Hamza, some of these tips aren't negative or manipulative. Some of these advices are genuinely good and will end up making you and the other people you interact with feel good. Everybody wins!
Trick number 1: Polarize. Trick number 2: Be Relatable Trick number 3: Get them to open up Trick number 4: Create an Enemy Trick number 5: Stay mysterious Enjoy the video!
But these all contradictory. You cannot be polarized and relatable unless you copy them, which makes being mysterious impossible. You stay too mysterious, you are unrelatable. You cannot get someone to open up without being trustworthy, which means you can't be mysterious, and must be relatable. Repeat. Actually smoothbrain. Alot these won't work if you arn't already attractive to them, mystery especially. You can't build trust (the most important factor in establishing a relationship. Decades of social studies back this up) The best thing you can do is gain social status within their group: this automatically makes you trustworthy and is actually as close to a "cheat code" as it gets.
Hamza I have been training muay Thai jui juitzu and mma since I was 9 now I'm 16. I just want to say from the bottom of my heart thank you for inspiring me to train when I wanted to quit.
Thank you Hamza for saving my life. Two years ago I was a loser doing all the bad habits now I can actually enjoy life even though I am doing all the uncomfortable hard tasks. I appreciate your hard work you have done for mankind.
POLARIZE: To push people to the extremes of loving you or hating you. Don't be in the middle BE RELATABLE: Be relatable to some extent but ahead in essential things. GET THEM TO OPEN UP: getting them to open up about their experiences, lives, and emotional feelings. CREATE AN ENEMY: The modern addictions, create an enemy yourself (IN group and OUT group) STAY MYSTERIOUS: not giving more info about yourself
@@spacebar3114 her: what did you do today You: take a guess Her: *says something random about something you could have done today* You: laugh, ignore her and then ask the question back or another question that will also make the conversation more lively U just gotta be creative w it. Ik i didn't give the best example but yeah u get the idea. You don't need to be boring w it just don't give away anything major or TMI. Like give the simplest answer possible. You could be funny w it too it'll help the Convo and at the same time keep you in the dark
1Polarize (extreme levels) 2Get them relate to you 3Let them open up 4Create an enemy ( to see who really cares you) 5Be mysterious ( don't reveal all thing in one time, keep it slowly this makes them more curious 🙂🙃
you can be bulk, go to the gym and sleep well to be taller you can mew to reshape your skull you can start start an online buisness to get famous work on that you blackpill dumbass
From this video i learn one new thing STAY MYSTERIOUS as if i see myself i wont take a min to tell every single shit about myself which leads to having less interest weather it is normal person or any girl whoever… well thanks for this Hamza.
Didn’t realise I was doing No.1 (Polarise) and No.4 (Create an enemy) without even thinking. I’ve always been thinking of a way to filter my friends and I wondered if it would involve being more raw to stress test their belief systems so I can simply ignore those who don’t adhere with my core values. But I love your videos because you and many other self improvement content creators have helped me go to war with comfort and the blue pill matrix.
how do you go about this? I find most people I'm friends with have belief systems I don't agree with and when it comes to meeting new people I have hard time being polarizing enough
Notes for y’all: Emotional investment - When you make people feel something toward you, you stay in their mind longer and influence them more. This is polarizing guys like Andrew Tate are so popular, you either love or hate him. So he’s either always in your heart or always in your mind. (Crazy I wrote this before number 1 which is polarize) 2. Relatability - when others can relate to us they feel more connected to us (a great way to do this is by telling stories) 3. Make them open up to you - 1. People love talking about themselves so they will like being around you more 2. They feel closer to you when they’ve told you more about them. 4. Create an enemy - When people have a common thing they are going against they feel closer. Which is why different people feel close to others on their side politically 5. Mystery - if other don’t know as much about you they will think about you more. Causing them to feel closer.
@@lucianobeaton1801 I am struggling a bit too, but I believe they mean something like this: Both of you hate for example Andrew Tate, you tell her that and how much you dislike him, she agrees. And so, If she thinks about how much she hates Andrew Tate you will pop up in her mind supporting her hate. Please correct me if I am wrong
@@swires1 ur dumb if u think hamza is on gear😂 if you put in consistent work for 4-5 years it’s attainable for anyone. I was 130 lbs 5’11 when I started now I’m 180 and damn aesthetic for an Indian guy. No cheat codes just hard work
The first tip of polarising is something that I always knew that I lacked but never knew how to explain or articulate. I’ve always been this guy who’s always in the middle, never trying to offend anybody because I’m scared of people disliking me.
Hey, Hamza! Love your videos, keep up the good work! I'm slightly confused about what you meant by ''staying mysterious'', I get the idea, but what if a person asks me a question, I can't just give out a dry answer, I want to make it seem more alive and not make that person feel bored. What I'm trying to ask is, how do I act mysterious and have people be more interested about, for example, my personality without having to reply with dry answers and keep the person stay curious?
Hey Hamza, i was wondering if you could do a short video about point 5 because on my part I mainly keep the conversation going by telling things on me and if I don't well I hardly see how I could keep it going. Love your vids anyways 👍
dude i am preparing for this HUGEE exam on a national level and just because i am sooo focused , i look like adonis , im not even that attractive and so many girls have shown their admiration just because of my attitude towards life
been focusing on what you said i made 5 new tips to improve my life 1.started a youtube channel on self improvement 2.reading books 3.journals 4.going outside more 5.mental health is key * thank u for all that you do for us
One thing that can help with step 5 (be mysterious) is to focus on being more interested and less on being interesting in conversation. Learn to ask questions. Listen. When you notice that you’re wanting to open up, try to think of questions to ask the other person. This is much easier than you think because naturally, people love talking about themselves. So when they leave the conversation, they leave feeling good because they didn’t realize in the moment, but they were talking about their self the entire time. Feeling good about their accomplishments, achievements, etc.
I have been using psychological manipulation for years now to make people always think of me, the problem is that only other men are affected and they all consider me a brother and always reaching out to me
Hey Hamza, I'm 15 have been living the Jeffrey lifestyle since the beginning of my teenage years. Roughly 3 weeks ago though I started to work out, watched your videos on how to better myself mentally and be more likeable. It's all working out so far, and I'm already improving my physical looks I do have one issue, I can't go to the gym yet. I'm doing as much as I can with what I've got at home, but I just don't have the equipment for a lot of things. I'm planning on buying a gym membership when I have my license and can pay for it myself which will be in roughly a year and a half. Any tips for how I can do some workouts I would in the gym while being at home without equipment in the meantime?
Today I asked a girl out after some time again, after so many times making excuses to not shooting my shot. To be honest, I just had no courage. I didnt live with my heart open, even it could hurt. Well anyway, I got rejected but it still feels good. There is no loss. There was nothing to lose. There is only learning or winning. Doing better. Every day. The pain of regret is bigger than the pain of rejection. Thanks to Hamza's words I heard in my head, I got more pushed to shooting my shot.
Don’t worry bro I got rejected the other day because I fumbled bad and looked so nervous , she was so pretty and works in thsi shop I really wanted to get her number , but I failed , it just made me realise I need to hit the gym and sort my self out , but I need to chat to girls more and ask more girls for there numbers and just chat, there’s many times I get signals from girls that they are wanting me to talk to them , literally the day I spoke to that girl it was raining and this girl stood beside me well super close and I know she wanted me to go and chat to her but I fucked up and the other month and beautiful blonde girl came up to me asking if I was waiting for the cash machine and she could clearly see I was but all these times I fucked up and didn’t take my chance and it’s sad when I think about it , I need to make change I am 22 I need to fix up real talk 🙏
I have reservations about the idea of creating an enemy. It seems like it would be healthier to be for an alternative, more than being against something.
Staying mysterious is the best advice ever. In my case, this was the hardest thing to overcome because I naturally talk a lot but it changed my dating life. Less is more...
love the "do you think it sounds controversial to make people obsessed with you using psychological tricks? Yes", "do you want to do it anyway? Hehe Yes" LMFAOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! Bro no cap I didnt like you before, now I am like dayum this guy is awesome
I just found your Channel a few days after I _woke up_ - you're giving me a nice addition to my mindset and showing me, that I'm on the right way. Thanks for that, keep up the great work.
Imagine that some people mock hazma becuase of this... man what is wrong with you life if you don't like hazma, he literally teaches how to get a good life.
I can confirm the 2nd point. Im a young boy from Bangladesh living in the UK and im obsessed (no homo) with ur content far more than other self imporvement youtubers because of how relatable u are to me (we had similar problems with girls back in school because we thought we were brown, we even both have asymmetrical ears lol)
just manipulate people into thinking ur something ur not lol... if you gotta do all of this just to attract a girl idk what to say sad... but hey if your a young kiddo try it but dont be mad when you dont see results in youre adult years this aint for everyone not everyone can do this just keep that in mind and you wont be as disappointed ☺
Hamza I am extremely grateful for your videos, but I do have one constructive criticism - you should go into more depth, more examples, especially with these topics. The intro finished at around the 3 or 4 minute mark, which leaves us with 1 minute per point, and that’s only enough for a ‘foot in the door’ knowledge sharing in my opinion. Once again, thank you so much for your insanely valuable videos, my more dedicated/devoted,so to speak, self improvement journey is marked by one of your videos that I’ve watched a year ago, and I went through some ridiculous progress. I still have a long way to go, but I’m not gonna quit. Thank you again for guiding us through
I don't know how relevant it is to this video but i think that if you are making efforts in order to make her fall for you then shes not the one, yaa if you just want to get in her pants then maybe but one thing is for sure that the one who will love you, will fall for you every day,no efforts required, i can guarantee that....
Basically you re that kind of person which women should must avoid, Unless she's jus like you there for sex . . . Always be a high value/ Man Of Integrity guys! Stay true to one woman wait till you found right soul mate! Even she's average looking but well groomed and charismatic personality cos she's the one will help you to achieve you goal qnd will nurture yr kid which leads us a better society!
I have subconsciously started polarizing people more and more. Before, I tried to be nice to everyone but now I polarize so much that I Have been considered extreme and harsh by some of my friends, that I think I need to take a step back. I don't really know how to get people to open up to me, but I try to be more mysterious. I don't ask any boring yes or no questions, and I try to ask more open-ended questions and I don't reveal much about myself anymore. Oversharing is just not hot.
Hamza thank you for all advice because now I have a great girlfriend who I love and who loves me and I couldn’t have done it without your help thank you 🙏
