What is a Christian Marriage really like? W/ Preston Perry 

Imma write this down!!!🎯🎯

Pastor Terry Anderson 🙌🏿 👏🏿 🙏🏿

Powerful

Marriage is not a disease either. It's a covenant from God. There's nothing wrong with desiring marriage either, just understanding the why and who

Yes

Amen brotha. I’m 22 and wish I could go back. Practicing celibacy now but there’s nothing like waiting for that special person and time. Keep goin man💯💪🏿

I applaud you! Continue to hold on to your virginity for the special person God has for you! Because like many, I too, wish I could have held my virginity for my special person! I know it’s hard but you got this . Stay close to God word, ensure that your community meaning the people you associate with understand and respect your moral and values! If they go against what you know to be right according to the WORD, it’s time to remove yourself. Blessing

@@joemilleriv The blood that was shed on that cross has already wiped it all away brother! You got this! Also, thank you man, let’s stay rooted in the Christ!

@@patricerodgers6099 I too applaud you for turning a new leaf! You’ve got this. Thank you so much! You know what’s beautiful about having a relationship with Christ? The endless Grace and Love!

So true!

That was the same reaction I had when I heard this

Yes, this is a wonderful statement.

Words from someone seeks the Lord❤ Amen

Yeah it is great! I think I heard Paul Washer say something like this before

"every condition" THAT'S CUTE an escape clause😆

Two BLACK Men 🙌🏾

Me too!!!

Facts!!

Awesomely transparent conversation! I agree "the Church" should be doing more to prepare but not before being an honest example of what marriage is. Maybe the first step can be a seasoned couple mentoring; walk alongside a newly wedded couple; creating boundaries of course. ❤️

I agree soo much!! its kinda amazing to see

Marriage to the right person

You can tell when a marriage centers God because it’s a blessing and a ministry to all involved! I love that Preston and Jackie were friends first.

That's the way it should be, The husband helps the wife heal, through his unconditional love, and the wife is there for the husband as well through her respecting him. And with communicating and hearing each others hearts, and validating each other.

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Hey love. I just did for you. God is the God of what seems impossible. I’m a newlywed myself, but my husband and I went through some EXTREME rough patches for years before we got married that made me want to leave him several times. At one point I pretty much did. The Bible says that by faith a woman shall save her husband, 1 Corinthians 7:14-16. And no, I don’t go around thumping scripture lol. That’s just one of a few I am keen on. I’m sure you’ve heard of what it means to be unequally yoked, but I am not saying that to make you feel bad. While that is true and it can make things harder, God is ABLE and He can bring those that don’t believe to Him through those of us that do. You have not been perfect? Sweetheart, none of us have or ever will be. That is common for EVERY one of us walking this earth. Even in my relationship I wasn’t perfect to him either, no matter what he did or didn’t do. What you have been is the only Bible and sermon your husband has likely read or heard or seen or listened to. He qualified you to be the believer your husband chose to marry, flaws and all. That means something. Don’t doubt God. Trust Jesus, and His will be done, whether you are meant to stay in your marriage or not. But I am a very optimistic person and I believe it will turn around even at the midnight hour 😊.

Praying sis I can’t imagine how heartbreaking this is 💛

Praying 😢

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Praying for your support system to surround you with love. I hope you pray for peace and understanding to accept what's coming. I hope you feel Him.

Amen

Bullseye 🎯

Preach

I love that you used the word severity. That's such a great word to describe the calling of a husband

Agreed

Amen so so true.

Amen!!!Beautifully said.

Start smiling in general, especially 4 pics. Proverbs 15:13.

What are some general things that have been difficult?

@@thensaidJacob the usual: $, sex, kids (if they have any), in-laws. If you're gonna marry, take her to divorce court. Open to the public. Free premarital counseling. Talk through the issues. Dose of reality I swear, lol

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Many men try, then the women they try this with get taken by men who simply state they would prefer to start being in a relationship instead of being friends first

​@gintoki_sakata__ not every friend is supposed to be your wife. The ones who chose someone else belonged with someone else.

​@gintoki_sakata__ not every friend is supposed to be your wife. The ones who chose someone else belonged with someone else.

@@meh3766 my point is, you were friends with the purpose of getting to know each other to later be in a relationship. Since she gets taken, you've wasted a lot of time on the wrong woman The friendship route is a waste of time

Thank you for your transparency.

4 years? 😮‍💨 you didn’t want to marry after that long? What held you back?

Your husband would probably tell you if you listen

The bible tells us if we would pay attention to the word.

@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

If you want a godly marriage I wouldn’t consult a caster or healer- I’m sure God can reveal what is needed if you believe you are suppose to be with your wife. Let the Lord do the work because he knows all things

Praying for you Juande

You literally just have soul ties .

This was encouraging because so many times we get told that our God sent spouse will be people that aren’t attractive as long as their heart is good. But God knows what we like !

@@charlinecharlostin3188 Honey, God knows what you like!! 😂🥰 My husband is FINE!!! That man has the body and the heart. I am NOT complaining. Period.

@@shaelovesJesus To God be the glory because now I’m excited. I’m so glad I didn’t settle. I heard God sends him when you least expect it, but I surrendered the idea of marriage to the Lord.

This got me excited because I have heard so many times how looks aren't important and sex is also not that important. And it kinda makes me feel a little sad sometimes.

@@charlinecharlostin3188 I definitely wasn't looking for him. I was cool with my focus being God and my daughter. I desired to be married but i was okay if I didn't. It took me along time to be content in singleness. I'm glad I didn't get marry when I wanted to. I wasn't ready then. I had things I needed to heal from before my husband came into the picture.

You said a mouthful. Safety matters. Biblical marriages were not always safe as we read. Conversations like this teach us that being secure in womenhood and manhood creates a safe space.

Amen

Exactly ❤️ 💯

definitely got those red pill vibes from the interviewer. it's really getting into the church.