Marriage Be Hard Podcast | Tahir & Farren Moore 

Dang I wished Liss was here for this one. I would love to hear her thoughts

Poly isn't for me I'm just here for the shenanigans🤣

It was so funny seeing Kevin blush and be a bit uncomfortable at the same time. (But not judgmental) I could see the wheels in head turning a hundred miles per minute

when two ADULTS decide to love each other in a non-traditional way. It's non of our business, period. Tahir anf Farren married EACH other and NOT us. Unless, we are paying their bills,living in their house. It's none of our business. Wishing them both the best and much love❤, and success.

Whatever Melissa's perspective on this conversation would've been, it would've been epic to hear!

Shout out to Kev for the cool, adept way he handled this interview.

I have so much respect for Farren and Tahir for publicly sharing their truth. ❤ So proud of yal!

Kev is getting better and better with interviewing guest. Love Farren and Tahir. Even in their nontraditional relationship you can tell they prioritize each other. As they said repeatedly communication is key

This makes a ton of sense! Met them in Niagara Falls shortly after I started following the whole crew. Farren kept telling Tahir to take a pic with me. I didn't know they were married but figured they were together. After, I remember thinking, I love how secure this woman is! Do what works for you always!!! Also, they were very cool!

This is like a laugh to keep from crying situation. 😢 I grieved watching this.

From the love hour episode to this one they seem MUCH happier. That’s all that matters.

I love Tahir and Farren so much with their transparency on this non traditional journey. And Kev, for his genuine apology and concern when Tahir shared that his feelings was hurt, from what Kev said. I want to have friends like them when I grow up!

This was tough for me to watch and I'm not sure why. I love this Krew and am listening to learn. I wish them the very best in their union.

Please get Tim and Chia on this show.

I am not sold. Sounds like he really isn't game, but he wants to make/keep his wife happy. Then again, I'm all for it. If you like it, we love it!

I already know it's about to be a good time in the studio....Tahir & Farren are hilarious & their communication is top notch! Farren: "I actually get joy, from seeing him pleased" Tahir: "she's usually holding the camera" ----> Kev's face & internal scream was too funny!

Tahir is one of these comedians that you know comes from pain. All he wants to do is to make ppl happy cause that’s what was missing for him in his past. I hope he is happy and Farren that piece of the puzzle that makes them both whole and blissful.

Kevin is a good interviewer

Farren looking so good! I'm loving this hair color and lip color on her 😍

As poly person it definitely requires a lot of communication and forces you to be self aware and honest about your feelings, ego and desires.

I love Tahir and Farren. Together they are Hilarious!! IDC who or what they do, them my people!! #StL

This is deep. Wow. I can respect their openness about this and having a real conversation.

My favorite part was watching all of Kevin’s faces 😂😂😂😂 he said, “y’all really be having seks and other people be there” LMAOOOO

What a beautiful nonjudgmental conversation. If they’re happy, that’s all that matters!

What I have learned from this conversation is that as long as the ppl who are involved are cool with it then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks/says about their marriage/relationship #CousinTabSaysAndThatsTheirBusiness

I appreciate this candid conversation.

When kev said the confidence is key when Tahir said vilification 😂

Tahir and Fanneen, I have questions. But I respect and appreciate your openness. So I'm going to keep my Christian love comments to myself. Lol

I love this for them! When you think about how much love it takes for someone to truly see you living your best life, with or without them, they are exercising love in a way that some people may never even get a glimpse of.

I have no desire to be in a polyamorous relationship or marriage, but I truly appreciate you having this couple on and hearing them discuss their marriage. If it works for you who tf cares what anybody else thinks 💚

This was a great convo! Thank you all. (We still missed you Lis)

This has been a great series and I'm excited to see a conversation with Farren and Tahir!

Loved this episode! I didn't know that Farren and Tahir were in this type of relationship! I love when couples define what works for them and keep an open mindset no matter what society says! Kudos to them.

Tahir and Farren >>> such a fun loving couple! ❤ wishing them a long and happy marriage 🫶🏾

I'm sooo happy they broke down the behind the scenes of a poly relationship. Thank you for breaking down the emotions and boundaries that comes with this.

I appreciate the HONEST LOVE . So many times one person is in an OPEN relationship and the other person is in a committed relationship.

I never knew. Not my thang but interesting. It does make me want to have more open and honest conversations in my marriage, in general. So thank you for sharing😃

Great conversation. Walked away with a new pov of poly relationships Shout-out to Tahir and Farren for being so open and honest.

Thank you Tahir and Farren for sharing!

And the church said Amen! This is wonderful and needed!

Great conversation. You have to respect Tahir's humility putting his business out. To accept not being enough and letting his wife lead. Continue to love on each other.

Loved this convo!! I love how secure and confident Farren is! I wanna be like her when I grow up 🥺

Love Tahir and Fareen, these two can do no wrong. Open, honest, and supportive!

I’m really learning a lot here. Thank you all.

Guys, you are spiritual being , this will affect your lives in the long run!

I just love them. And as long as they are happy and healthy than I love it!

Very interesting and informative episode. I'm glad farren and tahir are so open and free to tell their story and journey. Even the uncomfortable moments

Really really really good conversation. So healthy and candid. And funny 🤣Answered a few questions I had. Much appreciated. 👌🏿

their love hour episode was so beautiful, you could tell they were monogamous back then, very different attitudes. how tahir talks now i could tell their relationship was different. and that’s their life ❤️

This is a very interesting conversation. I respect their truth and how they told this story Not for me, but for those who feel the same way it makes good dialogue on how to bring this to your partner and how to respond without judgment

This was such a great conversation. I love learning new information, especially concerning relationships.

Sheeeesh! Ain’t no hate like Christian love. Wheeew!!

This is my 3rd time watching this and I always appreciate the openness and honesty of Tahir and Farren. Finding out what will work is your marriage should the main goal of every married couple. I love and respect the talk and with each watch I take away something new.

This is the definition of friendship! I am thankful for the honesty and transparency.

I'm loving this clear expectation and understanding of polyamory.

“Compersion is related to “sympathetic joy,” which is our wholehearted participation in the happiness of others. It includes the positive thoughts, emotions, and sensations derived from knowing of another person's gratifying experience, even when this experience does not involve or benefit us directly.” Something not everyone has but something more people should strive to have.

I love Farren & Tahir. This was such a good conversation! Great interview Kev!

I kind of already knew from their other podcast, but it’s dope you two are being completely transparent with your inner life.

I don’t know this couple and while I don’t find their lifestyle Christian and it is not covered by the blood per the Bible, God gives us free will and they’ve made their choice. I also don’t understand why people not claiming to be Christian are being attacked by Christians, I’m not sure what a Christian’s expectation would be. They have made the rules for their relationship and they appear very happy with each other. This was an interesting conversation and I appreciate them being open, honest, and sharing their journey. Also, Kev…it seems like Tahir was doing this for Farren after listening to the story😂😂😂

Thank you Farren and Tahir for sharing with us. I know close minded ppl don’t make this easy. I really enjoyed the conversation

I really appreciate this conversation. I have been waiting for them to discuss their transition.

“I still have standards, that you’re on the outside of”

Different things work for different for everyone… as long as you’re happy😊

This episode was amazing! Wish Melissa was here though. I love Farren and Tahir's relationship, thanks for sharing! 🖤I aspire to be a lil more like Farren in my relationship.

I've been waiting to see Farren and Tahir!!!

Come through COMPERSION!!❤❤❤

I haven’t even finished the episode yet. But I LOVE it. I remember their story and follow their podcast. I kind of thought that they would be open to be open or at some point poly based off how open and understanding they are. I think a fair share of marriages are headed in this direction. Because people are starting to see that you can really love your partner but also transition over time and want more or something different. Glad that this conversation is had especially on Kev and Liss’ platform. I live that they are open to have this conversation.

I love their relationship ❤

I think it's awesome they were so close to have this conversation and understand each other.

I'm just glad people can make their marriages work.

Liss we missed you on this one. Kev seemed a little uncomfortable but I loved the conversation. Tahir and Farren are comfortable about who they are and what makes them happy. I loved seeing them unapologetically them.

I saw them on “The Honey Do List” and thought “ohhh they’re cute.” Forgot they had done this interview. Learning so much

I've been looking forward to this interview for a while.

For her to say she’s “Different” but started the conversation off with “I know I’m not the only one” right there is where I said “It’s not that you’re different, you just have a mentality of every other woman out there that thinks boys will be boys, & that you know you not the only one” I get so tired of women trying to convince themselves that they are open to thing’s that they know deep down in their hearts they want a guy that can be 100% faithful to them. That’s the problem with people who think like that & have that mentality “ Boys will be Boys “ NO. How about take accountability for the thing’s you participate in & understand that just as much as HE play a role in the outcome, you do too. Granted, there are people out here who truly live that lifestyle. And is happy & know who they are and okay with the life they live. I’m not speaking to those people. I’m speaking towards the women with her mentality that thinking they aren’t the only one, so let me remove the word “Infidelity” & open up the relationship to have relations with other women. The fact that she mentioned she “Encouraged” him to have relations with other women, right here is where my ears were completely off and I knew everything else that she would say isn’t based on the fact of her being “Different” A lot of ppl listen to things, but don’t really listen to what a person is saying. At the end of the day the root of it wasn’t because “You believed in Poly, & Wanted To Live The Lifestyle” The root of it was “ I know I’m not the only one, so instead of infidelity being a thing let me open the relationship & encourage him to have relations with other women , ( because I know I’m not the only one anyways ) “ No matter how y’all try to twist what I just said & create you’re own version of it. The truth is in the pudding & you can’t deny the Fact that it wasn’t because this is something she wholeheartedly just wanted because that’s who she is. It’s who she thought he was already & doing already. In no way am I coming for her or him. I’m just calling a spade & spade and seeing thing’s for what they are & NOT by what I think I hear. I’m listening with all 4 ears. And there’s no way anyone can tell me that this lady wants to be Poly when her opening statement was “ I knew I wasn’t the only one “ Y’all can have the FairyTale story. We adults , & we can agree to disagree. It’s respect to Kev at the end of the day. 🥷

Farren and Tahir seemed to have had an active sex life and then after marriage Tahir seemed to have lost his libido. I may have missed something but, did he consider therapy or getting his hormone levels (men's hormones can become imbalanced too) checked? Polyamory came across as more of a bandaid for Tahir, to a deeper problem, rather than something he really wanted to do. Again, I'm just going off of what I heard in those 60 or so minutes, probably some other factors. Anyway, I wish Farren and Tahir the very best and I appreciate them sharing their story.

Farren's shirt let me know that she is my people. This convo is everything.

Two of my fave friends of the Fredericks (sp?). I love them and their sense of humor!

In my opinion an open ,the term open marriage is an oxymoron. By letting outsiders in your relationship you risk for dangerous things to happen, not just to your marriage but people inside your circle. Just because of few people may respect the boundaries , there's to much of a risk for others not to.

I think it was naive of Tahir to think the friendship group wouldn't have conflicting opinions

I love them, they are always such a good hilarious time!

I watched this like a squirmy kid and I'm older than all 3 of them 🤣🤣🤣🙈😅 We're never too old to learn, thank y'all for sharing!

This was great. Thank you for your transparency.

❤ Fun, real interview. Happy they’re happy and loving life.

Darren is whole mood-love her 🤩🤩🤍🤍👏🏼

I know people who are in these types of relationships so this is not a surprising topic to me. Thanks for sharing y’all!

This was so good!!!

I feel like they are both bisexual. But I could be wrong. Something that I noticed from Farren on their podcast a while ago…

I was approached about being in a poly relationship last year & I knew it wasn’t for me. I'm always curious to see how people do it. One interesting trend I've noticed in every interview I've watched (I haven't watched a lot) with poly people that started off monogamous is the female initiates this transition in the relationship. This was an interesting interview & I wish this couple all the best!

CAN WE PLZ GET A PART 2 ?!

This interview was so needed for me! Thank you

Great episode!

I hope they come back for part 2 because I have more questions than answers.

Wheels spinning in Mr.Kev head 😂 but I really enjoyed the interview ❤

Ferran hat is giving rhythm nation vibes. Lol

I just love the Moores 🎉🎉❤❤

Love y'all. Stay up y'all! Peace

This truly blessed my soul!!!!

i loved this episode!! one of my favorites☺️☺️

I really enjoyed this conversation. They have great chemistry

Yall have a great marriage. Strong Communication.