“Trading your self esteem for scraps of validation”…🤯 I was there once, it’s a dark place to be, don’t go there ladies it’s just not worth it. Thanks Alex 👌
1. understand them 2. boundaries, only be with them if they respect u & like u too 3. no emotions 4. mirror & reflect them to make them open up to u. when u resist & try to prove them wrong u'll make enemies. flatter them & u'll have better time 5. scarcity = value. goog looks, skills, dont do what majority do, be unique, bold, experiment, go opposite direction 6. represent great cause
The thing is be authentic,be yourself hve standards and boundaries no one breaks,let your intuitions lead you, love being alone,dress well, work hard,that's the secret of a healthy life
Love this. Playing aloof is one thing - but having the confidence in myself and my value to set boundaries of how I want to be treated and communicated with, to get the person I really want, Is another thing entirely.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Hey. I know it's tough and painful but the moment ur partner left you, please choose yourself. I'm in the same situation as you. But they need to value us too.
There are a few things in your paragraph. Firstly, you’ve spent 5 years of your life with this person. So naturally it is like weaning of a drug for you, especially because you love her so much. I do not know the details of your situation, but you have to understand that your other half has WILLINGLY made the decision that her life is better off without you. You have to be hard with your self a bit here. Feel it out… sadly 1 month is nothing compared with 5 years, so brave for more months of feeling down. BUT You have to accept it and be ruthless with your emotions after you’re done feeling it out. And to it sooner than later. Don’t let your self sulk too long. At the end of the day, life is truly too short my friend.. regards to you❤ to better days❤ and you’ve got this😊
Y’all don’t realize these 2 scammers talkin bout 5 years and the spiritual advisor have been posting the exact same comments on these type of RU-vid channels for yeaarrrssss…finna report these b!tches/bots
Alex - can we truly “make” someone value us tho? I find men either value a woman and invests from the beginning or he feels lukewarm and will search for others while he has you in limbo .
I just want to say that. Part about. Dropping into your masculine energy so that. He feels more comfortable that was pure gold!!!! Every time my business partner tells me that he loves me. In my masculine energy and he preferred.! Thank you ❤️
I really love your content and people will always have something to say. Keep doing what your doing Father Alex❤ your doing a great job and helping so many people. Thank you!!
I think you can embrace their culture and still keep your integrity by staying true to your beliefs. It comes with the territory sometimes you just won’t be liked for your beliefs and that’s okay.
Great content. I would listen to others without judgement. People would become fond of me. I stopped because I didnt get it back. I guess the part of me that needed that too took over.
Hi Alex, I simply love your videos and the way you talk in your own authentic style :) Sounds cute. Could you please give me the reference of the two different voice recording you play in this video..? One is I guess from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction and the other one is from..?
24:42 Ever notice how folks always got a new conviction every five? It’s like opinions, everyone’s got one. But hey, it’s your call if you wanna put it out there ennit Epic Content it's 👑
Diggin’ the raw edge you’re showin’ at the finish, boss. Your stuff’s pure gold lately, no cap. Got me vibin’ with you on a whole new level, just sayin
4:53 is this an audio to listen to every morning?! I used to always listen to this but cant find it anymore, can you please share the link ?? It would be highly appreciated ❤
What about creating pain and stirring the pot of insecurity so you are their source of validation when you choose to do so? How do you balance these things
It's very very ignorant to think that racism and sexism don't exist outside of the criminal justice system. It's even more ignorant to dismiss a social phenomenon simply because you haven't seen it. Based on that logic, anything I haven't seen - but is widely reported everyday - doesn't actually exist.
Alex you havent seen a thought but they exist, so to say you're iffy about most instances of racism because you haven't experienced it, is ignorant! Otherwise, great video.
Sometimes, in order to avoid negative consequences such as losing your job or being socially rejected, it is necessary to assimilate and refrain from expressing all of our beliefs openly. Showing complete honesty without considering the audience can result in having more enemies than friends. There are certain topics that are better kept to oneself, and it takes wisdom to recognize this. Unless you're willing to share all your beliefs with everyone, it's advisable to be selective in what you disclose.
So you’re just gonna fake your entire personality just to please someone else? If you see yourself with someone isn’t it important to have similar views values and beliefs? You always say to think long term .. I disagree this time
What I'm saying is choose your battles. You don't have to get into a debate on everything you disagree on. If you're at a job and your Republican and everyone is an extreme democrat, I would recommend to act a little bit like a democrat to keep your job and to move up in the ladder. Especially if you don't care about politics. Call that fake if you want. That's on you. If you know you don't care about the topic but they care about it, let them have their day and let them win. It's not the end of the day. We don't have to keep it real all the time. And it's not about faking your personality, I don't know where you heard that
Everything you said was so on point until you got here… how can you speak on things you haven’t experienced? How can you say racism exist except what you’ve personally experienced? 37:24
bruh, I'm a broish type of gal and I had no idea they're likin' me for it... dude.. wow.. aywwaww, uum, the thing about praying to alah when i'm from, a country like.. balkans, no way. I just shut up and respect but WE don't have to pray what the.. being opinionated, and cofident in my weords is ok so I'm sayin. Bt wI respect you, you 're like a version of me lo,l, idk how to not speak the truth and social media hates me lool. xD
