Di this video was very helpful❤. My major takeaway was you have to be specific about who are you showing your vulnerable side . I sometimes feel difficult to communicate my feelings so can you please make a video About communicating briefly about emotions if possible :))
Hello didi!! I am 16 year old who had really toxic,dominating and abusive father so i grew up being really shy and introvert. As a child with zero confidence and really low self esteem, i had no friends, no siblings with whom i could express my emotions. I started to struggle with anxiety and depression at really young age. I spended years felling worthless , their was no one who could help me , i had sucidal thoughts. I was in 5th standard when i first time tried to suicide but 2-3 years back i recognized my problem and started to work upon it. I took help from online video and website. My mental health had improved a lot in these 2 years and life had become much better but still sometimes i struggle talking to people and feel anxious. Since i never expressed my emotions, i struggle to do so. I am not very expressive. I want to share my problem with people, i want to raise my opinion but i just don't know how to. I find it really difficult to express myself. Please advice me, what should i do???🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think you should have to hear acharya prashant..!!! Kyuki dekho dost...,mai bhi aisi hi family se belong karta hu...,aur jo stage me tum ho waise stage me mai bhi hu..!!😢 Mai bhi iss situation se guzar raha hu...,You are 16...,I am of 17 years...,class 10th me maine bhi suicide karne ki koshish kari thi...,bhu mere aaradhya bhagwaan Krishna ke gyan shrimad bhagwat gita ne mujhe rok diya..!! You and me...,we both are in a same condition...,isska solution yahi hai ki:- 1. Acharya Prashant Ji ko suno...,wo koi aare-gaare acharya nahi hai...,unki wajah se mai aaj zinda hu...,warna hai bhi un mentally weak pearsons me aa jata...,jo choti choti baato pr suicide kar lete hai..!! 2. Acche se padhai karo...,ya koi skill me acchi ho toh uss skill me excellence haasil karo...,aur fatafat financially stable ho jao...,aur apne ghar se duur chale jao...,kyuki risto me apnu ehmiyat jamane ke liye...,physically unse duur hona padta hai..!! Don't forget to hear acharya prashant..!!❤🤗
Take make me time for self and try to build yr life that u want to ,by not giving attention to others opinions on u It will take time but u will I believe ❤
You should read bhagwad Geeta you can start chanting hare krsna mahamantra This is my personal experience I also tried to suicide but now I am able to help myself Get more close to your soul....supersoul
Don't be scared of what you feel... Or what people say of your expression ... It's your emotions it's you only.... What people think of you is not your problem. Prioritize yourself. Talk with only positive people who genuinely wants your good avoid negativity... Try to meditate and do pray whichever God you believe in... And about past trauma... Do journal do inner work... Heal yourself ... Books will help in this... And if necessary try to take therapist advice also Take care❤ everything is ohk and will be more ohk ❤
Beautifully explained Drishti and yes it is indeed a sensitive topic but you did a wonderful job here. And yes the cyclist which was infront of you while you were shooting is a born winner😉
Journaling helps a lot ...guys if u cant find anyone to share ..take a pen and paper ..and write what u feel ...and congratulations diristi di for being regular ❤️
Emotions My learning from this video Learn to deal with emotions It helps to build relationships Communication Set healthy boundaries Self awareness How to work on emotional intelligence? Start embracing silence ( don't ignore your emotions instead try to fell it & give it a name ) It also help to being empathetic good listener and friends It help to communicate politely FOR SHARING EMOTIONS Be specific to who you are sharing your vulnerable side Try to balance your feminine and masculine energy, give space to people Stay comfortable and learn to handle your emotions 😌 " hum sab chahte hai ke hame koi same par hum samajna nahi chahte " - I will try to understand others Thanks for being consistent 😊 Love you ❤
Aap se har bar mujhe kuch naya sikhne ko milta hai di and i enjoy it ❤☺️ or is video se mujhe realise hua ki ek ladki hote hue bhi meri life me aisa koi nhi hai ki jisse mai apne emotions share kar saku 🥲
This is really eye opening video for me and really needed at this time when i shouted to my mother tody morning now i m crying and regretting bcoz that time I didn't even know how i was feeling at that time just frustrated i m dropping this comment so that when evr i behave like this i need to remind myself ki i should know my emotions 😐💯will try my best to improve the emotions
Hey! Found this vedio 5min back and i just clicked on it and when I ended up with ur vedio ho my god drishti ur amazing😍 please come up with these type of topics which no wants to spoke thank you❤
Extremely Informative Video We All Need To Understand This Basic Difference Which Most Probably Ignore. Take Away From This Video Is Practice Silence And What I Would Like To Do To Deal With Stress Or Whenever I Want To Show My Vulnerable Side That I Like To Write Called As Scripting Because It Helped Me A lot ❤️
Hello didi, whenever I feel stressed or Sad I start to watch your videos, I feel positive, after watching your Video for some time I forgot the problems in my world,I feel calm 😊 You are my personal Favourite Human being on this earth🌎 ❤.
Mi9 too coz I feel her like a cousin Di who is eventhough physically distanced but still understanding me very well without even sharing her things & trying to find possible solutions for my every possible problems .
I completely agree with you! It's important to break down gender stereotypes and allow everyone, including boys, to express their emotions freely. It's a serious issue that needs more attention and understanding. Expressiveness should be encouraged and supported. But, there is another way to look at it too. People never listened to a man sharing his problems or emotions without judging him ( without thinking that he is too weak & laughing at his problems/emotions he shared ). Its the men themselves who laugh and tell that " Abee sales tum mard hoo yee sab kuch nahi hai " And when we share it with a female friend or generally a girl, they also don't care, because I have faced both of this. When I really opened up with a girl and made myself vulnerable, she just made fun of me & my problems ( emotions ) behind my back. Its easy to just say break the stereotypes, but in reality noboday gives a damn about men's mental health. so, sometimes being a STOIC & not sharing my emotions with anyone is a better option. Because at the end of the day even if I share things with any, 70% of people don't give a damn about it, 20% are happy that you have those problems & 10% even after understanding the problem / emotions just laugh at you. This is the reality of all the men out there struggling with mental health. And to top it off Men's mental health has historically been a topic that has received less attention and discussion compared to women's mental health. I still don't share any of my emotions with any now, I am always alone in my room, studying & watching movies. when I feel like finally I made a friend with whom I can share my emotions, they too leave me. I don't know why ( I don't know if I am such bad person to be with, or people just don't like the way I look or something ) Almost 2 to 3 days in a week, I just cry sitting on my bed. I am fedup watching others making new friends & girlfriends, and they going out & having a great time. ( that's the reason I have deleted almost all my social media platforms too, from last 5 months ) I just don't know, maybe I am really that bad, that people don't like to spend time with me. BTW Thanks for addressing the issue. Lots of love from a Guy with lots of mental trauma!!
Exactly I understand this perspective and I wanted the women and other men to give each other that space so that they can be vulnerable with each other! This video was just a way to put out this message. I hope things get better for us with time and people become more aware about this problem
Drishti, your perspective on showing emotions and its role in building healthy relationships is both insightful and heartwarming. Your ability to articulate the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in connecting with others is a valuable lesson for all of us.
I'm someone who used to over share things in past but now, it's all opposite. I've got OCD and because of that, I've become totally non expressive person. I only talk about my emotions to few online strangers who are suffering from same condition as me or whom I think will understand me. So you need to be very very specific to whom you're sharing your emotions and if you share about your emotions to someone who's not so understanding then it would affect your mental health even more. Such people would probably can't understand from what you're going through so it's better to keep your emotions to yourself until you find someone and feel that he/she would understand your emotions and problems. I don't care if I've more masculine energy because I'm into more feminine things but again, don't lable the energies or think that "it will make you less feminine or masculine". Energies are energies without having gender so be very particular about showing your vulnerable side to someone. SOLITUDE IS BETTER THAN TOXICITY !!
I'm a girl and even I can't share my emotion and I think the main reason is that I feel if I tell my emotions to anyone they'll use it somewhere else and the point you stated that being with yourself would let you understand yourself. It is not true I think because if I talk to myself I will just ruin myself more because of overthinking The solution for me was my humor I just joke about everything going on I my life and let people joke about it so that it really become easy for me to handle that emotion or that particular feeling
Drishti di you don't even know how much you help me with your videos...I'm always dealing with frustration and anger nd is always shouting on my loved ones I'm hardly trying to control myself but I'm failing consistently Hope after this video something will change Nd also lots of love and also always getting inspired and motivated by your videos Thank you for noticing my previous comment and thanks and love you again ❤
With all due respect Drishti, 1st of all, I'm happy to see you after a very long time. (I didn't come to your channel due to stress with work :p ) 2ndly, the statistics shows that when a man shows emotion, a girl gradually starts losing feellings towards him. I'm not lying. You can do your own research. Trust me, we hate it too. We also want a shoulder to cry. But whenever we show any kind of emotion, girls lose interest and thinks that we are immature, short tempered, not a bf material and count us as best 2nd option. I'm commenting it from experience. Trust me, I want to cry while I'm writing that. But they taught us that we should ''men up''. That's why I try to not show any emotion in front of any women. Now, boys share their emotion to their homies. We just laugh it out while eating biriyani. There are some girls who takes this emotion greatly and shows respects but in most cases, it's the opposite. Let me know what do you think.
Yes this is what i wanted to bring out! By the end of the video i spoke about how women can help men to get out of this situation. It's a collective effort that needs to be done from both sides. And yes, who to share your emotions with is a critical choice. You should share with someone who really care. And also you cannot burden your emotions on someone every time. Once or twice is fine but if it's happening quite often that means the person needs professional help. All in all, it's a collective effort and we as a society need to talk about this and work on a solution!
In anger we tend to say things we don't want and it often happens not just a group of ppl like adolescent one's but adults too I just cry it out to make myself feel more better,and hype myself up. And,the us girls sharing when comes to emotions with men it's hella true. It's our society who has stereotyped like that to make us feel down and come up stronger as per so called norms . I really liked the video,she came up with alot of guts to say this,i request to make a video on how to face negativity and annoying ppl and come out much stronger happier and the best version of yourself ❤
Dear drishti love u so much❤ I have no words how say thanks to you i want more videos in this topic and plz don't forget to include that how can i make myself emotionally strong, sometimes i don't have words to express my feelings so plz tell me how can overcome this problem!!
Bro you are just a magic!!!!I just started watching your videos from last video I have watched… it was so motivational so viby…I just feel like I am going so great after watching your that video about dealing with loneliness.. you motivated like… BSs no words.. love your videos… I will watch all the videos😍😍love you and your contents🌸🌸
This i so true. Understanding emotions is beneficial for oneself and others. It helps to create a healthy environment. Thank you for sharing, Drishti! ❤💫
Really you are an amazing personality 😍 I really like that you are open minded and share a lot of things with us Thank you so much didi ❤ I really apply a lot of your tips in my life And again THANKS DIDI FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY ❤😊
Hii di thank you so much for this video because i am also i am not sharing my emotions with anyone and also my self but now i am trying face my emotions and please make a video on how to know that which energy is high in details its a humble request please
Very well explained and of course, you gave genuine practical advices to cope with these problems. Yes, please do make videos on the topic mentioned at the end. Thankyou for making this video and I appreciate your understanding about life😊
Actually i am someone who is really good at hiding my emotions you wont feel anything wrong if i don't want you to know I can control my cries I can control my screams too even if i am in pain I hate crying as it makes me feel weak I hate screaming because it tells that i cant bear this pain I am onw of those who hurted myself just to increase my pain bearing capacity many times You will feel i am most happy person in the world if you are around me And i am a girl
Few days back i was thinking about this only,there are very few men who actually express themselves because society has always told dont show your weakness
Dhrishti di plz make a video on how to be at peace with yourself idk i am just going good in my life but at the cost of never being at peace with myself i am in my first year and all i can do is compare myself with others i cant see anyone ahead of me which is obviously wrong i am working so damn hard but the minute someone else gets appreciated and i dont i feel bad and its not like i dont get appreciated but i cant see someone else getting that
My takeaway is to understand my feelings and if needed then to share it with the right person. And I also want the videos on the last topic you discussed. 😊❤
Great video, Drishti! Embracing our emotions truly does lead to healthier and more meaningful relationships. Thanks for sharing these valuable insights. And what you said about men do not share due to fear of being judged is true.
Wow ! Your videos are always amazing 🤩 and i wanted to tell thank you❤ so much for making this video it help me understand why so many boys and male friend are not tell about the emotions they hold. Thank you 😊
Thank you for shedding light on such unique topics! I was eagerly anticipating your new video after you mentioned it would be out on Sunday. Even though there was a slight delay, it was definitely worth the wait❤. Your content always brings a fresh perspective, and I truly appreciate that! 👏
