Yea I too am so sorry for your loss of your mother … I get great enjoyment from your Chanel what an amazing person you are helping people see perspectives they may never consider. Your incredible !!
This is one of your imaginary daughters thanking you for these tips. They are very very helpful for the better understanding of my partner's emotions and desires. Thank you.
Brian, you have my deepest condolences for the passing of your Mom. Years ago, my dad died the Saturday before Father’s Day. In a way, I can relate. 😢 I’m glad that you had friends to reach out to you. I admire you for having the courage to be vulnerable about your grief. May you know and feel God’s comfort.✝️🙏🕊️
Such a fine line between emotionally support our man and mothering him... On the one hand it is from a place of soft and sweet feminine, and the other hand it is a condescending annoyance of tired mom archetype
I’m sorry for your loss, Brian. 😔 I hope you and your sister are feeling much better. Your mother loves you and you can still talk to her because she’s listening.
Brian, thank you for posting this video. Some of us (your imagery daughters) had cold and distant dads. The information you are sharing is helpful. As we women learn and understand men, we can adapt to be better wives and girlfriends. Therefore the relationships become more loving and caring. You are making a positive impact to all of us. 😊
I'm so sorry that your mom passed away. What a terrible loss. I'm sending you my deepest condolences from the mountains of California. Thank you for talking about the emotional lives and emotional needs of men.
Sincere condolences for your loss ❤ Thank you for sharing that very personal story. Your videos are great, and really keep me positive during these hard dating times! 😊
Please just go for one of the many, many good men out there. Men are generally decent, but if you don't believe that, it's unlikely you can handle a relationship.
@@javireyes7333 I know it's not simple. Try to go for someone who hasn't had a lot of women and is akward with you, maybe you even have to make a move on him, doesn't matter if you're both over 40. Once he is yours, he is yours. I did all this and mine is a capricorn on top, faithful, trustworthy. All my long time boyfriends were trustworthy, we just grew apart. Just date someone who isn't a player, smooth-talker, talks big words, all those are red flags. Look at a man's actions.
Thank you for these videos! I'm your imaginary grandmother and your words have given me excellent insight into my wonderful, late father, two husbands, and other men I've known.
I’m sorry for your loss Brian but I’m so grateful and moved by you sharing that. I see so much strength in you. You have helped so many women find a better partner. Thank you for all you do! You have helped me get over toxic men quickly and get closer to healthy, good men.
Brian, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Sending you my deepest condolences and love. I hope you are doing okay! It’s definitely okay to cry and be vulnerable. I hope you have people in your life that you can share with
I LOVED this video Geert!! Thank you!! NOW I understand why my husband works sooo hard for us!! We have 4 children together and still rent because finances. THANK YOU FOR being our ‘brother’ or grandson/dad with your men insider ‘secrets’!!! I’ve also noticed this unfairness of cratering to women when death occurs. My brother in law died last year and my husband and his male siblings and their Dad were basically ignored for needing comfort during the grieving process. But I know my husband and his brothers and Dad also need support and comfort if not more since it was a fellow male who died in the family. It is an unfair societal thing- as you put it men do “like spaghetti too” or to me men also need a break from thinking of meals too at such a horrible time of loss.
Ah, now I'm getting to understand what men desire 😮 Please keep sharing topics like this with examples like you presented. It truly helped me a lot. Thank you.
Hey Brian,this is your 20 yr old imaginary daughter from India 😁 Thanks a lot for providing such an informative and helpful content. Please upload more videos in imaginary daughter series.
Brian, I’m so sorry to hear about you and your sister losing your mother. I want to thank you so much for sharing your experiences around that situation as a way to help other people understand how men and women are perceived differently. It means a lot that you gave this gift of yourself. My prayers for all of you in return.
Brian, that are very sad news - sincere condoleances for the loss of your mother. Hopefully you and your sister can help each other to deal with this and share memories and talk over issues. Thank you for still making great content when in grief.
I am very sorry for the sudden loss of your mother! I lost mine last year and even though she had lived a very long life and her passing was expected, there is great grief. I hope you and your sister will allow yourselves to grieve well and not take short cuts.
Brian - I am so sorry for your loss of your Mom's passing. Can't imagine the circumstances in which you found her. You are a sweet, giving man who provides all of us ladies with invaluable information!! I always look forward to your knowledgeable videos as they are so helpful. You are a gem!! ❤❤
Deepest condolences for your loss, Geert. Grief is the most complex and difficult thing we experience as humans. Thank you so much for all your work. I think of you as my wise older brother and appreciate your insightful videos so much. ❤
Hi coach, my regards to you for the loss of your dear Mum ❤. Your content on here is excellent & has helped me so much. I'm in london & looking forward to your events here if you ever visit
Haat, ( sp) Your talent is exceptional & benefits so many people. You are such a solid man. We appreciate you, from the bottom of our hearts. You make the world a MUCH BETTER PLACE. Thank you, Brain. Sending love through this passing of your mother. She must have definitely been so proud of you! ❤️🙏 Thank you for ALL that you do. 🙏❤️
Hi Geert, thank you so much for sharing and deepest sympathy over the loss of your mother. Thanks for being open about your emotional side, it’s so much appreciated.
Deeply sorry for your loss Brian😢 we appreciate your videos and constant efforts, and I genuinely enjoy watching them - you really help a lot of people ❤ stay strong
Brian, you are such a lovely man and you give such wonderful advice filled with the truth. I am so sorry for the unexpected loss of your mother, especially on Mother's Day. May the memories you hold in your mind and heart give you comfort and peace.
Gecondoleerd Geert, ik wens jou en jullie dierbaren veel sterkte en kracht toe. Ik denk dat je moeder vanuit de hemel met een glimlach vol liefde en trots naar deze video heeft gekeken. Dank voor je fijne video.
My Dad hid his tears a lot, the way our community just is. I was more surprised though at the reaction of ppl towards my Godmother, who was still crying in public when we discussed Mom, after her 1 year anniversary of passing. They were best friends. My breath still catches if I try to imagine anything like that happening to mine. They're our externally chosen family outside genetics(unless you happen to be related). And yeah, I got protective over my Godmother, maybe scolded an Auntie and Sister or 2.
Sorry to hear of your loss, there are no words 😢 and thank you from your 48yr old imaginary daughter 🙏 and I always watch until the end as you make me laugh! 👏👏🤩
Hey, people are thoughtless sometimes and its not a reflection on you. Im making you a virtual Shepherd's Pie and giving you a long hug of support... No words needed, but im here for you in the ether. God sees, God knows, God hears your cry 😢 not a single tear is lost ❤🙏🏻
Understanding one another is something you should do. This video has been helpful, Brian! For some out there who are looking for some genuine connection, you could try our online chat!
Thank you again for such insight.... Im so very sorry for the loss of you're mum. Im a bereaved Mum and find many people ignore me as they feel too uncomfortable for if i maybe emotional or cry so in that respect its sometimes a person thingy not just a man one 🤗 Sending Love and Strenth for you and you're Sister 🤗 I'd be an added imaginary sister you didn't know you had.... yes true I want to be there and I get "I'm ok thank you I don't need anything" I'd love you to add the links to the studies and I am too very grateful that you stay the end as you're videos are always inspiring and helpful in learning about things as women we can't know without you telling us about them.... 🍝imaginary spaghetti from an imaginary sister... Take Good Care 🫂✨️🕊
Sorry for your loss Brian . Your mom is RIP now no more pain. Yes men they want to feel wanted , feel needed. They want being valued by their woman they want or they love.
I understood man’s world only after I became psychologist. Men express very less, why did world condition them like this. Let them be, let them express. They need help, give them help, physical & emotional, sadly they don’t ask. Love them, care for them & be gentle.