One time a girl in my class said "I hate men, they are awful" and I responded with "What would happen if I said that I hate women?" and as I said that my teacher said "Dont say that!"
people like to think society is sexist against women, and in many ways it is. but in so many other ways it’s sexist to men. honestly really grinds my gears
@@r4ven22 Very true, every gender gets discriminated against. And nowadays the woman get more power. If a lady attacked a man and he fought back, all it takes for her to scream and the man gets a life sentence and no chance to explain. It’s very disgusting in my opinion (I’m a girl)
@@cats8153 we understand not everyone wants to have kids but we can't deny that if it continues like that, humanity will literally decrease and will fade away
It was said that a man's tear is much more expensive than woman's because they rarely cry, and when they do, its not a good thing because they have experienced a huge devastation and when you see them cry help them. Women cry at anytime people think they cry for no reason especially when they say they don't know, they do know and thats what make their tears less expensive. When a man cries it doesn't only effect him but his entire family like parents, wife, children and siblings so in order for them not to be effected they bottle up their tears
I have seen this one on instagram but I'll just paraphase it here: Unlike women who are usually given flowers on courtship, marraige and 18th birthdays, most men only receive their first flowers on their funeral. Men totally deserve to have a day to be celebrated and reminded that they matter too.
As a woman, I am so angry that these women exist to taint the true meaning of equality. Men should have a day just as much as women. We don’t deserve special treatment, we deserve equal treatment. 👏🏻👏🏻
The sad thing is that equality dictates that 90% of women get spoiled, and if they get spoiled they create their own problems. That's when they start hating men. There's literally never been a culture in which men weren't above women that survived, because women won't let it.
@@TheStraightestWhitest humm , that's not totally right. Such culture aren't doomed to fail because of womans : take a look at the Sarmates for example
As a female, the fact women get a whole month and men get a single day is already sad, but the fact women will hate on men for getting even 24 hours of appreciation despite the fact they get an entire month makes me sick.
The problem isn't that women don't get respect, the problem is that women don't get EQUAL respect as men, but this is just spoiling them. This can be said for a lot of problems in society.
@Ditto JigglyPuff Why does ANYONE needs a day anyway? Like yeah, it's Men's/Women's Day, woo hoo, it's not going to change how shitty these people's lives are just because they have a dedicated day
*feminists:* "Feminism is about equality for the sexes!" *also feminists:* "Oh my god - like - why do men get an international day of recognition - like - I know women have one too - but like - why do men need one?! Ughhhhh - like - every day is international mens day because they - like - rule the world."
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@@shadxw6281 I mean... there are differences between men and women though. they're not reasons to say one is better than the other, but to say that there just aren't general differences in their personalities and bodies is just wrong.
@@shadxw6281 I mean I think we should stop giving it too much attention like you can still give them separate bathrooms and stuff but i have had this thought in the past if we stopped looking at men and women so differently and giving so much attention to it maybe boys will look at a girl and see another human instead of a different gender and same with girls to boys
They never know that men always be the victim. Check out those social experiment videos. Men can't even stand up to say anything but women Literally got away with it
Yah. Using sexism as a term is kinda stupid if it’s only against one sex, because sexism as a word implies that both sexes can be discriminated against. & for racism, it’s defined as avoidance, hatred, or discrimination against a race or someone because of their race! Just because you were oppressed doesn’t mean you should become an oppressor. I think you should’ve heard something similar before, “Just because you’re the victim doesn’t mean you should be the abuser”
@@Snowflakethelynxmisandry and misogyny are both sexism, for example even if no one hates men and everyone or some people hate women, sexism still exists lol
@@StupidAnon-gn8ih Even the “normal” average woman has crazy expectations and demand. They will cash in on the dating, marriage, divorce transfer of wealth and will absolutely turn on you when it benefits them. Most women don’t want anything to do with you unless they stand to benefit from it.
Girls nowadays just care about drinking and hooking up, or posting online about how lonely they are so that random people can give them compliments online.
I literally didn't know there was an international men's day. Who known? It's funny, that we have an international women's MONTH and yet some people get mad that men have one DAY. It's only 15 days away men, shout out to all the boys! And all the girls who support us, thanks!
Actually, there is a national men’s month (November) but I literally just learned it existed last month. And some people are trying to change it to something transgender related :(
mens day is not celebrated like a birthday or any other day also men/women days are celebrated with compliments, im not sure if you put this n un-ironically or not so yea
Honestly I feel like the bad people act hypocritical, and feel like theg deserve more. Most teamers you see on roblox are girls. They act super hypocritical and toxic
I am an only girl in a family of five boys with a very traditional father. The men in my life are awesome and have been my biggest supporters. My dad has very traditional views of men and women BUT he has taught me that being a woman doesn’t mean being less than a man. In fact I was treated better then my brothers while being offered the same opportunities to work or go to college. I honestly think my father was the most important influence in my life. Because of him I never got pregnant as a teenager like lots of my schoolmates, I never dropped out of school and I am going to college to get my degree. Never over look the influence of a good father in a woman’s life.
@@fujiwaranonekobiodrando1257 I grew up in a very poor, minority community. Many of my classmates got pregnant at 14. I was very young and was hanging out with boys that would have led me down that same path. But my father spoke to me and I never made those decisions because of him.
Your father reminds me of many men in my family. We too are more traditional, but obviously women and men are treated equal. I think in the family, men are given that sense of duty, and in simple terms, it is really: "never hurt a woman or a child, as men we are given some strength, that we ought to use to be sure women and children feel safe ad protected and cherished". Good to see that fathers like yours exist, and thank you for taking the time to appreciate what a good father he is! I hope when I grow up some day I can be a good father to children, and if I have a daughter, show her how she ought to be treated as a young lady, and raise sons with strong values.
They want to opress men. They want men that drool over thots and is purely dependant on them. They don't want strong manly man that can stand up for themselves. Feminism have come to the point where it's not about the equality of female's rights, it's about the superiority over male's rights.
Tell you what, when you're ready to abolish womens day, we'll abolish mens day. Hell maybe we could even merge them, into PEOPLES DAY! imagine that! men and women both being y'know PEOPLE!
The real people's issues we need to address are men now. They get "encouraged" by society not to cry and bottle their emotions in and be stoic. I mean, just look at the father's in media: most are strict businessmen, the woman are lovely moms. :(
@@i.n.4004 i don't see many issue about telling men to be stoic and not cry in public. It help you look strong and not bully able. The problem i had is with crying or well doing the opposite of stoic just in front of your lover or family is somehow wrong and should be admonished as well. Revealing weakness only to those who's close to you help you form additional bridge that help making you even closer, as well as stronger and more resilient as well as you're not being put under constant pressure so you can take more hit and issue than if you're put under constant pressure.
@@i.n.4004 Woman always say they want a man who can show emotions but almost all of them would immediately dump or cheat on a man who cried to them or actually spoke about their problems.
Being a woman myself I wanna wish you all well upcoming International Men's Day! Gender equality goes both ways and men and woman have their individual struggles so one shouldn't be overlooked in favour of another. Also assuming everyone of the same gender is the same is sexist alongside just rude.
Yikes, and people wonder why most men don't open up. If they do, they're just going to be ignored, get flamed, "Man up!", etc, etc. Sometimes I question whether these kinds of things are actually happening. It's real sad. In any case, Happy International Men's Day, everyone!
Twitter is its own metaverse, fam. I know where you're coming from, but if you think about it most of us don't act the way that twitter wants you to act lol.
@@venusislavender Yep. They walk up and down the streets with signs that say “Fathers don’t deserve a day” in all caps every year. There was a woman - Ruby Rose, I believe - that wanted to rename it to “Special Person’s Day,” but made no comment on Mother’s Day so we all know what she was after.
More so as we see the vindictiveness of some women. If these sexists got what they actually wanted men would literally be slaves & breeding stock. Under the patriarchy neither of those was ever a thing. Matriarchy would be far worse than patriarchy ever has been at its absolute worst.
@@Kalaphant Because women aren't known for being logical and smart when it comes to the power they try to take from others. Metoo movement has only proven what happens when you give an entire gender the ability to lie and NEVER be held accountable. It's dangerous. Plain and simple.
@@PoggoThomas, there were also men that weren’t celebrated for their achievements just like women weren’t achieved for their scientific advancements as well for example people always claim that Leonardo Da Vinci’s greatest achievement to mankind was a painting of the Mona Lisa, but it was actually the gift of flight that the Wright Brothers stole the design sheets of Leonardo Da Vinci’s planes designs and added an engine to it, or how Ford was associated with building the first car in the United States whenever it was Nikola Tesla, or how Edison was associated with building the first lightbulb whenever it was Nikola Tesla too, or how Alexander Grambell was associated with building the first telegraph whenever it was Nikola Tesla too, so if women are allowed an International Women’s Day then men should have an International Men’s Day.
Women: National girls and women in sports day - feb 2 International day of girls and women in science - feb 11 International women’s day - Mar 8 National bombshell day - may 1 National birth mother day - may 8 National women’s check-up day - may 10 National women’s day - aug 9 Women’s equality day - aug 26 Wife appreciation day - sept 19 International day for the elimination of violence against women - 25 Men: International men’s day - Nov 19
its funny how they bash on men’s day even though men have made society comfortable for all of us and all they are useful for is creating children. They do absolutely nothing for society. all they do is get in the way of our daily hardworking lives and talk shit like this it’s actually wild
@@Seopy Didn't know what you were replying to and I was about to reply with actually I love my dad and would kill for him Only then I realised you were reaponding to my sarcastic comment
You know, it's funny how men are portrayed as the villains or the problem. Yet throughout my childhood growing up, I haven't really had so many problems I did with men than I do women. I won't lie, I have met or interacted with some men that didn't exactly know better, but most of my bullies have been women who had problems with me, including a teacher in second grade. They were the ones, even little girls, who insulted me, had issues with me, harassed me, and even outright assaulted me. Meanwhile, I've only had either a few bad friendships with young men or we just didn't click. So to see that men are portrayed as the most toxic even tho I consider women to be the more toxic due to my experience, I find it really hypocritical. And this is coming from a young woman in her 20s who believes that everyone deserves an equal chance.
@@lady_zora well,my girlfriend was bullied initially because of her hearing loss that left her close to entirely deaf,and guess by whom,by the girls of her same grade
@[ZEROX] more like whenever women bring up anything regarding men doing anything to them men always try to say "not all men" and try to diminish the woman's experiences cuz....ya know...to men these days feminism is a bad thing because of a couple bad apples.
I don't really think there should be any international day for anyone, why cant we just stay with the few classics? Santa day, spooky month, Coffee day, and nothing else.
Eh?! Not all men has the "I'm above" mindset If everyday was a men's day how bout those who gets bullied, abandoned, abused and etc. All genders have bad and good people. That's just how world is. -came from a broken fam with dad at fault (pissed bcz of his actions not bcz he's a man)
It is acceptable to be upset at a man for doing a shitty action. It is NOT acceptable to be upset at a man for being a man, and then go on to hate every other living man in the world!
So tired of women hating on men. The men in my life are kind, caring, and selfless. My fiancé is the best man I've ever met. Shout-out to men. Clearly, y'all need it. Edit: my fiancé is now my husband💙 Edit 2: The positivity in the comments gives me life, bless you all TT--TT
The media makes people think that women are powerless, oppressed and that men are potential rp1sts, abus3rs, murderer... but all humans can do evil not only men... And what woman hasn't in strength is compensated on intelligence and skill.
The media makes people think that women are powerless, oppressed and that men are potential rp1sts, abus3rs, murderer... but all humans can do evil not only men... And what woman hasn't in strength is compensated on intelligence and skill.
@@weirdshrimpnumber9755 yes and its sad cuz women and men have been walking through earth together since more than 2000 years, through the heaviest conditions. just because some humans are rotten inside that doesnt mean everyone shares their same thought.
that´s like saying we shouldn't celebrate mother's day because they are already appreciated on a daily basis :/ we need to celebrate women's day to remember all the hatred they have gone trough as a gender, and we need to celebrate men's day to fight against toxic masculinity and dumb gender norms
@@nantae1047 I said "Society is still flawed" because of the necessity of such days for appreciation. Had the society weren't as flawed as it is right now, there would be no need to make dedicated days for men and women. Mistreatment, injustice, social issues, etc. These are the flaws of society...... Or maybe even flaws of humanity in general nowadays. Men treated like a shit, women treated like a shit, men who treated women like a shit, women who treated men like a shit, these are all just the same. It's not about the perpetrators's identity, it's the deeds they have done. A man can be a terrible person, and so does a woman. The issue about "toxic masculinity" should be dealt more seriously. Women shouldn't just haphazardly claimed some men "encouraging toxic masculinity" when the evidences aren't quite strong. Their intentions might seem good on surface, but executing it poorly would just make a fool of themselves. People should be more critical when dealing with such topics. I'm not trying to discourage people to defend women in need, I'm just saying that you need to put more thoughts when you want to defend them.
The fact that women have like 5 seperate “women’s day”s (at least for me cuz i used to live in iran and they celebrate women’s day on different days than the US so i have to basically celebrate it like 5 times cuz there’s also mother’s day and “daughter’s day” ) and us men can’t even have 1
There isn't even a google doodle for International Mens day. Like they do google doodles for the 173rd birthday of some obscure historical figure and not for a day celebrating the existence of ~50% of the population.
"I have no patience for one who talks about female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone "not being a man" when it's convenient."
It was International Men's Day for 2020. The poster reads "It is time to recognize and honor the contributions and sacrifices men make for their families and society" You notice they don't recognize and honor and honor men? It is contributions and sacrifices they honor. I will not even comment on the picture they put. No video were made about it, google didn't change their thumbnail, news stations didn't mention it nothing. Face it guys you are just a wallet on legs to women and cannon farter to society. Men that do the hardest jobs possible, risk their lives on a daily bases ten times more more than women and children so they don't have to get in harms way or get inconvenience by doing tasks like sewage work, garbage collecting, fishing or changing the uranium rods in a nuclear reactor and that is the thanks men get. Thanks world for miss treating the people that keep everything running.
Yours is the most accurate observation regarding what men and International Men’s Day means to mainstream media ie. it means nothing more than a subject for derision to mainstream media. In my opinion, every single person that appears on any mainstream media platform, and who refuses or fails to acknowledge International Men’s Day equal to International Women’s day, is utterly despicable. That is every person on every news channel, daytime show (especially), talk show or any other program on TV in the western world.
"Historically men have not been oppressed" I hate that sentence A major reason why I love history is that it can help us not make the mistakes of the past Basing an argument for the present because of historical claims is gonna end you up in the middle east
I didn't know there WAS an International Men's Day! Sorry I missed it! Every day, men are bashed, and women idolized. Old Spice recently had an ad campaign to raise awareness of all the good things black men do and to fight the thug stereotype. We need to support and celebrate men and encourage them to be good and strong! They are, after all, half the earth's population, and made in God's image, just like women.
I feel sad about these people. They are probably like this irl as well, filled with nothing but hatred and therefore everyone hates them in return. I wish they were aware of this. They are in need of psychological help definetely. I also find it pretty stupid how there is an ''international day'' for EVERYTHING but that's another topic.
"historically opressed" You can't change the past, the future is a mystery, but today, is a gift, that's why it's called "present". Why are you wasting your gift trying to destroy the gift of others when you could make a better future instead of a new past? Idk you do you man.
We have an International Women’s Day, there should be one for men too! Everyone deserves recognition. Men have fought wars for their countries for centuries, they need to be celebrated as much as us women do!
National girls and women in sports day - feb 2 International day of girls and women in science - feb 11 International women’s day - Mar 8 National bombshell day - may 1 National birth mother day - may 8 National women’s check-up day - may 10 National women’s day - aug 9 Women’s equality day - aug 26 Wife appreciation day - sept 19
Women when hit by logic: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Why can't we just celebrate things instead of putting others down? Like seriously ... I respect your international day, so I'd like the same amount of respect for our too.
@@dunne7496 why do you suppose men commit suicide so much? I think its because men take losses and grief very hard, and they trust fewer people to confide in. They just dont see a way out of their problems sometimes
@@vickerandflips8061 its a lot of things, men have to take rejections and carry on like its nothing, men have the harder jobs, the more stressfull jobs etc
Vicker and Flips Yeah, majority of men genuinely have no one to turn to or to seek help from, if they go to the wrong person there is a good chance they get ridiculed. speaking from experience.
Y’all wanna know what ticks me off, how parents get a day and gay people get a month. Why not have a parents month, where the month is about respecting your mother and father. We can still keep pride month tho, it’s here and we can’t really take it away
The strange thing is that before the 2000s usually marriages and long term relationships were made for people to survive because it was really harsh environment. Women did the best they could and men did as well. But everyone kinda keeps forgetting that. I'm from Europe and my country is modern in relationships but my parents and my friends parents are a lot more traditional and theres a synergy of helping eachother instead of just only wanting and being toxic
Yes there is. It's just the world doesn't care about ken so much that this event has flown under the radar of almost everyone. I'm surprised there even was a video made about men's day.
honestly I cant even get mad over this, these people ,like me being 100% real here, NEED help, literally hating half of the population because your group says you should is just sad and they need therapy
"Acting like men are being victimized instead of trying to fix the patriarchy is toxic". Why can't we do both? Issues with things like toxic masculinity (reffering to the idea that men have to be a certain way to be considered "masculine") affect men and women. Its not about trying to figure out who statistically has things easier or harder than the other. Its about recognizing that everyone has it rough in their own ways. Just look at the themes IMD has had each year and its obvious this is good for everyone. "Expand Reproductive Options for Men", "Stop Male Suicide", "Positive Male Role Models". These are things that (if done correctly) help fix a lot of the issues women are facing as well.
The patriarchy is not existent in the West... however, it's very existent in the Middle East. Why don't feminists speak up about women's rights in the Middle East? Oh yeah, I forgot they mostly exist to scam females and that's why they get backed up by the same people that oppress women. Being a woman is not easy, that I know, but being a man ain't easy either. I think we seriously need to stop with this "battle of sexes" that the feminists started because they like being the victim in almost any given situation.
@@wyvernslayer4530 I have a feeling that you don't know what toxic masculinity is and just see women talking about how certain masculine traits bother them. It's a lot more than that. Toxic masculinity is also about the perpetuated idea that men should be a certain way, and that its wrong for men to be any other way. For many men out there they are told from throughout their life things like "don't cry. Be strong. Man up.". They go their whole life feeling that if they ever show any weakness that it makes them less of a man. Considering that, do you think those men would be able to see a therapist if they are having problems, or would be able to tell anyone that their wife is abusing them? It's partially because of things like this that the suicide rates for men are noticeably higher than for women. I'm not saying it's the only reason for any problem, another reason for the suicide rates is that it doesn't account for attempted suicide (and men tend to commit suicide by means that have a higher fatality rate), but even so just because it isn't the sole cause of a problem in every or even most cases doesn't mean it should be ignored. In case you are curious, here's a video of a man talking about his (and other's) experiences with this issue: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xyIQFI865_w.html
@@462n oh, then yeah, ive seen hella toxic masculinity. But i just think being emotional is fucking stupid. I wasted my emotions on people and never got anything back.
