He used to call and text me every day when he was chasing me and i was not shoeing interest, but the moment I said yes, and praised him and told him i started loving him, he asked me to talk once a week. Men are good communicators untill they dont get the women they want, the moment that woman starts to show interest and love they suddenly becomes lazy communicaters and emotionally immature species
I give guys compliments and praise, but ONLY if they do the same for me.... The way I am with men and relationships is I’m like a mirror.... If they call me a lot, I’ll call them a lot. If they give me compliments I’ll also compliment them. But if they pull away,, I pull away. If they rarely compliment me, I won’t compliment them either. Everything has to be a 2 way street or else the relationship becomes unbalanced, and that’s when us women tend get hurt and/or played.
No matter what you say,no matter what you do,no matter how you feel..3 things are for sure..a cheater will still cheat,a liar will still lie,& you can't make someone feel something that they don't. I've given all of myself & got hurt. So don't put pressure on yourself,don't have expectations..just enjoy the journey,do what feels right,love yourself more,& remember that life is about finding YOUrself..not someone else. Most of all.. ALL of that love that you put into others and give to others. Put that kind of love back into yourself ♡
This only works if the man is into you if he’s not you come across too into him .. if a man likes you what you say it’s romantic if he’s not sure about you it’s clingy ..
When a man sends me flowers to my job, I love him. When he does it twice, he's getting praise forever.. also fix my house? We cook together? Okaaaay. I love this man. My Cancer man.
He’s calling me in an hour so I’m telling him his voice makes me feel tingly! Wish me luck ❤️😂xox (it does!) **Update!!! He smiled so hard and said “Awww thank you, well you deserve to be happy and I think you’re amazing” boom!
Yes!! My bf and I have been together for 8 years and I still tell him how much I appreciate the things he does for me even if he already knows. I wouldn't know what is going on in his head and if he really knows, so I always remain vocal. He does the same for me :)
I actually felt this weird, electric, feeling after kissing this random stranger. We had a fallout for various reasons, but if I could go back I would definitely tell him what he made me feel just from a simple kiss. I never told him. In fact, I found every way possible to push him away, and it worked. Not that he was perfect, but of course neither was I. I learned a lot from my experience, and this man is right, genuine compliments make people disarmed. For both men and women. And don’t assume that person will always be around to be talked to, or be open to you. Many times relationships, or potential ones, get lost due to time or circumstance. Don’t miss you chances of happiness if you find someone that makes you happy. It doesn’t matter what people say, what do you feel? Go for that.
Very true, i did that many times too, it seems like a closed bottle, i am trying to stop dating him as he doesnt want a serious relationship, not knowing with me or at all, but he always call texts me once in a while, sending me confusing messages, its so hard to leave this as i m in love with him.... i deleted all contacts, but yesterday i received again message with link of the song "Mea Culpa" Enigma, these mind games are just killing... and everytime we try to speak he never give me direct answers... anytime i decide to meet him with the hope that this time he will have some clarity, but.... nothing...
@@positivevibeskx1102 oh honey you are in love with the idea of him...not actually him... yes there is a difference, for him you are just an amusement/distraction. put him back under that rock where you found him. let him torture someone else. you deserve someone who loves the magnificent you that you are. Trust that you deserve better; trust the universe to send you someone better. psssst there's millions of men on the planet.... look
I agree. Just celebrated our 8th years of marriage, and three years in a relationship before we tied the knot. So that's 11 years together. Appreciation comes a long way and more!💕 Thanks, Brian!
I love to show appreciation for a man. You are right, good men appreciate it. Unfortunately, far to many don’t do much to warrant showing appreciation to. It’s a problem.
When my picked me up to go shopping I tell him that he makes me feel like a woman again. He always smile and say thank you with an expression on his face showing it touches his heart deep down. We all love complements.
I always compliment him about everything he does because i love him, he is the most handsome man on this Earth to my eyes. When he said he doesn't sing good enough and people don't like his voice anymore because with time his voice changed, I told him how much I admire his voice, his voice literally turns me on. I could be hearing that sassy voice for the rest of my life. He is my favorite singer.😍
I feel lucky to be with the guy I am with now because he communicates well with me. He always asks how I'm feeling or how I like certain things and I make sure to be honest and tell him, be it good or bad. He asks for feedback when I may forget or when I'm hesistant and I really appreciate him for doing that.
Men need reassurance, appreciation and definitely sensual validation. I’ve learned that when I show and either verbalize, or even better text, my appreciation for things, I get a very nice response. I can see/feel the smile on his face through his return text.
What a great way to look at relationships, thank-you. A woman is the emotional conduit whereby a man can access his own feelings more easily. They can help each other in this way, makes so much sense! Love your take on this.
So good to know this, often underrated to appreciate men and let them know how good they make us, women feel. It is important indeed. Thank you for the reminder 💜💜
You make an interesting point. I would like to think that I'm authentic and tell people how I'm feeling and what I like and don't like, but maybe I should put more emphasis on thr positive. Learning to be vulnerable and also not a doormat is a delicate balance! Thank you.
Chivalry never goes out of style 🤚🤗. We want to feel we are treated like a lady, like a woman and most of all like a queen 🙏💛✨.And if a man will treat us like that we treat them back and sometimes we give much.
Makes so much sense, might explain why guys love their dogs so much; the over the top excitement, giddy running in circles joy reaction he receives every time he comes home. I doubt I'll go that far but I can certainly up my game so my man can see that his presence provokes a positive response in me......thanks for this valuable insight into the male psyche! 💕
I think we all love that. I have been a cat owner for decades and adopted two dogs a year and a half ago. I knew I wanted more companionship and love but nothing prepared me for how adorable they would be and how much love they would shower me with! The first time I left them alone for 5 hours and came home and they nearly passed out and ran around in me in circles with the biggest happiest smiles and joy killed me!!!! And it became equal I would equally get excited to see them. When the older Maltese died a few weeks ago I was in unbearable pain and agony it was horrendous to lose what felt like had become a great love of my life and best friend. Appreciating and adoring people and pets letting them know how happy you are to see them makes all the difference in the world!!! RIP my precious Malomar Moon 🌙
I just tried this in a text message I sent after we hung up the phone (he called before bed.) I’ve told him in the past that I like his voice, but never said “warm and tingly” until now 😳. I guess we’ll see what happens in the morning 😂 lol.
I told him I am always surprised when he would just suddenly pop up like he just came from nowhere and told him it's funny.🤣 After that he started talking to me often at work and online 🤭
Great video Brian thanks. I just told my boyfriend he made me feel electric inside he was over the moon. As we are in lockdown and also long distance it's extremely difficult.
Long distance relation ships never work. It only exciting because it's all new & u both are wanting to see 1 another. Not spending enough time together, to see & learn truth of 1 another. As long as there is not enough time with each other. It will where off. Either of u , will eventually move on to others. Sorry to pop your bubble. Your dreaming on la la land. P.s. he probably has others , while he toys with you. Wake up.
@@loreleinorris944 Work on your own issues instead of bitterly lashing out at others like this. And (I'm not a LDR fan myself, but) they objectively work just fine for a significant proportion of people. I hope you've gotten your priorities straightened out, & ideally also your facts, in the time since you wrote that incredibly toxic comment.
I just found you on RU-vid and am enjoying all of the wisdom and tidbits you are providing. Loving your examples to help ensure that we are understanding the content. I appreciate you caring and sharing. Blessings!!!
I give guys praise even if it's not returned. And then I tell myself stop telling him I don't think he cares about you. I've been told to watch out for the actions not the words.
"Yea tingly is my middle name, yea good for you" 🤣🤣🤣 dieing. Also love the face of the nice guy "what was that huh? what do I make you feel?" So sweet, endearing, and genuine.
@@aarzoosultana1592 I had the same experience too with a guy, which took me 4 months to find out that he simply has been searching to analyze my reactions so that he could understand better what to do in his life with other woman, i said to him on Christmas i cant go on anymore and he said ok so easily... , "you helped me to understand many things from life"... now i have my broken heart
@@positivevibeskx1102 I didn't even get an answer just complete silence.. the woman who is dating him made quite clear how I was just the litmus test to his experiment.. I find it funny tbh how low ppl can go. We deserve much better and I am sorry sister you had go through that .. he doesn't deserve u ❤
@@aarzoosultana1592 This is so rude of her to act like this, each moral person wouldn't cause this to anybody, to any reason... sure one day we all get back what we cause to others esp. if is intentionally i beleive... in my case wasnt so bad, as i dont know personaly his woman friends as we live different cities, but pictures on the fb. shows me they are more than just friends..., and when i put the puzzle back i remember his words many times pointed on how close friends they are, how long conversations they have but i didnt pay attention to that... Thank you for your nice words, need this right now my dear and will pray for love and let 💔 broken hearts get heal and find peace and love. God bless you ♥
@@positivevibeskx1102 like I said u dont know what ppl think . But anyways I believe the guy is the main culprit since he led me on. Thank u for you wishes.. God bless you too ❤ And I will pray that you will find peace n love in ur life ❤❤
Avocado! 🥑 Thank you so much Brian! 🤣 I remember when I thought mushy peas looked like guacamole. Not quite the same thing, but I can relate. Haha you totally made me laugh and grateful that it wasn’t me!
You are my best relationship advisor. I'm going to find the right man for me, even if it means I'm going to search for him the rest of my life, and I'm going to enjoy the journey.
Mine did, but later wore off as he did not show he was interested in me. But only one thing was on his mind. Yes that was awesome, but his heart was not in it. Felt very degrading
I did this to my crush. I still got friendzoned. 😭 I told him his eyes are beautiful, he sends me pictures of him. 😅 I told him I like his voice, that it's my favorite, I told him it's enough to make any woman fall in love (He's french and has the voice of Thor 😍 very masculine) he replied by sending voice messages back to me. 😂 Still... I think it just boosted his ego but I'm still friendzoned. 😭 But he also compliments me a lot. I send pictures and he says I'm beautiful and sometimes he would mention it for days. 😂 I would send him a voice message - me singing, and he said it was good. One time, he's drunk. He called me, when I asked why he said "I like to hear your voice." 😂😂😂 Idk if it's real but at least the drunk him appreciates me. We're just friends though. We've been friends for a year now. 😞 but I do like him so much because of how much he makes me feel good and loved (but only as a friend) 😅
Hello! I don’t wanna be a bad advisor or anything like this , but if a guy calls you when he’s drunk, for sure he appreciates you, find a way to get out of this friendzone, Go for him, go to see him at home, be nice with his parents , seduce him. God bless you and your relationship with him.
Say upfront abt ur feelings to him. If he still says ur just like a frnd stuff thn just move on. Ur waiting fr something tht he might nvr give to u. His heart. Move on n im sure u will gt a better guy than him.
I'm sorry. I'm fortunate, men love to get you flowers if you let him know you love a particular type of flower, he will make sure you get some. 🌷⚘🌺🌹💐 Best in love to you. 💐
Yeah, Strawberry Cat. Before we tied-the-knot the ex brought (not bought) me flowers. I commented they looked like funeral flowers. Haha. Then he told me he drives past a cemetery near his home and he sees perfectly good flowers in the dumpster & thought of me! 😂
20 years of narcissist alcoholic. Done i left . 2020 was bad yet I left. Intact 2021 is the year for me and a GOOD man . 3cheers from Canada. Happy New Year 2021 .
Thank you Bryan. I so appreciate this video, and all that you do for awesome relationships. This session made me smile in how I can express my feelings. Have an great week. ✨🌟
What if he really does make you all tingly inside at the sound of his voice, the touch of his hand, and when you see him walk in the room? What if no matter how bad your day is when you see him and are in his presence, all you worries melt away instantly? What if you've never felt the feeling your heart gets, almost like it's on a roller coaster, skipping beats and flipping over, when he looks you in the eye as His lips come down upon yours while you're anticipating his taste? What if you crave his smell, crave his touch, and crave his taste... and they are all the most amazing thing you've ever smelled, felt or tasted? What if you told him all of this daily and also told him how he is your fantasy and sometimes even describe how you fantasize about him when you're alone ? What if he begged you to move into his new house,marry him, and live happily ever after and you knew he loved you as much as you did him? What if you knew he was your soulmate and it had taken 32 years to figure it out? What if you were already married decades later when your paths crossed again? What would you do, if you were me?
Omg! Cindy! There are some videos on unrequited love. I watched one from the School of Life channel yesterday. Im not sure anything will cure how you are feeling. I think you will honestly just have to make a decision to stay in your marriage or to leave and take your chances on being single. Life is a journey. I guess you are at a fork in the road. Love to you sis.
I did this and he still runs from us. Admitted he’s scared but I’m not playing the keep me at a distance game. Come and find me when you realise you can’t live without me🤷🏽♀️
