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Make anyone OBSESSED with you in these 5 STEPS 

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Make anyone obsessed with you in these 5 steps - a masterclass on being HER ✨. In this video, I go over 5 very essential steps to making someone instantly drawn to you aka the Serena van der Woodsen effect. The first step is to be soft and playful, an obvious yet more intricate embodiment to master. Being soft and playful is inherently vulnerable which means you must let go of your insecurities and build your confidence! The 2nd step is to take up space!!! Look good, give into the attention you get, and be comfortable with being perceived (HERES AN INDEPTH VIDEO: • how to get over your f... ) The third step is to build your own brand of femininity to STAND OUT - this is truly the key to being magnetic and making people obsessed with you. The 4th step is asserting your boundaries and standards in a soft and gentle way while embodying them firmly. THIS is how you get people to take you seriously and elevate your energy to a place where only people that meet them will approach you. Finally, the fifth step is: emotional prediction. Such a masterful skill that when executed properly, can make people fall in love with you and your energy instantly. Anchor yourself in pleasure NOT pain. Sub for more free level up game 🚀
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Keywords: feminine energy, strong boundaries, financial security, dating, detachment, magnetic energy, well-being, peace, empowerment, personal growth, how to be magnetic, self-interest, dream self, emotional regulation, self-worth, that girl,seeking validation,how to validate yourself,external validation,male validation,stop people pleasing,chasing others,chasing validation,grow your self worth,how to improve self worth,validate yourself sis,insecure,self doubt,people pleaser,chasing men,emotional validation,how to be more secure in yourself,be more independent,level up,self development,stop waiting for people,self love,how to be a confident woman,confident women Why is Serena van der Woodsen so charming?
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@DivineTimingMeditations
@DivineTimingMeditations 2 месяца назад
1 Be soft vulnerable 2 Exercise 3 Let your feminine energy linger 4 Set boundaries/standards in a gentle way 5 emotional awareness/prediction But watch this video in full to give her a view/like because she’s amazing & her info is great!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
You’re a queen! 😉
@TheRealMyracleGarcia
@TheRealMyracleGarcia 2 месяца назад
Yes I wrote but definitely watching ❤
@Danielap12
@Danielap12 2 месяца назад
Honestly these videos are meant to be seen mutiple times with a pen and a notebook just to make sure You got all the important info 👌🏻
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
😜😜😜
@lrl5978
@lrl5978 2 месяца назад
i always listen to them 2 times when i’m listening to a new video
@valdi7777
@valdi7777 2 месяца назад
Yeaah I always do that with her videos
@louvea3582
@louvea3582 2 месяца назад
Definitely, and actually the speed can be a little more slow...Just ti have time to understand well the introduced ideas...
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
@@louvea3582 Cant go any slower lol just take more time to absorb the info
@missn111
@missn111 2 месяца назад
Omg what you explained at the 8:00 minute mark is so true. I get treated so well when I put effort into my appearance, even if it's just wearing a cute headband or colourful jewelry, it's like people subconsciously want to impress me because I impressed them.
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
This!!! It’s literally a universal law haha
@missn111
@missn111 2 месяца назад
@@VickitaTrivedi Reality is a mirror! 💞
@sarahannsmith3129
@sarahannsmith3129 2 месяца назад
Yes, I experience the same thing!
@emilyellemagic
@emilyellemagic 2 месяца назад
The pretty privilege phenomenon is the goal!
@sandirichard5461
@sandirichard5461 2 месяца назад
@@emilyellemagicit includes romanticizing your life and therefore creating romantic experiences for those you interact with.
@honeyisnatural5
@honeyisnatural5 2 месяца назад
That’s me when you said “if you find yourself always having to speak you boundaries, that means, you’re not living them.” 🙏🏽 thank you sis. I needed to hear that so much.
@Musasabi31
@Musasabi31 2 месяца назад
Something that strucked me in the books is that Serena was wearing her own signature fragrance, a blend of essential oils (patchouli and Ylang Ylang? I read the books more than 15 years ago so...), and as it's so unique to her, people recognize it instantly. Maybe my 2024 goal should be to find my signature fragrance?
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
oh ya you need a sig fragrance and gatekeep the heck outta that 🤫
@thobekamantshongo4458
@thobekamantshongo4458 2 месяца назад
"Take up space" I love that❤
@Cordelia-cep
@Cordelia-cep 2 месяца назад
1) Soft girl energy: bring some light heartedness to the environment , don’t feel defensive. Dont be ready for combat at all times. No one wants to go to war when they try to have fun. Be present in the moment. Don’t wait for the shoe to drop. Be light and playful. Let go of your insecurities. Be vulnerable to yourself and other ppl. Close your eyes. Take 3 deep breaths. Visualize a lift as you are breathing out. Imagine a green lift is going through your head and passing your throat and going into your heart. ♥️ 5:43 take up space
@jomyblack
@jomyblack Месяц назад
I decided to work on my feminine energy mostly because my therapist advised me to try to feel my feminine archetype more than masculine one. I'm actually trying to understand the differences between both energies. I decided to open this video randomly, I'm not the type of person that tries to get validation from others. And in the first part "be soft and playful" where you talk about living in the moment and try not to be always in the fight mode I almost got cry. Because I spent my entire life living in that mode because of the problems I had to fight for and the support I never got from anybody. I feel like I need to be more carefree and cheerful first for my psychological health. I just don't know how to do that, but thanks to this tip I understood what my therapist meant. So I guess I know what to work for my next encounter with her. Thank you❤️
@Melanin_so_sweet
@Melanin_so_sweet 2 месяца назад
The looks thing is SO TRUE, even with women, lol. I was out to brunch and looking great and another woman gave me a mini bundt 🎂 cause she said I was sitting there looking so pretty! Lol... got a free drink that brunch too lol. Sprinkle sprinkle ✨️
@Jiggy_Z
@Jiggy_Z 2 месяца назад
Ah my sprinkle sprinkle fam. Shera is love💋
@Melanin_so_sweet
@Melanin_so_sweet 2 месяца назад
@@Jiggy_Z yes! Love her!
@Mmmmkaaay
@Mmmmkaaay 2 месяца назад
Okay, but we're still waiting for a video about how you get your hair cut in those lovely layers and do your makeup. 🤩 Great video!
@ktyreality
@ktyreality 2 месяца назад
Ever since I started embodying my authentic feminine self and being in the present moment around people I keep hearing it’s so refreshing to see
@kopalsinghal3792
@kopalsinghal3792 2 месяца назад
The way you have summarised the energy that ones in themselves and it balances out in the universe is so apt and mind blowing. The entire video was really informative 🫂💗
@kcress456
@kcress456 Месяц назад
Absolutely blowing my mind with this content. Thank you for the tips on not being so defensive, probably my biggest flaw
@G0ddess_Kate
@G0ddess_Kate 18 дней назад
Emotional prediction is amazing. Your perception and awareness are everything 💯
@ithil-maril9141
@ithil-maril9141 2 месяца назад
Notes for myself🥰🥰 from head to heart define your own brand of femininity (what do you want to be known for? What are you known for?) don't be defensive take care care of your looks and take space just by knowing you got it make your energy linger soft delivery in boundaries but committing to them
@chelseafabbri8705
@chelseafabbri8705 2 месяца назад
You make feminine energy such an approachable concept ❤ im living in my soft girl era thanks to you which is a huge change from the girl who used to pop off or fight everyone who looked at her wrong. I have you to thank for that transformation 😊
@erikasolis14
@erikasolis14 2 месяца назад
Thx so much. Great to see you back. Hope vacay was good 💯😊
@dearbrave4183
@dearbrave4183 Месяц назад
You're heaven sent✨ I've been binge watching your videos and they are fully packed 😊❤
@knightmakonde9417
@knightmakonde9417 2 месяца назад
This video was just for me..thank youu Vickita💝
@Jiggy_Z
@Jiggy_Z 2 месяца назад
Would love to see your insights on blair’s personality too cuz she was a force to be reckoned with in the series.
@missn111
@missn111 2 месяца назад
Loving your videos and how clear and concise you go about these topics. No time wasted on fluff, straight to the good stuff! Stay blessed 💖
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
I’m so glad to hear that! Always my intention to be straightforward and valuable 💞
@ebonidaneen5639
@ebonidaneen5639 2 месяца назад
Yass so happy you're back!!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Back baby!!! 🪄🎀
@annakolenkova7060
@annakolenkova7060 2 месяца назад
love your videos! actually feel smth changing within me by just listening to you. Thank you for sharing
@stefanyeverdeen17
@stefanyeverdeen17 2 месяца назад
I watch your videos a lot but aways get mesmerized by how pretty you are
@lianawerner-gray1694
@lianawerner-gray1694 2 месяца назад
Wow so much to take away from this amazing video! You killed it again gf! My main takeaway was to be playful and be centered in pleasure rather than pain. Amen! Yay!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
thank you friend ❤
@totalshopaholic123
@totalshopaholic123 2 месяца назад
So elegant, eloquent, poised and sophisticated. Vikita, you are the epitome of THAT girl, and your content is so helpful and valuable. You summed it up perfectly- Serena's character embodies light feminine energy while Blair represents the dark feminine. I actually loved Blair's character on the show more, with her quick wit, confidence, high standards/boundaries and masterful leadership (no matter how twisted 😂) but I think a happy balance between the 2 types of energies is the perfect place to be. ❤ this video!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Wow! how kind are you!! thank you for feeling my energy ❤i like blairs energy too hehe
@spyroluver0951
@spyroluver0951 2 месяца назад
Yay good timing Queen x Thank You!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Hope you enjoyed it!
@Leda98
@Leda98 2 месяца назад
Anyone else with body dysmorphia also finds these videos really helpful? ❤
@flowerst1981
@flowerst1981 2 месяца назад
Perfect timing 2024 my goal is my hair!!!!
@kyliepine3713
@kyliepine3713 2 месяца назад
Thanks for some gr8 advice ❤
@yourhealingjourney9824
@yourhealingjourney9824 2 месяца назад
I am doing that and indeed people love being in my presence and obsessed with me
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
queeeeen energy
@riyasera1677
@riyasera1677 2 месяца назад
I love you vickita proud to have you❤
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Proud to have you back! 💞
@milomazli
@milomazli Месяц назад
oh wow! another STUNNING video!! Thank you Vickita! Especially the point regarding emotions. Small superficial question: where is your neclace from? what brand is this? i keep seeing it but cannot recall the brand. Thank you!
@KanakKumbhare
@KanakKumbhare 2 месяца назад
Mother posted 💅
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Hiiiiii ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@venus7811
@venus7811 2 месяца назад
Que buena info, tienes mucho nivel tu información es mil veces mejor que la de otras youtubers latinas que he visto gracias!
@snowworld1641
@snowworld1641 Месяц назад
She isn't Latin.
@Abbyxo-lv3wi
@Abbyxo-lv3wi 2 месяца назад
Your eyes alone ik they’re obsessed with you 😍
@vesper8190
@vesper8190 2 месяца назад
The background music is really nice
@MrLachris
@MrLachris 2 месяца назад
Great and smart video🤩😘
@tuma0814
@tuma0814 Месяц назад
I love that thanks❤
@user-rx3vy2ku1j
@user-rx3vy2ku1j 27 дней назад
example of ‘brand of femininity’ pls
@priyamalhotra5794
@priyamalhotra5794 2 месяца назад
Looking gorgeous❤
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Thank you 😊
@Literallyherrr
@Literallyherrr 2 месяца назад
0:37 5:38 9:02 11:05 13:03
@zeph7691
@zeph7691 2 месяца назад
would you consider giving irl examples of how we do these things? for example could you "act out" a way to set a boundary clearly but softly, like here's what I would say... i have trouble with putting these things into practice because i don't know how to do what you're saying!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Sure I’ll do more real life examples 😊 I’m pretty sure my previous video tip number 12 I give an example of softly saying no (don’t quote me on that lol)
@Cordelia-cep
@Cordelia-cep 2 месяца назад
1) bring some light heartedness to the environment , don’t feel defensive. Don’t wait for the shoe to drop. Be light and playful.
@shatakshipandey8014
@shatakshipandey8014 2 месяца назад
I am also trying to grow my hair. I love longer hair. would be visiting a hair stylist after six months of this really well known salon. I wanna know what style suits best on me.
@MsMjd1975
@MsMjd1975 2 месяца назад
I’ve been using the same kitsch bars
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
They’re great!
@riasarkar4653
@riasarkar4653 2 месяца назад
How would I know my brand of femininity?
@eleonore2124
@eleonore2124 2 месяца назад
Can it work when you’re « mid » ? Cause I am
@brassic1768
@brassic1768 2 месяца назад
Can you make a video on masculine energy and how to be a high value man? For the men watching. Because I enjoy some parts of feminine energy like manifesting enormous amounts of money easily (I mean why grind, take hardcore action just because I'm a man? It's illogical at this point). And yet I want to still be masculine. My father was not a strong, masculine man so I feel I need some ideas on what to model.
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Sorry I only make content for women but some masculine creators I like are hamza, Jack Hopkins, iman :)
@annado3885
@annado3885 2 месяца назад
I love your name
@salubaba05
@salubaba05 2 месяца назад
What is the feminine protocol membership and where can I find out more about it
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
It’s in the description box of this video!
@leafyvegetables1018
@leafyvegetables1018 2 месяца назад
Hello. I love watching your videos. But can I ask something/gently correct you regarding something? I do not wish to be rude, and I'm not even sure that what I'm about to say is actually the correct phrase, but i noticed that you used the same phrase before in some other video as well. Is it not "contrary to popular belief", rather than "popular to contrary belief"? English is not my mother tongue, nor my native language so i could be wrong. But I just wanted you to notice this in case it helps you ahead in life. Much love to you!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Hahahhaa you’re absolutely right, it is “contrary to popular belief” - im really bad at sayings and mix them up all the time 😂 (it’s even worse when im on my period and my brain is mush)!
@ishitaroy4427
@ishitaroy4427 2 месяца назад
How to be the source of pleasure for others?
@dandeneely
@dandeneely 12 дней назад
I order the soap a $60 order.
@ArifKhan-pz8dd
@ArifKhan-pz8dd 2 месяца назад
Hi
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 2 месяца назад
@heliahamidi9088
@heliahamidi9088 Месяц назад
❤❤
@larissasantos4006
@larissasantos4006 2 месяца назад
you look like a supermodel haha :)
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Oh thank you beautiful 🤩❤️
@crystalm3th573
@crystalm3th573 7 дней назад
So basically being a normal person? 😂 This is most women. *What sucks is at the end of the day, your worth isn’t who is obsessed with you* These “techniques” can attract loons, narcissists and creeps too. So it really isn’t a big deal. BE YOURSELF LADIES. If it’s goofy, go for it. Your person, who is meant for you, will LOVE you for it.
@bnb0510
@bnb0510 21 день назад
really? The hair pitch?!?! 🙄
@ashrefintiyana4275
@ashrefintiyana4275 2 месяца назад
Your makeup look please....😢
@sanskritijaiswal7384
@sanskritijaiswal7384 Месяц назад
Are you Indian? I mean your name😅
@mariecker187
@mariecker187 7 дней назад
Those ceilings look high. Did you ever think of using that space up there? Nice Volume, your hair has lots of oomph here. Oh I didn't mean that in any other way than sincerely...i just saw the piece on top now so I edited this again. Awkward 😬
@Melanin_so_sweet
@Melanin_so_sweet 2 месяца назад
You give thee best advice!! ❤
@Rotu11
@Rotu11 2 месяца назад
Please could you also do a video on what cosmetic procedures you’ve had done? It’s always great to hear influencers being honest and open on those things too 🫶Thanks! x
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 2 месяца назад
Only thing I’ve had done is 1/4 syringe lip filler 3 years ago! 😊 when or if I get more things done I’ll update!
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