​@Amany Meriam its human but also cowardly judging a book by its cover, but each to their own. I think it's sad you have to teach people to be decent. You would have stayed ignorant if she never said what she said is what i get from this.

He's no learning anything and most people are blind to the fact that a child shouldn't be taking care of an adult regardless of situation

So he's gonna have to take care of them for the rest of his life. Born in slavery!

@@babaruuts He;s not really taking care of her... she can do everything she needs to do. He just helps her.

@@babaruuts he is not taking care of her. He assists her mother in which everyone should.

@@babaruuts both parents still look capable of doing things so the little boy is not being the parent in this situation. At that age, your mom is your world so you like helping her

I couldn't have said this better myself 😊

Seriously, I bet he's gonna be sooooo smart when he's older

Yes, 2-3 years of "hard work". Now it's toddlers time to do hard work his whole life.