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No matter how much you may want it to be different, you have needs. Every being on earth has needs. A need is something that is required in order to live, succeed or be happy. And you cannot un-require something that is required. You cannot argue your way into seeing that it isn’t necessary. You have one option when it comes to your needs and that is to meet them. I’m going to repeat what I just said so it sinks in… Your one option when it comes to needs is to meet them. In this episode, Teal explains about manipulation, needs and dares us to ask for our needs upfront.
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@tsiongirma570 2 года назад

"Surround yourself with people whose needs are met by meeting your needs" something I should always remember.

@giusaludybienestar2195 Год назад

Sadď

@RapRockJunkey 7 месяцев назад

How do you do this ?

@Baptized_in_Fire. 4 месяца назад

@@RapRockJunkeyidentify your needs. Then learn to identify the needs of others. In that exact order. You'll get there

@Jennividion 9 лет назад

I wonder how many therapists were fired after people found Teals videos...lol

@XxDreamsInDigitalxX 6 лет назад

Jennifer totally be i did!

@ChristswayWarriorPrincess 6 лет назад

Jennifer here, here!

@TheLightning141 6 лет назад

Exactly

@Rain06 4 года назад

Fact 😂😂

@iamEllah 4 года назад

I think about that every time she blows my mind ahahhaha

@anthonykwan8233 8 лет назад

teal is not only spiritual but practical at the same time .

@giftingflowers 5 лет назад

Anthony Kwan yes

@hannahoriginal4698 3 года назад

Yes yes yes and that's what I love about her content the very most ♥

@meowlayla3769 2 года назад

This is why I love her!

@Tanakaead 2 года назад

100%

@argentumaurum3444 2 года назад

They are still needed lol

@joshuabyrd2959 8 лет назад

I never knew I would be telling the full truth about what my needs are, but here it goes: I would like to be held closely in a hug, just like I'm a child and the other one hugging me is bigger than I am. I'm not the type of person to be manipulative, but I have convinced myself before to not need such compassion. If I had such compassion shown to me, I would cry tears of joy for sure. I'm good to people, but such a hug would be the best. I know it does sound weird, childish in fact, but it is my need. :) :) :) ♡♡♡

@McFraneth 8 лет назад

+Joshua Byrd Ask someone you trust for a hug. It's not childish at all. My partner asks me to hold him in my arms. He also rests his head on my lap and I stroke his hair. Lots of men cry when they're treated with tenderness.

@GiaTheSweetPotato 8 лет назад

+Joshua Byrd same. hold me like i'm precious and i am putty in your hands XD

@joshuabyrd2959 8 лет назад

:D Loved that reply! ♡

@joshuabyrd2959 8 лет назад

I loved both of these replies. I enjoy a relationship that is based on love from the heart, instead of lust. Truth is, my heart has been sealed for a while now, and I'm working on opening it back up. I see this struggle manifested in my dreams at night. It's a lot to explain. I need emotional assistance with this, but I'm also cautious of psychic energy vampires, while being careful that I don't become a psychic energy vampire. I want to be the cause of fueling myself and others with positive energy. :) ♡ :) ♡ :) ♡

@cstrongman 6 лет назад

Congratulations!

@1Boooooom1 9 лет назад

Thank you for being born!!!!!!

@sasufreqchann 6 лет назад

Maybe you should refrase that into : Thank you for being there :0 The Smiley is important xD

@MonikaDaddarwal 18 дней назад

@@sasufreqchann haha. i like the former one better lol.

@zamoraobed Год назад

I love how she explains everything. Her voice is almost angelic. I forgot how many times her videos have raised my vibration.

@johnremiguzon6538 6 лет назад

I need to be wanted, I need to be useful, I need to love and be loved. I need to bring joy to others, I need to care for our mother earth. But when I look around I feel like I was misplaced.

@mikkovaan8636 3 года назад

I too need to be useful and to look after mother earth. I also feel that I need encouragement to meet those two needs, and encouragement to take better care of myself. Thank you for sharing :)

@Stopsuffering4all 3 года назад

Hi John, maybe we should compare notes. I feel the same way, like a fish out of water. I’ve been needing to connect with more like minded people but I don’t know how to find them

@leopardspots2004 Год назад

Check out her video on How to Belong

@johnremiguzon6538 Год назад

@@leopardspots2004 I will! Thanks

@Autojones 9 лет назад

" I call them Rich who can meet the needs of their own Imagination." ~Henry James.

@tiffsaver 9 лет назад

Teal, of all the many self-help videos on YT, yours continue to resonate with me the most. They are both healing, and above all, seem to connect both my head and my heart in a way that few other books, or tutorials, or anything else manages to do-in short, they are a continuing light in my life. This is your gift, and I appreciate you sharing it beyond mere words. You're special, and meaningful, and loved.

@tiffsaver 8 лет назад

+Solid Spirit You know, when it comes to any self-help ideas, I believe that it's just best to see what works for YOU. If you see the value in something, and if its clearly helping you, it's all good :)

@p.b.7123 8 лет назад

+tiffsaver YES I feel the same way!

@paareth 8 лет назад

+Solid Spirit Its because they get hurt when they do. At the moment for me, whenever I open the heart chakra its hell, quite literally. I did a bit of work on that and next to me part of my world now is a pile of papers and old junk that needed to be dealt with brought about by a block trying to do something else. I've found a bill for several thousand pounds that didn't exist and i've had 2 days of blocks trying to just get started fixing a problem and its hell and this time I decided to say okay lets live in hell for a bit and try to integrate it. The reason some people can't feel and thus lack that sensory perception is because its hell when they do. On the plus side I can talk to some pretty vile or disturbing people rationally because I feel so little, the other day I was rationally reasoning with a nazi for example, which even for me was a bit of a test but I didn't feel anything but cold hard logic.

@paareth 8 лет назад

Solid Spirit I assume you mean because I was trying to reason with a nazi? Which was an odd situation to be certain, and could only occur online where more types of people meet, but hopefully I made some ground with them, at least I tried. What was I supposed to do yell at them, how would that have helped. I have a natural inclination to help or fix things, especially in this domain here where I have most interaction, through a computer and I find breaking down extremes or at least overt racism quite easy to deal with these days. As to would I like to feel more, yes. I would very much like to feel the tree that was just lit on fire by its owner, and cut down that I used to sit under, I considered it a breakthrough that I felt uncomfortable by its presence not being there quite honestly. But as it is, numbness is the only prevailing emotion aside from anger, frustration or the odd bit of depression, not common because numbness is the main. I do make efforts to feel gratitude but it is with effort that I feel it, whereas anger is much more natural to feel, and thus probably why the emotional center burned out. Anyway enough about me, hopefully you gleaned something useful from the conversation. wbv.

@bettyboo8132 7 лет назад

I just wanted to piggyback what you said. I couldn't agree more...and I couldn't of said it better myself. I am new to this. .but I am saturated with the truth. Its kinda funny because I have been asking, why I am the way that I am and FINALLY I am getting an answer! and this video might be the one I needed the most. Peace and blessings to all of us. Happy travels to you on your journeys xxx

@cleastintwood5811 8 лет назад

it's just refreshing what you do: being on the spiritual plane but not constantly playing the "you created everything yourself so it's your fault"-card. the big difference between you and a bunch of other spiritual teachers is that one can see that you actually suffered. it' s not that I don't learn from others, i do, a lot, but often I think: "if you actually really knew rock bottom, you wouldn't just dismiss it that easily in people." i feel like you genuinely care about bringing people solutions and about not condemning ourselves for being what we are, at the same time you're progressive. the amount of compassion you display is enormous.

@serahbrandenn434 4 года назад

Agreed...you said it well.

@ninarekhi 4 года назад

Yeah. She's very non judgmental, unlike some spiritual teachers who look down upon others who are not 'sorted' according to them.

@isadoreanabelle3449 5 лет назад

Teal you are truly changing the collective consciousness and raising the vibration of the planet! Words do not have the capacity to express our infinite gratitude!

@kirstymoss9810 2 года назад

I just discovered teal swam and I feel like my entire being is lighter tonight , I'm breaking down , just by knowingy needs are not wrong, my trauma is able to be healed 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 Love this , so powerful .

@bikemystic 8 лет назад

"Select people, and surround yourself with people, whose needs are met by meeting your needs. Let the people who have conflicting needs gravitate away from you." I've learned the hard way that trying to satisfy self-centered people is like trying to fill a bottomless hole, and this was really helpful for me to hear. Thank you.

@seaquinn 9 лет назад

Teal, I love you so much. You literally transformed the way I used to look at my life. Thank you so much. I wish I could meet you someday and we could enjoy some tea at a café. Love you. 💘

@ForceLogic 6 лет назад

Can i come!

@RebeccaWithey 5 лет назад

Me too! :)

@angelface889 5 лет назад

Stalker! 😕 lol only joking can i come 😭

@ExistentialJeny 2 года назад

💗

@dianapiper9132 2 года назад

me too! 😭

@lizzyh2080 9 лет назад

You are truly a gifted women. Thank you for all you do for others.

@zac8670 7 лет назад

Lovely video. It's important to note that science has confirmed that our mental, physical and emotional health is dependent on others. We were not built to be alone, but to live in communion. We were built for love, as it is our most harmonious state of being.

@MamaRavenwood 7 лет назад

I'm so glad i'm not the only one saying these things! Y'all have no idea the damage people will do to themselves by not being honest about their needs, clear and honest communication makes life so much easier! So many of my readings when i was a street psychic was convincing people to fill their own cup!

@davidalanmors3233 6 лет назад

I am watching this after so much enlightenment about demonic attraction and agreement/attachment. Wow, I feel so empowered and less afraid of things I have been going through. You are an amazing gift to this world

@lauren4434 5 лет назад

I have experienced people running away from me or leaving me when I express my needs. It very much started with my mother! So I have developed a rather ascetic, tough shell, but underneath, I feel my unmet needs intensely, and it scares people away I think.

@gktginglobal1040 2 года назад

Find you tribe on meetup or online

@haliec4713 3 года назад

I need to have my needs met 😊 I need to feel safe expressing my needs ❤️

@celine9828 7 лет назад

I'm overwhelmed how deep you get me. you say something and it makes soo much sense to me. THANK YOU ❤

@Maria-pu8wc 9 лет назад

after a breakdown... meeting particularly needs is the most loving, sane and divinely human action we can do to ourselves...

@Azulnote 9 лет назад

Teal those are some deep insights into humanity's condition. The world desperately needs to understand this message.

@Lucky_Gurl-Luna 8 лет назад

She's truly beautiful inside and out . I hope to reach her level of spirituality one day !

@hahanicebroskie 5 лет назад

Luckgurl! Say "I'm getting closer," or, "I'm doing awesome and I'm on track". It will happen at a more relaxing rate, then "I hope". Unless you want to remain in, "I hope". It's all good either way. Cheers.

@naeevelyn8007 Год назад

You will

@jillnicholson7085 8 лет назад

Honor the other person's desire or decision not to meet your need by allowing them that role. Then you are free to see them for who they are in your life, and also to find others to help you meet your needs in a mutually satisfying way. Thank you for that beautifully stated insight, Teal. Namaste.

@SaphirBeere 2 года назад

I need somebody who can take my emotions. If I am sad or angry I want somebody who can accept my emotions and reassure me that they love me. I want to be allowed to feel. My way of manipulation is to not allow myself to show negative emotions because I am too afraid of rejection or being told that I am immature for feeling a certain way.

@Ang.143 9 лет назад

Eye opening. I have been manipulating for so long and I am working to stop it. Life feels so much better. Thanks Teal.

@fekete-kiss-sandor 8 лет назад

I listened for days your videos, Teal! These are the mist profound statements of our real human experiences. Thank You for all of Your work. You are a beautiful and profetic woman.

@glorydey5008glowlight 9 лет назад

Very well explained. The first step to spirituality is to face our needs and desires and address them appropriately. we can then evolve in all aspects of our personality. Thank You for sharing and helping so many people to understand the essence of spiritual concepts in daily lives!! God bless you!

@ilovebutterstuff 4 года назад

She's wicked smart, charismatic and beautiful, but there's a little part of me that says, "she's in a cult!"

@ilovebutterstuff 4 года назад

I just did some research, and I take it back, she's legit and I'm pretty sure I'm in love. So, nevermind 👆

@saxongreen78 4 года назад

Yep - pretty steep hill for me to climb, here...taught myself from a very early age that I didn't particularly want anything ( _especially_ from other people) and built a fortress of negation around myself. Now that I am in my 40s, I have mostly ossified, and have become a sad old miser...but at least I didn't get a chance to _breed_ and keep the chain going!

@dianapiper9132 2 года назад

I need emotional closeness and connection and I am afraid to get vunerable when asking for it because I fear the rejection of it. Thank you for giving me this enlightment.

@cordovafamily13 5 лет назад

Teal, you are a magnificent blessing to all. Do not deny what you NEED! :) Love you!

@fsc172 4 года назад

changed my life teal, you are a blessing

@chrisrakete 5 лет назад

This is one of the most enlightened videos I've seen on RU-vid.. probably ever. I'm going echo what someone else has already said - thank you for being born. You're awesome x

@fnafgamerking7420 Год назад

Teal Swan, a genius and also not bad to look at. The entire package.

@BrianForTheWin Год назад

Three assertions and three understatements. Teal is like several platonic forms manifesting all at once.

@mimia61 5 лет назад

THIS HELPED ME SO MUCH. I NOW UNDERSTAND WHY I WAS SO AFRAID OF NOT BEING SAFE. I NOW KNOW HOW TO ACT. I LOVE YOU. ❤️

@georgikukov5129 8 лет назад

Thank you so much Teal, i was under a lot of emotional pain all day, due to a horrible relationship that finally came to an end.. Baring that pain all day i just could not keep going, i got home sat on youtube and start looking trough your channel, this is the 4th video i saw today, and i already know exactly what broth me here AGAIN, and exactly how not to end up dying again. You are amazing!

@Merrida100 5 лет назад

I have been following you since you posted about "emotional vampires"...and haven't turned back. You're incredible, and I wish I could actually meet with you in person. I believe just one meeting and my life could be changed. You are amazing, and I thank you for all you give us.

@mostamazingwoman 2 года назад

Teal, I love how you break down steps to healing in tiny bite sized pieces. Such a gift. Nice!

@krish.5780 7 лет назад

I was scared a little the first time I watched one of your videos. but you proved to be very enlightened. thanks

@linatogima 9 лет назад

I really needed this video this week. Today. Thank you so much, Teal! Much much love

@zolawilliams1 8 лет назад

I felt this video in my chest.... if that makes sense. Thank you!!

@amazinmason 6 лет назад

I would like to add... you can't always get what you want... and that is when you might learn about how you are dependent on external validation for your feeling of self worth, and how to walk alone in peace. What we want will come, maybe not right when we want it. That is part of why patience is a virtue

@InTheNow2020 6 лет назад

Passive behavior in all firms, is at it's roots fear. Fear of not receiving your needs, rejection. So passive behaviour becomes the norm to asking for what you want. As mostly fear of emotional confrontation prohibits many from getting their needs met. Thanks Teal.... namaste.

@sannajohanna5579 8 лет назад

Thanks! This is very interesting! I just had an experience: I have a need to change my life and I am doing it. Suddenly a friend of mine, with whom we met before about 3 or 4 times in a year, started to starve for my attention every week in quite manipulative ways. She did not tell directly what she wanted but I could see it quite clearly: she wanted to take me away my new life that I love and pay attention on her like I was her mother, who tells to her little daughter: "Well done, very good! Oh you are so good!" This is what she wanted - and also my time. I have a need to be alone think my life and about my future and myself and what I want. I do not have any interest suddenly to put my attention on her life or to discuss about mine with her. I told her directly, that I can not now do things she wants. I need my time for myself. So here the needs of two friends did not met at all! And actually it is not my job to make her happy. I've been so happy now and my life seems to me as I like it to be. I took care of my needs and it feels GOOD!!!! After all my life (50 years) ignoring my needs and understanding other peoples needs, this is a really new life to me and I am going to keep it like this. And yes, it is true that I've started to meet people who meet my needs and I meet their needs! What makes this difficult now is, that those people, to whose need I do not want to response any more, are getting angry to me. This is why this video was very very important to me right now! I have a right to fulfill my needs. I am not sabotaging anyone. I am not doing any bad to anyone. I just want to live MY life. That is my deepest need now.

@ConsidertheCrows 7 лет назад

I practice meeting all my needs myself.

@stardavies6202 7 месяцев назад

Namaste Teal You are such a Gift to the world THANK YOU so helpful & clearly put May all of life come to you and yours with Ease & JOy & Grace & Glory STAY BLESSED

@melissavalentine9771 19 дней назад

🎉 yes Amen 🙌 that exchange is actually needed in this World! And you're right, it would make it easier to distinguish.... And like i said this world could be a better place because relationships would be better!

@mootbooxle 6 лет назад

You met a great need of mine by telling me that it's ok for me to have needs! I've been driving myself crazy, trying to embody abundance, wholeness...While feeling completely starved! I realized a funny thing the other day, that I have resistance to having resistance! lol! I guess we all get caught up in this type of trap at some stage in the journey. As soon as I learned that our thoughts create our reality, I got into the whole mind trap of OMG I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I DONT CREATE ANYTHING NEGATIVE...It was right in your first paragraph: Need indicates lack, and if I need something that means I'm not enough. I'm allergic to lack now, haha. Lack defined the first 33 years of my life. I guess I have a lot of unmet needs...I never knew it was even possible to meet them until I had this awakening...!

@PANMESTIGUS 9 лет назад

"♫People... people who need people.... ♩are the LUCKIEST PEOPLE in the worrrrld...♩♬"

@ChrisDragotta 4 года назад

Byron Joel People who don't need people are better off.

@BadGyrlNikki 5 лет назад

Wow childish needs I think are my biggest problem... I wasn't protected or held alot... And now I like people who hold me... Wow on point girl... For a long time I didn't want anyone to touch me... But I opened up n it helped me

@michaelvandenheuvel317 Месяц назад

I hear you. Unmet needs will always be filled. Adaptively or maladaptively.

@Brynnserfilippi 9 лет назад

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Teal

@audreysegura8933 8 лет назад

I am just so amazed that these amazing videos are free! If used, this information Teal provides is just life changing, have been using a lot of what I have watched and yes, very powerful stuff, but don't let it be another concept, give these videos a fair try! Thanx Teal!!!

@JasonKeepBlazin 8 лет назад

dam baby, wudda you need?

@samatashah 3 года назад

Ty teal, u r very straight and to the point.

@markdfoster6928 Год назад

I chuckle at this and am in my 50's but I willbhave to agree with what your saying. Thank you for what you do to help.

@dffulmer1 9 лет назад

And earlier today I was remembering the song from the musical, "Funny Girl"...."People Who Need People".....and this video pops up. Great timing! Thanks!

@Eryan724 9 лет назад

wow you are really high up there in the dimensions. and also i know youve had some really hellish experiences. i have deep respect for you soul. now you can high and you can low but you need to fill in the ones in the middle ;)

@Godisfirst21 9 лет назад

I'm so thankyou and grateful that you are here. You've impacted my life in a very positve way and you continue to do so with each new video you make. As sorry as I am for the pain you went through, I know you wouldn't be who you are had you not gone through those things. Thank you for enduring your pain and for bringing us comfort from our pain.

@JessieRose_Music 7 лет назад

And, thanks for sharing Teal. This experience is much appreciated.

@TheZeroManifested 8 лет назад

Great Video. I've done this before in more than one way I'm happy to have listened to this today

@srosecardella 3 года назад

I cried so much during this video. I cried for the part of me that felt like I didn’t have my needs met, it made me sad and I was shocked by this sadness. I realized that I am usually looking for comfort, connection, understanding, and attention. I feel like I have a good bit of manipulation tactics and it feels impossible as to how I can get it directly. But, seeing myself as valid and childish because teal said it’s not childish really relieved me! And I’m relieved that if I get it, I won’t be this endless bottomless pit for that need because I will be nourished. There is some hope and I wonder how I can do things a little differently.

@yokomilli_channel 6 лет назад

Thank you for existing and for sharing your profound wisdom!

@0samaK Год назад

I Am Grateful that I'm meeting my needs. Mastering basic needs

@11mexico 9 лет назад

Hey Teal I've been following the Golden Strand and I have to thank you.

@soraya82pleyad 9 лет назад

Thanks Teal, here are the answers I was looking for in this precise moment of my life... Thank you 😉

@williamlloyd9373 6 месяцев назад

How is she so understanding? I know its a thing to fall in love with your therapist. I'm there.

@kritisabharwal7138 2 года назад

Teal, you are awesome... Thank you for all the hard work that you carry out for everyone to have an easy way out. Sending best wishes and regards your way.

@Kirbynessness 9 лет назад

I feel like Teal and I are having an intimate conversation while standing on a small wagon being pulled on a violet sunset beach.

@intention.adventure 7 лет назад

teal, could you do a video on the difference between healthfully filling each other's needs vs. manipulative/unhealthy codependency? I think I'm not sure what it looks like for it to be okay to need something from someone

@gioterni9232 5 лет назад

So beautifully expressed and shared, thank you Teal 🙏🏻💜

@hollyk9414 5 лет назад

So much truth in this video. Thank you Teal!

@ascensionlight3125 8 лет назад

had to come back and watch again cuz this is just realtalk

@BastianBalthazarBux13 9 лет назад

I LIE because I need UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. I had never stopped to think about this. Thank you infinitely, Teal.

@Binichmoses2 9 лет назад

Thank you Teal. It feels like every Video of her is touching my Soul.

@iamgrochu6780 8 лет назад

Teal Swan Mother Earth :Queen: Lovely beginning, Peace Love and Light

@S4V0LAEN3N 7 лет назад

I really needed to hear this information.. thx! I've always tried to develope myself, doing meditation, went through countless number of self help videos etc.. but feeling now like I was climbing into a tree arse first. My inner child is left to very early childhood due to growing in broken home without attention, care, touch, love etc. I don't like to blame my mother and step-father about every problem I have had, but I'm beginning to do so. :D It's not because they were evil bastards, they had their own parents which did the same to them.. nice legacy. Mother has always had loud voice and strong character and I got lots of physical punishments as a child. From both of them. Which made me to be submissive and.. I guess you know how it goes then. What a conflict.. being spiritual & pervert with full of fetishes from unmeet needs from childhood. At some level I have known this for a while but it was good to hear it from someone else.

@freedom_5891 9 лет назад

It's a difference between needs and desires.

@freedomtownn 2 года назад

This is the first video I've watched of Teal. I'm blown away. Incredibly new things, and incredibly insightful. Thanks.

@jessicafritts1968 4 года назад

WOW I KNOW THIS IS AN OLD VIDEO BUT FOUND IT TODAY JUST AS I NEEDED IT! MUCH LOVE, LIGHT, COMPASSION AND CHILDLIKE WONDER FOR LIFE AND THE EVERYDAY MOMENTS FOR THE HIGHEST POTENTIAL OF ALL CREATION TO ALL FOR ALL!!!!!¡!!!!!¡!!!!!

@VideoChimpanzee 8 лет назад

The reality of needs is the axiom: "The higher your level of consciousness, the less likely you'll be controlled by your needs." So we would do well to gage another's level of consciousness before getting into a relationship. That said, we all have needs; but for those with unawakened consciousness, the needs are simply way more important, and hence such people will be more likely to manipulate you in order to get their needs met. At some point, you may realize that their relationship to their needs/addiction is more important than their relationship to you. This usually ends the relationship. The spiritual reality is that we do not have needs, and needs are only an illusion of this physical illusory realm. The physical "reality" is simply that we have physical needs which need to be met in order to survive or experience comfort and pleasure in the physical realm. In the proper context, the physical realm and physical self is like our child who needs to be nurtured and comforted.

@Caprisiasu 8 лет назад

i want to feel love, care, nurture, safe, secure, to be loved and held...i always thought it was weak to admit them and too dependent and burden others. i have held fear of losing sources of deep love, connection, and nurturing such as close deep friendships and bonds. my child's needs is physical affection, intimacy, respectful personal space. needs i dont want is feeling attachment from my past and a past crush. no need is too childish. if we dont meet our child's needs, it will come to be met. i have sexual fetish of feeling protected, held, loved, and secure from older men who vibe protection, care, love, masculine nurturing. i let go of fear of being vulnerable. it makes us happy meeting each others needs.

@janee8973 7 лет назад

thank you for sharing so intimately

@janee8973 7 лет назад

also this keeps happening to me: that my most intimate close person is turning away from me or that i am turning away from them. why does this keep happening to me? does the universe want to show me my greatest fear?

@leanngeer4284 5 лет назад

jane e maybe your need comes from a lack of validation?

@yisselbravo1297 5 лет назад

I feel you 👍

@celeste9473 4 года назад

Caprisiasu me too

@ForceCaptKatra 2 года назад

Its been 6 years and I still remember the lesson from this video ♡ thank you

@peterkoopman4668 5 лет назад

Thank yiu Teal that was awe inspiring and just listning to you i felt my needs met.

@RoseMarieJamesJr 7 лет назад

Hi Teal, Love your videos! Keep up the great work! Can you make a video on how to deal with conflicting needs within yourself? Thank you

@ClassicGlamDoll 9 лет назад

Is tea time with teal coming back? I miss it

@kirstymoss9810 2 года назад

I'm so ready to confront the things that have kept holding me back for yeats Including this , right here, manipulation.

@BornToBeFreak 6 лет назад

this video gave me so many answers i have been looking for. thank you so much.

@intention.adventure 7 лет назад

where do these photos come from for real LOL. The one with the girl in the suit scraping for dollars... i died

@the_jedi_priestess3600 6 лет назад

The Intention Adventure 😂

@missdinkelgodis 5 лет назад

hahah that one was sooo good!

@queenerika_4613 5 лет назад

The Intention Adventure I read this right before the picture came up haha

@ninarekhi 4 года назад

That one was really funny 😅

@rscott2247 8 лет назад

This triggered me immensely.

@sasufreqchann 6 лет назад

Robert Scott lawl

@celeste9473 4 года назад

Robert Scott me too

@yogilad_om 3 года назад

Hope you are well

@moulee7448 4 года назад

The best ever video I have ever seen in the whole world...the best..thanks teall

@jenblack4054 8 лет назад

+Teal Swan Every video I watch some how connects to what I need to work on at that very moment. I have been struggling with a difficult decision and writing down my needs helped clarify my answer. My answer seems so far away and very difficult to achieve but if nothing changes, nothing changes. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. You are AMAZING!

@xuanius 5 лет назад

What I need: to know that someone won't leave.

@pauladuncanadams1750 3 года назад

So you would entrap them in your fear and anxiety. What if your real need is not a knowing that they won't (can't) leave? What if what you sense is actually a feeling that you are unloveable, and therefore unloved? Maybe your parents were unable to truly love you, and, as a consequence, you feel unlovable? And that gaping wound is too vulnerable to expose? So , your unfulfilled need for love gnaws at the emptiness inside like a hunger, filling you with fear and anxiety? What would happen if you open the door to the cage? Then, they would have the power to leave. If they stay it's of their own volition. And so they choose to stay and love you. And your need is met. Then, it is the fear and anxiety that is of your own creation that is holding you hostage instead.

@mihajlotabacek5907 7 лет назад

My needs and i...seprated once... blue stairs comes, i confused it was night, what is night if it is fear,not a fear is the night, fear is here,where i stand, but i misspelled the time.

@magicwandm Год назад

I'm watching this exactly one year from when i put it in a playlist to watch on the same date. Wow we really find what we need in the exact same time when we need it and are ready for it.

@creatjit 2 месяца назад

Wow Teal, what a great video again, for a lot of people also around me a must-see video! Thank you!

@TheMillyVanilly 9 лет назад

Is sex a need? Teal, please make a video about this because I am struggling with this and so are several of my other friends who are on the spiritual path. I don't know how to meet this need, especially since I am a woman and I'm very sensitive to who I'm around. Thank you for you help, Teal!

@TheMillyVanilly 9 лет назад

***** I already do that. I'm talking about sharing a sexual experience with another human being.

@HomicidalDavid 9 лет назад

TheMillyVanilly I feel like it's a need for me, but I was always a quiet introverted kid. And now I'm not in the best situation in life. Wish I could be intimate with someone instead of just thinking about it. Sometimes I wish I was born asexual because having desires that are not being met is difficult emotionally :(

@TheMillyVanilly 9 лет назад

Fitness Gamer I know, right? Plenty of people I know are in the same situation. If we got back to community based societies, I think less people would struggle so much.

@TheMillyVanilly 9 лет назад

groot mcgroot I strongly disagree. When I make love it's a beautiful, creative experience. For me it's a need of intemacy and connection and an orgasm is a beautiful experience with someone else. I never feel drained, but it all depends on what intention you make love with.

@TheProject-fw3qc 9 лет назад

TheMillyVanilly Yes it is a very real need, intimacy is a part of a loving relationship, if you remove this and all you have is a "friendship" with out passion or physical love the relationship can and will deteriorate, or degenerate into like I said more of a friendship and less of a relationship. And if this need is not being met then you need to find someone who can meet this need.. Masturbation is all well and good, and healthy but how is it fair to you as a being to be expected to be in a relationship and have to fend for yourself? It Is not. Now if single the same would apply, find that person whom can meet your needs of physical affection, passion and love... To me pleasuring one you love and sharing in that pleasure is a huge part of love, it is the highest form of affection you can share, take that away and it is hollow. Humans crave physical as well as emotional affection and passion, and interaction with another. While in the military I was exposed to for lack of a better term Chemical agents. The result was my endocrine system was damaged and my testosterone production all but completely shut down when I was 35, I had very high levels up until then and now that I have to take it externally I find my drive is as good or even a bit more powerful than when I was 18, give or take... this manifests in physical needs, but also wanting the emotional/passion that comes with it.. so I do understand where you speak.

@jerrytyfting2952 9 лет назад

Many off Teals videos are good advice for relationships but what if you don't have any relationships except the one with yourself? The process in my opinion to meet your own needs by yourself is a slow one. A relationship would speed up the "heeling" because of a sense of connection but what if you grew up almost never feeling a positive emotional connection? That is basically my childhood.

@OldManPaxusYT 9 лет назад

Jerry Tyfting You can still treat yourself like other people, asking 'yourself' for your needs directly and honestly as Teal explains... Doesn't 'have' to be other people ;) Having said that, it's 'never' too late to start making open connections with others if you want :)

@jerrytyfting2952 9 лет назад

Marc Jager yea I am actually using most of Teals sayings on myself. So that is why I believe it would speed up my emotional processing with someone else because I have experienced being without for so long.

@meganmarie2173 9 лет назад

U r not an island

@jerrytyfting2952 9 лет назад

Megan Marie I know, and this might surprise you but i am very outgoing in terms of being social. It is just difficult for me in my current situation to find others with similar interests such as emotional well being or psychology. Thus I have chosen to practice my sharing until someone finds me interesting enough to ask about me.

@lchris33 9 лет назад

Jerry Tyfting That was my reaction to this video. Currently, I don't really have people in my life close enough that I could really manipulate them.

@deerinheadlights9784 3 года назад

Thank you Teal. This video is exactly what I needed. I’m going to try and be brave and try your challenge being vulnerable. I know it’s what I need - to be nourished.