In the end forget women. A woman no matter what "right things" you do, will never ever truly be yours.. not for myself or Terry Joe Junior or anyone. A woman is only of this world, like Earth's possessions distract you from your life purpose. So do the right things for yourself and only yourself. Life is short. Maybe that great woman who only loves us and only us for who we are and not for what we can provide is in the next life and world, but it sure ain't this life here on Earth.
But I think you could find a few, if not a group of people who are the least like what you describe here- (out of most all ppl) and than make compromise and work together we should support each other and if anything use each other for our own benefit, if that's really how it's gotta be
Lol today is my birthday and this title describes me, good timing. I’ve removed the toxic people and found myself alone but honestly I wouldn’t even go back to how things were before, things are healthier now.
Gym, wood working, diy projects, golf, hiking, gardening, reading, cooking I just dive deep into my hobbies and learn as much as I can. Really builds the resume. Edit: there’s nothing that fills the void of human companionship. Activities and hobbies can only take your mind off of it.
Working on your vehicle. Pretty damned priceless. One of the best ways to increase your value as a 15+ year old. Try to do things in a safe way though. Make sure you get crucial rotational lug nuts and bolts as tight as they're supposed to be. Solder up wires too if it's a custom stereo, just cleaned up a hack job on my new to me Rangers' stereo, it wasn't dangerous or shorting not counting the one wire they had directly to the battery lol. But it was just not ideal. Get a 4cyl RWD manual transmission pickup or car. Save you a ton of resources. Imo smart call way in advance.
I would rather give up everything for GOD'S knowledge, wisdom, and logic, unlike those that have secretly dealt with the devil shaking his hand for lucifarian intelect over biblical intelect! Lucifarian intelect serves self, pedalises self, wants worldly power/control GOD'S intelect serves GOD/JESUS CHRIST via The Holy Spirit for their greater good/glory
I always tend to blame others for my failures but I've started to realise lately that nobody gives a fuck about your life. Nobody knows what’s good for you, nobody can understand your situation better than yourself. And although it might seem wrong, it's not, because we all are in the same boat. Only you can get yourself out of the rut. You gotta be strong, you gotta be unshakable like a mountain, maintain calm and analyse your failures and keep upgrading yourself, there's no other way. One of the most important things that I've learnt is the importance of calmness, don't let your emotions take control it'll destroy you. Going with the flow is not always bad just don't stop trying for betterment of your life. You must do whatever is under your control. Once you have done what needs to be done just let your fate do it's thing. You must understand , not everything is under your control, life will never be fair to everyone. Sometimes accepting the reality can lighten our burden. I don't deny that you gotta worry about things sometimes and it's good for our progress but don't take life too seriously to the limit that you forget you are a human being and not a worthless rat stuck in a never-ending rat race, please don't treat life as something permanent, it's gonna end at some point. So don't be so hard on yourself.
Women want want want but dont even offer empathy. Theres no point in wanting something that they wont give naturally. As Christians were supposed to love our neighbors as we love ourselves, and yet its so hardto find a Christian woman and even them lack empathy, not all, but some. Ive just been focussing on my work and remodeling my house amen.
What I've been doing right now while theyre all laughing and giggling at us. I been looking and searching for bunkers in case it all goes to hell and I found a few. They seem to think its all a game until its too late.
I remember a classmate writing in my yearbook to stay as “nice as I am”. It’s not gonna happen for those “nice” people. It doesn’t mean be ruthless or uncaring to your people. What I’m saying is to get real with each other. Also, retain as much personal privacy as you can. Retaining you privacy doesn’t necessarily mean that you have something to hide. It’s more a matter of soulful dignity.
Just went on my first run for training for my marathon!!!! I’m not the best runner by any stretch, but I never stopped moving!!! I got in 3 miles today and tonight I am gonna train more with my kettlebell!!!! The best part about this marathon training journey for me is that I have no deadline for myself. I understand that I am not gonna achieve the build in a day months maybe even a year or a couple who gives a fuck!!!! Just work on it every now and then and you will be alright!!! Edit: set my fitness app up and it said I ran 4 and a half miles today. I’m running again tomorrow morning when I wake up. Kettlebell at night. This is a part of me now.
I’m going without women for a few years to work on myself starting today. No more dating apps, no more casual, just strictly business and that is self improvement. Thanks Terry for the inspiration.
As someone who spent a lot of time alone in nature upgrading my mind with psychedelics and evolving, your videos help me a lot with navigating interpersonal relations
If you marry a woman that has college debt watch out. She will expect you to help pay off the college debt and all her credit card debt. She will want one child during this period. Once all that is accomplish it will be through. Clean slate on her debt and 1 child. Then you will be alimony and child support for years to come.
To my 20 yo self: Lift weights, do jiu jitsu, eat steak, and be financially disciplined. To my 40 yo self: lift weights 🏋️♀️ do jiu jitsu eat steak and be financially disciplined 😊fyi im 36
Thank you Terry! My ex wife hurt me bad. Slept with my brother ns mentally tortured me for years.. I'm starting to heal now. Slowly. But she was evil. Thank you everyone. ❤️
Those women who say I hate to see you being so serious, yet were the only ones looking out for ourselves. And shes only saying that because she probably has afamily or people shes had to depend on. She relys on her parents i garentee and she takes no accountability. Women do not care.
In some ways yes, you can't expect anything from anyone, because some people literally have nothing to give, they have no self love or respect, and therefore can give no love or respect, even if they are millionaires. At the same time you can expect from others, and that's where self respect, boundaries, and self confidence come into play. You can't just be so "hard" you don't need anything from anyone, about every single thing you buy was made from another human being, as well as anyone needs support to some extent to make it at all in this world.....
Needy men are judged as boys, narcissists, and failures. A needy man is considered disgusting, disturbing, and dangerous. Independence is what's expected of men ultimately. By both men and women. Separation or abandonment is deliberately used to forcefully motivate them to become independent. Only when they are successful alone will anyone want to connect with them now that they're useful. That is the reality of a man. You're rejected until the rejection doesn't matter anymore; since you've learned, modified yourself, improved, adapted, and survived alone. Once they accept men are viewed as either needed = wanted or needy = unwanted, hardening becomes the only way not to break. There's only a singular frame in which a man is viewed. He must serve and if he isn't serving he's not a real man. He's not to be served. Let him fail until he earns his place. Not all men, but clearly on a global scale thousands of men are recognizing they're a commodity. A utility. Human capital born whether they knew this or not to serve regardless of whatever they lack and need. You're speaking of men as if they're viewed as women. There's no test for a girls to become women. Our test is being cut off. Clearly it doesn't matter to the majority of humanity what men would determine and communicate themselves that they need. The message is crystal clear: Support yourself or we'll leave you behind, beat you if you fall, and if you're not getting up immediately, we're not going to stop until you do or depart. All anyone wants from men is the expected results from which they could extract. Extraction is the only way most of them know how to relate to men. Take what they will from a man's input avariciously. There's no saviors or neighbors for the majority of men. There's a few rare men and women here and there who care for some without expecting a return investment. Being a man, aside from what he does or his deeds, evidently, is an increasingly nightmarish curse that either makes one great or grim.
For a man life begins around 31, 25ish if you are ahead of the curve. Really helps too to get good with women, you'll be able to tell the difference between the special ones, and the ones you I want to stay as far away as possible. And work hard as you can for at least five and a half days a week, that's the old man's advice.
If theres anything i can share of most importance, its the spiritual. Jesus said he's the way, truth and life. He also said in scripture hes the fountain of life. All good and pure things come from him. When you feel clean inside, dont you feel good? Read the bible and be a doer of it. And, out of your belly will flow rivers of living water.
Gotta watch out for common subject as they tend to be centralised contents being programmed then .... avatar AI bot replacement.i dont follow status quo for these reason
Been “talking/dating” this girl for about 8 months now, everyday text back n forth… seems like we have a pretty cool connection, why’d she ask “why haven’t I given up”?
It just became very depressing because you are told to concentrate on school. Did nothing, only cause stress. The transition to getting a interview, and then working in the job is very very hard, because the workplace is about survival.
I'm 59 and I've learned that no woman is truly yours as the saying goes She's not truly yours It's just your turn So no matter what you do for yourself be it getting in shape building muscles etc etc That woman you attract will never be yours regardless of what you do for yourself It's just your turn Men need to know this from the get go and don't be building yourself up to attract the perfect woman for you or you will surely be disappointed 💯
Tbh, with the way things have been lately - and it's really just about the behavior of people that is so utterly complicated nowadays, and not so much about masculinity or feminism.
I'm not sure where I stand on this because this state of mind will work for when you're young, but developing this mindset to keep for older ages won't work as you will seem as an insensitive elderly
Well said. We need a reminder like this. We cannot depend on another human being, who is fallable, to save us or deliver us. A long term girlfriend's subconscious has no incentive to give her man a lot of complements. It may inadvertently make him internally weak by teaching him to become dependent on her validation. Also, she doesn't want to inflate his ego which may increase the chances he will cheat or leave the relationship. The correct game plan for the wife's subconscious is to attempt to bring down the man's self confidence as a test and see if he ignores this and keeps his frame. If he fails, this becomes a reason to lose respect for him. If he passes the test and keeps his own self respect independent from her, she then can respect him since she is following his own self respect. It sucks, but that is the burden of having a wife or long term girlfriend. Expect her to never give validation or complements. It's the man's responsibility to carry his own stamp of approval.
It sucks sometimes but at the same time it’s actually really dope being single. I’m about to spend 3k on a 60mph scooter to go exploring and pulling up in parks jumping rope, getting workouts in, riding on backroads trails, aggressive street riding. And I didn’t have to justify anything to anyone or ask my mommy for permission to buy one, let alone go riding it 😅
nah we got each other, and the ability to guard each other and our interests when we need meat get meat when we need dough get dough and be there for one another with one thing that THEY dont understand which is honor, the principle and that protects instead of the way the world works which is us dying for them which is never worth it, none of them are worth it
The whole point of being a man with a family a wife and kids is to be the head of the household and to lead the family. When you get no respect as a man by society then there is no point its better to just be alone.
Came close to marriage a couple of times and I backed out. Now 61 and have been retired for 2 years. Not getting married was my best decision, investing 2nd. I have seen many men lose it all. Heard of many men who are homeless because they lost everything.
TJJ, You just paid it forward. Young men will come across this video in the next 5 years and they will take heed with what you said. Men need to look out for men because no one else will.
So much is decided by mindset. I like what he said about being the top dog in your life. The farther you stray from that mentality the higher the chances of depression, anxiety, failure.
I am a gay dude and I have accepted the reality that I will probably live the rest of my life alone. Instead of searching for the man of my dreams, I intend to become the man of my dreams.
Joel, there are loads of misleading men who are available at every turn to women. This is a truly sad reality for women. It’s heartbreaking. It’s confusing to women with an open heart. Women are vulnerable to male predators. Admittedly, women must grow strong and determined to reach their life goals every bit as much as our men. I appreciate your channel. ❤
Very true. I did what was "REQUIRED" and drank a Molson CANADIAN in honor of Terry and levelled up 5 levels in ELDEN RING. Took screenshots and posted on TINDER. Going out with a hot woman tonight. Thanks Terry!!
I was out living on my own when I was 18, paying rent, working a full time job, going to night classes and I would constantly hear the "You're so serious" nonsense. Now at 32 I still hear that garbage from a bunch of people who are several years my senior and have nothing going on and nothing to show for it, while I have grown and gained through all of those years. I never understood how people can take their own lives so lightly, I can relax and move more freely now because I took life seriously early.
Heres the deal though, you can be 100 percent and you cangrow and become the best or do asthe bible says there is a time to put away childish things. But heres the deal finding an empathetic woman is important, and the reason being is she will be the mother to your children. Also why would you want a mate to be selfish. Otherwise you could and would be with any hot dumb girl. Yeah there sexy but there heart is not right. So i agree yes get your shit together amen.
According to that logic, when she says that you got too serious and are no longer fun what she is really saying is that she doesn't like the way you make her feel anymore. Meaning that you becoming the man you're meant to be makes her feel dumb and insignificant because she's not becoming the woman that she's meant to be. Meaning, you are on two completely different paths and your future together will never align unless one of you changes, either you change for the worse or she change for the better.
true strength, is opening your heart to the darkness, its easy to give in to negative perspectives and acting cold about everything. God crated us with open hearts and love, dont let the evil distinguish your light.
The human decide for the weed and against the grain because the weed is stronger and abort the grain but they know right they want to eat grain but they are going to eat the weed, and it is determined by them, it is so funny but try not to laught 😂😂😂
Dude! All of the RU-vid advertisements in your videos are all speaking the opposite of your content! 😅 Lol it's all about there careers and female empowerment and making lots of money haha.
Love. Specifically unconditional love doesn't exist. There are conditions as to why your girl or even your own children love you. The only people capable of unconditional love are us men. I no longer waste my time with it. I'm the only one I love. Women and the children I have with them are replaceable. It's that simple. Welcome to reality, I hope you enjoy your stay.
@@SeekJesusFindLife Nobody loves you unconditionally. There are conditions. I doubt your mom would love you unconditionally if you ruined her life, killed everyone she loved, and finally killed her. Grow up man
