One thing I like about this channel is that it's not all about bringing the content that will uselessly attract followers. It's all about ensuring that we learn something in each and every episode. 👌🏽
Can't we just talk about the great work the Channel is doing without bringing what is done by other Channels "with content that uselessly attract followers"?... If we are to bring that up, at least we must recognize that there are people (like "we are people too") who are attracted to that content and constructively bring up our views about that type of content and why we feel it is not educational enough or that the learning it pushes does not add the needed value to our society (in a broader sense) in a sort'of considerate way... Maybe that approach can help us change the views of many content creators without them feeling we are attacking them... (I don't know) PLEASE FORGIVE ME IF MY MESSAGE OFFENDS YOU OR ANYONE... And THANK YOU for understanding... ❤
I love this.......my sister didn't date her husband...he said he don't want dating but to marry her...her sent letter in a month and they started wedding preparations. They been married for 19 years.. They are best friends
Thank you King for inviting people who enlighten us 👏👏 today's guest is preaching about things that engaged couples should pay attention on as much as singles because honeymoon phase is not forever. 🤔
I watched the podcast last night and today this topic ya magadi was discussed at work.You should have seen me speaking with authority from a point of knowledge I just acquired 😅.
My first time on this street but what a sober conversation. I learnt from my hubby to ensure I don't win battles at the cost of losing a war. What a lovely soul Nthabiseng is and what refreshing and eye opening conversation 😍😍🤗
My husband and I never dated. We met and loved each other, and he chose to marry me and i said yes. The first thing i needed to know from him was whether he knows the Lord Jesus or not. I found that he is the child of God much as i am. We discussed who we are in the Lord and our lives as persons. We had common personalities. Communication and Listening are the key. WE MADE A WEDDING AND WE ARE MORE THAN HAPPY TOGETHER. I am talking of a racial marriage here. No jolling or sleeping together took place before . We just loved one another in an overwhelming manner. It was an amazing experience. God is good, and all the times.
I really enjoy the sober conversations that I get from this podcast. This is such valuable information, wish a whole lot of people could watch this. Nthabiseng, kudos to you, Counsel🙌🏽
I have shared this link with everyone. Talk about "free" true legal advice we all need to know. It's my first time on this channel and I love it here already. Subscribed. Thank you for such an eye opening topic. New subbie☺
Yhoo this was enlightening, the things we get ourselves in without the slightest idea of how wrong things can be. Thank you King for bringing these people
Finally, marriage is a beautiful picture of the relationship between Christ and His church. The body of believers that make up the Church are collectively called bride of Christ. As Bridegroom, Jesus gave His life for His bride, “to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word” (Ephesians 5:25-26), and His selfless act provides an example for all husbands. At the second coming of Christ, the church will be united with the Bridegroom, the official “wedding ceremony” will take place, and with it the eternal union of Christ and His bride will be actualized (Revelation 19:7-9; 21:1-2).
I really enjoyed this insightful episode and as a woman I really appreciate her objective approach to such issues and looking forward to a second session she's really a powerhouse 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️ she's really driven by passion and I think it's a calling for her more than anything🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
We saw each other and got married after a month and we married for 16 years now . So I agree with my sister our first 6 years were horrible because there's was no communication but now we do Communicate and we are best friends, we talk about everything just like the sister said
This is so informative 🙌 . "Lobola is not engagement" Wow 36:35 Eish we totally misunderstood this. There're too many married people than we realize out there.
Not only does marriage teach children how to be faithful and give them a stable environment in which to learn and grow, it has a sanctifying effect on both marriage partners when they submit to God’s law (Ephesians 5). Every marriage has difficult moments or difficult dynamics. When two sinful people are trying to create a life together, they must submit to God’s command to love each another as God has loved us-selflessly (1 John 3:16). Our attempts to follow God’s commands in our own strength tend to end in failure, and that failure tends to make the believer more aware of his dependence on God and more open to the Spirit’s work in him, which tends to result in godliness. And godliness helps us to follow God’s commands. So, marriage is very helpful for the one trying to live a godly life; it helps to scrub the heart clean of selfishness and other impurities.
I regret not watching this video in the past three or so weeks because I thought I learn nothing from it...I have been married for 20 years but geez boy oh boy have I been wrong ..find it to be a reverting,informative , easy on the ear, educational...do I have all the superlatives...Thanks David i want the second session or episode.
Love is easy so is marriage. We just complicate things by not communicating clearly and openly. Create a friendship with your partner and learn to seek help when things starts going sour, Create fun times just for the 2 of you and learn each other's love language. Have respect for each other. I wish friends and families could really offer support to both parties when they see that things aren't going well. #ex-wife
So true what she said about "hinting" something and later it comes back as his idea ,I witnessed with my ex husband and now still with my brothers in business .
What the topic missed is that customary marriage was not recognized under apartheid, meaning lobola didn't mean marriage but the process towards marriage! I think the democratic government has done a poor job, especially the Department of Justice for not holding workshops in different communities and even producing booklets to explain the recognition of customary marriage vis a vi lobola!! 🤔
What an amazing eye opening, beautiful information. Nthabiseng my darling you are my gem. You a home builder. King David woow. I love your Chanel. So informative 💙💙💙💙
Marriage also protects individuals from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7:2). The world we live in is full of sexual images, innuendo, and temptation. Even if a person doesn’t pursue sexual sin, it pursues him or her, and it is very hard to escape it. Marriage provides a healthy place to express sexuality, without opening oneself up to the severe emotional (and many times physical) damage that is caused by casual, non-committed sexual relationships. It is clear that God created marriage for our good (Proverbs 18:22), to make us happy, to promote a healthier society, and to produce holiness in our lives.
My King! Ohhh kumkani! thank you very much for this educational and empowering content my Rebel lady is been on my case on this institution. Haaai noo we really need more enlightenment on such. Bayethe 🙌
This has been so informative, the legality of the subjects, but the ultimately it’s Sis’ Nthabiseng wisdom and the life experiences that shared with us. Thank you both so much.
wow King David & Nthabiseng this topic is a hit, eye opene, I'm a single parent & I'm learning a lot. we need t hear this a lot as Africans & as Christians because there's a lot of confusion. i thing you can good in marriage & family councelling. thank you so much
Trolls excited that Mohale was not married must just get educated and know that boy deserves 50% of everything by virtue of our law. Whether he wants it or not is something else but he's entitled to it. I'm so glad you brought this expert.
The issue with the Somizi - Mohale thing is that even with all the customary marriage requirements in place, Somizi can still claim everything was for the showmax show. Theirs is going to go on trial because both have witnesses that support each perspective.
@@mochaleaves Are you serious? They will have signed contracts to air their "marriage" from Showmax which is a legal document. That legal document will not say that they acted or played a role of getting married for Showmax. Showmax can sue him for lying on them. Then he would have to pay back all the money with interest. Plus Somizi afterwards called Mohale his husband. There is proof on social media. His family & friends knew him as Somizi's husband. There person marrying them was not an actor. Do you get that it is a serious offense to lie to a court? Somizi can claim he is Father Christmas if he wants but if all the evidence shows otherwise no court will just accept a claim.
Mr David Mashabela to me sir you're already a legend your platform is a place of learning and enlightening thank you for the knowledge you always bring to us. I appreciate your work and i know tomorrow in future am gonna be a better human being because of your content thank you so much...❤❤❤❤
The wisdom that comes with u ntjamme, I’m glad u can save marriages on ur line of work Nthabi🌸thanks ntjamme that kwala ka hanong can really assist me a lot.
Wow! Guys this interview theee best, I have enjoyed it enormously. All in one educational, entertaining I got here forever baba, thanks Nthabi, I appreciate your honesty. 👌
The reason ppl do not want to do premarital counseling is they know their relationship is doomed but the want to act dumb. You had a one & off relationship for 10 years where your bf had 3 kids with other women while dating, hisfamily hates your guts & hd has never provided for you but he whips out a ring & you think all your problems are going to magically dissapear.
Joooo...Nthabiseng I thank you haholo ka the insight.ke rata tsela eo u etsang lintho tsohile li be relatable..... joalo ka haeka u Bua story saka. 1st uena u name sake ea my late mother, who love Monna oa hae hoo she would say if my husband died nka shoa I did not understand hobane I still don't think nka rata Monna joalo(still not married)
Thank you King, You're a LEGEND keep up the good work Ntate. I thank the Almighty for giving you wisdom all the time, you know you bring the relevant people to this platform. God Bless
Can I suggest some topics: 1.Interracial Marriages 2. What marriage really is ( Biblically)? Interesting take by Ms Dubazana. Planning and getting the families to talk and how they relate sets the tone.... As for the marriage itself...they come in all kinds of packages. I am loving mine right now!!!!❤️❤️❤️🇸🇿🇩🇪
I am really inspired sis nthabi thanks alot, I don't mind ho dula keo mametse all the time. Communication e bohlokwa haholo into relationships as well as marriage.
Tjohhhhh!!! This info is so important bathong.I wish we could ask questions on this topic.We need Madam Nthabi to come back. Many people always day staying together for 6months is recognised as marriage but its not true.Malobola with proof is.
No angels Mr. It's a journey. It has been a journey for her too to get to this point in her marriage and life. Do you have the capacity to walk the journey, and match up to the caliber you seem to so desire.
