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As always.. I loved this. I get so excited from true men’s fashion and prestige style. It exemplifies their values, expertise, their lifestyle and list goes on. There is nothing more exciting then to see a man wearing textured clothing and hats. True elegance.
When you dress great, you feel great. Buy three to four different suits. A black, a gray, a blue and any other option you’d like. Then two to three dress shirts, three different ties, dress socks and finally a pair of black and brown dress shoes. Make sure they are fitted, not lose or too tight. You’ll feel like a million bucks! Trust me
My father was voted best dressed in school. He had many admirers. Later in life after his military career he would still wear his military dress blues and would often be the center of attention. He would satirically threaten my friends girlfriends if they were ever rude he would wear his Tartan to their wedding and upstage them. Style can bring joy and opportunities just wear them well.
This is how it was back in the day. You should hear how they spoke back then. Videos of women in the 50's and 60's. It is waay different. More feminine.
After watching a lot of your topics on Sartorial Talks I must conclude this: you not only understand the art to explain things like a skilled professional teacher would do (I know, Im a professional teacher 😉). You give just enough detail without losing the main goal of the explanation. You speak in a very pleasurable way, with lively intonation and emotion. You don't read a pre-written text, you tell us your stories. But most of all, I absolutely love your voice! It has a warm and cosy timbre, calms the listener down and opens him up to the content of your story. You're also always a joy to watch. Sonya, I could listen to and watch your vids for days! Keep them coming, please.
As you are coming from a related background, of course I respect and cherish your words. Please accept a heartfelt "thank you" for the time you gave to relay this message (with such a staying power). With gratitude, ~Sonya
I was blessed with beeing the first to see this video. Absolutely wonderful. Hugo and Sonya remain classic and better dressed than 90 percent of "celebrities" who are trying to reinvent the wheel. Keep going and teach men and women about elegance! Best regards from Croatia!
This channel has given me so much insight and I was inspired by the immense passion you radiate in every video. I also have great respect for your efforts to reply to so many comments which demonstrates and strengthens the sense of community. As someone just starting his sartorial journey (and a german on top of it), it greatly encourages me to be warmly invited, independent on "where I am on this personal journey" as Sonya put it in one of the videos. If I may request a topic, it would be pants. It is an important part that often seems to be overlooked. Best regards
Part pragmatic and part dashing. Absolutely. I can’t tell you how much I’ve enjoyed this particular video. Everything makes absolute sense. Thank you Sonia.
One of the best coverage of men style. I really appreciate and enjoyed how you tied the inner us and our struggles to reveal and express ourselves to others through style. A few are naturally gifted, however, for many of us it is coaching such yours is how we can find our way. Thank you indeed. This was well presented.
This is the best video that sartorial talks have done for a long time..... and defiantly the button boot is my favourite footwear out of all of these....
I appreciate your reply and am happy to know you have an appreciation for the (original) soundtrack composition by Justin Melland just for ST. Cheers to you! ~Sonya
Another gem from Sonya. Thank you. Have coincidentally just been in a work session about introverts, extroverts and ambiverts. Like those categories, I think most of us have elements of more than one archetype. Love the research from Ariel and Men's Health. A lot of women I know would simply like men to shower and shave on a regular basis!
Thanks for the video Sonya. Very informative and interesting. Your delivery and presence are almost hypnotic for me... really enjoyed listening and watching you talking...too bad there aren't videos of you and Hugo coming out more frequently...but the quality of the ones you put out are of the highest I've seen on the internet. Thanks again!
Hi Sean, Among other things, we do a small talk show for our Patrons on our Patreon site, which is helping us increase productions. But most of all, thank you for all this encouragement---without it our job would be MUCH less fulfilling. Cheers! ~Sonya
Such great advice and wisdom bringing clarity on what persona someone would like to portray. It’s always a pleasure to learn from you and Hugo. Thank you very much and God bless
I love the number 9...so I'm glad I am called "1800"; I like the term "composed" as we do have music that plays when we enter a room. In the 80s I dressed in "Futuristic" style, and yes I had a WW2 coat
Thank you Sonya, I had to watch this video twice, if only to hear and see you talk but also to get a better idea of who I am and who I would like to be. Simply beautiful video.
Because of your kind message, I can tell you that I was nervous about making this talk, but a sincere spirit apparently came through, and now I'm happy to read your perceptions--and glad you took the time to write. Cheers! ~Sonya
I could not stop smiling wachting the video. The shoe recoment-ation of Hugo absolutely nailed it. Me and my bro's very often "judging" men by the type of shoes they wear- with more or less the same result. Good job!
So nice of you to say, and I have to agree in regard to the power of a great pair of shoes to transform a man's appearance, no matter what garments he is wearing. But the greatest thing is to see a person feel better when he feels good about his shoes. I can't explain it but have seen the phenomenon repeat itself. ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS thank you for taking time to answer! I totally agree with you. Ps: the most inspiring part of the "parisian gentlemen" was definitely chapter3 "of shoes and men" -Peter
Thanks so much Sonya for the amazing way you continue teach and share from a womans point of view on mens fashion. I continue to learn alot from your video and look forward to the next one. Have a great day. Mike
Loved the insights, especially with the nod towards psychology. As a photographer, colour theory is something that always fascinates me and where you mention red, I agree 100%. It's the same reason that red lipstick is popular in women, or you see lots of reds in flamenco dresses to really bring out the passion! Rich colours in general work well I think (golds, browns, orange, the colours of autumn for that 'snuggle by the fireplace' feeling) and are, perhaps, a subject for a whole video or book of their own! Great episode! Loved it!
Now I am inspired to try a splash of more color and see what happens. Thank you--and the red in your thumbnail does relay a nice energy, so bravo! ~Sonya
I can't really say if I'm 3, 4, 5 or 7. But luckily one doesn't have to choose. I am still at the beginning of my style jurney and I am open to everything!
Sonya you have such an Elegant way of speaking, I love all the video's you and Hugo produce, you are making the world a more Elegant place. Keep up the fantastic work. from your Sartorial disciples in British Columbia, Canada
This is the first video I seen from this channel, so gracefully named the 'Sartorial Talks.' I am going to subscribe based on the quality of this video about the different type of men's style as well the channel name! (14 May 2023).
+SAPTORIAL TALKS - Sonya and Hugo, you two make an awesome/dynamic couple. Brilliant subject with examples, indeed! 'Thank You' much for all that you both present in life with style. Blessings to you both! ~ Benjamin G. / NYC, USA
My environment requires minimalist or dashing, but my heart is at the circa 1800; countryside elegant; and dandy. She and I will follow our own path, and these little big details can make it all the more enjoyable :) Thank you for the nice video.
in a very professional way, as a fashion lover and photographer, I cant stop listening to you and taking my eyes off you.. Very well spoken and great information relayed over. Thank you so much. I'm learning quite a bit. Keep up the videos please.
As every painter has his own palette of colors even though he uses the same basic colors as other painters. So your "basic colors" that you present here Hugo and Sonya, are really interesting and original! Thanks for the great podcast!
I'd like to see her use photos of men wearing sneakers to describe how to use various types of pants like light blue, dark blue, grey, light brown, dark brown, white, burgundy, olive, denim, joggers paired with various shirt types, and extremely importantly, how to make decisions related to complimentary colours, analogous colours, triadic, earth tones, pastel, monochrome, textures, patterns vs. solids. I'm 35 and I'm fairly advanced, but I need extremely accurate and precise information about how to extend into the next levels of sneaker expression. As an example, I'd love to hear her talk about Nike Blazer Low GT, Nike Blazer Mid, Nike Air Max 90, and Nike Air Jordan 4... I consider those shoe silhouettes to be art pieces, and they are in my opinion fabulous starting points for some outfits, but I'm not sure how to decide if I want to aim for 2, 3 or 4 colours, and where, because splashes of colour in the watch, belt, socks, hats. My hair is blond, so I want her to talk about hair colour as well. I hope my "request" is sartorial-grade. Any videos over time will be much appreciated. I would love her to take a deep dive into those above mentioned shoe models and figure out what makes them tick for the female mind.
My daughter is 5 and I've already told her if a young man asks her on a date and is wearing tracksuit bottoms, to walk away 😂 setting the bar high now. Ps she can date at 30 😜
Good day Mr Jacomet and Ms Nicholson. I can't recall how I've come across your videos but it has been extremely educational. Such a different way to view men's clothing in this fast fashion, throw away culture. If possible I would appreciate your opinion and advice. I live in a warm climate which makes dressing well difficult from a practical perspective. Added to this is that the standard manner of men's dressing here (South Africa) is extremely casual. When one aims to dress well one is perceived as trying too hard, you certainly stand out from the crowd. There are many who dress well, but sadly sacrifice so much to do so. Many go into debt to acquire good clothes . Many guys come across as focusing solely on clothes and appearance. Which is why some guys don't aim to dress well as they do not want to appear vain/proud(sadly that was my perspective). What I appreciate about your channel and approach is that vanity and pride do not come across at all. What are your best suggestions for dressing well in warm climates? What would be a good start for a young man aiming to dress better? It would be great to afford the best but that is beyond many budgets. Grateful for your work and long may it continue. God bless
A high twist open weave summer blazer could change a person's life for the better in a warm climate ! God bless you and sorry the the very late reply. Yours, Sonya and Hugo
I feel that I may be a mixture of the dashing, circa 1800 man and the countryside gentleman. I tend to make my own style. Mixing the silver pocket watch with a modern suit and waistcoat. But always warm. Always joyful.
@@justcaused6182 You can go with a 2 piece suit or a double button suit for everyday too. You can go to the opera buy the 500$ seats and go in white tie or little less formal black tie.
You definitely can. But sadly it's not the golden days of man's style so everybody is wearing joggers and T-shirt. If tomorrow they were to start wearing suits as casual clothing, I'd be the first to jump on that train. I love suits. Sadly I feel alienated whenever I dress up for an event, because I will most likely outdress everyone.
@@justcaused6182 It's same for me too. I really enjoy wearing suits but if I were too much overdressed than other people in my class (I'm high school 20yrs old) I'd would look weird. I wear casual, sometimes business casual - button down and still outdress most of the classmates. But I've reached a level where I would feel extremely uncomfortable wearing sweatpants, nikes and hoodies. It would be as uncomfortable for me as if I were only dressed in swimming trunks. But when you walking outside you can dress in a suit and you will look good, no one will make fun of you. In class I've seen professors take me for more mature and respect me more than others. I like to be 2 levels dressed up than others. For example if someone is wearing hoodie I'll be wearing a polo shirt or a dress shirt, if people around me will be in casual suits with no neckwear, I'll go more formal and wear a tie. I always try to be well dressed but not over dressed because that would not make me look well dressed, but weird. What do you think?
Very well explained the „problem“ the dashing man has, unfortunately I’m speaking by experience! But also this goes both ways, I more often than I like subconsciously seek women who match this „archetype“ and overlook other women’s companionship.
Hi FG, I find your comment to be intriguing and haven't considered like attracting like, in this category. Thank you for your reply and for triggering new thought! ~Sonya
I am not a scholar in this field but based on my experience, women notice when you „just“ take care of you and your wardrobe. I don‘t need to wear a suit at work or when I go out; but I want to. Just to make me feel good, have a good time and of course, people notice that you feel good. I can dress more than decent with a pair of jeans, a shirt and a pair of derby shoes or Chelsea boots (which I love). I would say, that I fall in the minimalist category. I am 6‘4“. So I stand out physically, so regarding wardrobe, watches and shoes I try to keep it simple.
Great talk as always, and great presentation Sonya! Of the given archetypes I think I most closely resemble #5, whilst I can appreciate a clean smooth look of a pristine suit, I much prefer textured and rougher fabrics as they look much more approachable. I do a lot of the housework at home by the way, my wife has to steal some away from me :) - Han
Adore the comment, and imagine your wife feels grateful, haaa. No. 5 is a charming, comfortable and welcoming look, and it seems like these traits could reflect who you are. Cheers! ~Sonya
I’m only on the second archetype and all I’ve got to say is tear it *ALL* up and give me the *RISK*. I want to feel the creativity flowing on the edge of madness. While everyone else is wearing blue give me RED. A thought is that this may be a part of the composition that brings me the mysterious crowd I’m looking for..
Very nice like always and thank you for the explanation and persona of men style.Indeed, i recognize myself like a mix between a pragmantic and a dandy.
I would suggest that you do an episode or series on each archetype. I especially would like to see the circa 1800’s and dandy unpackaged a bit more. Great video!
Now I can tell you, this video was difficult to do, as coming across as an authority on the matter didn't seem possible---but Hugo insisted. I will reflect on your suggestion and a heartfelt thanks for the encouragement! ~Sonya
@The Vest Practice Yes AND I am curious about your vests as well. We recently recorded an episode on waistcoats, but I would really like to understand the story on the knit vest too. Thank you for your support here and on Patreon! ~Sonya
Most men that I know who happen to have a deep knowledge of gentlemen's clothing style(s) simply do not care what women think of our dress code(s) and associated archetype(s). We wear our clothing for our own personal enjoyment. If, as an ancillary resulting effect, my dressing style communicates that I am unapproachable, then it is excellent that poaching women stay clear. Such an outcome translates into clarity and prevents any misunderstandings which in the current social climate is tantamount. Should I see a woman that I happened to be interested in, she would know and understand in perfect time...
Hey Sonya! Really enjoyed and appreciated this video! "Geek Suave" is an amazing description! Dis you make that up? Maybe Webster's Dictionary add this term?
What a brilliant and beautiful woman. Spot on! ... I have been saying the very same things for few years now. I would add to that: Work on refining your persona and make sure that your personality is even better. That would simply be: unique brilliance!
Very kind, and thank you for the reminder to keep it in perspective. I agree with you, the type of person you are outweighs 'what you wear' for sure, yet the combination of doing both in a thoughtful way can create a sort of unique brilliance, indeed. Cheers! ~Sonya
I think mixing switching styles may also be a thing. I for myself, would identify with the circa 1800 and futuristic archetype. Really contrary but history and future are both really interesting for me. It's nice to get some quality input on these in terms of characteristics. Quite inspiring. 👍
I try to avoid wearing business suits daily through fear of misrepresenting myself but whenever I’ve worn a tie say a shantung with a denim shirt it seems to signal to women that I have a desire to appear elegantly and they seem to respond to this with favourable looks and makes some of them appear to be safer as to what my personality is! They let you in just a little bit more!
The Circa 1800 seems to be inline with who I am - approachable and cerebral. But I just can't imagine myself dressing like this in the office. And a fob watch, lol... 1800's indeed. Although I do like the Vass Oxfords, but they're out of stock. This was a great video; has given me a lot to think about in terms of my personal style and brand.
Also your videos are a must see for young men focused on building our image and understanding who we really are and Will be once again in Black America.
