Guys this isn't even about playing toxic games. He's literally talking about resting and thriving in your feminine energy, being a hard woman to get with boundaries, knowing how to give a man space when he pulls back, never chasing, and giving the masculine the opportunity to win you over by pursuing you and enjoying its thrill.
It is games. You’re manipulating the situation in order to get someone to like you when the real answer is to change your self concept and believe in yourself and everything else will just naturally come to you without any effort because it’s always about you not them.
What I don't understand that a man shows interest and you starting playing games while you know what he wants and where you heading why you playing games I try games with handsome men they know what ur doing they see you as freak and he ghost you forever 😅
3:00 These tactics are preparing the way of making him infatuated. "By being inconsistent he'll want to figure you out. You 1st want to create a space in his head, to create an infatuation. And the way to do that is: 1. Being weak and making him think you like him 2. Being inconsistent and making you think you are crazy 3. By insinuation, a subtle attack on his insecurities, insinuate that he lacks things that attract you (then change the subject) 4. Make seeing you a little bit more difficult, create barriers like "Don't call me baby, going too fast, no.. or friend-zone him: I like you, but I think we should just be friends PEOPLE VALUE MORE THINGS THAT THEY WORK FOR. Give him a little taste, then back off.
Understand: these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY and really-truly-honestly completely and totally underwhelming! Take a step back and realize it’s YOU who makes them so special, in your own delusional mind. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. If you're avoidant, you most likely have said to family members - who had a major role in your childhood: "You only accepted me or liked me when I was happy/obedient/emotionless." This one simple statement fits with ALL the core symptoms of avoidant attachment: 1. Being overly self-reliant (and in doing so, you hide your needs, emotions, problems, and acute illnesses) 2. Pushing down anger until it explodes and manufactures the boundaries you crave but can't/don't/won't always ask for 3. Not wanting to burden others with your problems 4. Wanting to fix your own issues to avoid looking incompetent or even getting bullied and teased/mocked 5. Numbing out emotions with self-soothing behaviors that are either totally unhealthy or pseudo-healthy (like getting addicted to working out and healthy eating) Remember ALWAYS this process is all about YOU!!! Not him. He is just a catalyst. Consider, he may be your twin flame. Look into that. After he initiated your trauma, you're now left to deal with and to heal: all that has come to the surface. GOOD! This is a blessing. Albeit painful. A necessary blessing, nonetheless. HUGE-HUGE gift! Major advice!!! Listen closely!!! NEVER ever EVER CHASE HIM. He will run further and you will lose yourself more. You are the feminine. You are the divine goddess. You just be and approve (or disapprove) whoever comes along. It's a yes: you meet my requirements, or: it's a no, you do not. Be clear on whom you're accepting as a partner and DO NOT settle for less (or you just delay what's actually really divinely meant for you). Accept your struggle, anxiety, fear, sadness. Whatever comes up. It's all human, and in need of your attention. If you push it away, deny it, block it, hide it, or run from it... You will just have to deal with it later... And when later comes, those emotions will be: intensified/amplified/magnified! 1) Put yourself first and foremost! 2) Fall in love with yourself. Be your own dream girl. 3) Rejection is redirection. Embrace the energies of miraculous possibilities. And, Any time you have a painful thought/memory/flashback/worry/belief: 1. Find the belief... 2. Write 11 DISADVANTAGES to having the belief 3. Write 11 ADVANTAGES to having the belief If you can NOT find advantages then that’s EXACTLY why you're stuck!! When you finally see both sides... Your mind will STOP thinking about it 'cause your brain will be rewired. So you gotta keep at it, until you find the positive to the negative... And therefore, ultimately rewire your brain! AND REMEMBER: STOP making it all about manifestation when really, it's actually all about VIBRATION! 1. Never EVER-EVER under any circumstance: chase a man. 2. Do not support a man financially. NEVER EVER. 3. Never compare your man to another man. 4. Never ever dive in, when a man says , "I'm not ready for a relationship". HUGE! RED! FLAG! 5. Stop feeling like you are needing to prove yourself worthy. 6. Never tell a man over and over again what he already knows he is doing is wrong. (The issue is: he does not care. He does not give a damn! That's why he ain't doing better!) 7. Never force a man to do his part. (He doesn't want to be with you, if you have to force anything!) 8. Never EVER try to control a man so he won't cheat. (Your part is to observe him, so you know who the fuck he really is!)
I find this rather soooooo easy on guys I dont really like at first 😂 I don't even think about it because I'm so detached... I prefer guys who like me wayyyyy more than I like them and I tend to like them later through their efforts and this is why I don't bother with men who I really really like! It never goes well! So if you wanna win, give the guys you don't like that much "at first" a chance and you'll eventually do through their actions, i.e gifts, efforts, help, dates, shopping, trips whatever... Call me weird but I don't want to be with men that Im crazy about!! And every since taking this decision, Ive received nothing but peace and I tend to respect these men more... ❤
This isnt a lie at all. It took 35 years to get this concept. There is a difference between YOU choosing a man (ala you REALLY liking him) and a man CHOOSING YOU. It never goes wwll when the woman likes a man more.
@@keykeiling6225exactly.. mine is a CEO. Used to get 2k allowance. I’m in no contact for a month. He reached out. I left him on read. I need atleast 6k to take him back 😂
That would be strange to be sent a cashapp out of nowhere from a man your not seriously even saying. Never seen that happen in real life outside of sugar babies /escorts before
Ion know what kind of dudes he talking about but the masculine 🥷s I know, you sitting up talking about/complimenting another man in front of him will be the last time you’ll see him. Think about it ladies, if a man talking about who he likes and he’s out with me??? Nope, that’s a disrespectful red flag, I’m out!
This sounds like it can get someone interested in you, but it doesn’t sound like it’s a set up for a long-term relationship, I’m genuinely curious about how you think that this kind of cat and mouse type game will help with a long-term relationship? Hope you might respond to this thanks.
You can do this with avoidant men because this is still in their nature they just may not show it or react the same way but if they like you they will comply.
My bf was avoidant, this worked on him when I started to get fed up with his bs. He came around full circle, now it’s like I’m dating a whole new human being.
@@brittneyharvey2917 thank you. I don’t want to ruin anything when he’s said in the past I’m a little too cold. I’m worried I’m becoming too warm now. I hate always having to be so strategic though. I wish I could relax more. Does your avoidant have open convos with you? I’ve started being more vulnerable with mine unlike the past and I’m having better results. Which is why I’m afraid to pull back like I did in the past
Every avoidant is different it depends on the severity of the avoidant. If emotional vulnerability is working for you and getting results then great. Hot cold is part of avoidance, the only way that’s going to change is through therapeutic work, so if you’re using these tactics to try and get an unhealed avoidant to change you are more than likely wasting your time. Being with an avoidant is like playing a game of chess with land mines, work on your own security and your own attachment style. If he’s taking you for granted outside of the realms of normal avoidant behaviour and you’re at your wits end, then try whatever, you have nothing to lose, but I would strongly suggest looking at detachment, that’s the only way you’ll survive an avoidant relationship, as I’m guessing as you’re here you aren’t coping to well with the behaviours.
Also keep in mind, avoidants aren’t aliens, they still have the same biological urges that all humans do. Sometimes you can focus on the attachment style so much you can forget they are still human.
Just found your channel. It's the first time I've explored the idea of strengthening my masculine energy to protect my feminine energy. I put out a feminine energy coloring book called recharging the divine feminine that encourages women to embrace their divine feminine. Would be fun to pick your brain. I like your perspective on the topic, definitely subscribing! Thank you
@@SerenityVerse_ Agreed. If you have to play games to get someone to like you, you will have to keep playing games to keep them. Just be you. Who is meant for you will love you, the real you!
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Fainting weakness is essentially acting like the damsel in distress. "This is so heavy, can you help me?" and then praise him "wow, you're strong. I could never. Thanks!"
Feminine, soft women resting in their feminine energy don’t need to do all that to attract a guy lol. If you need to play mind games to attract a guy you need to seriously reevaluate yourself as a woman.
