You guys don’t understand how she felt in this scene, she was close to harming herself & she was angry, upset, & sad. He shocked her & she blew up at him.
honestly she was rude but also i think he was a little sensitive. He knew she was about to hurt herself he saw so he should have knew she was just freaking out and trying to self sabotage herself and stuff and told her that they would talk later or hug her or something
@@trayweathersby7490 well either way she said facts even if it hurt him. They both can’t keep meeting up in secret when they have partners. When she called him a loser & slow now that was mean yes.
@@jennellrobinson1264 Yeah. Technically but overall, you could come across situations like that and some which he can’t handle on his own. I hope there’s a season 2
@@d.c.741 wtf. If you saw a friend or a family member of yours s3lf h@rm!ng you would NOT be laughing. Also mental health isn't "cringe" it's a real thing that Soo many people including me go through.
This. Why is everyone blaming Ginny in this scene and defending Marcus? I get that hes in love with her but I would be pretty upset too if someone climbed through my window without my consent and catching me off guard in that way.
As someone who’s self harmed in the past, I would’ve reacted the same way. When you’re in that state of mind you don’t think anyone really cares about you or could ever possibly love you. Of course she can be a bitch and super annoying but this scene shows she’s human and can be self destructive like anyone else. She’s still a kid. Both did things they shouldn’t. Like if I was Marcus in this situation I wouldn’t have left because I know she doesn’t even mean anything she’s saying.
letting y’all know that when someone burns themselves sometimes they do it to help get their emotions out but since marcus interrupted her while she was harming herself the emotions went to marcus so her lashing out on him wasn’t cuz she’s annoying or whatever y’all call her sometimes it was cuz she was in a low state and didn’t think someone would see her like that
@@dagmarreinaerdts7811 I agree. I can clearly see she's hurting so much. I just don't understand why. But IDC at the moment. Hurt is hurt. Someone needs to help her before things get worst.
@@MaretuX yea she is a TEENAGERRR she got moved around a lot she has no friends no family she doesn’t know her mom she found out her moms a murder on her own, we can see Georgias life and Ginny’s… that’s exactly why we understands where goergia is coming from and why she did what she did. Ginny can only see her own life why do you think when the mom started to open up and tell Ginny everything ginny began to act more nice and open up with her mom. Every action is a reaction to another action yall gotta realize.
I don't understand why people are mad only at Ginny in this scene. Yeah, she can be annoying and kind of a brat, but I don't think it's all her fault. She's messed up as a result of the terrible way she grew up in, which was Georgia's fault and Zion's as well. She constantly moves around, has no home, no friends, a complicated family situation. She finally starts to find her place and then something has to unravel. It's hella frustrating when all you ever get is lies. So she self harms because she's mentally in pain. She was upset at that moment and we all knew she didn't meant it cause she hurried to apologize to him. One of the thing that most annoy me is how most people are ready to cut Marcus slack because he's attractive. He's just as flawed as Ginny. He's also kind of a brat, he repeatedly tried to get with Ginny although he knew she was in a relationship and she asked him not to pursue a relationship with her, he was a complicated ass to her in the beginning of the show, and he hurts her feeling just as much as she hurts his. And in this scene, he saw what she was doing, he knew she wasn't stable or okay , he told her that himself later on, yet still he chose to confuse her even more by telling her he loves her. I understand both sides, but seriously, cut her some slack too.
Exactly he wasn’t an angel either, he was messing around with her in the beginning of the show and gave insanely mixed signals. In this scene I think she’s also mad at him because she loves him but he’s never shown before that he wants a serious relationship. If she were to get together with him then it could ruin everything for her and he might not even be faithful to her; so it would have all been for nothing and ultimately she would loose everything.
as someone who’s been cutting for a year now ( a week clean !!) i think it was reasonable for her to blow up on him. she took her frustrations out on him because burning herself was a way of coping and letting her feelings release and when he stopped her she still had that all built up. she didn’t know what to do so she took it out on him.
At 2:03 you can really see it in Marcus eyes she really hurt him by those comments I understand she was hurting as well but he almost made me cry cuz he really loved her…this whole scene was full of emotions🥺 Great show btw can’t wait for season 2!!!!
She reminds me of Star Carter from the move (the hate you give) written by Angie Thomas. By the way, it is a good Movie. Go and watch it. Differen story telling, but very Identical girl.
I mean she had a shit childhood, her mom sleeping with guys for their money, her mom getting abused, even ne of the husbands made sexual moves towards ginny, Georgia lied ot ginny and even tho it was to protect her something like that would still hurt, i mean imagine finding out ur mother has committed murders
i feel upset that people just took this scene as she was just acting like a brat. like ik i agree she is not my favorite character but does nobody see how she is deflecting marcus’s question over and over again. she is saying alll of those things to hurt him so he goes away and stops asking, i mean why else was she so eager to apologize so quick. besides from the fact that he almost died.
From someone who self harms, I personally think Ginny has a valid reason to lash out on Marcus. I wouldn't like it at all if someone came in like that, and people need privacy too
@@ryleereynolds5710 yh i understand that but when you self harm you're usually in a really bad mood and pessimistic, honestly i feel like its not really anyones fault but ginny had a reason to do that and i think its completely valid
I agree with you, when someone sees you self harming/knows about it, it puts you in a really hard, vulnerable place. I know it’s been a while, but I just wanted to ask how you’re doing, and let you know that you may not know me personally, but I care about you, and am here for you if you’d ever like to talk or vent!
I’m really sorry to hear you struggling, Ginny was in a hard place, and she had a lot of really difficult emotions. Her feelings are completely valid. I’m here for you if you’d like to talk!
self harm in this show is represented so well they didn't show it in tragic detail all they did was show the lighter at her door at night and that was enough also she's accrute
I understand why people hate ginny but i personally don't, yes she is a brat, but she has every right to be mad, maybe not take it out on marcus but we all make mistakes and honestly as much as i love marcus it is creepy. she's been through a lot and is just a kid really
There's a storm happening right before self-harming. It's a suffocating, chaotic, stomach turning feeling. To be stopped right before finding relief?...You'll cut someone down in a flash to protect yourself and keep that one thing you have safe.
Sorry but he should respect her privacy. Its fucking creepy and weird having someone interrupt you by climbing through your window while you’re going through something personal and I think Ginnys reaction was comepletely normal, I would have blown my head off at Marcus if he randomly kept climbing in through my window without my consent.
I understand Ginny In this scene. As someone who hurt themself in the past you just get angry at anyone and everyone you don’t listen to the people that truly care about you, all you can think about is the bad things and getting out of that place. If I was Marcus I would’ve stayed bc I knew she needed it but I do get that he left bc he felt hurt and felt it was his fault but he didn’t know what to do so he just left
I don't think Ginny's ungrateful or annoying, I think she's finally fed up with secret keeping from her mom now that she's found a place that she wants to call home for herself. She didn't know about her mom's family, or that her aunt only came in town to get dirt on Georgia for money, and since she doesn't know she's going to make assumptions. I feel like people forget that Ginny's used to being more of the adult in this mother and daughter relationship. And then there's all these years of frustrated balled up feelings while she's trying to remain calm and keep them in, eventually it all exploded at one point of another. She needed more than a lecture from a parent or an understanding friend at this point, which is why I'm glad she eventually told a parent about her harming herself so that she could get help. Then there's the fact that she's a teen transitioning in the world, making friends, falling in love, having sexual experiences for the first time, wrap this altogether and you get a powder keg.
Why do you guys hate her so much? she's going through so much and ya she can be selfish but we can. I relate to her so much. I feel bad for Marcus in this scene but I also do for ginny she was hurting herself she has alot going on. I relate to her she's a relatable character
Her tough times don’t excuse half of the shit she did throughout the show, this scene is excusable but so much of the shit she did was so unnecessary and she was just an awful friend and girlfriend
@@laylanamkcaj2314 yeah we definitely could. but i'd get smacked in the face if i even tried to be disrespectful to woman that also gone through shit but still be tryna raise me. I get her man, but the disrespect that she has on her mom everytime is the what bothers me :/
I don’t hate Ginny. I think she’s going through a lot, because Georgia is unstable and Georgia’s the reason that Ginny never has a stable childhood, which keeps getting her to move away more rather than staying, which becomes unhealthy for Ginny, because all she wants is to have a stable life, without her mother making rash decisions. Georgia is the one who’s messed up, because she never went for professional help, never take any responsibilities for her own actions, and more importantly she is always controlling. I mean, Georgia has no absolute right to tell Ginny who she can or cannot love. As I keep seeing more of Ginny, I think the reason why she was with Hunter, because she wasn’t sure if she was in love with Marcus, but then she realized that she does love Marcus as she sees her Dad’s, Zion, relationship with Georgia. I think Ginny is trying to figure out her feelings about Marcus, but didn’t want to tell her friends, because she didn’t want to hurt them. I think it shows that Ginny is a good person, who is trying to find where ends can meet.
thank you.. how are you honesty supposed to act if your moms literally changed her whole identity and killed people.. don’t get me wrong i understand why georgia didn’t want to tell her but I feel for ginny.
I understand her so much in that scene I m sooty for you Marcus yes you don’t deserve that but you showed up at the worst time ever she was in pain about to burn herself her reaction is kinda a protection and what you said is amazing thank you for loving her but when you’re not used to love and your mom just said that and you’re in that kind of pain it’s difficult to be happy about it
Haven't watch the show, yet but I know the hate this character gets and it's like she a very real character to show the unresolved trauma your parents face always leads to you...
@@jaybra2429 You're not a normal teenager if you do the things she does. This show relates to narcissistic, ego maniacal and borderline sociopathic behaviors. This show is a complete joke to make mentally screwed teenagers throw away all forms of accountability and blame it on everything else but themselves.
@@coreywho2972 ginny is the most realistic acting teenage girl with self hatred issues that I’ve seen in a show. You won’t truly relate to her unless you’re black or mixed with black. She’s acting completely normal given her background and trauma.
@@Jedilord882 Polynesians face harsher and worse generational trauma then blacks. You have such a moronic way of exclusively thinking that "you won't understand unless your black or mixed with black" thats so stupid and moronic hahaha. Americans really love to act like black people are the only ones on this planet with problems. She is just an self entitled, inflated ego, selfish Brat. Just like you and many other Americans.
@@coreywho2972 polynesian suffer worse than African Americans in America? We’re talking about AMERICA my guy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Edit: Using the term “blacks” let’s me know you’re just a lowkey racist lol
@@coreywho2972 I’ve never cheated , I’m definitely not immature , or entitled . I just feel like she was a teenager learning to grow up , and had some fuck ups on the way . Not saying she wasn’t an ass at times , but I did somewhat like her character . You seem like the immature one if you completely assumed something about someone from a RU-vid comment . lol .
I actually don’t hate Ginny. She is annoying sometimes, but she is only human. The reason she acts so bratty and selfish is because her past is so messed up, and she isn’t exactly having the time of her life, she’s probably traumatized. Not to forget that Georgia, as cool as she can be, in some situations isn’t the best mother.
I suddenly have this thought that he would be great as well in the role of Conrad in The Summer I turned pretty. He has that rude boy vibe too but with a gentle heart.
Bro I hate the fact everyone can’t see why this character is lashing out the way she is ever. When it comes to Georgia it’s obvious why she is so upset with her. Georgia got into a relationship with a rich man for his money knowing that he was pretty touchy with her daughter and she never apologized or asked if Ginny was okay? Then she moves her life over and over and doesn’t even want to tell her why. So if you were a teen and you saw evidence that your mom was a murderer and that she wasn’t taking her son stabbing a kid w a pencil seriously, you would think hmmm maybe my mom isn’t a good person? You guys are all acting like Ginny isn’t a realistic character to have sympathy for.
People don’t understand in what state of mind she was in that scene. And she said these things to Marcus so he wouldn’t ask question about her SH. That’s was her defense so nobody would know about that. I know what she said was wrong but at the same time I can totally understand her.
I actually do understand how she feels here… he came in at a wrong time and she was still confused and trying to calm herself. When she yelled “Don’t come back” she was actually trying to save herself from embarrassment that if she sounded rude or anything
Every one talking about i feel bad for Marcus in this seen but I feel bad for Ginny through the whole season. especially in this scene her whole life is a lie
Her character aggravates me. People always say “well she goes through alot” and its like well yeah everyone does but the way she makes everyone seem like their the issue and she’s not is annoying. Her mom tries to protect her from the family who molested her, she don’t listen. Georgia again to give Ginny the life she couldn’t have & tries to make sure she doesn’t make the same mistakes she did. When Abby needed help because her parents were divorcing and Ginny had the nerve to cut her off at the table was rude as well. I can go on🤦🏽♀️😭
I know right and when said to Abby something like “it’s not always about you” I was like whaaaaat it’s literally the other way around girl but k. I mean I don’t hate Ginny because she’s still the main character but she’s annoying asf
Finally someone with sense 🤦🏽♀️ Ginny gets away with TOO MUCH. “I have things going on in my life” so does everyone else girl trust me you’re not alone.
I really don't know what to think about Ginny in this one, bc I get why she treats Marcus like that, she was going through a lot and she felt embarrassed bc Marcus discovered her harming herself. But in the other hand there was no need for screaming all those nasty things to him bc she knows he goes through a lot too. The thing is, you don't get to be a bitch to others because of your suffering, its just wrong. I'm sorry if you disagree on this one
I don’t get all the hate that Ginny received . I mean she is just a teenager . Like your were the perfect little angel of snowflake when your were that age . You never got mad at your parents ? Even if sometimes they didn’t deserved it ? Your were always the perfect friend . You didn’t have any flaws ? Think about that before judging her next time
I cannot stand Ginny from the first season but I will forever defend her on this one. When you're in that mindset you're gonna be angry and feel like no one loves you. She was mean but 100% had a right to be
In scenes like these she’s a good actress I just wish the show was written better and that her character wasn’t like so annoying sometimes but for the people who got mad at her in these scene you don’t get it. She was gonna hurt herself and then she got caught off guard and wanted to push Marcus away so she wouldn’t admit what she was doing. Selfharm can be very secretive and addictive and you’ll destroy anything as long as no one knows or stops you. It’s so isolating so I feel for her in this scene
This is why shes my favorite. because the pain she felt was real. if I was self harming and someone came in on me...this is what I would do. yell and scream to make that person go away so they dont see this side of you.
Not to mention he has pretty privilege. If he was moderately attractive-ugly, he would be considered a weirdo... So,,, yeah :| (I like Marcus too, don’t worry-)
I really felt so bad for Jinny because that tells you something that she is going through a lot in her life and as a girl I don’t think he should have came up in her room like that I love Marcus but they do have things called privacy
Marcus definitely deserves better because ginny is hating on him all the time and he never said anything wrong about her he was always talking good about her and treated her the best so I think even if ginny was angry in this scene this is not the only scene where she yelled at him
she lied, she betrayed, she cheated, she made everything about herself, she was beyond selfish, she put herself over everyone and then condemned everyone for doing the same (when sometimes they weren’t even doing the same)
The reason behind these things are here childhood trauma and neglect. She needed stability so how can people expect her to know how to love when she needs to be loved herself
My heart broke for my boy Marcus in this scene. I get Ginny was dealing with a lot, but you never should take it out on and treat someone like that. Felt so bad for him.
I can tell some people in these comments that relate to her have hurt the wrong people knowingly or unknowingly and don't care because it's about themselves. Life is hard yes I get that. But don't last out upon others because of your own hurt. It's wrong there's NO excuse for it. There can be UNDERSTANDING but still there's NO EXCUSE. Think about it. The ones who hurt and abuse you what about they're past trauma if they have any not all do. But still it can be the source of a lot. The ones who put you through stuff is something your becoming just like! Break that cycle!!! Stop hurting others just because your hurt. Your pain is no excuse to justify the actions you do towards others.
