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Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder 

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When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairie voles. Unlike rats and mice, these rodents forms lifelong pair bonds between mates akin to human romantic partnerships. By examining the neurobiology underlying these bonds and what happens when they are lost, she hopes to identify novel treatments for psychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@stephanietorres8995
@stephanietorres8995 4 года назад
My husband is in Heaven. I don't believe in "moving on" I believe in moving fwd. He's with me every step of the way
@carolmueller3191
@carolmueller3191 4 года назад
Have you ever read John 11:11-14? Then read 11:43,44. Very soon this will take place, Psalm 37:9-11,29, then the resurrection.
@scottsharp3356
@scottsharp3356 3 года назад
My ghost is with me every morning when I sit up.Worst part is the ghost was the 34 year old me, then the timeline changed. And he died, now it’s 20+ years later. May God Bless you, He will be there, but it’s a good thing he was a separate part of you and not you.
@tamyajones1638
@tamyajones1638 3 года назад
That is how I feel too.
@roseb.7104
@roseb.7104 3 года назад
I too lost my husband 4 years and a half ago. I feel like he's with me as well.
@andrewzakai3896
@andrewzakai3896 3 года назад
pro trick : watch movies at flixzone. Me and my gf have been using them for watching a lot of movies during the lockdown.
@heatherwade2373
@heatherwade2373 2 года назад
I am that person that wakes up every single day feeling like I just found out. It’s been 3.5 years. At this point I’m dead inside, avoiding everything, and faking it when I have to deal with people. Everything I do takes 4x the effort it used to.
@carolmusselman8859
@carolmusselman8859 Год назад
I hope you are feeling better, I'm grieving the loss of my elderly Mom, I miss her so much
@michellepenney8218
@michellepenney8218 Год назад
I lost my husband, my beautiful German Shepherd, my home. I was pushed into a retirement home by my childre who then left me to 'move on' alone. I will never forgive them, and have lost faith in human kind.
@jthecatholic8419
@jthecatholic8419 Год назад
That I can emphasise....I am in a similar boat. It is so hard when everybody else has moved on and you are left in the same spot, nothing seems to have moved an inch and the "hollow" feeling just will not go away. Pain that cannot be explained. I lost my son , I lost myself
@KumariKumari-fw7nc
@KumariKumari-fw7nc Год назад
@@jthecatholic8419 😭
@augusthere7154
@augusthere7154 Год назад
@@michellepenney8218I’m so very sorry. 💔 Grief is excruciating. I lost my only child when he was 18 years old. It’s been almost 7 years ago and I miss him beyond belief. I wish I could come and visit you regularly. Hold your hand and comfort you. Share our grief together. 😢
@NikitaMaxwell
@NikitaMaxwell 2 года назад
I am so happy this comment section had the same reaction I did. This is so cruel and inhuman.If you want to understand grief, talk to people. Connect with people and really listen. We all go through it and on some level understand how painful it is. You don't need to torture animals to prove a point.
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
i came across your touching comment in the death of love ones post here on you tube. Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday........
@nancyfarkas3592
@nancyfarkas3592 Год назад
They aren’t killing they. Relax
@idab2605
@idab2605 4 года назад
I didn’t think i would ever write a comment like this but: if you make other living beings going through the pain of the lost to understand what grief is, emotionally you are not capable enough to understand what grief is.
@carolmueller3191
@carolmueller3191 4 года назад
Please read John 11:11-14, then read John 5:28,29. This will happen in due time but first this: Psalm 37:9-11,29; Revelation 21:4,5; Daniel 2:44; Isaiah 55:11. Would you like to know more?
@blingeefairy
@blingeefairy 3 года назад
Shame on her! I could never make anyone go through what I'm going through right now. If you want to study grief then talk to people. Don't break hearts.
@Roving0Fellow
@Roving0Fellow 2 года назад
Not only that pain. Also the physical torture they have to go through.
@Eye2C33
@Eye2C33 2 года назад
Exactly my thought too :-/
@tarahartshorne4439
@tarahartshorne4439 Год назад
My daughter died august 2 2022 and I wake up every morning feeling like it’s the first day all over again. I can’t imagine trying to learn to exist without her. It seems impossible 😭
@Smirksol
@Smirksol Год назад
im so sorry for your loss
@jayanthiaparasanfs2345
@jayanthiaparasanfs2345 4 года назад
I stopped watching this half way. These types of experiments should be stopped immediately. It's cruel. You have no right to torture animals like this. Remember that you are actually giving yourself what you think you are giving others. Once you understand this you will stop inflicting pain to another.
@malia8819
@malia8819 5 лет назад
Please tell me this dr didn’t put innocent animals through traumatic loss just so she could study their brain wavelengths. My God, humanity is cruel.
@PoodleParti
@PoodleParti 4 года назад
Hopefully she reunited them after the study.
@tadilatha
@tadilatha 2 года назад
That’s what I was thinking it’s so wrong
@apurvasinghai7224
@apurvasinghai7224 2 года назад
I lost my loving dad and uncle in 2018 and I have not been able to move on. I yearn to meet them. Internet is the only place where I can describe my feelings with complete honesty. Not a single day passes when I don't cry but I don't feel bad about this crying. I yearn to see them, to hear them and to feel their touch. Why is life so hard?
@KumariKumari-fw7nc
@KumariKumari-fw7nc Год назад
What about your mom?
@sambeilenson7128
@sambeilenson7128 Год назад
Stay strong
@samlee38
@samlee38 3 года назад
Aside from the cruelty of the experiment, it is also flawed. She wanted to see how the animal would behave once the partner is permanently gone (like death) but changed nothing in the experiment. How is the animal supposed to know their partner is gone permanently? Not letting them see their partner after triggering the lever only incites more suffering on the animal in her experiment. Horrible experiment.
@fashunpuss6279
@fashunpuss6279 3 года назад
I came here because I lost my Mother less than a week ago and BAM - get hit with animal testing. NO THANKS.
@josephgatambia5679
@josephgatambia5679 6 месяцев назад
Watching this 1 week after loosing my brother, and today is one of my lowest moments, kindly remember me in prayer
@beeyourselfcounselling6748
@beeyourselfcounselling6748 3 года назад
This is just friggin sad. I can't believe having lost a cat you would do studies like this. Why not ASK grieving humans who are WILLING to participate in a study and do MRIs or CTs or whatever on their grieving brains? As a grief and loss counsellor for pet owners I'm just completely gutted by this study. I was hoping to see something on the HUMAN brain, like I said by ASKING humans who would be more than happy to find out more about their own grief. Gosh, it's going to take me ages to get over what you do to animals now. :(
@maybelikealittlebit
@maybelikealittlebit 2 года назад
As someone with a missing cat of 2.5 weeks, thank you for your comment. I won’t be watching this as it will definitely trigger me and I’m already struggling. I will check out your channel and subscribe. I wish I had a pet loss and grief counsellor.
@PoeLemic
@PoeLemic 2 года назад
@BeeYC ... I am curious as to some RU-vid channels to watch, because I've lost a beloved pet last month (Sept of 2021). And, I'm having trouble moving forward. I loved her so, so much. Yes, she was older and been with me a good while. But it was unexpected but not tragic. Good health one day, then week later -- she is no longer with us. If you can help, please, give me some ideas. I'll look at your channel to see what videos you have on the topic since you are a GaLC for pet owners. Thank you.
@gilliansernich9267
@gilliansernich9267 5 лет назад
If you recognize suffering, why would you inflict it on other sentient beings? To me, this is unthinkable. What did you teach the world about grief? Absolutely nothing!! For Christ's sake go and read the great novels if don't understand the human heart. Leave these poor, suffering creatures in peace.
@Victoria-nx4yc
@Victoria-nx4yc 5 лет назад
Understanding the pain won't help the people who are stuck grieving. She is conducting this experiment to help them by medication and hence they can continue with thier life.
@arunveergrewal4346
@arunveergrewal4346 3 года назад
But imagine putting those innocent animals through that unsettling and crushing feeling of losing their beloved ones just for the sake of this experiment. Cruel....
@lyndanixon4824
@lyndanixon4824 3 года назад
My darling son Alex died suddenly 2 months ago,2 hours before his birthday....life stopped and then just changed....you don't move on you just try to keep going...and you choose a beautiful elite of people to surround you
@brianwebberable
@brianwebberable 5 лет назад
AWFUL. Why do these cruel tests with animals? Why? For our own selfish benefit? It is immensely, immensely cruel.
@monikahoffmann5822
@monikahoffmann5822 Год назад
Thank you to all the people who wrote objections to these heartless “scientific” cruelties. I am with you all the way. I am perplexed at how casually this is presented when it comes to research. In our world today animal abuse is not condoned. But scientists freely describe the horrific things they are doing without entertaining the notion that this is objectionable to a great many people. As long as humans derive some sort of benefit it’s ok, no matter how violent it is to another innocent being?
@BT-mw5ht
@BT-mw5ht 4 года назад
The study didn't really prove much about grief, other than that animals do indeed have valid bonds with each other - which is something we already knew. The study is animal cruelty, and I don't think it went into enough detail to even be called a study. To me it seems more like a curious and cruel experiment. Grief is "simply frustration" is also kind of an offensive thing to say to people who have experienced a huge loss. To boil it down to just frustration when it's a complex lifelong experience...?
@colenexoxo8939
@colenexoxo8939 2 года назад
Will They feel like that when it happens to them? I don't think so.
@ronfantone6783
@ronfantone6783 5 лет назад
No spirituality at all no hope a reuniting in the spiritual world... I watch these videos to help me this one did nothing but hurt me absolutely sucks
@carolmueller3191
@carolmueller3191 4 года назад
Ron, there is hope. Please read John 11:11-14, then read John 5:28,29.
@ronfantone6783
@ronfantone6783 4 года назад
Carol much love to you but there will be no my way or the highway man-made religion for me... Sorry but I am spiritual no old man sitting in a cloud waiting for me to mess up so he can ban me for eternity just don't believe it
@gwendolyn8934
@gwendolyn8934 5 лет назад
I’m sorry, I think your “study” is especially cruel.
@DONNACEDOHIOK12
@DONNACEDOHIOK12 4 года назад
Gwendolyn. Thank you for your compassion
@DONNACEDOHIOK12
@DONNACEDOHIOK12 4 года назад
You don’t need animals do you have me. 👀
@samuelmichael2449
@samuelmichael2449 3 года назад
@@DONNACEDOHIOK12 such is life we've all lost our loved ones in death, but life goes on, I lost my partner 3yrs ago, I understand how you feel, I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind, it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number +1206-237-2054 😇
@tacobelle69
@tacobelle69 3 года назад
Me too. I’m kind of disgusted ...
@pixieheart9303
@pixieheart9303 Год назад
I'm so glad I read through the comments before watching this video.
@dria759
@dria759 5 лет назад
Why did you do such thing? Can't believe this.. I don't need an information or study about something that should hurt animals in the first place :'(
@Missyou-.
@Missyou-. 4 года назад
Most people know what grief is. If you’ve gone through grief, you know is real, it hurts, your body and brain are sad. Even if you haven’t gone through it, it isn’t hard to understand it. WHY ON EARTH DO YOU NEED AN EXPERIMENT TO KNOW THIS? Nothing but cruelty, cruelty makes me grieve all those suffering animal victims. “Scientists?” NO! You’re heartless.
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
@jenkinsljenkinssquire9137
@jenkinsljenkinssquire9137 Год назад
Grieving the loss of my wife and 2 years later it isnt any better
@cilla3636
@cilla3636 4 года назад
i lost my soulmate of 20 years to cardiac arrest weeks ago im lost,numb,frustrated 💔
@carolmueller3191
@carolmueller3191 4 года назад
Hopefully the following Scriptures will ease your pain. John11:11-14; John 5:28,29. But this must take place first : Psalm 37:9-11,29; Daniel 2:44; Revelation 21:4,5 ; Isaiah 55:11.
@catherinejoannides2229
@catherinejoannides2229 3 года назад
Mine died 2 yrs. Ago of a massive heart attack after 58 yrs. of marriage. He was on life support for 3 days, and we never had a chance to say goodbye. Im lost, and I feel he didn't take a piece of my heart, but all of it. Sorry for your loss, and like you, I'm numb and I still cant function.
@darlenewedra2896
@darlenewedra2896 3 года назад
Since the passing of my husband of 50 years, I’ve left listen to many many people talking about how we should react when we grieve. I have come to the realization, that they are telling me something that I already know. The pain, the hard ache, nothing to look forward to, although we do have Family who love us. That doesn’t take the pain away. Time may heal Us somehow, but nothing can take away the emptiness in our hearts. I’ve decided I’m not listening to people trying to persuade me that I should feel otherwise.
@brendadrumm9708
@brendadrumm9708 3 года назад
You have taken the words out of my mouth at last someone like me I've lost a daughter seven yrs ago 42yrs old and son yr half after 32yrs old I don't expect people to feel sorry for me it's my cross to bear but nothing on this earth can or ever wil ever make me feel better
@darlenewedra2896
@darlenewedra2896 3 года назад
My heart goes out to you for the loss of your son and your daughter. May God bless you and give you the strength to carry-on. That’s all I ask of God every day, and I know I will be with my husband someday. That’s what keeps me going.God bless you
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
@@brendadrumm9708 very sorry about your loss Brenda, it's very hard to live with.
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
@@darlenewedra2896 very sorry about the death of your hubby, God will give you the fortitude to bear the loss. It was a difficult time to bear when I lost my wife to cancer in 2019 so I know how you must be feeling!
@darlenewedra2896
@darlenewedra2896 3 года назад
@@lawsonbrinton682 Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I too am very sorry for your loss. I know I have feelings that I need to deal with by myself, but it’s good to know how other people who are going through the same thing, also feel.God bless you.
@hannahbrennan9188
@hannahbrennan9188 4 года назад
this is honestly sick. why would you do this to innocent animals?
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
Hello Hannah
@gunstigvogel3419
@gunstigvogel3419 2 года назад
Ummmm this is what our species does, is destroy life for all other species as rapidly as possible. Why is this a surprise?
@paulcookseymmh5941
@paulcookseymmh5941 2 года назад
I agree Hannah,this was no help to me at all,every day im stil suffering even though its been a year ago,Everyday day i think of you and every day i cry,another day has come and gone as life just passes by
@crism3lo
@crism3lo 5 лет назад
I had to stop watching this. My heart is breaking to think "scientists" break hearts of animals to study grief. As if we need to cause any more suffering. As if we can't study this in humans who are undergoing heartbreak.....
@mountainkimmie
@mountainkimmie 5 лет назад
Word.
@geoffringham1051
@geoffringham1051 4 года назад
Me too !
@nataliechaplain4489
@nataliechaplain4489 2 года назад
I lost my husband last month I feel depressed and I feel like giving up on life but I'm loosing control because there's no reason to be happy
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
@marlywilkinson3239
@marlywilkinson3239 Год назад
So much anger toward someone that is trying to learn how to help people with grieving. I lost my husband of 46 years and I am learning to “adapt” to grief by filling in the gaps of our love, routine and memories. I have a bit of him in each one of our children and feel grateful he is no longer suffering . Life goes on and time goes fast, take care of the living, including yourself. 🙏
@kesharhinestone8998
@kesharhinestone8998 4 года назад
Loss of health and coming to terms with a terminal diagnosis also has its grieving process
@samuelmichael2449
@samuelmichael2449 3 года назад
such is life we've all lost our loved ones in death, but life goes on, I lost my partner 3yrs ago, I understand how you feel, I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind, it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number +1206-237-2054 😇
@polona9566
@polona9566 4 года назад
Absence of "something"? I lost my little boy to cancer! That "something" was my dear child. Iam a scientist but this is not the way of explaining and helping someone in grief. This woman lost a freaking CAT to cancer. She has no emphaty or emotional intelligence.
@carolmueller3191
@carolmueller3191 4 года назад
I hope you are a scientist who believes in a Creator. If you do, here are words of comfort for you. John11:11-14, John 5:28,29. This must take place first:Psalm37:9-11,29; Revelation 21:4,5; Daniel 2:44; Isaiah 55:11.
@polona9566
@polona9566 4 года назад
@@carolmueller3191 no I do not believe in god.
@brendadrumm9708
@brendadrumm9708 3 года назад
Spot on my learned friend I've lost my daughter and son nothing in this vile world can and will ever make me feel any better the life I knew has gone it's been going on for seven yrs I've lost my sense of smell taste and hearing in left ear I'm finished
@tacobelle69
@tacobelle69 3 года назад
How cruel... I could never do that to those little animals
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
Hello Shawna
@LisaCalhoungreenfairygraphics
@LisaCalhoungreenfairygraphics 4 года назад
Pretty...horrible...why not put them back together once you've got this information? Why make them suffer like this? What an awful experiment.
@valerieevanier9632
@valerieevanier9632 5 лет назад
There are only a relatively small number of people on this earth who have the kind of expertise (that you worked hard to acquire btw thank you) to even begin to tackle this type of issue. Not only is this work fascinating, it is such a great contribution. First because of the level of suffering and its universality, and second because, even though it is so painful, it is significantly different than depression. These findings will not only help those suffering from grief, but also help in research of other mental health disorders by providing something to contrast. Thank you for all your work and thank you for sharing it on Tedx.
@Bhappi137
@Bhappi137 3 года назад
That’s what we the left behind know, they are with us till we meet again
@katrahmat
@katrahmat 4 года назад
Efforts of pressing the lever is quantitative. But deducing the pushing of the lever as comparable to mourning is an absolutely subjective and qualitative leap. The rodents likely Express it differently in natural environments. Also the first experiment with the vole seeing its partner is likely panic induced. Comparing that likely habit-forming experience to when the vole partner is absent reveals more about the ignorance about grief and probably voles that anything 'creative' and 'scientific'. Just because it is measurable doesn't make it useful. Pretty pointless study. There are ethical ways to study grieving people. Talk to them. Finally, conversations about grief from the perspective of time can surely be studied. There are entire cannons on the subject of perceived time and its science. Ugh
@lilahcruz6379
@lilahcruz6379 3 года назад
ANIMALS ARENT HERE FOR EXPERIMENTS
@karakoram4613
@karakoram4613 3 года назад
I don't have to imagine that.
@eleo7547
@eleo7547 3 года назад
I really agree with the rest...this ridiculous experiment didn't show any new information. It's just watching those poor creatures suffer like we do, but at least they didn't have to do it, until we bestow such thing upon them...So what, you understood that in time creatures just give up on hope, ever seeing their loved ones again!!!?? Isn't that what all of us do....I believe we could've come to that conclusion without excessive cruelty. If you really grieving you'd never try experimenting with grief on others...There are other ways of understanding ourselves, leave the fauna out of it!Haven't we done enough to poor the animal kingdom already...
@georgeelliott207
@georgeelliott207 3 года назад
We dont "move on". And no we dont conflate grief and depression either; there are totally different things. She obviously didnt learn much during her research.
@lb1798
@lb1798 3 года назад
2:08!!! So.TRUE!!!
@MoonlightNothing
@MoonlightNothing 2 года назад
Wow? "GRIEF IS SIMPLY A FRUSTRATION OF OUR DESIRES" Did I hear that?
@tuffgonggbUNCTION
@tuffgonggbUNCTION 5 лет назад
GRIEF IS LOVES EXPRESSION....JAHBLESS SOULJAH....
@blingeefairy
@blingeefairy 3 года назад
Dr Zoe Donaldson I advise you to put yourself through this ''experiment'' so that us around you can watch and learn from your pain. I came to this video trying to find comfort and my blood is boiling. You are a horrible, heartless person. If you want to learn about grief there are plenty of ways out there. If you ever loved a cat, if you ever truly grieved you would never have had the heart to do this. You learned NOTHING because you never loved. Therefor I have nothing to learn from you.
@AdamS_Lucky
@AdamS_Lucky 2 года назад
I came here thinking I’d get some relief & help through a ted talk after loosing my dog.. instead it tweaked my pain even further knowing some animals are separated cause humans want to “study” how this affects us? What in the world.. where are we going ? This is why I trust animals cause simply humans don’t have the capacity to understand that animals can bond & feel even more than we do. Please stop further studies of animals & ask humans how they’d feel being put through such torture. This is the wrong kind of science, sorry I would not applaud at the end instead walk away from this talk. 🐾💫🕊
@vidur82s
@vidur82s 3 года назад
Imagine if aliens were to conduct such experiments on humans, for the sake of science. Leave animals alone!
@dianelindenberger6941
@dianelindenberger6941 3 года назад
I can't sleep because I lost my mother......what can I do? and I am so depressed......
@spmgijsbers339
@spmgijsbers339 3 года назад
So sorry
@escapingboredom6958
@escapingboredom6958 3 года назад
Sorry for your loss. Be strong
@nicolinadoe6427
@nicolinadoe6427 3 года назад
So we hear about how they tortured animals who were grieving? Gawd humans make me sick
@carynroxburgh1184
@carynroxburgh1184 2 года назад
I’ve lost my mom 4months ago and I feel broken
@MrTek2fix
@MrTek2fix 3 года назад
How can she compare the loss of a cat to losing a child? If I were to lose a pet, I could move on and find happines
@blingeefairy
@blingeefairy 3 года назад
..because cats are not lesser beings. Just because you perceive them as such does not change the fact that love comes to us in different forms.
@glasstumble1677
@glasstumble1677 3 года назад
O.k. people who are angry at the animal testing let me ask you. How should she supposed to test this?
@Ebvardh
@Ebvardh 3 года назад
Hold on, do they drill directly into the animal’s head and put the microscope in them? I assume they don’t anesthetize them for it because it would be brutal, but daaaaamn.
@goodselections
@goodselections 4 года назад
Animal cruelty. It should not be acceptable; for this experiment or for pharmaceutical products; that for the most part are a disaster. There must be other ways to study life and health; and not these sociopathic practices
@charisharvey82
@charisharvey82 2 года назад
I learned through reading comments that this lady did experiments of putting animals through grief, so yeah no. I'm not gonna support this by continuing to watch.
@azitam.a.1682
@azitam.a.1682 3 года назад
“Grieve thou not over the troubles and hardships of this nether world, nor be thou glad in times of ease and comfort, for both shall pass away. This present life is even as a swelling wave, or a mirage, or drifting shadows. Could ever a distorted image on the desert serve as refreshing waters? No, by the Lord of Lords! Never can reality and the mere semblance of reality be one, and wide is the difference between fancy and fact, between truth and the phantom thereof. Know thou that the Kingdom is the real world, and this nether place is only its shadow stretching out. A shadow hath no life of its own; its existence is only a fantasy, and nothing more; it is but images reflected in water, and seeming as pictures to the eye.” - Abdu’l-Baha
@jeanhartely
@jeanhartely 2 года назад
What a horrible creepy experiment. My husband died a week ago. I turned this on thinking it might be helpful, give me some insight. Now I just feel worse than ever. Please don't do stuff like this to animals in the name of people like me.
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
@Cod4Wii
@Cod4Wii 4 года назад
:(
@lisakonkel5576
@lisakonkel5576 4 года назад
Ben Stuart dating
@yuritzemelina6324
@yuritzemelina6324 3 года назад
The "normal " giving process ?! There is nothing normal about it. It's not some linear thing with steps that you go through. It is unique to everyone. This Ted talk is not appropriate. She doesn't understand.
@afnaar7386
@afnaar7386 3 года назад
Ignorance of how sentient beings feel is rampant in this. Morally wrong. No knowledge will be gained because it IS morally wrong.
@tadilatha
@tadilatha 2 года назад
I know you are experimenting but just lessening to it feels wrong u should not do that to animals
@mundomagico7787
@mundomagico7787 Год назад
Yeah. Unbelievably cruel experiment. Don’t watch if you are looking for comfort or help.
@savannahleeross7373
@savannahleeross7373 Год назад
I grieve for all of my loved ones. I've cared for, watched them all die in front of me. I had to stop watching once you started talking about how you are treating the animals in your lab. So you purposely put these animals in an extreme, sad, state, just to study grief. This is wrong. How could you, knowing what loss feels like, inflict that pain, that emptiness, onto another? I'm so incredibly sad for these animals. I pray they know peace before their life's are over!!
@MYLUVMNM
@MYLUVMNM 3 года назад
just awful! why this person was on Tedx and audience is not even booing! wow just plain awful
@angelicar451
@angelicar451 2 года назад
I lost a child and she is talking about a cat ?
@wendyholdenpierrepicot5473
@wendyholdenpierrepicot5473 2 года назад
What a revolting video! This scientist rivals some doctors with her detached emotions and scientific “objectivity” towards the suffering of animals, and by extension, humans, like those of us trying to make our way through grief, hence clicking on this video. I couldn't make it all the way through. The only interesting tidbit is at 2 minutes when she talks about time, the brain, and memories. Just stop after that!
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
@frednegus7017
@frednegus7017 Год назад
Trite
@briswifty9572
@briswifty9572 2 года назад
Oof.
@Evernia6181
@Evernia6181 3 года назад
I totally disagree with this person is reductionism. And I take grade exception to her experimentation because I feel it’s cruelty. I had to stop watching this. shame.
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
Hello Sandrine
@richardbradshaw7830
@richardbradshaw7830 2 года назад
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..
@milenefontelas
@milenefontelas 9 месяцев назад
This Ted talk did nothing for me. It served no point. I've been grieving for 22 years now. It didn't stop or slowed down. I cry almost every night ever since I can remember. And this did not help me whatsoever. Torturing those animals served no reason. And even if it did, if you truly knew what grief feels like, you wouldn't inflict this pain in them. Shame on you.
@lisabennett1253
@lisabennett1253 2 года назад
This is AWFUL!! I thought I was going to learn something. All it reinforced was how cruel and removed from humaness science really is. I HATE this TED talk.
@jacqueashton
@jacqueashton 4 года назад
Your Cat?..Lol
@lawsonbrinton682
@lawsonbrinton682 3 года назад
Hello Jacqueline
@happysufferer
@happysufferer 2 года назад
rediculous
@lisanyugenhascancer6332
@lisanyugenhascancer6332 Год назад
Please go vegan. You all look so sympathetic don't put animals in pain
@robinfrances8409
@robinfrances8409 2 года назад
What an ego this so-called scientist has. “My lab” -right. But don’t worry. Karma will educate her.
@Marie310
@Marie310 Год назад
"Scientists" are so cruel.
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