'MIL Tried on My Wedding Dress..' -- Reddit Story 

It's like blowing the candles on other person's birthday, doesn't matter if it's a little thing, like, it's symbolic, JUST DON'T DO IT

She broke her shit on purpose dude, so they could pick the dress or they didn’t like it and did it on purpose

I personally wont continue that relationship. He was dead ass wrong to even touch that dress when he wasnt supposed to even see it.

Who lets their mother and sister try on their fiancé’s wedding dress? That’s so ridiculous and insane that I’d literally tell him the wedding is off. If he’s going to do this shit I can only imagine how it’ll be when they’re married and also when they have children… oy vey. This poor woman… Morgan, I LOVE this co-host. She’s definitely one of my favorites to listen to. Please have her on more! Love love love her perspective ♥️

My brother showed my mom and I the engagement ring he got for his now wife before he proposed. I went to get a closer look, and my mom thought I was going to try it on (which I wasnt), and she nearly screamed at me. That's the appropriate reaction, we respect them too much to want to taint something like that

Sell the dress, dump the guy, and thank the gods above that you never have to be a part of such a weird family.

That girl has to realize she has to live with that family for the rest of her life. Imagine when they have a kid. None of her rules would ever be respected. She is not being respected as a person right now. Her dress is a symbolic thing. This is some emotional fuckery at its finest. This guy isn't a winner.

It's not about the dress at all. You have to look past the dress and focus on the behavior and relationships. Use this as a way to see what the rest of the marriage would be like. What it would be like when you have children. What holidays will be like. The fiance, his mother, and sister have shown how things will go. Believe me when I say, it will get worse.

The mom, fiancé, and sister are CRAZY!! Leave that family in the rear view

Im personally cancelling the wedding, engagement, and the entire relationship if my fiance doesn't put his mother and his sister in their place.

What's wrong with the fiance? No, I'd cancel that shit. It's disturbing that he saw both his mom and sister in his partner's dress... that's messed up on so many levels. First it starts with the dress... wait til they have kids (if they continue with this marriage)... Thank God I have the MIL and FIL I do... man, I got lucky.

So…the wedding is off, the relationship is over, the mother in law is catching these hands, the sister is catching these hands and the fiancé is catching a lawsuit for emotional distress. Also, Alexa, play “sweet home Alabama”

The fiancé is not emotionally invest in the wedding nor his fiancé. He really don't care. Nobody deserve to be in love with somebody who doesn't care. It's a big thing, so what about the littles one?

My husband and I once visited my parents, and some of my husband‘s laundry got mixed up with my younger brothers. They have similar sizes so we didn’t notice. A few days later I visit my mother and see that she is worn my husbands shirt thinking that it is her sons (she uses his old Ts every now and then) I point this out to her, and I tell her that it’s fine to just wash it next time she can and put it aside for us. My mom was petrified, she said that she was terribly sorry and that she would take it off immediately. To her, it felt wrong to wear her son-in-law‘s shirt. Because it’s her daughters husband. She just thought that it was disrespectful and kind of weird So to think that her mother would wear her daughter-in-law‘s wedding dress, the scope of that grossness is off the charts

“I know you like divorce” 😂 “YESSS” THATS SO FUNNY STOP

I’m so glad emotional incest is being talked about more because my exs sister crossed so many boundaries she treated him like her boyfriend would literally sleep in his bed without his consent and it creeped me tf out

I thought girls trying on a bride's engagement/wedding ring is weird, but this is WORSE!!! Absolutely disgusting of the mom 🤢

This IS definitely theft. The dress was her property and her fiancé took it without her knowledge. Even if he brought it back later, it’s still theft. CALL. THE. POLICE. They damaged your property. They’re ALL liable.

The way Sarah loses her mind over this really sent me

It's the disrespect for me, the relationship was over the minute he went behind her back to bring the dress to his mommy. Then allowed his mommy and sister to wear it. No it's all over, they crossed a boundary that he should have NEVER allowed to be crossed to the point where its so disrespectful and inconsiderate. If he is STILL listing and obeying everything mommy says as a GROWN MAN, he will always be listening to mommy. I don't know who needs to hear this but when a mother-in-law over steps your boundaries and she doesn't get checked by her son, be prepared to always get shoved to the side because he will ALWAYS put his mom first.

Watching Sarah's reactions are always so cathartic like Morgan is so chill and nice all the time and we love her for it, but having Sarah just scream out what I'm thinking feels really good

What the hell. First of all how did the fiancé think it’s appropriate to take the dress to show the MIL?? If they wanted to see it so bad she could get a picture or something but other than that she can wait for the wedding and also the wedding dress is something so personal nobody else should wear it unless you sell it again

How can you marry a man who thinks so little about your wedding and feelings overall that he thinks it’s okay to take your dress and let his family try it on? And then just trash it?

Your guest is hilarious. She is just like me. That rant she went on after you told the story cracked me up bc it’s so me 😂

Legal action can actually be taken against them for the wedding dress

I think they keep missing the most important point which is that they stole something, they broke it, and now they are refusing to reimburse her for it. Everything else is just symantics. But this is theft.

No matter how much you love a guy - don’t marry into this level of crazy. No one is worth it.

That guy is no man to marry how could he do that to his fiance absolutely disgusting wedding dress is sacred what kind of man disrespects his lady like that

They ruined that dress on purpose. They DO NOT want her to marry the son. They try to constantly disrespect, manipulate and sabotage her plans. This is but a glimpse into what life will be like if she decides to marry into this family. Call off the wedding and NEVER speak to them again. This isn't a dodged bullet, but a whole shit-show-missile. I really hope she left that situation. This is a nightmare. If they're behaving this way at the beginning stages of a wedding, imagine how horrible they will be on the wedding day and after. Makes me shudder.

Imagine if she didn't know, getting compliments from you're partner how sexy or beautiful you look in something his family TRIED ON before he ever saw it on you 🤢

If I were her I’d leave that relationship. He doesn’t respect her enough to leave her dress alone and purposely leave it under grocery bags. MIL and SIL sound like they wanted to ruin OPs wedding by any means and wearing her dress would be just the start of things. MIL and SIL would make life miserable and disrespectful. I’d leave if I were them.

I honestly believe he doesn't want to marry her and is too much of a coward to say it. His family clearly doesn't want the marriage to go through either. It's the only logical explanation as to why they would behave so outrageously. It's more than just a momma's boy, leaving the dress under the grocery bags is so passive aggressive.

This fiancée is a mama’s boy seems like he’s never stood up to her and will continue to placate her

it's honestly sad to hear so many MIL stories. i can't imagine having to deal with someone that is so emotionally involved with their son to the extent of wanting to hurt you. it's even worse that the son RARELY stands up for their gf/fiancé/spouse. i would leave before it gets worse. if you think this is bad, the disrespect will only get way more out of hand from here

Hell no, it's like having to wear some else's used underwear. She should escape while she can, divorce cost money 😂

My roommate and I are the same size so we share clothes at times; but when any of us buys clothes, the other can't wear it until the owner has worn it a couple of times. So I can't even fathom wearing someone's wedding dress before them. But we have to know if this girl married that guy

Even is this poor girl does marry him. It will not a marriage of two people. He will involve everyone even in the smallest thing. And it will be worse when or if you have children.

If it was me, i'd canceled the wedding. That's a red flag.

She should definitely take his family to court and not get married!! Also YAY SARAH!! Would love for you guys to collab more!!

For me, the coming to terms moment with my ex's family - I finally realized they were always going to see him as "misunderstood" and as the victim. They were never going to accept that he was abusive to me and my kids. So just moving on was the only thing I could do.

Someone please let me know if there’s ever a continuation for this story. I can’t find out what she did after or what happened after this post. Hopefully OP was able to get away from this toxic family.

Omgggg why is this the first time I’m seeing a video with the girl on the right? She is so GOLD. She’s saying everyyyything we are thinking. LOVE HER HAHAHAH

YES! I love this Sarah girl! Love her reaction to this. Some of your other guests let people off sooooo easily and it’s so frustrating as a listener. YES SARAH! Preach the nasty incest to us! 😂

You shouldn’t touch other peoples clothes let alone WEDDING DRESS I’m dead throw away that whole family lol

🤮🤮🤮 aw hell naw. Nope. Goodbye. We ain’t doing this. MIL and SIL needs to pay up and I won’t marry that man, period.

I'm on team "it's just a dress," but this shit is ridiculous. It doesn't matter to me, but it clearly matters a lot to others and I'm willing to respect that. My brother just got married, and I loved my SIL's dress - ON HER.

It’s one thing to try on the sample dress in the shop - even that I’d personally be uncomfortable with, but the actual, finished, altered dress? Fuck that. Get out of there.

i would be lividddddd oh my god. i cant imagine how the bride must feel. i hope she doesn’t get married to him and into that family because it will truly only get worse

She’s a great co-host oh my gosh I love her

It would never cross my mind to try on someone's wedding dress.....exception would my mom/grandma's dress if I were getting married in it.

Throw the entire family away! That's not the person she should be marrying, period.

It's weird. Fiance can go marry his mom, OP deserves so much better

Bruh, if my MIL and SIL even LOOK at the wedding dress before the wedding day, it's an instant cancelation (or at the very least, if it's just them, they are uninvited).

I absolutely love when Sarah is a co-host please make more video with Sarah I love her!!!! I feel like she literally takes the words out of my mouth!

It's one thing to pass down a dress through the women in a family, like wearing your mother's dress, but this is sooooooooooo unhinged

fiance, mil, and sil are crazy. i'd call off the entire relationship. imagine what would happen if the couple have a child?

I’d be out there handing out lawsuits to the three of them. Fuck that, makes me so mad

Sarah is a riot

Yeah ditto what Sarah said! Lol WOW…. He’s so disrespectful to his fiancé. He values his mothers advice/ opinion over his wife to be. He took her dress which the groom isn’t supposed to see anyway and allowed his mother & sister to try it on. Even if the dress wasn’t ruined this is still problematic. He has no respect for her and just by this one post he will always side w him mommy and his wife will always come second & mommy will always be right in any situation.

Call the wedding Off and sue for repayment of the dress. Property was stolen and damaged

why are they treating the wedding dress like a hand me down?! if the seams and zipper and strap is busted, it doesnt even sound like they tried it on. they straight up sabotaged the dress and wedding. it’s pretty hard to break a zipper (even the hidden ones without pinching your skin).

That MIL and SIL have no respect for her snd I’m doubting her fiancé does. Makes my heart hurt. Not ok!

I like to imagine the op sending this videos to the ah in their life and then crying because the whole internet knows they’re disgusting

The swiftness of this whole conversation ♥️

This is crossing over boundaries!!! Why the mom did that?!! Why did he brought the dress to them? I am livid! This is beyond wearing the dress. Like I am not a tradition person (ex: fiance can't see the dress) but... This is so disrespectful, inconsiderate, egotistical move ever the fiancé and the rest did to her!!!is mom a narcissist?

He should’ve left the dress where it was cuz the groom shouldn’t see the bride in the dress before the wedding at all or the dress before the wedding. I can’t believe how messed up this is

Yeah, that girl needs to end that relationship ASAP. She’ll be stuck with a toxic family for the rest of her life…

I agree with your friend SOOO much, oh hell no.

It's like the episode of Viva La Bam where she knew that he'd ruin her dress being an ass so Bams wife had to plant a fake dress so he'd ruin that one and not the real one

RUN! Before there's a chance you may have children. That MIL will make life miserable, and your fiance obviously doesn't have enough balls to stand up to her.

I found out my mom tried on my wedding dress without my permission and I was livid. My own mother! So I can’t even believe how upset she is that her MIL and SIL tried it on!

It's a start of a toxic relationship between her and him and his family. If i was her, i'll run away, sent the dress to his family. As much as i love him if he didn't respect me and didn't put me before his family, i won't marry him.

My bf, who is almost 20 and who is not a minor, went to the hospital bc he was not well and his doctor said so, and bc of Covid, the nurses said his mother couldn’t stay with him. She threw a trantrum and stayed, to the point they had to threaten her to call security. She responded : okay, then we’re leaving. And she left with him. And I was like, girl what? Your son is ill, the doctors say he needs to stay, and you are taking him out? Most of all, my bf knew it was in his best interest to stay, he tried to get his mom to leave for hours, unsuccessfully. I understood there was some serious shit going on then, like attachment issues or idk what but, man, if you can’t leave your adult son with DOCTORS and you feel the need to stay with him all the time… what’s next?

Why tf would you put on someone’s wedding dress, especially before the wedding without their consent?!?! Especially when you’re bigger than the person who owns it?!?! Wtf those people need Jesus.

What gets me the most is how the mother wanted to basically pick out the dress! Which honestly makes this worse because that’s when you KNOW something isn’t right. She’s definitely not the asshole that’s her actual wedding dress.In the end she should leave him and his nasty family.

Girl could file a civil suit against everyone to recuperate the money for the dress. And she could possibly have fiance arrested for theft. He had absolutely no business going anywhere near that dress.

OOP! SARAH, yessssss gurl. She just went for it and I totally agree with her!!

I would leave the guy for these attitudes. 1 for taking my dress 2 for going to the supermarket and not freaking coming home right effing now and 3 for bit even taking care of it after taking it.

Omg now you guys HAVE to do a whole video on the Taylor Swift Kanye thing

The disrespect in all of this came from the husband first for not even asking to take HIS WIFE'S dress , more so knowing damn well she didn't want to tale the dress to her MIL. Then he managed to agree to let his mom and his sister try on the dress as it was nothing... Just the thought of seeing them in his wife's wedding dress should have made his sick... But then he went even further and put the dress under the things he bought... I can't imagine how all of them thought this is a good idea... I can't imagine what was in those women's mind when they tried on the dress... It makes me sick

I would never wear anyone else's wedding dress ew ew ew ew. Least of all my brothers bride

I would go to jail over someone messing with my wedding dress. Could it also be possible that the fiancé had another motive and knew this could cause a huge fight and potentially split the relationship?

RUN girl RUN! I had an awful MIL and the marriage didn’t work out. 99% of my ex and it’s fights were about her over stepping boundaries and playing the victim. And he didn’t stand up for me. Byeeee!

Sarah said everything I was thinking lmao

screw postponing the wedding, i would be cancelling that wedding a freaking heartbeat. The guy needs to grow some balls and open his eyes, because i am praying he is very single after this incident and not standing up for his fiancee. He A should have just told the mom and sister they will see it when his fiancee she shows them. The mother didnt even have the right to ask him to bring that dress anywhere except where the fiancee tells you

I got mad when my mom and little sister looked at my wedding dress without asking me etc when I wasn't home and didn't tell me until like months later. But that is nothing compared to what happened in this story. As far as I know they did not try it on or ruin my dress. They only took it out and looked at it. I still got upset. Because they did not ask and I wasn't there etc. Wow. Poor OP.

When I first dated my bf he told me that him and his sister were close because They went through a lot of traumatizing things during their child hood. I understood and tried my best to get along with her. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months going on 10 and she’s said the most out of pocket things. First thing she called me by his ex’s name :/. Second thing was when she said in front of a group of people “when me and Phillip(which is my bf) go out in public people think we’re dating.” I was astonished by this. His sister in law who has my back and trust while heartedly said “ well if they think that maybe you shouldn’t be doing the things you’re doing” since then myself and my boyfriend have had countless arguments about it and when I talked to the sister about it she said and I quote “ I think I just get jealous that he has out with you more than me” . We have pushed ourselves from his sister because he finally opened his eyes. I forgot to mention that she’s getting married in November. Her fiancé was there the entire time everything happened including what she said out loud.

The dress is the tip of the iceberg. As someone who had a mother-in-law and sister-in-law who did not respect me whatsoever, you will be dealing with this for the rest of your life. My in-laws didn’t like the name that I chose for my daughter. And yes my husband was very much involved and agreed. They did not like the nursery theme that I had chosen. They lectured me because I was feeding her tofu instead of chicken nuggets, and it’s because she liked the tofu. She likes Pho.And they said I was depriving her of a normal childhood existence. They literally have been making every single possible thing hell for years. When I had family holidays with them, I had to eat what they eat as a family. We were married and I was not invited to bring in my own family traditions. These women are going to find way after way after way to diminish her, and to be openly disrespectful and sabotage something that’s important to her and then play dumb. And that’s not even talking about triangulating any children they might have, spoiling them and going against her well in the future to find favor not only with baby boy but all the grandkids. And her husband is going to let it happen. If he already does not honor her, she better buckle up. This sounds like communions narcissism or gaslight by tribe.

I know they would be my future family but I would’ve rocked their shit if they messed with my wedding dress. That’s just so low

Morgan heard the word enmeshment once and decided that it was her favorite and applies to everything.

My in laws didn’t come to the wedding due to family drama. Cue 6 years of drama and feeling second fiddle in my marriage. Divorcing now!

Don't postpone, leave him NOW!

This is making me think of Monica wearing Emily’s dress in friends 😂 I don’t know why I was never disturbed by that

She should sue and leave

I did not let my future mother-in-law at my wedding dress appointment. My dress is also staying at my parents house so NO ONE will be able to see it or put it on. My fiancé would never let his mother anywhere near my dress. He knows I don’t trust her and he respects that.

I have a feeling that they purposely ruined the dress because they were upset that they weren’t included in the decision.

I would cancel the wedding!! You do NOT want to be in a family that shows this many red flags before you are even married.

I read the cover and thought oh this should be a good one and made me SO MORE MAD then u thought it would!!! I feel so bad for her and she clearly spent a lot on it

My sister got mad when she forgot she gave me a pair of socks and saw me wearing them. That's my blood sister, we share both parents, over socks. She accidently put them in a bin of socks she didn't want anymore and when she asked me if they were hers I told her and she vehemently denied it.

I would be livid at my fiancé for taking it to them! I’m currently engaged and my fiancé knows he’s not allowed to see it, let alone take it somewhere. Putting groceries on top of it… seriously!!! That’s just insult to injury! I don’t even have words for how angry I would be