Losing Our Women To Men (NEW podcast premiere) (Ep. 01) 

I am really excited for how the rebranding of the podcast will unfold. This first conversation really set the tone for me. Most of us are more mature, healed, and wise in our moves because we have wayyy too much to loose, especially when we have a public profile.

Y'all Speak from your Hearts 💕 and these Topics, Subjects are good things to Discuss, and talk about.

Man I been looking for yall! 😅 big changes. Excited to see what this will look like.

“The hardest of the hardest, getting the hardest” is going to live rent free in my mind forever 😂😂😂😅

Don't ever give up, I was 50 until I found my luv. U didn't lose mojo, dating is difficult, u'll find ur partner when the times right. God has a plan🙏 we beautiful in our 50😉

What I've learned is no matter how you present you just need to be comfortable with who you. Love,know and respect yourself first. I would love to have a deep discussion with you because I have had some things come back and destroy me spiritually from lies I was told. It's deep.

Great topic! Maybe have a few women who have switched sides come on the show and give their side; ask them questions. LOVE the rebrand❤

This was interesting. I have been told by masc presenting lesbians, that feminine presenting lesbians in the 40+ age group are unicorns...especially if they don't have kids and have their priorities together. If you happen to be this type of feminine presenting lesbian, you will be snatched up with a quickness...if the feminine presenting lesbian is interested in being in a relationship! You'd be very surprised how many masc presenting women are waiting for a fellow "bruh" to mess up so they can take a shot (from personal experience). Nowadays, there are a lot of women swimming in the lady pond, but many of them aren't of good quality. If a masc presenting lesbian is specifically seeking another lesbian...well...get ready to wait or be willing to expand your options to include women with a more "expansive" sexuality. Good topic.

A lot of studs be sneak dckin too 😂

Wow! First off Congratulations on accepting the new direction of the podcast. It's a relief to hear that you both remain unfiltered and not watering yourselves down to be more palatable to the general public. Secondly, I'm torn between saying my condolences as I empathize with the grief of releasing an unaligned union vs. Hooray to having space for what the Divine has in store 🤷🏾‍♀️ So what I will say is, 🥂 to expansion. Cause down here in the South, it's perfect porch weather. And I too am enjoying this solo lesbian journey from the comfort of my rocking chair. 😅🤣 Peace

32, four years single but I think it’s more so because I’m living in Jamaica and the community is very small. I don’t even try anymore. I just live and be happy cause majority just want an experience

Y'all are so Right! Meeting someone on line can be very Scary, but i Risk it sometimes. I also would rather just Meet someone in person, but it is hard sometimes even with that.

This is waaayyyy better! Keep this vibe please 🫶🏾🫶🏾

40’s definitely hit different

Yeah, I just like the two of you on here. The energy is more authentic and I really love how you all let each other talk and listen to the other person. 👏🏾

I thoroughly enjoyed the dialogue. I’m excited to see more ❤🎉 Congrats🥂!! Peace & Love

Some masculine presenting women ain’t stay the same 😂 they dibbled n dabbled too 😂

I wish I would have listened as well.. At my big age now it’s all hind sight 2020. I am so different at 45 then I was in my late 30 even early 40’s

Past experience should be past. POINT BLANK PERIOD

Would you guys be willing to touch on the topic of women who come out later in life? Like 30's n up? It seems the community tends to steer clear of us 😂😅

This episode was hilarious 😂 but definitely relatable 💯

In my 40's I tried, u are who u are. In our times, if u lesbian,say that! Don't be afraid of who u are in this day. Studs are inconsistent so to they past trauma's? Shii we all got our issues. Luv u both♥️ keep going!

Congratulations on the new podcast! Much success to you both!

Congrats on the New Podcast ya'll already loving it!🎉🥂🌈

I love this vibe.. the couch is a character just so y'all know lol. I love the couch color I love that y'all just vibing & chilling..

when it comes to online dating I think there's a social science to it, what people post and don't says quite a bit about a person.

I have only ever met people online. I was not a club/ party person which is where a lot or a large percent of Lesbians are. Every gf I've ever had was from meeting online initially and starting there. I've approached women in person but often they said they were in a relationship. Or it didn't go beyond a small amount of texting. So I appreciate and hold a special place for online dating. It allows those that work and are not outside.. to still meet people.

Glad to see y’all are back ! Still keeping it sexy and real ! Supporter for Life ! ❤

It is limited!! I’m in my early 40’s been single for two years.. it’s hard out here for a lesbian

This is hands down my absolute favorite podcast. I have been waiting for it forever, listening to the promos. And this topic is everything! I agree with what she said about the back-and-forth, I just can't do it. I totally get it. I'm looking forward to what's to come.

I love y’all topics. I love that y’all give us the real but with grace. Being single is a good thing. It’s given me time to actually sit and truly get know myself and date myself. I definitely eventually want that divine counterpart, but I have to love on myself a little more for the moment. That way I can show up for my future partner in the best way I know how and they will mirror me as well. 🥰💕 Btw.. I’m tryin to donate to the cash app but the profile is not poppin up when I put the name in.

I love the name of y’all podcast 😉💯

The hole in the wall, cheap dates be the ones that get you locked in. How you really get to know each other. Those are my favorite. It doesn’t take a lot, it’s the fact that I know you’re thinking about me.

Great episode!! I am definitely looking forward to hearing elaboration on masc. Energy women wanting to mimic men! (Whats the point) been in several situations... loveing the direction you guys are headed in and @Ainabreiyon yr person might not be in the chi!😉

….And I know I’m a few days late, but I am so happy to see you back. You 2 were my personal faves because of the ways you play off of each other due to the personal bond you share. I love the rebranding. It’s so dope. Much Love to y’all. ❤❤❤

So glad to see you guys back online again. I wonder if you could focus on the right way to set a boundary in a relationship? I ask that because a friend of mine has no problem telling people what she wants but doesn’t do anything if the other doesn’t agree. She will ask a partner to leave her house they refuse and she does nothing.

I had one ex when I was 24 and it pushed me and I was over woman but to be honest I never was. I ended up dealing with a very feminine man and only see him as a toy. It didn’t last. 😂🥴 I went back home to where I belong and that’s with woman. On another note dating is hard and I been trying the old school ways but girl these woman are different now and days. I still have hope. Love this episode ladies 🤗

So glad I stayed subscribed. I love the rebrand and new start. it's fresh. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Hey Shellas, great topics, great conversation, great show overall🙏🏾🌹❤️❣️

I'm a Gold 🌟 feminine woman and has been single for 2 yrs. After ending my 12 yrs relationship with a woman, I don't want anything. I'm just in a me phase. I don't want man and at the same time,i don't want woman.

Look, as a long time bi, we attack both sexes but what gender we are with at the time, that is who we want. PEROID. Our community needs to understand that. A cheater is a cheater whether u gay, straight, bi nor trans common now

I was in a full blown relationship with a "lesbian" and 2 yrs later found out she was pregnant with the nan of her existing son. Yeah, I'm in my prime, gotz amazingly woman.

Ayyyeeeee!!! Great job Shellas 💪🏾 love y’all

Not what I expected, but a good episode. I don’t believe we can push a woman into anyone’s arms. It is very scary nowadays. This is why I practice celibacy. What is it about straight women? Is it the feeling of power you get from taking from a man? Blessings to you both.

I’m excited!! What’s a good email to connect with you ladies about coming to do a live podcast at my coffee shop? I connected with someone last year but now that we’ve got a new show, I’d love to revisit that conversation! Style Pop Cafe is the coffee shop in Milwaukee, right down the street lol! Chat with you all soon 🙌🏾

🎉🎉🎉they are back🎉🎉🎉❤

Happy to see y’all back on the screen 👏🏾✨

Excited to see you both back!

A few hundred not cheap. A picnic in the park could be one of the dopest dates me and my girl do it all

I need to be a guest! We can touch on a lot of topics that feminine women can address

I dont have an issue with whether they date men I have an issue with the ones that LIE about it. Then get you caught up in drama. You could have just said that from the beginning. KNOWING these men be ready to kill us for existing outside of their reach. I had a few take that very lightly and were confused as to why we couldn't be cordial. You put my safety at risk Im out.

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks PERIOD

I wish y’all would touch more as to why women go back to men. I feel it’s because they know when they’re with a man ain’t much pursuing on their end they’re the ones who are being chased/pursued and they like that. I feel like they like the idea of not putting much effort into a relationship when it comes to men

okayyy close out video/song😌🔥

I wanna come on the show😂

This was such a good convo ❤❤❤

Great show… I’m just now finding your podcast so I’m not privy to the previous members but different directions for growth is needed at times….never a loss just a change … great conversation and perspectives… some of my friends that would tell me to live in my truth knowing I am a lesbian (while I was living for image and approval) are now dating men 😂… I say more power to them… I had so much anxiety and depression along with disappointment when I was living an entire lie most of my life (even marrying a man)

Great episode, I’m looking forward to see what else yall have planned.

@ainabreiyon I missed the live, juicy topic. Good show guys👍🏽

Dang I liked your friend group..

Best advice I can give to anyone dating and trying to find someone, date outside what you normally go for. Go to art galleries, book related places, step outside of where you normally find women. You will find someone for you and no they might not be lesbian but they could check for all the qualities you are looking for. Step out of your comfort zone to find the one you are looking for. Aka step outside of your type. Dominate lesbians have a type, especially older lesbians.

Personally For Me Im Bisexual But My Last Relationship Was With A Woman For 3 yrs And I No Longer Desire A Man But It’s Hard Finding A Woman Lol. It’s Hard Finding An Available Woman When Men Are More Available In My Opinion. Men Will Approach You In Any Situation. Woman Not So Much From My Experience.

I love both of you thank you for sharing this ❤️

I'm for whatever u bring!

I am 46 and was with my partner that passed last year for almost 10 years. Now, here I am, single, not by choice . I am from Chicago but have lived in Georgia for 23 years, and like you all said, everyone has slept with everyone. I am coming to terms with which I may be single forever.

Loving this!

The Las Vegas gay scene is small too! Everyone knew everyone… 😫

Some masc do mirror men to much in the most negative way. Women need to feel like they have a partner a different experience. They don’t want the same treatment in female form.

She remind me of whoopie Goldberg her voice

Hello... I'm new to the channel. I love Nookies laugh 😍😌

Long distance dating if it aint just dating. If we arr planning on being together and its not just one sided.

I'm from fort Wayne Indiana, we run thru too🤣I'm 50 and date outa state!

This gives me anxiety. My relationships won't last if she's been with men cuz I don't trust it. I actually won't get in a relationship, we'll just be FWB

I love this format much better! Too many voices deters the conversation

Serious question::; you may have answered this in the past.. but HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE YOU BOTH BEEN WITH? it seems like you both was Active in your younger days.

A good episode would be what is the deal with the taboo of an aggressive fems

OK, I love this vibe but I’m not gonna lie. I am gonna miss seeing Jazmine‘s face. She’s fine fine.😩 -sidebar: it’s going to be pretty interesting, seeing what type of woman "Nelcia attracts" seeing that she has a “low libido” and she’s cheap 😭😭 lol anyways love y’all

A straight night out don't mean nothing but a good time for a minute

Did y'all change the name of the channel lol I almost unsubscribed😂

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

They shouldn’t exist because everyday is a different day. I just want to be available to that person and them be available to me

Hey y’all hope all is well

I luv dating long distance

Us Indiana women are beautiful 😉

Slimmmmmmmmm Nelcia your facial expressions

When she said “SAVED”, buddy missed it, and the conversation seems to have gotten a lil twisted. I feel like Aina was talkin about God, not a man🤷🏾.

Close out🤣

Y'all adorable but I dated someone in Chicago and said I'd NEVA date someone in chi down lol

We do want details ..not too deep,but surface. Why yall single..😢

Yea it’s definitely a swap 😂

🤦🏽‍♀️ I can’t take y’all.. def get some feminine energy there cuz yall playing w us..

I just wanna be me i dont wanna be like these wack dudes