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Right? This is why I don't think anyone under 25 should be getting married or popping out babies. Your brain isn't fully developed yet. Get an education. Figure out what you're passionate about. Live a little bit. THEN think about whether or not you want to get married and kids.
@@KaijaSchmauss 100%. If you don't do those things for yourself, you're not going to be the kind of parent who is able to raise a human being with the values that also help them turn out to be well rounded adults who also values education, follows their passions, learns what true success is and goes after it, and then eventually find someone with those same qualities who they can settle down with. I see so many of the people I went to high school with who got married right after and had kids, struggled with life, became miserable and their relationship suffered, divorced, and in the end all that going on in the early years undoubtedly had an effect on their kids' lives.
@@KaijaSchmauss I see tons of (usually conservative "Trad life") people on twitter advocate for girls as young as 18 and sometimes younger to begin having children as soon as possible. It's terrifying to me, the thought of having a kid while you're still a kid yourself.
@@itzmomo9 no one gives a fuck. i don't give a fuck. he don't give a fuck. she don't give a fuck. they don't give a fuck. no one asked and no one gives a fuck.
“Don’t you dare die in your sleep! You are going to die a violent death where you suffer every moment and can’t do anything but fear your impending death. Just like God intended.”
I once dated a 21 year guy when I was 29. I quickly realized we were just at different stages in terms of maturity and career goals. I mean, I could not blame him for the way he was, having been 21 myself at some point too. But I realized that this is just not for me. Personally I dont think age gaps are something innately bad. I think at a certain point age stops to matter, but then again, at some point it starts to matter again. Any 65 year old that thinks of a 20 year old as a viable partner is either dumb as bricks, or has a huge chip on his shoulder trying to compensate for something. Adding a child to the mix is just irresponsible.
my fiance and i have a six year age gap, it doesn’t really affect us since we’re at similar levels of maturity / stages in life (although he is still a bit ahead), but i fully agree- i think there is a point where people are too separate in age to build a life partnership together. naturally age isn’t a determinant of maturity and all, but i think having an age gap of 10ish or more years would definitely put a strain on the relationship
She actin like the reason people are weirded out by her getting married is cuz she’s young Lady it’s cuz your man looks like he got his face glued together
I just don’t understand how relationships with this big of an age gap work, there’s no way they have anything in common? What the hell do they talk about/do all day?
As someone who doesnt party but wants to get married, I No im kidding lol im taking my time. I barely wanna marry someone my age, much less someone 3+ times my age
get yourself together, man. move to philly. buy a loft. start a noise band. get six or seven rooommates. eat hummus with them. book some gigs. burn down an Applebee’s. listen to animal collective. start some type of salsa company.
RedStamp yeah but by then that girl will probably realize what she’s really gotten herself into and have already gotten a divorce. This is just a really weird case of young and dumb, I mean she decided to spend the rest of her life with a dude that’s probably gonna be dead before she’s even forty not saying that marriages with an age gap can’t work just that in this case she’s too young and he’s already too old, while she’s picking out a job he’s picking a coffin.
Didn't even think of that! All the comments keep mentioning that by like age 12 he'll probably be dead, but also the only years he gets with his dad, he won't be able to do anything or he will be in frickin hospice care or something... These two are very selfish :/
Ya, seriously. Like, love is love, yadda yadda, you do you lady. But you brought another human being in on that shit against its will. And who knows what kind of shit goes wrong with a kid made out of neolithic era semen. Ain't a single kid on Earth deserves the shit this chick put on him.
It’s actually gonna be really sad when she’s gonna have to be his and the child’s caretaker in like 10-15 years and also when he’s gonna die way before her and she’s not gonna ever get her youth back ://// like Ik it’s her choice but it’s still sad choice tho....
Yeah and judging from the way she acts and speaks it doesn’t seem like she is actually thinking about the long term. She’s more concerned about strangers thinking she’s a gold digger..
so because she doesn't like to drink or go out, she had to marry a 70 year old at 25 and have a kid? she makes it sound like those are the only options hahaha
I see young moms say that all the time and its like, no offence but you can do plenty of other stuff. Go to college. Get a job. Start a podcast with your friend that gets like 30 views. Binge watch cody and noel's videos. There are plenty of other options besides either being a functional alcholic and being a whole ass parent before your brain has finished developing.
Okay but like.... I feel like its really selfish for the kid to have a kid with someone that old. The kid isn't going to have a dad for long. How is that fair?
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I love that she says people stare so much, I would probably just assume it was the kid’s granddad. My dad had his last kid at 50 (my mom was 49) and everytime he goes out it’s just “oh hi little girl is this your grandpa?”
To put this into perspective, he was a kid when the polio vaccine and Elvis was a big thing and when she was a kid, Google was made and people were listening to Nirvana (nirvana came a little earlier, but still proves my point)
It's weird cos the same thing happened to PewDiePie when he shaved his hair, like it just magically came back but then I think he cut it again, and no it wasn't a pre recorded video.
"don't you dare die on me in your sleep , don't you dare leave me all your money and the house DON't you dare maybe fall in the stares Or get food poisoned "accidentlly " "
On a serious note, I had a relationship with a man 30 years older than me once. I truly loved him, adored him but I realized that I was signing off my whole life away to be with him. I would give up my youth, my career, my ability to travel, experience life and before I knew it, I would've been a caretaker to both an infant AND an elderly man. I would've grown to hate him for taking my life away from me and this girl will feel the same. She will be alone before 35 most likely. Shame on him for being okay with using his age against her.
@@fionn9852 I know right? I was 19 when i dated a 49 year old, which isnt even as bad as this. I was a kid, I thought I was more mature but I was just a kid!
@@jirehbochung5983 I had deep rooted insecurity and I felt safe with an older man. I felt like he was stable and didnt play games with me and wanted a legitimate relationship, instead of casual fucking. I appreciated his supposed maturity and I have always been attached to men about 10 years older than me but it was too much in this case. Even now I would most likely date someone in their early 30s.
So my grandparents are 20 years apart in age which I always thought was weird. My grandma was my grandpa's secretary. And my grandma told my family she was married to my grandpa at a courthouse without a wedding dress, but I saw a photo of her in a wedding dress in her room, so I asked her what that was. She said she had been engaged to another man & had that photo taken, but they broke it off & my grandpa wanted her to keep that photo, which is suspicious as hell. About a year ago, I was looking around some ancestry websites & I found out my grandpa was married when he was in WW2 & that couldn't be my grandma since she was 2 years old then. So I did some more snooping on the websites & turns out, my grandma was also married only a year or 2 before her & my grandpa married. The guy's name matched the name she gave me of the guy she supposedly didn't end up marrying. So it seems almost certain that they were both married to other people, had an affair, both got divorced, & married each other. Even stranger, my dad (their child) ended up cheating at least a couple times on my mom & my grandma told me her dad cheated on her mom at 1 point, so I come from 3 generations of people who couldn't keep it in their pants.
