@@pharisaeus6493 you’re stupid thinking that it only applies to women because of “society” I can already tell what type of person you are by your statement lol.
@@cloud656 You're acting like looks are literally everything. All you gotta do to get sex is to just get a prostitute. If you don't want sex just for sex, then looks definitely don't matter. If people are attracted to blisters, then someone is attracted to you
Now that's a worthwhile ambition. No joke gut health has a massive impact on everything. I swear by a brand of probiotics called BioKult, because it has 17 different strains, modified to survive stomach acids so they actually make it to the colon. Good stuff.
Imagine wearing that stretcher thing, getting into a car accident, and having to explain why the f you would do this to yourself to the doctors and paramedics
@@lilnigga-qh7kdEhh, not really something you should be stressing about in your free time. Caring about it is one thing but stressing is mad at that age.
@@lilnigga-qh7kd I’m still a kid so I guess I don’t really care man. Stress ain’t good for your hormones anyway. Which certainly won’t help your skin. I’m not saying you should neglect skincare, just don’t stress too much.
The thing is also that for years people complained mainly about young women getting insecure seeing popular models in bikinis on Instagram but men are at least just as insecure and I’m glad people are catching on. All these insecurities are so extreme now… it’s depressing
@@anaalicia5029It's because society is somehow convinced that groups they deem "opposite" can not be helped at the same time. If women are to be helped, men must suffer type shit. But why not just help both sides?
@@damoji5332 and we’re gonna have to do it ourselves -boomers aren’t changing. I told my parents about this phenomenon (about young men) and yeah, they take it as extreme exceptions and me exaggerating.
The worst thing about being short is that you are basically forced to clownmaxx all the time in order to not seem insecure. Like even Charlie who is famous and good looking has to basically roast himself to seem cool.
Oh boy, is he in for a run. And btw, now ik how much he exaggerates in his vids bc he said here he is now a veteran in looksmaxxing iceberg when he is still on the surface lvl of it
@@KillerSkullX the part where people are race obsessed wanting to either look more white or ethnic and think race effects everything, or effects what type of personality you're allowed to get away with. The part where they order research chems to force their facial bones to grow in combination with repetitive low force impacts to incduce microfractures for repair and growth,and where they memorized the names of every male model and can explain in excruciating details everything about their facial symmetries. And then the incel rants and raves such as having nightmares of their high school crushes crawling out from a lake of seeemaan looking like the girl from the ring, pulling them in, and that lake of seeemaan is all from their high school bullies who were good looking unlike themselves..... I wish I was making up the last part but I've seen a post like that on the OG forum they used before Elliot Rogers shot up a sorority house in 2013. I hope that spelling some stuff strangely keeps this from disappearing.
i'm a semi professional athlete, in great shape with proper hygeine, though I don't look very good and I'm not tall. I've never dated anyone, so tell me what am I doing wrong?
Well mewing is really just proper tongue posture and has actually does help with proper breathing but I can see how bonesmashing would be actually harmful
All because of women’s dating preferences and standards. Most men are gonna die alone because women’s standards are absolutely ridiculous. If everyone is an incel then nobody is.
I want to know who the fahck came up with the term "mewing"... like that's a noise you make when you're either trying to sound like a cat, or you're making fun of someone by making an annoying noise, at least that's what it's always been for me, so it doesn't make sense to have that be a thing
@@thesonofmalice1999It’s named after the guy who invented it. It’s proper tongue posture that’s good for face shape and breathing it’s a legitimately good thing that everyone should be doing
Because it is very much so real in some aspects. Most youtuvers like charlie only take the piss oit of the most ridiculous claims and practices, he woukd not dare tackle some of the more real issues. Like looks are the end all be all for how easily or if its even possible for you to get friendships, romantic relationships, jobs and sometimes even daily interactions. Like Im sure a good looking dude doesnt get laughed at or photos taken of him for the express reason of making fun of how he looks while he's just sitting on the bus stop going to work.
@@DestroAzureDx your problem and sadly there are many like you is that for some weird reason you care about what x and y think about you. That is your problem and it is extremely sad. I was always liked by girls for my looks, but the only girl I ve actualy had an actual long term relationship with was the one that liked me for who I was and didn t realy care for my looks untill wayyy later in our relationship. You should search for people with soul and substance , not jackasses or bimbos that like you for money or looks or superficial garbage like that.
@@DestroAzureDx Get off your phone and go outside and talk to real life people. I love how you ignore the millions of conventionally unattractive people that have friends, good jobs, and get married
well when guys get roasted and told by the whole world that they need to do better what exactly did you expect lol. Highly doubt any of you have reached out to men to try to help them and instead of offering solutions people prefer to once again mock men so good luck or whatever
@@user-hm1di6ts8zThe overwhelming majority of this comes from comments from other guys, not even talking about those creepy looksmaxxing echo chambers which are entirely guys. Just in general, I see way more men insulting other men for their looks/physique than women, let’s not delude ourselves and deflect the blame for pity points here
@@user-hm1di6ts8z This mindset of "you don't really believe something if you're not doing something about it" is goofy asf. Like, I'm against murder but I don't patrol the streets at night looking for murderers to stop. In the same way I'm against body shaming but don't scour every comments section for it because I have other stuff to do. Not everyone can be a sign-wielding street-marching activist. The best I can do is refuse to partake in it myself and call it out when I see it, but I don't have the time or patience to go looking for it.
@@moodlethenoodle misogynists have been making jokes about women's body issues and eating disorders for generations, and now some of these misogynists are developing those same issues and rather than listen to a single piece of advice from women they're out here stretching out their dick so they can gloat to their equally misogynistic friends (cuz we know it's not helping them get laid). I honestly do have sympathy for people struggling with body image issues but these looksmaxxing communities go well beyond innocent insecurity into deeply spiteful and hateful mindsets that end up hurting themselves and others. Yeah the joke isn't in the best of taste but I don't feel bad about it
Im a young man, at least half of the content I’m recommended on every social media app are posts telling me everything wrong with me. I’ve been suicidal because of it, doing better now but I struggle constantly with body dysmorphia. Sometimes all it takes is one look in a mirror and I’m in tears or throwing up. Edit: I’ve made a lot of positive changes in my life lately and am feeling much better now. thank you for the advice and nice comments, they helped a lot
Charlie is so right about how confusing it must be to grow up with the type of social media influences that are everywhere now. I realized this when my 9 year old son started talking about _"how tough it is at school when you're a single guy like he is."_ And proceeded to tell me his gameplan to change his relationship status as quickly as possible. 😳 These next few years are gonna be very long years, I'm afraid 🤦♀️😂
I'm kind of scared that even If I control the time and content my child looks on the internet other kids will fill his mind with this kind of bullshit. Is there a solution?
Yeah, that’s horrible. Also casually reinforces a highly damaging view of heteronormativity where “all guys want x” is repeated infinitely with no space at all for possibly wanting anything else.
Imagine there are people walking around in punling, near us, constantly streaching their shlorp back and forth. Their thought processes have to be different
You weren't born with genetic defects like we were- ugly and small dick makes you want to die..and I've been looking for any solution, but they don't exist- everyday is a fight not to kill myself.
Nothing like people making the younger generation think everything is wrong with them. This is absolutely insane. Edit: let me get this straight, there is nothing wrong with the newer generations, it's the people who are manipulating them for fun/money. What's important is that we expose everything wrong with this trend not children themselves.
In a world where guys nowadays are growing up with social media and online dating it is not surprising many come away with the idea that looks are everything.
as someone who is unfortunately growing up with this stuff, i wish we could have a more anonymous internet again, instead of focusing on people and looks.
They came up with that idea because that’s what they are seeing and experiencing. It’s not like it’s not what’s actually happening and they made it up out of thin air
Don't need social media to tell you looks are everything. Go outside and and notice the different people and how they get treated. Watch how a good looking tall dude goes to buy something and notice the smile and attitude from the worker at the register. Go to the clubs and notice how every woman eyes lay on the good looking dude. Look at the good looking people with criminal records and the time they serve compared to ugly people. Looks really do determine your life... they've been getting compliments since they were a kid, high school and as an adult, and generally loved by everyone. These people just cruise by life on easy mode because they get the opportunities to much easier. There is no coping about dressing nicely, having a nice car, smelling really good or even putting on this superficial act of "personality" or "confidence". They already gained the natural confidence and personality from how they've been treated and have natural charisma too. It's all they have to get a girlfriend and even that is not needed.
In my opinion, I think some level of looksmaxing is heathy, like working out, basic hygiene, and dressing in quality clothes, but trying to change things that are just straight down to genetics, like penis size and height, is pointless and just brings out your insecurities even more. Anyway stay strong everyone, we will get through tough times ❤
The term "looksmaxxing" is basically just like how you make silly noises to a toddler to get them to eat their vegetables off a spoon. It's a quirky coat of paint to get the simpler folk into improving basic routine habits. Things that already existed before the term was invented (as a social media gimmick).
One problem I have atm with lookmaxing is the stigma it brings to men who just want to have good hygiene and look nice. Mewing and jelquing are stupid but moisturizing, working out, and taking vitamins while also trying to improve your wardrobe should be advocated for. Like I have gotten way more success with women just by growing out my hair and wearing nice clothes that fit me well.
Mewing is just tongue posture. It won't change the size of a recessed mandible, but it will help with repositioning the mandible to make it appear less like that of a mouth breather. It also helps strengthen the hyoid bone, which makes the jaw look smaller if the bone is too low. It has helped me look a bit better, so I think it's worth learning, especially since it's not dangerous.
Is gooning as bad as this? I mean his main problem with this is that these people are preying on the average joe's insecurities, but gooning is just advanced porn addiction, isnt it?
What i mean by "as bad as this" is not that porn addiction is fine or whatever, i mean that there isnt one influencer or corporation trying to bait you into it, as opposed to that youtuber for example
@@Flexy59it’s a self aware pr0n addiction mixed with 5x the brainrot. they have hypnosis vids, goon caves, subreddits, weird sensory videos, and etc. i’m NOT into this sht, im warning you into exactly what ur getting into. it’s so disgusting and sad for the most part, i hate it. i wish it didn’t exist and i hope gooners get the help they need 😢
I used to be in the r/self-improvement Reddit sub. Because so so SOOO MANY men complain that they don’t have a girlfriend even though they earn money, looks good, is tall, good career etc etc. They don’t realize that even if they do have a girlfriend. It doesn’t solve all their problems.
I agree with you but I can’t blame them because everyone wants a partner no one likes being alone and tbf they prob feel like they did everything right and are sad that they don’t get the karma from all that hard work.
People overestimate their own qualities. So if a guy is saying he's attractive that may not be true. If you really are attractive you'd get attention or receive matches on a dating app, results speak for themselves
Those things also aren't the most important. Like someone could have all those attributes, but that's doesn't mean you'll make any sort of meaningful connection with them.
@@gooodmorning4526 They're important for the initial spark, you're also not making that connection if someone doesn't find you attractive in the first place
Scams based on insecurities like this have to be some of the hardest to stop. It’s a lot harder to convince someone they’re being scammed when they have no self esteem. I’m sure some of these guys have tried everything there is to try like the commenter you highlighted said. A lot of these channels are probably many of their viewers’ last resorts.
this one 1️⃣ hour hour and i am still waiting to get a ticket 🎫 from from from you to see how much you have have to to see how many people you are are there for the next few weeks so so many many congratulations 🎉🎈
I’ve found that the best lengthening method (for me) is tying a string between my upper-mid shaft and a doorknob and slamming the door with all the strength I can muster.
@Captain_Kobalt it's not just about the outside, most likely this is an inside problem. Let's say you wake up tomorrow and you look the way you want, do you think it would solve every issue? Would you be happy about it forever? Unfortunately, no. This may seem like nonsense and I'm not trying to take away any hope of happiness but if you don't try to start working on loving who you are and how you are now, working on yourself as a person, then fixing your outward appearance would not be worth it.
@@riannawalker5904 I agree that there is a certain chunk of stuff in life that you cant change and you really do need to slowly grow into accepting those things. However there is also alot of stuff that can be improved and changed in a positive way, not saying it wont be tough but hard work in these areas is a huge step toward making happiness easier for you. Be gentle with the parts of you that cant be changed and strict with the parts that can!
I have 4 sons and while I talk to them about these things I just want to say thanks for adding a second voice as I know they all watch your channel and it's good for them to hear how crazy some of these people are from someone besides their dad.
It's honestly really good to hear that you talk about this kind of stuff with ur kids - I think there's so much anxiety and so many misconceptions which could be fixed by some honesty and transparency. It's something I hope to be open about in the future if I have any kids too
Anyone who is into looksmaxxing is deeply insecure and craves attention and validation from other people simply for their looks which will be their downfall because living life thinking looks are the most important thing will stop you from achieving anything.
It wont. If you were better looking you'd get attention from women, make friends easier, have people want to actually be seen with you in public at settings like clubs, bars etc. You would inherently have more confidence if you were born with the right looks.
@@DestroAzureDx So? Are you gonna cry about it? Life is unfair boo hoo womp womp. You know what, because looks matter so much, if you aren't a perfect 10/10 model just give up, waste your life away and accept that you'll never amount to anything, make sure to also go on forums and cry and seethe all day about how looks matter to other random people online and to those who don't care just say they are coping, that'll surely get them.
@@DestroAzureDx I'm not lying, I'm telling you that with my life experience I've noticed that the most social people I've seen and those who have accomplished the most are not model looking, they just have charisma which is something you don't get with looks alone. And btw no, tiktoks, tinder experiments, articles on things like halo effect and people's comments online you've seen don't count as real life experience. Who tf are you to say you can't get things in life with enough effort? You are neither wise enough nor figured out life to be making such assumptions for other people with entirely different lives and circumstances you know nothing about, nobody is. You can't succeed and accomplish your goals without effort, it's a fact. The more effort, the higher the chances. You haven't failed as long as you haven't given up trying.
@@DestroAzureDx I see you replying to other comments in favour of this 'Looksmaxxing'. And either you are sincerely depressed as a grown-up, or just not hit your twenties yet. If you really think that everything is based on looks, you have absolutely fallen into a deep black hole, and will probably never get anything done based on 'effort', since you should 'just give up', because you didn't meet the quota of looking like Brad Pitt. What a waste of years and time thinking about stuff like this. You also state that having 'confidence' is equal to your looks, which is just untrue. People who only cares about their looks (good looking or not), will always end up drawing parallels between their self-worth and their looks. Which at the end of the day only comes from validation from other people, wether you look good or not.
All jokes aside, im really glad that a majorly influential male youtuber is talking about this Body dysmorphia among young guys has gotten *really* bad over the past few years. Or maybe it’s always been that way, and it’s just now hitting the mainstream. EITHER WAY it’s worrying Thank you for making this, it really resonated with me
I get that my perspective is basically the exact other end of toxicity, but: they ain't worth it. No woman or man is so amazing that I should dedicate a significant portion of my life to looking better or being bigger just to be "good enough" for them.
@@Blakoss That is not the secret lol. The world is a cold world. Most girls already think most guys look like sleeze doritto smelling gamers. Being yourself is not it. You always have to looksmaxx, it's that it's been overly used. But the concept is a time old ordeal. It's why 40% genetically procreated but 99% of women in history procreated. It's because the 40% improved themselves, whether with land, reputation or looks. Same ordeal is seen today, but more men are becoming less attractive to most women as studies are almost making this a meta-analysis level agreement.... So yeah, don't be yourself. Be the best version of yourself [which is what looksmaxx is...]
@@stresseddude the best version of yourself is the one that can accept yourself as you are, flaws and all things you can’t change, obviously take showers). You do that and you’ll have a gf, they aren’t in short supply, there’s billions of them and a lot of them feel as neglected as these men do
@@stresseddudehahahaha. Oh man, no. A relationship that is worth having has nothing to do with appearance, or attributes. That's insanely superficial. Your whole opening paragraph is nonsense based on nothing. There are no reliable peer-reviewed studies that show any of that. Learn how to listen, learn how to reflect, learn how to understand. That's what builds a long term relationship. If you find women aren't responding to you it's because you're too busy thinking about how inferior you are, or too busy thinking you have to be some kind of dominant "prime" bullshit.
@@stresseddudeI think being the best version of yourself is a given and should be for personal fulfillment not to get laid lol The “ugly out of shape dude bags girl way out of his league” trope real asf and it’s solely because that guy actually has a personality and doesn’t really give a fuck Seriously guys would have a much easier time getting laid/gf by not thinking about it so much and just treating them like regular peoplw
I'd hate to get super personal, but I really appreciate your coverage on this topic, and it's comforting to hear someone speak about it as a person who has been affected by this type of content. I am 17 currently, and still struggle with my self image/confidence and have frequent episodes of body dysmorphia because of the content that I had been exposed to at a young age, and the constant negativity being spread on the internet about my body. I remember being only 11 or 12 years old, and coming across these videos and posts on RU-vid and across various other social media platforms that would say things like "You have to have an above average penis to find love" and "you have to be incredibly fit in order to be found attractive, you have to be 6 feet tall, if you do not do so-and-so to make you look a certain way then you'll be lonely" etc. Everywhere I would go, I would just see this constant misinformation, and others seeing it made them believe that it was fact too. I remember being in 7th grade and hearing students around me too, and all of that really affected me and made me hate my body and convinced me that unless my body was a certain way, then nobody would take interest in me. And being socially awkward and having difficulty making friends really added to the whole thing. I would never hear anything positive. It really pisses me off looking back on it just how much this stuff is blatantly targeted towards the younger generations and just how easily accessible it is. Nobody should have to have to ever experience what I, as well as many others, have felt about ourselves because of the messages being spread in the content you see online. Although I have since gotten a little better, I still have periodic doubts about myself, but seeing you speak out against it really comforts me. Thank you, Charlie. (Hope I said everything right and didn't overshare too much.) (Also, thank you all for the supportive comments! I really appreciate it.)
This is what I don’t understand all these dudes obbsesing over height in year 7 like bro I didn’t know my height till 9th grade nor did I ever think about it
We're literally drowning from so many labels, profiles and stereotypes these days it's almost funny in a tragic kinda way. Just a few decades ago all you had to worry about was nerds and jocks. Now the judgmentalism is beyond belief.
I'm glad videos like this exist. The internet is really a lot about making people feel worthless and miserable these days.. Just so they become easy victims of the consumer trap of buying worthless products
This serves as an important reminder to all of us that happiness cannot be achieved through physical perfection. Self-acceptance and personal development should be the priority.
I absolutely agree. Charlie said, "You need to play with the cards your dealt." That's good advice imo. Learning how to deal with your insecurities and except who you are instead of trying to change yourself sounds really healthy. I wish a lot of other communities (who may or may not be receiving special treatment in our society rn) would listen to it. It makes me wonder if Charlie would be logically consistent with that advice for everyone.
@@StephenP93 that's true. But it's because they're not constantly thinking so negatively about their bodies, that they can focus more on doing things that make them happy, not necessarily because the nice body = happiness.
Your thoughts are so true. This looksmaxxing stuff can be super harmful. Especially with the rest of the philosophy of hopelessness that comes along with much of it. I really believed it all so much at one point
Its not hopelessness its simply knowing when to give up. You see it as hopelessness because you're too emotional.sometimes you will never be desired by another human being sexually and because of your looks some social interactions will be forbidden to you or unattainable no matter how hard you work. Even in body building competitions it is determined soley by genetics, same with sports and other areas of life.
@@DestroAzureDxI somewhat agree. I think it promotes hopelessness in general rather than with giving up on prospects with a particular person. Giving up in such a general way is not good. Yes genetics matter but I think its overemphasized in this sphere. Why give up when there is still a chance?
@@uraninite8151 because trying hurts more than giving up. Its like a life or death surgery. If anything these videos promote the fact that how your life ends up the lack of interest from people due to genetics, that it isnt your fault. Once you've looksmaxxed thats it you've done all you can. Women make exceptions and break thier own rules for men they find attractive if none to maybe 2% of the women you encounter find you attractive physically then we need to stop telling people "oh work on your shit personality" "work on your hygiene" "hit the gym". We have people work so hard thinking theyre the problem just for them to get dumped, left, cheated on, or replaced. Sometimes how your life pans out isnt your fucking fault.
It’s harmful bc we maIes are the ones placed at the forefront of darwinism, whiIe vvomen bIeed every month as a bIood sacrifice to the bIackpiII gods. Biggest lie is believing humans are the exception in mammaIs, knowing those other species practice qenetik Darwinism via seggc son hypothesis & survival of the fittest
@@DestroAzureDx society creates inequality and beauty standards, nature doesn't. And we should stop this but here we are embracing it far more than ever
Best thing for confidence about my appearance I ever did was start lifting weights... Very quickly I stopped caring about what other people thought and cared more about improving myself for myself. Noticing heavy objects becoming easy to carry is actually really fulfilling and if someone compliments you then that's just a nice bonus
@@ewrwrasggre4151 saying "loser with muscle strat" is part of the insecurity problem right there. The only person who can label you a loser is yourself.
That's what I'm hoping for! I'm not a dude but I've been craving a gym membership for so long. I avoided it for the longest time due to anxiety and feeling bad about my looks/afraid of being perceived. I've only been there for 2 days (started yesterday/finished today's training a while ago) and I feel so much better already!! Everyone's just minding their own business anyway. My body just hurts a lot, but I do feel a lot more human.
@@iMogggYouuuwell I know when I go from skinny to muscular I can see that I can lift, push/pull, am faster, etc. Also doesn’t give the impression that you can easily push someone around because they look weak, a lot more people don’t try to mess with you to gain whatever they please from you.
It is not. Unfortunately Looksmaxx reached the normies and now everyone knows about it. It is taken seriously by a lot of people, I have literally hit my face with a hammer, used fluoride to whiten my teeth and took the most dangerous pills in order to look better.
Well, I'm sure it must be horrifically difficult for these types of people to live with themselves as they are. I mean, if they were successful and happy, they wouldn't be doing this stuff. When it comes to having "inferior genetics" that you can't change, finding reasons to live probably isn't easy.
A lot of dating is eugenics. Don't fit certain beauty standards? You're not gonna really get anyone. Also people's reactions to snakes, spiders, and sharks are all extreme examples of the beauty standards and ugly bias. How many people kill spiders because they look creepy? Cows kill more people than sharks every year but most people are way more scared of sharks.
Simply a reflection of the times we live in. Most people meet through online dating and more young men are single than ever so it should be expected that more young men begin to think this way.
@@ponternal Exactly. @OP men will become more desperate. And what ever seems to be attainable that is attractive to women men gonna clamor to that thing.
@@ponternal Agreed. That's pretty much why the whole looksmaxxing thing is blowing up now. A lot of dudes feel like it's over for them unless they somehow reach this insane standard of masculinity and male beauty. Of course that sounds ridiculous, but they only think that way because they have so much trouble finding someone by just being themselves. It's really sad honestly, but it's true.
(Long rant about looksmaxxing) Mewing is just the right position of the tongue. If you try to swallow with your mouth closed, you're automatically mewing. The problem with the whole mewing community is that people are selling the idea that it will give you this super aesthetic gigachad jawline, when in fact it is just preventing the risks that come with mouth breathing (unless you are a baby, mewing will not develop your jaw in any way). It is a good practice, but people exaggerate the benefits. Online scum influencers will of course capitalise on this insecurity, selling their crappy "Mogwarts" courses that supposedly share the secret Greek archives of ancient looksmaxxing techniques, now only locked behind a paywall in their jurisdiction. In general, these people who seek to achieve perfect facial features (what and who even defines what is perfect??) are just unhappy and clearly have a lack of self/community. I think it is especially due to a lack of interpersonal relationships, that they think looks are the problem, or that they are just looking for an excuse to continue being antisocial instead of actually going out and meeting people/women in particular. If I told any of these people that different women have different preferences in what they like, they'd resort to "it's over", "I'm not Sean o pry gigachad" or some verbal diarrhoea like that. I can't deny that looks play a part, but you have no choice but to play the hand you're dealt. Attraction isn’t something completely one dimensional based on only looks. It's much more than that in current civilisation. They just refuse to give themselves a chance and succumb to this delusional endless self-grooming. I could go on, but my honest best advice is to just live life as it is. Count your blessings and use them to your advantage. Seek out connections and try to improve yourself in different ways, not only lookism.
@UCgs9JLDCT4kvgqMeVpba0Vw men could literally wear makeup if they want to Looksmaxxing had been shown to show toxicity towards the insecurities of young men Also makeup is something you apply to your face not change your face's structure to be an "ideal men" That's why plastic surgery has also been a joke for quite a while Not saying regular exercise is bad or trying to be good looking is bad It's only bad if you take it too dang much and actually try to convince others that your face and body is full of flaws Hence making this generation's teens more insecure Tldr: it's not bad to be good looking or have amazing physique, the problem is when you take it too far and make a cult. Edit: i don't want to argue any further so don't reply back and if you still do not agree then you do you
In my english class we had a project to do a slide show about what we had planed for the future and a kid had a whole slide about looksmaxing and what it was 😭
This is ridiculous as a woman I've never walked away from someone for any of the things these bozos are so worried about.. honestly like Charlie said good hygiene goes a long way none of these other things should be taken to this extreme 🤡
It just goes to show how much porn has negatively affected people. For women, they feel that they need to have unrealistic body proportions to be deemed attractive and for men they feel that they need to have a monster penis to pleasure a woman. In fact, porn has made the impression that a big penis is destined to make a woman orgasm - but as a matter of fact, most women don't even finish from penetration, so when a guy can't make a woman orgasm from penetration and unrealistically writhe in pleasure they get insecure and end up thinking their size is inadequate when that's just not always the case. People are experiencing things through a screen and taking it for granted which is sad to watch.
Imagine explaining to someone from the 17th century that in the future there will be guys speaking with stars in their eyes about some other man who is "the GOAT of the old 'money-shot'".
imagine explaining to them that people will spend hundreds of dollars (which will be even more dramatic because of inflation) for devices that stretch their ween thinking it will attract more women while they neglect everything else about themselves and their behavior
Imagine explaining to them that there’s a surgery that breaks your bones, keeps them broken, inserts a rod, and stretches the leg over a long period of time just to achieve a couple of inches.
It sucks, a lot, but at the same time, its so interesting to me how, originally, it was maunly young women being sewn with self soubt and self hatred by unreasonable standards set online, and now its mainly young men. Not saying its not affecting/ happening to young women anymore, just that its interesting how its shifted to primarily being a young men thing instead of young women thing now.
@@livebackwards I don’t have it. Haven’t since high school. I’m much happier that way. I don’t need others to validate anything, and I don’t want anyone knowing what I’m doing except the people I let know. Privacy is peace
Technically that is what it is but like... Don't bother, it just makes you feel insecure about yourself and that you are never enough Best you can do without looking like a complete idiot is get fit and get a better haircut or something
It is, Charlie is Normiecel pretending he is not. I will come back when he sees this comment and then really go through the looksmaxxing rabbit hole and make a video about it
I completely stopped using all social media platforms last year and try really hard to avoid RU-vid shorts. I feel blessed I only see this stuff through videos covering the topic instead of it being shoved down my throat when I scroll apps all day. No social media does leaps and bounds for your mental health and more people need to jump ship
@@jessbellis9510 i agree youtube search is completely utterly broken to the point where when i look at analytics in my videos the search queries are completely unrelated alongside when trying to look stuff up for troubleshooting
I'm glad other people feel this way, I left my remaining social media in 2022 and my life has been infinitely better. I use revanced RU-vid to turn off shorts. I don't constantly compare myself to others anymore, it's great. I also only find out about this shit through videos like this and it's like getting punched through 3 pillows instead of taking the gut punch directly.
Saw a video about a dude on this show who had been trying to stretch his in the past, and he ended up needing surgery cause it certainly stretched the SKIN quite a bit. It was to the point it effected his daily life. The flesh underneath had stayed probably the same length, but the skin stretched many inches past where the flesh ended.
People going this far to change a part of their body, and the worst part is that its glorified as some trendy thing that people could join, like being part of some club.
Particularly with the degradation of grey matter in the brain through porn usage, pick up artistry & red pill content, etc. They’ve lost any ability to reason or think critically. Fucking terrified to see the long term consequences of all of this.
It’s 100% what it is. If money, power, fame was all women wanted there would never have been a MeToo movement. If even millionaire superstar athletes have to r*pe to sleep with “whoever ” they want then others should probably temper the expectations because you have 0% of what an athlete does and even they aren’t guaranteed women. People just want to feel like the second coming of Jesus itself
I thought lookmaxxing would be something like, making sure you look hot, tryharding it, going out so everyone sees you at your max, then going inside again and not leaving the house for the day unless you look hot af (which means i would never leave)
Cult is the perfect way to put it, especially if you've ever tried talking to someone down this rabbithole. The idea that a normal person can find love is alien in that version of reality. Glad you talked on this, more pushback is needed.
I know that normal people can find love, but that doesn't mean they necessarily will. It is undeniably harder to date nowadays as a man than ever before, especially if you're average or below average. I agree that having a good personality and being neurotypical still matter a lot, but looks are definitely the driving force for many relationships nowadays, sadly.
It's not any better for women in the age of insta thots and only fans. men might lose money on dates but according to men women's human "value" goes down permanently by associating with men so who has the worse deal@@AM-cm2kj
I was introduced to the Looksmaxxing song not by the looksmaxxing trend itself, but by MuYe's Trucksmaxxing, so whenever I hear that music I only think about trucks.
I looked at mewing like 5-6 years ago and found a Reddit post talking about getting body dysmorphia from the whole thing. I thought to myself how could this be possible and that it could never happen to me. Never joined forums or anything like that. I just read Reddit posts and saw some videos about it for a couple of months. 6 years later I have severe body dysmorphia. I can’t go outside or near people without trying to get a better angle of how people view my face and other stupid things like this. I know people don’t know I do this but it’s fucking me everyday of my life now and I can’t stop it.
@dirkorwhat im so sorry you're going through that. mewing almost did that to me. Ik it can be difficult but really try a therapist. They could help you. Otherwise, maybe some exposure type therapies.
Why wouldn't the internet be a valid place to ask? Are you and I not real human beings communicating right now? You have the ability to reach are much larger audience online than you ever could in person. People online are more likely to give you more honest feedback due to anonymity. Your grandmother is obviously going to call you handsome to spare your feelings.
@adamg6711 yeah go to ask anonymous people online that are just gonna tell you to ropesmax. Ive seen more people get mobbed on r/looksmaxxing than receive helpful feedback
@@wrathofthelamb318Nah, people on the internet are sincere. Stop coping, you were called ugly on the internet bc you are, not because “people are mean”
Hearing a fellow short king say that my mediocre wiener is, in fact, valid and acceptable is exactly what I needed to hear. Thx brother ✊ this is true body positivity
Having a big one isn't all that great, gets in the way random boners from walking & rubbing against the thigh...joggers are hard to wear really jeans are the only thing I can wear without them knowing I'm hogging
Idk if you're into ladies, but if you are I can assure you that, as a woman, the vast majority of us are not fixated on penis size and shape despite many people online seeming to think we are
The best piece of advice I have ever heard similar to this is something along the lines of "none of those 3rd member growers or extenders work, because if they did they would be everywhere and literally everyone would be using them" A kinda similar thing happened with diet pills, most people knew they were a scam and wouldn't take them, but once Ozempic came around literally everyone was using it because it actually worked (you shouldnt actually take it to lose weight, but its a good example of this case) If the same thing existed for growing your 3rd member the same thing would happen, but it never has, ie meaning none of them actual work lmao
There’s actual testimonials including myself, however the ROI is extremelllly bad, I wore it for 4 months 30 hours a week during Covid and actually did gain 1 cm, with tons of before and after so it’s not just angles. You have to socially cripple yourself, but since it was Covid I took advantage of
I’ve been doing penis enlargement for 10 years now, 7 days a week, 12 hours a day, even while sleeping. I have a 3 hour manual routine, in combo with stretching, upward power jelqing, table kegel stretches X 3 rounds. Then I wear the penis stretcher as long as possible, until my tip feels numb, my penis head has blisters and it hurts. So to help it heal I wear a tight elastic tube to compress the penis tissue with a cock ring, keeps it extended and full of blood, and forces outward pressure. 7 days a week, I’ve gained 2.25 inches in length, permanently, and 1.5 inches in girth. I have a massive hog now, but I won’t quit until I hit 13 inches by 9 around. Then I can die happy
I hate what I see in the mirror, and I've had multiple experiences that have reinforced my worry that girls won't think im big enough. I haven't gone down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole myself but self image issues are something I and many others are struggling with
