Interesting. Can you create a heightened level of rapport by matching and mirroring ?
This really needs to be embarked on carefully.
Matching and mirroring definitely can work, and does work in lots of applications. If you think you can simply begin to match a person's physiology and gain a superior connection, then you may discover quite the opposite!
Matching mirroring is a natural phenomenon that happens when two people who are in rapport and do have a good connection do exactly that. They match what each other does.
But, if you're actively turning your attention to match someone's physiology, breathing rate, word choice and even language then you'll find your attention is anywhere but on the person. At the end result, decreased level of report in connection.
As with anything new, it's all about starting small and build up your own repertoire of what is that you are going to match and mirror. When you become comfortable with the small things, you can really begin to play and connect.
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